#not pro anything just tags

[dietcokeandricecakess]

Pls like this if you’re an active ED blog in July 2022 and over 20 years old and have a current or starting weight of 90kgs or over. I want to follow more pages like me

#anamia #not pro anything just tags #edthings #edthoughts #ana thoughts #th!nspo #thin$po

[wander-wren]

here’s my thing about proshipping, particularly in regards to the “well you can write that stuff to process trauma, but don’t fucking post it” argument. and i’m really just repeating what many, many others have said, but bear with me.

i don’t have sexual trauma (which is, 99% of the time, what this argument is about), so i can’t speak to that directly, but i do have traumas and coping mechanisms that some people think weird or off-putting or gross. i’m also someone who needs to talk about things with some kind of audience in order to process, whether that’s my therapist or my friends or—get this—fanfic readers. often, all three! max processing, baby!

but i’ve had people avoid responding when i bring certain things up, or outright say they can talk to me about some of my ~problems~, but not Those Ones. which is fine on its face, everyone is entitled to boundaries and in many cases they may simply not know what to say.

but it is deeply isolating to feel like there is a part of you unfit for public view. especially a part of you that you still want (need) to talk about in order to come to terms with it. so i can only imagine how it feels for some of the people arguments like these are attacking.

as long as there are warnings (and YES, “choose not to warn” is, in itself, adequate warning), there is no reason why any aspect of the human experience should have to be permanently hidden and undiscussed, no matter how uncomfortable its existence might make some random on the internet.

#wren wrambles #spicy midnight moment #proship #pro fiction #not gonna cross tag it even tho i want to #not that anyone needs a reason to write anything you can do whatever you want forever #BUT #it just strikes me as an especially cruel argument when antis try to do this

[sapphic-agent]

The ATLA fandom is interesting. There's been uproar about Katara's personality changing in the live-action... Besties, don't you think there's a reason why they did that? Maybe due to a certain influx of people bashing Katara every time she breathed in 2020? She was shamed repeatedly for being angry, outspoken, and confrontational. Not to mention how many of you defended her being a docile healer instead of a fighter in LOK (hell, some of you preferred Katara in LOK over Katara in ATLA, don't think I forgot). Why are we backtracking now?

(Yes the live-action could have done better with her. But they were probably trying to appease the people who whined in 2020, which they shouldn't have since this fandom would find something to rage about no matter what)

Istg, Renaissance fans and their performative activism. Again I say, the ATLA Renaissance sucked

#pro katara #katara defense squad #the live action isn't perfect #but some of what you boneheads are bitching about makes no sense #like complaining about aang flying #HE WASN'T FLYING HE WAS MANIPULATING THE AIR AROUND HIM WHICH HE'S DONE MULTIPLE TIMES IN THE SHOW #anti kataang #anti kataang shippers #tagging just in case #i don't need kataang fans here they give me a headache #anti atla renaissance #anti atla fandom #atla live action #anti bryke #they don't really have anything to do with this #but they piss me off too #and they're the ones who screwed katara over in lok in the first place #i'll take la katara over lok katara

[ahalliance]

still thinking about antoine semi-rping on main during the qsmp meta talk with etoiles, florence and zerator last night . why did this dude scoff when étoiles started talking about the resistance . why did he start asking him why he’d possibly want to kill federation guards and disagree with étoiles calling them mean/bad people . you are currently discussing this while playing on the mc server that contains La Tour de Merde you can Nawt give me lore jitters like this…..

#qsmp #antoine daniel #etoiles #étoiles #i might clip and translate this part tbh bc it’s interesting #ill main tag qsmp since it Is related to his qsmp lore . and it’s interesting #the whole convo was the same vibes as his casual pro-fed statements in the past on qsmp . so it’s not anything new in that regard #but it’s just particularly interesting now with the budding context of qantoine lore . like ooooo #qantoine third party (presumably) that worked/works with the federation on a certain number of experiments . #he has a rather blasé attitude to those in the ranks he considers lesser than himself . but seems rather distanced from the fed as a whole #but he still defends the federation and its workers and actions to a certain degree #i desperately need more insight into this dude’s morality like please omg . like the lore hints r coming slowly and steadily but claws at #the walls… im impatient….. #jay rambles

[stargirlie25]

ive seen so many people say stuff to shit on Lucien for example, ''Lucien only left with Feyre to the night court for Elain not Feyre!''

and many people have defended this fact but is it just me who doesn't gaf?

Like hell yeah he left for his mate. He was easily willing to travel through 7 courts for her. LIke who cares if he didn't do it for Feyre? It's not like Feyre wasn't using him as her toy in her little plan. Tbh tamlin deserved to be humbled but the people of the court did not.

I think its SJMs fault though. She writes that tamlin is mistreating his people and because of that, Feyre destroys his land and people?

As you can see I can never really stick to one topic.

Anyways Lucien has shown genuine concern for Feyre (couldn't care less is he hasn't) although I choose to uplift the fact that he left his high lord who saved him from the AC risking his second home all for Elain Archeron. He is an exile because he chose to leave for Elain.

So yeah he did not leave for Feyre :p HE LEFT FOR HIS MATEEEE

swoon

#pro Lucien vanserra #throw anything at me and I will just glorify it #its Lucien tho #no seriously I have been tagging my posts ''lulu is the solulu'' AND NO ONE IS USING IT???? HELOO #lulu is the solulu #pro lucien #pro elain archeron #pro elain #Elain x lucien #Lucien x elain #elucien #elucien angst

[sklnandb0nesstuff]

#thinspii #thinsppi #ed things #thinspo #thin #eating problems #ed stuff #eating disoder things #model thin #rexiia #rexii #rexi #anamia #anorectic #ana #pro ana #not pro just using tags #not pro #not pro anything just using tags #safe space #imagine your ugw #i will be skiny

[bonebutterfly66]

How I got my binging under control!!

Been binge free for over 6 weeks:)

-when I crave something sweet I eat something sweet but something that is very low in calories (unter 150cal)

-I drink sparkling stuff until my belly feel so full it feels like I’ll explode

-I sometimes eat when I’m fasting but only under 30cals!!!!!!!!!!!! Like 2 pickles so I won’t feel too hungry:)

-but I think the biggest help comes from my medication it makes my appetite go away for like 4 hours (Ritalin)

-I always try to distract myself especially at night I’ll make a list of distractions later:*

-sometimes I lock myself in my room and even tho I have the key and could get out anytime it still stops me In some way

-I sleep or go for a walk

-watching triggering stuff

-eating in front of a mirror

-I eat something that tastes absolutely disgusting so I won’t feel like eating for a while

-i brush my teeth

-I smoke a cig

#ana trigger #tw ana thoughts #th1n$po #4na tw #not pr0 just for myself #an0rex14 #sk1n and b0nes #th11n$p0 #thin$p0 #ana tiips #ana rules #not pr0 anything #an0rexic #4na blog #4n0r3x14 #pro 4na #4na diary #tw ed in the tags #thigh gab #thighspo

[anneapocalypse]

At the end of the day you can use "Varric is an unreliable narrator" to overwrite literally any part of DA2 that you don't like. Like you can say, "Oh of COURSE Varric isn't actually against mage freedom! He just said that he objected to Hawke freeing the mages because Cassandra was interrogating him." And sure, I can't prove to you that he isn't lying about that. I can't prove to you that Varric isn't lying about anything. I can't prove to you that the entirety of Inquisition isn't also Varric making things up because he did also write a book about that and we hear Cassandra reading it in the end credits. At the end of the day if you want to you can basically wipe out Varric's entire character as presented to us and say, "Actually he was lying! He's really this."

But at a certain point you do also have to acknowledge that the frame narrative is a storytelling device that's meant to enhance the story, not like... erase it. Or at least I prefer to acknowledge that, because going too far the other way basically guts the story of all meaning. If Varric is a character we are meant to engage with on any level--and I think it's clear from his prominence in the franchise that he is!--then at least some of what we see him say and do needs to be able to meaningfully interpreted, even if we second-guess him, even if we can pick out half-truths here and there, even if we cross-check our interpretations against how he behaves in other parts of canon.

Like at least some of what we're given about Varric has to be meaningful to his character, or why even bother, I guess is what I'm saying.

#somewhat said i wasn't giving him enough credit in my meta post about how starry eyed he is about pro-templar hawke #that we can't take his objections to freeing the mages at face value #and i mean i guess you can say that but you can say that about literally anything he says in da2 #face remains he's still starry-eyed about hawke no matter what #fact remains his approval follows hawke no matter what #and yes he's also friends with anders! don't mistake loyalty for agreement #it's a thing with a lot of these characters #see also aveline #anyway! #gwaren exports #i guess! #i'm not trying to be salty here but i just don't agree with the premise #dragon age stuff #blunders of thedas #please don't go digging and argue with anyone on my behalf btw #their comments were in the tags i assume they weren't looking for a fight #i just saw them and had feelings

[rewritingcanon]

snape apologists: omg poor baby boy he never did anything wrong he’s had a rough childhood but he was always a sweetheart like hes a total victim! a victim!!! hes never done anything to warrant what he got and he deserves sm better than that absolute *insert any misogynistic term here* lily he totally didn’t deserve what SHE did to him 😢😢

canon snape, literally making whole ass spells that torture his enemies and being an overall sassy feral shit who also happens to be part of a gang of terrorists:

#snape: ‘they gonna hate me regardless thats why i do what i do’ #bro was gonna murder them 💀💀 and some out here calling him a helpless little guy be so fr #if the universe was on his side he probs would have killed at least one of the marauders and gotten away with it #severus snape #SERVErus #marauders #marauders era #lily evans #lily potter #rewriting #edit tag: this isnt snape bashing this snape apologist bashing omg 😭😭 i like feral snape #if anything this was marauders bashing phft #‘ur defending bullying 😿😿’ WHAT THE FUCK LOLLLL #I SAID HE SHOULD HAVE KILLED ONE OF THEM HOW IS THAT PRO MARAUDERS 💀 #yall are just so used to defending this guy from marauder stans that ur all defensive asf jesus #also yes.. i have had conversations with snape stans like this…. its why i made a post like this in the first place like duh? #go actually defend him to someone who is bashing him stinky

[helloimamistake]

There are two types of zukka shippers

1. The ones who are really chill people and just here vibing the fanarts and fanfics

2. Those kind of people that want to involve Zukka to to ZK vs KA ship wars and/or shitting for zutara for some reason (the amount of times that people mentioned zukka on every ZK vs KA shipwars is quite a lot actually)

#zukka #idk should i tagged zutara? #zuko x sokka #atla zuko #atla sokka #im not a pro or anti zukka or anything just neutral tbh #prob gonna delete later

[dietcokeandricecakess]

I’ve struggled with my ED for 10 years and I’d been recovered my almost 2 years but I’ve gained a lot of weight and I actually have severe health issues so I medically need to lose weight. Health issues that are because I’m overweight and I know I should try and lose the weight “healthily” but instead I’m coming back to EDTumblr because I want results fast and I know I can do it. 3 years ago I lost 20kgs in like 6 months I know I can do it again. I’ve been doing this for 3 weeks and I’m already 3.5kgs down. I need to lose 20-30kgs to be in a healthy weight range but I want more.

#obese Ana #fat Ana #not pro anything just tags #not pro just using tags

[insykko]

I wouldnt even know what do do if I looked like that tbh. It fucks me up that some people just come out of the womb looking perfect

#not pr0 anything #eating problems #i want to be th1n #only pr0 for myself #tw edd #anorexsick #pro 4na #4n4 diet #not pr0 just for myself #low cal restriction #ana relatable #anarecyx #ana vent #tw ana thoughts #ana trigger #tw ed relapse #restrictive ed #tw ed in the tags #tw ed vent #anorektyczki #anorexjk #anor3x1a

[monsterandgreentea]

I’ve been struggling with my ed for 10 years now and its completely screwed up my relationship with food

#not pro anything just using tags #pro mia #pro ana #ed memes #tw ed #tw ed vent #ana memes #mia memes

[cheshiire-warper]

Fireplace Introject [left] // Term for intorjects that feel mostly positive about their source, either in general or specifically in the context of being an introject

Ryefield Introject [right] // Term for introjects that feel mostly negative about their source, either in general or specifically in the context of being an introject

These are intended to be broad, as it's entirely based on personal experience. 'Introject' can be replaced with any term you prefer (fictive, factive, faitive, etc)

Blank flags

Remakes of our original fireplace/ryefield introject flags

Neutral / Complex feelings toward source

Pt: Fireplace Introject [left] / Ryefield Introject [right] / Blank flags /end pt

#— [🔫] they'll say anything about me #anti endos can interact just dont follow #my terms #my flags #mogai friendly #mogai coining #liom coining #mogai flag #liom gender #mogai #liom #pro endo #actually plural #actually system #endo safe #fireplace introject #ryefield introject #bright colors #[ this isnt mogai/liom - tags are for reach ]

[flavia8]

Look. I don't like SJM Books. At all. I read Throne of Glass and A Court of Thorns and Roses years apart, way in the past and disliked them both. I know vaguely what happens in each series bc Rant reviews are fun. But I must say. I'm pro Nesta, forever and always. She's the only person I respect in that Bitch of a series (Acotar) and if she wants to murder everyone I'm all for it. Whatever acts of "Evil" or Bitchiness I hope she goes all in. If she wants to leave and live a secluded peaceful life, Away from everyone I will be cheering wholeheartedly. Whatever she does.

#pro nesta #pro nesta archeron #anti acosf #anti acotar #anti sjm #also bc this is morbidly fascinating to me I do peruse the anti tags occasionally so I am abrest of the issues #sjm is a poor writer poor worldbuilder and covers her books in a thin veneer of feminism/progressiveness #that just falls apart when anything is thought deeply about #scratch that I like Lucien too I respect him as well

[enden-k]

whenever i get potg as ram im too distracted by my chosen intro for him to pay attention to whatever i did to earn it bc hes just so

and im so

#the things i wanna DO TO him gods 🥰🥰🥰 #my horniness for him apparently makes me a pro ram bc i got complimented sm and im just like #sry i just rlly love hearing and playing and seeing ram im not doing anything its my gay little hands #i used to be a tank main before i switched to support before i quit the game but ram might be #the only tank im gonna main again hes just so ughhhh #dont mind me babbling im having a momemt HAHXHCH #own video #ovw2 tag #tbd