#not a red flag in sight

[whatevertheweather]

Red Flags

(Rated T; Chapters 2/2)

Summary:

Baz Pitch is something fucking else. Simon is going spare over it. Like, actually spare. He can’t remember what he used to do with himself. Give more than twenty percent of his attention to work? Watch trashy television? Eat? Sleep? Wank? It has become his singular purpose in life to end his day wrapped around Baz. He wants to lay around gnawing on him like a dog with a bone. He wants to leave a mouse on his doormat like a bloody house cat. Simon and Baz meet at a party. There are some red flags to figure out.

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#snowbaz #snowbaz fanfiction #simon snow fanfiction #carry on fanfiction #my fic #my writing #head over heels at first sight is not my jam in real life but it sure is fun to write about #is this the lowest effort banner I've ever made? #yes it is #I tried putting a red flag on it but it was giving love actually vibes #made the red red and it's giving harder love actually vibes #gave up

[hydrachea]

I am about to become wholly insufferable.

#everyone please wish my friends extreme condolences for what their discord dms are about to become #yes this is a photo because it was a cutscene #but i was not about to let the first sighting of the guy that made me start the game in the first place pass me by #sighs dreamily #so much is wrong with him #the only thing that comes close to how many red flags he has is how much i dig said red flags #kicks my feet and giggles #hsr #ray's records

[ziracona]

This keeps happening to me now

#r’s fo new vegas run #old world blues #idk what causes it but sometimes a lobotomite I’ve been in conflict with quits attacking. they remain red/flagged as hostile #but all they do is stand still and look at me. I got jumped right after this and this gun just watched me knock his friend unconcious (I #only use fatigue damage weapons vs lobotomies it’s a bitch but I gotta not kill them) and I went back and he still was just like this #another today quit attacking unless I got right in his face and then would hit me and then wait and watch again. no chasing no following #only proximity defense. v interesting #had several hostile just watch me and not engage until I got about 10 feet away #when usually they’ll chase you down on sight. weird #thanks though boys I guess??

[chomesuke]

I want to see feminist stuff and posts and work that doesn't turn out to be done by transphobes pls pls can we stop letting transphobes take over feminism instead of simply ignoring feminism

#even if there are no red flags at first sight look deeper and you might find transphobic rants pretty quickly and it sucks #they're usually actually pretty misogynistic and not rly feminist at all as a tip off but sometimes they have good points #alongside their awful ones #so it's harder to tell then

[danhengposting]

im sorry for being a cringe jing yuan defender but nobody is going to call him ugly without me trying to change their mind 😭😭

#my red flag as a friend is that #if you dont like a character i love im going to be the most annoying person for 5 minutes #and just #talk your ear off #inspired by a discord call where my friends rated jing yuan a ??? in our hsr character tier list #JUST ONE TIER ABOVE “ew” MIND YOU #ive never been so appalled #i was the only jing yuan lover in that call it was crazy #they also rated sampo an “ew” which is so ??? HOW #i dont go crazy over the sight of sampo's beautiful face but I HAVE EYES #two of them also agreed that dan heng was a 4/10 before which is so 💀💀 #pls dont take this seriously idc which characters u like or dislike #except if youre a close friend #in that case its simply unacceptable and i will be in your walls

[frecklystars]

Sierra Six canonically has c-ptsd and has a scene in the movie where he's triggered and having a flashback. The first time I saw that, I had to pause and process it... not only did I immediately feel safe when I saw him on screen for the first time, because he's such a protective person and his main weakness is his loyalty and devotion to his loved ones, but ALSO it comforts me knowing that he'd be so patient and understanding with me when I'm having my own flashbacks or panic attacks from my own abuse. He became a strong comfort character in less than 40 minutes, possibly a new record, I wasn't even done with the movie yet.

I literally paused the movie my first time watching it and NEEDED to write a self ship fic w/ him asap because I was so overwhelmed with how I just... I knew, I knew he would comfort me if I needed it. I knew he'd be here for me. I'm so certain of it. I wrote 30 pages in just a couple of hours and it was also the first time I wrote anything in over a year.

I still jolt awake from nightmares and I barely get 3 hours of sleep every night, sometimes no sleep at all. Insomnia is a part of ptsd and my sleep schedule was already a wreck before I had to deal w/ my abuser. And it feels SO comforting to know that when I wake up gasping, sweating, crying, Six is bursting through the door (or if he's asleep in the same room with me, he's immediately alert and scrambling to my side) and he's scooping me into his arms and he's immediately saying it's okay, it's okay. Keri, you're safe. I'm right here. His hands are scarred and calloused from years of fighting, but they're as gentle as his voice when he's holding me. His gaze is soft. He knows exactly how this feels. He knows grounding techniques. He guides me through breathing exercises. He has been through this same hell for decades. He knows. He gets it. He protects me when I'm awake and when I'm dreaming. I could not possibly be anywhere safer than in his arms

#and my fear with my TF F/Os since theyre a trigger and my abuser was always saying how abusive they'd be #is that any F/O of mine would easily be manipulated by my abuser into betraying me bc its what she wanted #but with Six? impossible. perish the thought. #he's trained to know signs of manipulation/red flags #he would not be manipulated into betraying me or hurting me #he would not allow others to do the same #and he has this... strict idk what to call it... internal code #in the books he says there are ppl who rly deserve to be executed especially when they're abusers #he killed his own father for torturing him and his brother #and i know if he ever crossed paths with my abuser. no chance. it's on sight. #i never have to worry about this F/O ever hurting me bc he is written to be the most protective and loyal motherfucker #he sees how im broken and i cry abt how im not myself anymore #and he gets it and he holds me and he says one day i will be #one day this will feel so far away from me and ill breathe again #but in the meantime he's here. he's holding my hand and i know as long as i keep thinking of him. im gonna be ok. #woof #abuse mention #love notes #💕♡☆ I'll always protect you ☆🖤🎆

[the-musical-cc]

Never thought I'd be blocking someone on the basis of their blog being dedicated to a completely bananas crackship such as Harold Ramis and Humphrey Bogart but here we are.

#blame the Mexopolis!fandom harrasser and the Frankelda fandom Annie Wilkes #I am starting to have to measure up a user ON SIGHT based on things I never before had to base myself on #But yeah shipping IRL people? One hell of a red flag. Stay away.

[mejomonster]

Sometimes I think ah yes being demi doesn't affect my life much more than like desolately few crushes and having to adapt asking people out/casually dating to me picking people not knowing if I'll actually like them for a few months so needing pre-crush standards on how to pick who's worth trying to date

Then I do something and I'm like oh god yeah forgot. Forgot. Dang yeah this affects so much

#rant #im demiromantic demisexual and uh #my dudes.... the second a convo or life situation tangential to me veers into relationship or sex territory #i realize wowza i do not think like the majority of people #every time love at first sight or first month comes up or sex within a few dates comes up #or fucking KISSING on first dates???? #or that im supposed to take anyone seriouslg when they say they love someone after a month??? how does Anyone take that seriously?? #but they DO. or how my definition of love is SO colored by my experience being demi #so when people describr LONG TERM attachment love in marriage as if it needs to be defined separate #from sjort term 'love' thats chemicals and honeymoon phase and will eventually wane and #can cloud your rational judgement? im like???? to me of course love alwaysssss means a long term care for another person #and interest in who tjey are??? wtf you mean people say love and mean it and mean that short term honeymoon phase feeling?? #what do you mean the chemicals kick in BEFORE u can rationally contemplate if a partner is compatible??? #what do you mean u had sex so now ur illogically attached to someone in compatible? #like yeah ive vaguely felt the honeymoon phase. after knowing someone 5 years before dating. so i was illogical #and everything avout tjem seemed Perfect in rose tinted vision. but only after solid years of being able to objectively view them #it hits me in other dating but like 3-6 months in. which gives me at least some time to go #WAIT my dumbass didnt check them for red flags in the first months! i should be wary and not assume theyre perfect rn just cause im feeling #biased. and its so easy to move on from casual dating for me cause i just dont get attached that early in knowing someone... #and my god man. hearing ppl talk about anything dating im like. why dont... yall just say what you mean andcsay what you feel???? why is it #all these layers and obfuscations???? why is it viewed as weird when i say hey i dont kiss right away??? why is it all such a #layered game? #i do not get it.

[gaykillermoth]

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#sightings #dream literally just had grooming allegations snd now he ends his shitty little show with an abuser being forgiven or whatever.... #these arent red flags at this point theyre red neon lights.

[thatrandombystander]

Next up the youth are going to start saying any celebrity/minor public figure without a history of publicly known relationships is aroace queerbaiting until they make a public announcement

#ramblings of a bystander #i'm just so baffled by the level of entitlement people are doing nowadays under the flag that they're doing good #...apollo do not turn your sight on me do not hit me with the red ball of prophecy i am trying to dodge it like my life depends on it

[spindaonateaspoon]

Imagine being Johnathan and seeing how every single person you encountered reacted to you going to see the Count and never once wondering if perhaps you should reconsider. Dumbest bitch alive.

#homeboy wasn't just missinf red flags #he was shooting them on sight #dracula daily

[thisiswhymomworries]

Hey just so you know that string of tweets you reblogged about the lack of colour was written by a western trad fascist. Pretty big dog whistle and a massive red flag to see it on your blog

hey yeah, I will definitely delete that but uhhhhh literally how?

I definitely do not want that shit on my blog or to make others feel unsafe. and I don't want this to sound angry or accusatory toward you, bc it seems like you're trying to help with those two points

but I have no idea how or why this is a dog whistle. I don't even know how to begin googling the information to find out. "how is less color fascist" is not a search I expect to return any relevant results. and for my own mental health, I do not want to try trawling through everything that guy posts on twitter to find fascist shit bc then I will have to read very triggering fascist shit

so uh, and again no offense, what would actually be really helpful here is any sort of explanation whatsoever

because I can delete this one post. definitely! absolutely! requires no effort on my part or exposure to Bad Triggering Shit

but since I have no idea what the actual dog whistle was or what it means or how this is related to fascism, I will inevitably reblog Some Other Thing too. how would I know any better?

do you want to keep people safe and spread awareness or do you want to make an accusation that I Did Something Bad with no explanation?

#I am BEGGING anons to please please please explain shit like this #and somehow yall never seem concerned about sounding accusatory on your own part? #WHAT is a red flag #that I don't automatically recognize every fascit URL on sight? #or is something about Less Color the dog whistle? #is it .... neutral tones?? #is it anti-black racism? antisemitism? trad sexism? #ask #anon #answered

[elitehoe]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

You're laughing because I'm right

#my red flag is jay white #I don't have the best sight so how am I to know if the flag is truly red?? #superspy buddies!! #definitelydivergent #asked

[hidekomoon]

secondhand embarassment is real and it's stored in the lauren & jonathan flashback video montage

#mafs australia #married at first sight #this man had some red flags but nothing that couldn't be fixed and he chose to fully take the other way & become an asshole

[sshtonedseagoat]

too bad so sad for y’all, cuz he’s all mines 🤭

#he don’t got a red flag in sight #I kinda can’t believe that he’s all mine #yeah he’s all mine #Spotify