(Please ignore this, it's just a vent that I want to let out lately)
Sometimes I just want a day where I don't need to work on anything (art, especially) and just to relax myself from all the pressure I've been through...
Lately it's been so tiring.. I'm so sorry for the negativity.. it's just that I feel like I'm not a good artist.. the thing is, I've always tried to make everyone like my hard-work content but in the end there's no use because I don't get many people to like it as much as that cool artist did.. (why can they managed make many people like their art..?)
Like, I had a dream where I can get likes that is equal to my hard-work but no matter what that's impossible, like, 'with too much effort' posts is just the same as 'no effort at all' posts
So, why do I always strive to work something hard if in the end only a few people that really like my art, right..? I'm just tired of trying to be perfect at art.. but I don't want to be lazy at art too.. ugh, it's confusing 😭
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i'm so in love with wrio. that man is the embodiment of mercy and compassion. he is so... human. despite the deep disdain for atrocious acts that hurt others, especially acts that remind him of his own pain and traumas, he is able to keep himself in check and hold on to his values. despite being so proactive in fixing the wrongdoings of people that actively harm those under his care and assuring that everyone is supported in the best way possible; despite knowing he could have not controlled other people's hearts once they were in too deep in their own sins, he still feels helpless and incompetent. he recognises he cannot fully empathise with those who have been hurt for he has not experienced what they have and he understands that some wounds might not be able to heal even with all the attention and efforts, or at least not that easily. and it pains him. his whole life he's been trying to protect others. all his hard work during his time at the fortress and taking over it's administration has granted him the power and resources to actually change lives in a more restorative way, with a bigger amplitude than just the people who he's close to. yet he's only human. and not everyone wishes to be saved. and he doesn't hold back from breaking his own rules if means he is guaranteeing the best outcome for the greater good, for the well being of all of those he's sworn to protect. and although he earned himself a respectable title and even got used to being referred to in that way, he doesn't see people at the fortress as innmates but as equals. he never stopped being the little boy that was sentenced to live over a decade of his life there. and he is so good at what he does and he is so successful at restoring people's hopes in life, at giving them a second chance to become who they want to be, that there's people who actually want to stay there. he is the literal personification of turning your own pain into goodness, into love. love for community and love for others. he found meaning in making the world a better place and i just think that's really fucking beautiful.
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Working the closing shift at work on Fridays is such a weird experience.
We close an hour earlier than we do M - T but there's usually some one who either forgot or "forgets" and is late to pick up their dog. It's always two people closing, a trainer and a kennel tech, and the unspoken rule is that the trainer stays and sends the kennel tech home on time.
I used to work the closing shift but got booted because I wasn't telling my boss when dogs were late but not past the 15 minute mark. (After 15 minutes there's a late fee for the client.) She updates people's time for payroll herself because she's a stickler for paying people for their time and we don't have a system to clock in/out.
There's only three trainers, not including my boss, and one of them can't stay late on Fridays because of other commitments. However the other trainer who was closing Fridays was getting really upset with constantly having to stay late. Which I completely understand, is sucks because you can't just leave. It's not like dry cleaning where you just leave and the client can pick up their things the next day. It's a living being who cannot be left unattended.
So I offered to take the Friday closing shift back and promised to text my boss when I left, if I left after closing time.
All that to say at closing time there was still a dog who hadn't been picked up. I sent my coworker home and called the client to let them know we closed at X time and their dog was still here. The person was super apologetic, said they forgot about the Friday time, and told me their spouse was on the way but probably wouldn't arrive for another 15 to 20 minutes.
I thanked them for giving me a time estimate and that their partner can call when they arrive and I'd bring the dog out to the car since it's raining.
The spouse showed up almost a half hour later and met me at the back gate. They were so distraught at being late that I felt bad. They told me to charge them the late fee and gave me cash. I tried to push back against the cash because it was clearly an honest mistake. But they insisted their spouse would be upset if I didn't take the money. I didn't want to prolong them standing in the rain so I relented and told them to have a lovely weekend.
My boss had called about 15 minutes after close because she saw me still there on the cameras. I relayed the relevant information and assured her it wasn't a big deal. That I filled the time by putting on music and dancing around with Forte for silly training.
I did text her when the dog left. But I also told her about being given cash and that I'd put it in the coffee fund jar.
It feels weird to be given extra money over an honest mistake, especially when I am a) being paid for that time and b) used said time to play with my own dog.
By the time my boss answered and told me to keep the cash I had already locked up and was in my car. So on Monday I'll treat everyone to coffee. It doesn't feel right, for me, to just pocket the money when I'm already being paid for the time and used said time in a personal manner.
There's not a point to this, just sharing my experience. But if I had to tack on one it would be that I wish more people had practice with and experience with kind acceptance of mistakes. I don't have an issue with people making honest mistakes, even if it's inconvenient for me. I know I'd want someone to be kind to me if the roles were reversed and that I'd be absolutely mortified for having made the mistake in the first place.
I want to live in a world where the knee jerk reaction to others mistakes is kindness. If it doesn't start with me I have no business expecting others to model it.
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i think it is worrying how mean the online world is. yes there's good, but within good there's bad and maybe the bad doesn't justify the good or whatever that saying is.
its cruel and i think it teaches people, especially young people, to be cruel. but i don't want to act like the internet is some amorphous figure that controls us like a god, its not, its also people. some people who have an active interest in us being cruel but also just some people see the internet as a safe haven for cruelness.
i think more people are realizing how tiring it is to get the "Well actually this person..." comment under everything. but even i become cruel. ill watch tiktoks, laugh, and then think "wow this person probably sucks" and its just, perhaps they do but its not me who gets to rule over this.
for some people being able to be cruel online is a sort of healing i think. people who weren't allowed to express their anger. and i do think I'm bias on this, of course id like us to all be nice to each other, but many people do not want to be and at times it leaves no other option.
i thinkithink ithink idk ill keep thinking and then create people in my brain who disagree with me to get mad at and fight with in my head and then realize it stands no point because people arent like that in person.
deleting social media would be cool ig but i will contradict that dream and not do that
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