transenbyconfessions · 2 days ago
hi. I'm a trans girl (she/they) from South Africa. I recently discovered I was trans or at least accepted it after denying for years and years. I have no clue on coming out or how to even style my own body. I guess I'm just hella frustrated with it all. I want to at least adopt a more androgynous look so I can ease my friends and family into it until I eventually come out. It feels good to get that off my chest. I hope you have an amazing week ahead of you. ❤🫂
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baybatz · 23 hours ago
Being a #boy is all about cleaning the fridge, drinking apple juice and being a dog laying on the floor
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aroaceconfessions · 9 hours ago
Growing up as the 4th "brother" amongst my 3 overly sexual siblings has made everything so hard to realize because I've always been easily influenced and able to take pieces of others personality, sometimes easy and sometimes harder. These ones had me tryna date girls at 4 years old because I wanted to be like them and I thought it was normal.
Cut to the last year and a half and I've realized I'm with the wrong hardware and still tryna figure out demifluid or genderfae, realized I'm prolly aceflux and aromantic. It's really hard when you have abandonment issues too so you latch onto people like a codependent lifeline. Trying hard not to and be better, and I'm starting to get to a point where I'm not nearly as depressed as I used to be and I'm finally getting to work on getting my life together!
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profeminist · 3 months ago
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"just not seeing enough people talking about carl clemons-hopkins, the first out nonbinary actor to be nominated for an emmy, and the nonbinary flag gown they wore last night"
Carl Clemons-Hopkins on IMDB
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hyde-your-heart · 5 months ago
being non-binary is sooooo exhausting... everyone wants a piece of you, you’re hot, you’re funny, you’re cooler than ice cold, you dress impeccably... smash that reblog button if you too think non-binary people deserve to be given 1000000 dollars in cash.
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netoey · 7 months ago
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Isoport you <3
this really dumb pun won’t leave my head and I haven't done anything for pride yet so here we are :)
Edit: Finally noticed that the pink and blue on the trans one were the wrong way around ^^’ thanks for pointing that out, I’ve fixed it.
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justlgbtthings · 2 months ago
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taazo-kaan · 8 months ago
hey! if youre in the uk, theres an active government petition to get non-binary recognised as a legal gender, and to have non-binary recognised as a valid transgender identity.
it currently has less than half the signatures it needs to for the government to respond, and though the deadline to get them is in october, i don't know if we can leave things to chance.
please, please sign it if you are a uk resident. this is personally important to me and im sure to many other non-binary individuals here. if you don't live in the uk, reblogs to spread this are so appreciated.
petition here
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bop-culture-is · 14 days ago
things that are queerphobic besides blatantly hating queer people
i keep seeing a bunch of (queerphobic) allocishet people say they’re not queerphobic because they “don’t hate queer people.” but they are. i made a list, in good spirits, maybe just to help allies become better allies or educate queerphobic people.
- saying “what a waste” or “you’re too pretty to be gay” when someone of a different sex says they’re queer.
- using “gay” as an insult
- saying the “A” in LGBTQIA+ is for “ally” and disregarding what it actually stands for
- asking for straight pride
- using slurs, even if you “aren’t using it in a derogatory way.” it’s always derogatory; that’s why it’s a slur. the f slur, specifically, has a messed up origin.
- saying it’s a phase, or that someone will “grow out of it.” 
- saying you “disagree” with homosexuality. you can’t disagree with someone’s existence
- playing devil’s advocate or saying that religious people have an excuse to be queerphobic
- assuming that everyone in a same-sex relationship is gay/lesbian, and everyone in a different-sex relationship is straight
- using “virgin” as an insult is actually really insensitive to acespec people! (and arospec, if you specifically target them, too)
- straight people assuming every queer person is going to hit on them or is out to get them
- “you don’t look gay”
- “so who’s the man/woman in the relationship?” 
- oversexualizing/turning queer people into a fetish or saying it’s “inappropriate for children”
- “keep it to yourself” when a person mentions that they have a same-sex partner
- saying you think queer people deserve FEWER rights than anyone else. this will never not be homophobic
i feel like a lot of these are very obviously queerphobic, but allo-cishet people just can’t seem to realize it, so it must be said.
if you have any more, feel free to add on! (there are probably some i forgot)
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crossdreamers · 8 months ago
First non-binary mayor “of any city, anywhere” wins election at the age of 22 in Wales
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Here’s a great story from Pink News:
Owen J Hurcum, 22, has been elected mayor of Bangor in  Wales, Great Britain, making them the “first ever openly non-binary mayor of any city anywhere”.
Over at twitter, they published the following comment:
“When I came out two years ago I was so worried I'd be ostracized by my community or worse. Today my community elected me Mayor of our great City. The youngest ever Mayor in Wales. The first ever openly Non-Binary Mayor of any city anywhere. Beyond humbled, Diolch Bangor“
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Owen, who identifies as genderqueer, agender and non-binary,  thanked fellow councillors for their support when facing online abuse.
BBC reports:
Despite being "difficult" and "disheartening", Owen said they found the stupidity of some of the abuse they received funny.
"They may say I have low testosterone or I am effeminate or I look like a woman," they explained.
"I am like, 'oh my God, you are trying to insult me by calling me feminine, even though I am explicitly telling you that I have feminine traits, that I want to celebrate because I am non-binary?'
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transenbyconfessions · a day ago
Short hair is amazing. Ever since I got mine cut, it takes? So much less maintenance??? Less shampoo and conditioner (when I remember that I need less, I'm still not used to that despite it having been nearly a year 😅). Less time to tidy it in the morning-- I can even forgo combing and just rake my fingers through it and it looks fine. Yeah, there's some issues when it gets long enough that I can feel it on my neck, and sometimes I miss being able to braid or ponytail it. But mostly, it's incredible.
I don't think I'll stick with this style forever. I want to experiment now! I really love it though, so I think I'll keep it for awhile, and come back to it in between other stuff.
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tokillarockingbird · 11 months ago
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angel-no-angel · a year ago
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paid tribute to an icon today..... ty queen u inspire me
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tbartss · 8 months ago
Okay was anyone gonna tell me that Demi Lovato came out as non-binary or was I just supposed to find out from a tumblr post myself
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entity9silvergen · 7 months ago
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[ID: Pair of reddit comments. One person says “People are to labels what boxes are to cats. You try to put a cat in a box and it hates it and it hates you. You leave some boxes out for the cat and it will gladly sit in one.” The second person comments “This is an amazing analogy.” End ID]
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squuote · 7 months ago
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Pride Corvids !!
A small series for pride month and also to show my love for the corvidea fam <3 anyway, happy pride month everyone!!
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emsye-tries · 10 months ago
Reblog this post if you are NOT a white, fully abled, neurotypical, heterosexual, cisgender male.
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2drunk · 8 months ago
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Demi Lovato officially comes out as non-binary and has changed their pronouns to they/them!
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runewolf · 4 months ago
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So true.
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