🖤 i like my accessories to match 🖤
he/him (butch lesbian; men DNI)
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When your native language uses gender for all kinds of words and you desperately try to talk about your enby friend without using words that misgender them
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[Aro | AroAce]
All Flags are Free to Use ~!
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good morning 🌤🤍✨ he | they | them
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This is my hot goth girl summer 🖤🖤
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Chillzoo #20 👻👻👻
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This bitch empty! Yeet! *throws gender out car window at 75mph*
what that in kilometre
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How many other Enbys out there riding that Good Rep High thanks to Raine Whispers?
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Bear (Ze/Zir) in Save Yourself! #1
- Written by Bones Leopard; art by Kelly & Nichole Matthews
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alright i cant be quiet about this anymore:
SHUT UP WITH THE EW HETEROS THING WHEN PEOPLE PLAY LIFE IS STRANGE. MAX IS BISEXUAL.
i am bisexual. i am also non-binary. it can get really fucking invalidating for bisexual people. for pansexual people. for people who can like the opposite gender and not. be. straight.
liking someone of the opposite gender doesnt make you ANY. LESS. BISEXUAL OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT. PLEASE. I SWEAR TO GOD. THEY ARE NOT IMMEDIATELY STRAIGHT IF THEY LIKE SOMEONE OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER!! LGBTQ+ PEOPLE CAN LIKE PEOPLE O FTHE OPPOSITE GENDER SOMETIMES!!!! shocking.
AND THEY ARENT BOTH LESBIANS EITHER!! MAX IS BISEXUAL AND CHLOE IS LESBIAN. BISEXUALS CAN BE IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH LESBIANS. holy shit. i've seen lots of stupid and insensitive people and i just wanted to say this because grhgufhewbuhvwe it gets under my skin.
please. stop it. it's invalidating (to me at least- sorry if no one else feels the same im just ranting rn) and it pisses me off.
max is bisexual. chloe is lesbian. they are in love. max is still bisexual. she is not lesbian. please dont call her lesbian. please.
i am sorry if i worded this wrong, im just really pissed. im not trying to invalidate anyone if that happens somehow. bisexuals can like the opposite gender. pansexuals can like the opposite gender. this does not make them straight.
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Free fern nonbinary icons. 🌿🌈
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Hi so this isn't too much a question I'm just unsure about something. Im cis and in my writing I write tons of lgbt people, pretty much my entire main cast is lgbt. And my MC identifies as nonbinary, as well as another minor character, and another character is a trans-man. Tbh I didn't put too much thought into making them so, I just looked at them and thought "well, making you nonbinary won't affect your character, the story, or the characters around you so why not?" And I went with it. My story isn't really centered around anyone's gender identity or their orientation, but I just enjoy it more with those elements, some characters are in already established same-sex marriages, some characters talk about their younger days before they transitioned, my MC's pronouns from the very first scene are they/them and they don't care what people address them as, and their agab is never revealed at all. Is that okay for me as a cis person? Should I have a good reason to include trans and nonbinary characters in my story?
I think you're generally fine - we need representation of nonbinary characters in general. Yeah, our experiences aren't as known about as binary men & women's, but we still shouldn't be excluded in general just because of that.
I would generally advise having a look-see through our trans and nonbinary tags just so you're more confident in your writing, though. There are definitely ways to write nonbinary characters poorly, but that goes for writing any marginalized gender category, including binary cis women.
- mod nat
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The blue carpenter bee
Xylocopa caerulea, the blue carpenter bee, is a species of carpenter bee.
Species: Xylocopa caerulea; Fabricius, 1804
the blue carpenter bees can grow to 28 mm far larger then a honey bee who can grow to 17 mm.
These bees can be found in Southeast Asia, India, and Southern China, and they are known for being less aggressive and more affectionate than others of the bee species.
As opposed to honey bees, who build intricate hives containing thousands of worker bees, the blue carpenter bees live relatively solitary lives, building nests in trees.
Occasionally queen bees will share an entry hole to their nest so that they can have some company.
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My hair takes three hours to dry now 🥵
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If you're not sure about which label fits you best, cut yourself some slack!
This stuff is complicated and you might change your labels many times throughout your life.
You might create your own label.
You might decide you want to go with "queer." No matter what, be patient with yourself!
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new shirt 😊🌈
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your pets don’t judge you.
your pets don’t judge you for your sexual/romantic orientation, your body shape/size, the color of your skin, or any imperfections on your skin.
your pets don’t judge you for your gender identity/expression, your mental illness/neurodivergency, your physical disabilities.
your pets love you.
your pets love when you get out of bed to feed them, when they help you do homework, when you tuck them in bed every night.
your pets appreciate you living.
if you feel like no one else in your life cares, remember that your pets do. they love you for you, including all the bits that other people pick on, because those bits are part of what make you you, and you love them.
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