#non-binary problems

[mbrainspaz]

Lol. Last night I went on a dating app for the first time this year and it hasn’t even been 12 hours but I’m already maxed out on likes 🫣

I hate it here

‘Cause you know 99% are just cis straight Christian boys who swipe right on every vaguely femme profile without reading. The kicker is they’ll act like they’re chill about me being queer once they realize they goofed—anything to get some. Then they’ll be pissy at me when it doesn’t work out because SHOCKER I am not the quirky ghibli girl of their dreams! 🙄 I don’t hate men but the trust & expectation meter has bled dry, lads.

#dating is hell #dating apps #bumble #non-binary problems #demi problems

[donnieisaprettyboy]

I think I’m more on the gender-fluid spectrum than I realized. because I think about being in a pretty dress on my wedding day and I like that! but I think I’m more masc-leaning more often. I dunno, gender is confusing and I’m confused.

#like if I had to describe it #I’d say I’m like #70% masc #20% gray #10% fem #but idk #it’s confusing #and I feel really invalid whenever I feel like this #ugh #trans problems #ftm problems #non-binary problems #gender fluid problems

[greymohawk]

I’m looking at YouTube makeup tutorials, and boy am I ever not finding what I’m looking for

I have zero interest in being read as female because I’m wearing makeup

Tutorials for men’s makeup are all about how to not look like you are wearing makeup, which is also not what I’m after

I am old and I have wrinkles and jowls and shit now. if I try to plug anything into a search engine about finding makeup that won’t treat my skin like shit, I get a bazillionton hits for “best makeup to hide your wrinkles” and that’s also genuinely not what I’m after.

I just want to look like the gender-ambiguous scary orc creature that I am, but decorative. Why is that so hard?

#makeup #non-binary problems

[comradeupdog]

I fucking hate the Mx. form of address!

I get what it’s trying to do, but it just sounds like miss when it’s said out loud and it’s just feels so artificial compared to Mr or Ms.

Also, this is just me but I don’t want to be referred to by any title - I am not better than anyone else, anyone can just call me by my name. If your a socialist you should call me comrade but otherwise just call me by my name! If you absolutely have to call me something and you’re not a socialist you can call me citizen or something, like the French did, but otherwise call me by my fucking name and don’t put a title in front of it.

#this is a post form filling out rant #it made me pick a form of address #lgbtq #non-binary problems #also does anyone know the correct abbreviation for comrade?

[kelbywoo14]

Somebody mistook my brother as my dad! He’s horrified and I’m just like…

#lol #siblings #evil #haha #non-binary problems #trans nonbinary

[geminiiviolets]

if i am called a girl one more time today i am going to go apeshit

#I KNOW I LOOK FEMININE BUT U DONT HAVE TO RUB IT IN #I HATE THIS #nonbinary #non-binary problems #enby #gender dysphoria

[gattinidiguerra]

You know you're really desperate and you love the characters a whole lot when you're willing to kick your dysphoria in the head and read something that has het in it. If they'd just write it from the penis haver's perspective it would be fine.

#My problems with dysphoria #Yeah I'm weird #Non-binary problems

[ego-sum-ex-altiora]

As an afab enby person, I’m tired of the reactions I get to growing my hair out. No I’m not detransitioning, and no I’m not “embracing my femininity”. I’m growing my hair out to be more like Jonathan Sims. Nothing else.

#tma #magpod #non binary #enby #magnus pod #the magnus archives #the magnus institute #trans pride #tma podcast #the magnus pod #jon sims #jonathan sims #transgender #the archivist #tma shitpost #tma jon #tmagp #afab nonbinary #afab problems #afab enby #transmasc #t

[blue-berry-a-trash-artist]

#digital art #my art lmao #my shitty art #digitalart #my artwork #sick of straight bullshit #are the straights okay #non binary #nonbinary #enby problems #enby pride #enby artist #enby #non binary is a spectrum #brew berry art

[unbidden-yidden]

Dumb gender thought of the day: "Sure, you could say I'm a woman - in the same way you could say that a dolphin is a fish."

If your first thought was: "okay, so you're definitely not a woman, got it." Congrats! You're correct!

If your first thought was: "well, actually, that depends, as the cultural definition of 'fish' has varied throughout time and context, such as in kashrut, which classifies all fully aquatic animals as 'fish,' with only the ones having fins and scales being kosher, and that's not even getting into cladistics, wherein 'fish' is not a category that you can meaningfully define without including all mammals, and...." Mazel tov! You're also correct (and also a nerd)

#genderfluidity problems #non binary problems #gender garbage

[junotter]

All the jokes about Ken and horses are good but I just wanna say it's such a good parallel to how actual young men get swept into misogyny and the patriarchy.

Like they're told to believe it means men get to be cool and manly and have this power but with that comes extremely rigid commands of what they can be as a man and a cycle of self hatred for never matching those gender roles perfectly. Patriarchy tells men that if they just do exactly what is expected of them, then they get all the "cool stuff" that comes with. That doesn't work though when there's only a small group that actually gets that power, but men will keep trying to fit into those roles in hopes that they can.

In the end there are no horses or the myth men are told, it's just endless cycles of self hatred and ingroup fighting.

#barbie #barbie movie #barbie spoilers #ig #ive got a lot more on how barbie looks at feminism and the patriarchy cause god they did it #not to say there isnt faults such as very little conversation about intersectionality #but i can also understand the impossible task of talking about EVERYTHING in one movie #not everyone will be happy and thats fine #anyway i think something barbie did really well is fight this battle of both wanting so deeply to love (romantically or not) men but also #not dismissing the fact its mens job to solve their problems themselves #that even if women need to be the front runners of breaking the patriarchy men cannot rely on them to solve their own problems completely #also just god im so glad this wasnt a girl boss slay movie #women deserve respect and love and life regardless of accomplishment #we should not have to be ceos and presidents and world problem solvers to gain equality #i can also understand if nonbinary people feel left out/disconnected from the movie #but as always gender abolition and acknowledging the gender binary (ie the one societially impossed) go hand and hand 👍 #just incase cause idfk terfs dni the barbie movie is not for you #barbie literally states constantly that her gender has nothing to do with (non existent) genitals so f off

[kazbrekkerfast]

I love being non-binary but the amout of times I see a post I relate to but it's titled "girl ____" and I'm like well then. that's made me sad

or like "this is for the men" and im sat there sad because why is life so gendered all the time with such stupid things

#i end up misgendering myself #for the meme #and im like #not girl dinner doesn't have the same ring to it #non binary #nonbinary #nonbinary problems #lgbt #lgbtq

[nicxxx5]

happy nonbinary awareness week!

from someone who's still trying to figure out what the fuck is up with their gender,

every single one of you is beautiful

#nonbinary #non binary #nonbinary awareness week #non binary awareness week #lgbtq #im not sure if i should tag other genders under the nonbinary umbrella #i will for now and if it causes problems ill fix it #agender #genderqueer #genderfluid #gender identity #demigirl #demiboy #demigender #trans #polygender #queer #enby

[eternal-moss]

When people continually whitewash my favourite characters.

[ID: A black and white, rough digital drawing of someone sitting at a desk and clutching their head in their hands. End ID.]

^thank you @describe-things

#This is mainly about Noé Archiviste. But also I will not forget what some people did to Simon Petrikov either when I was watching f&c #I’m so desperate for drawings of them. But for the love of God，is it that difficult? Somehow every other hexadecimal of their #Character design is exactly on model other than their skin. Just. . #OH YEAH I FORGOT KAEYA. FFS. Somehow it’s always the K**luc-ers that always do it. Which makes sense because they disregard his entire char #And with the new influx of atla fans people have been whitewashing Katara too! And I mean drawings of the original show too #probably delete later #And no one seems to have any problems with it? Especially if it’s sexualised art *talking more about Kaeya & Noé here. #People who whitewash the few (and when I say few I literally mean 5/82 playable characters) darker genshin characters. Actually fuck off #If I see ‘it’s just my art style’ or ‘it’s just the lighting’ *every other colour than the skin hasn’t been lightened in the slightest* #One more time-i’m going to explode #Oh and while I’m on this topic! Fuck Bochum for whitewashing literally the entire starlight express cast! Electra being the first ever #non binary character in musical theatre while also being played by black actors. And then Bochum happened. #When was the last time Pearl or Rusty had actors who weren’t white? Literally the last character who hasn’t been replaced is Momma/Poppa. #And being black is so integral to their character and music. You quite physically couldn’t #I really really hope the casting for the London performance this year is like the 1984 cast again. Please.

[mo0nbugs]

HEADS UP FOR OTHER NONBINARY PEOPLE NAMED BUGS, LIKE ME. NETFLIX IS ADVERTISING A MOVIE RIGHT NOW CALLED THREE BODY PROBLEM AND SOME OF THE ADVETISING LOOKS LIKE THIS

I SAW THIS FLASH ON A SCREEN AT THE TRAIN STATION AT 7 IN THE MORNING AND THOUGHT WELP THATS IT THE UNIVERSE IS BROKEN OR IM IN A COMA

#you are bugs #nb #enby #non binary #bug #bugs #three body problem #netflix

[siriusly-remu]

i got my period today and i had to go back to the bathroom after i just went, to get a pad, and someone noticed and asked why on my way back, and i had to say i was on my period (something along those lines) and then i started crying as soon as i got to the bathroom because gender dysphoria fucking sucks

#gender dysphoria #gender #genderqueer #gender stuff #genderfluid #genderflux #period drama #afab #afab nonbinary #enby #non binary #nonbinary #trigender #queer #lgbtq #transgender #trans #afab dysphoria #afab problems #gender identity #nb #lgbt