#npd

[a-sip-of-milo]

If you’re someone without a personality disorder trying to defend people with personality disorders, you get told that you’ve been manipulated and brainwashed and can’t be trusted.

If you’re someone with a personality disorder trying to defend yourself, you get told that you’re manipulative and dangerous and can’t be trusted.

There really is no way for us to win.

#cluster b safe #npd safe #bpd safe #cluster b #npd #aspd safe #hpd safe #bpd #neurodivergent

[autopsyfreak]

tired of people on tiktok acting like BPD and HPD are the ‘good cluster b disorders’ or the ‘victim cluster b’s’ meanwhile NPD and ASPD are the ‘evil mean abusive cluster b’s’

stfu.

we’re in the same cluster for a reason, you can’t support some whilst demonising the others.

#actually aspd #actually npd #aspd #npd #clusterb #actually mentally ill #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #cluster b #actually bpd #actuallybpd #actually narcissistic #actually antisocial #actually borderline #hpd #actually hpd #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #borderline personality disorder #histrionic personality disorder #narc abuse isnt real #narc abuse isn't real #npd positivity #aspd safe #aspd positivity #npd safe #npd vent #bpd safe

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

NPD culture is having better music taste than everyone

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#npd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b culture is finding love, empathy and friendship to be entirely separate things. i don't love you but i care. we're friends but you bore me. i'm willing to listen and give comfort but i feel nothing towards you.

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#cluster b culture is #cluster b #anonymous #bpd #npd #hpd #aspd #mod orange

[atlasundertheworld]

"I only support the narcissists who go to therapy and take accountability for their actions and try not to hurt other people, others deserve no empathy and should be eradicated"

FOOL! SKELETON DEATH BLAST 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀���💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

#nothing wrong with wanting mentally ill people to heal and get better #but this sentence kinda implies that we need to heal do we wouldn't be an inconvenience to neurotypicals #rather than us... you know - getting better #npd #actually npd #npd safe #actually narcissistic

[valsperfume]

for the love of god don't start filling up the npd tags with "don't fill up the npd tags with 'why narc abuse is bad' posts" posts

#valsperfume #npd #narcissistic personality disorder #actually narcissistic #actually npd #cluster b

[solitaryschizoid]

If you are anti-NPD I hope you are also anti-every-single-mental-health-disorder and stop pretending to be a mental health advocate, because you are not one.

Support all mental health disorders or support none of them.

#you dont get to pick and choose which ones you like and dislike #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually npd #actually narcissistic #npd #anti npd

[flashy-mf]

When are therapists gonna understand we can be self aware? Are they really gonna die on the hill that states it’s impossible for a narcissist to know and accept what they are? I lack empathy, not basic cognitive skills. Even intellectually disabled people can know they’re intellectually disabled.

This awareness they think we’re incapable of is the type of awareness living beings have intrinsically. It’s fucking basic awareness of information and the ability to compare. This red strawberry looks just like the other red strawberry, so 4-year-old-you matches them together on your little tablet game.

Yes, I can comprehend why I would be labeled as a narcissist. I’m mentally capable of understanding how I fit the description, and I’m mentally and emotionally capable of accepting new information I learn about myself.

What I don’t understand is how the psychiatric industry can be messed up enough for a LICENSED PSYCHIATRIST to believe someone can lack an intrinsic skill that LITERALLY COMES WITH BEING CONSCIOUS like what the actual hell?!?!??!!?

#flashy ✨ vent #flashy ✨ thoughts #cluster b #actually cluster b #npd #actually npd #actually narcissistic #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b safe #npd safe #npd stigma #self awareness #ableism #psychiatry #psychiatric ableism #tw caps

[livingfictionsystem]

A lot of pop psychology gets thrown around and since I already have a headache, here's preventing you lot from making it worse.

Love-bombing: A manipulation tactic of increasing affection and grand gestures before or after doing something abusive, specifically to weasel one's way out of consequences.

What it is not: A streak of affection and generosity towards friends/loved ones.

Trauma-bonding: Knowingly traumatizing someone to take advantage of their vulnerable state, to then act like the "hero" or the one who cheers them up.

What it is not: Bonding over similar traumas.

Gaslighting: *Knowingly* convincing someone they cannot trust their own perception of a situation in pursuit of one's own narrative.

What it is not: Misaligned perception of events.

Narcissist: Someone afflicted with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, a traumagenic cluster B disorder, that struggles with self-obsession, paranoia, craving validity from the public, delusions of grandeur, and social disconnection.

It is not: Your rubbish ex that cheated on you.

Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

-Xanthe

#pop psychology #love bombing #npd #actually npd #narcissist #trauma bonding #gaslighting

[unbearable-swagger]

I will be like "I'm fine" and then another fucking event will occur

#mecore #actually borderline #bpd #bpd mood #bpd meme #npd #npd mood #npd meme #actually narcissistic #npd safe #1k #5k #10k #15k #20k #25k #30k #40k #50k #60k #70k

[autopsyfreak]

seeing NPD + ASPD positivity posts on any other platform being met with literal thousands of people flooding the comments to try and justify their ableism and discriminatory behaviour towards us is so fucking gut wrenching

#actually aspd #actually npd #aspd #npd #clusterb #actually mentally ill #actuallyaspd #actuallynpd #cluster b #actually bpd #actually antisocial #actually narcissistic #antisocial personality disorder #narcissistic personality disorder #narc abuse isnt real #narcissistic abuse #narc abuse isn't real #ableism #sanism #npd posting #npd positivity #aspd things #aspd safe #npd safe #npd vent #aspd positivity #aspd vent #mental illness #actually cluster b #cluster b personality disorder

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

npd/bpd culture is Constantlyyyy devalueing + valueing people again bc of mood swings

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#npd culture is #npd + bpd culture is #npd #actually narcissistic #actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #cluster b #bpd #borderline personality disorder

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Cluster B culture is resisting the urge to lash out always

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#cluster b culture is #cluster b #anonymous #bpd #npd #hpd #aspd #mod orange #mood

[atlasundertheworld]

Okay narc abuse this narc abuse that

How bout y'all share your favorite ways to cope with a crash

Here are some of mine

1. I join close knit communities involving my interest/s and am active in them frequently. After a while, the people start recognizing me and when I share something I'm proud of (even if I made it pre-crash) some people will notice and comment on it, which boosts my confidence a little! My art means a lot to me and I tie most of my self worth on it, so people complimenting my art by extension compliment me too. You don't have to be an artist for this, just doing anything you're good at and you love and having people notice this might help you feel a bit better

2. When I'm having a somewhat minor crash (or right after a major crash when I've ridden it out and am feeling a bit better) I go on sprees where I do good stuff for people, I give money to the homeless, I buy gifts for my family members, I compliment a stranger etc, people usually notice this and thank me for it which also helps me feel a bit better about myself (note - I do these things one and off without crashes, but I usually binge-do-good when I'm feeling especially low hahaha) (dunno how much this one works about actually upping your ego, but I personally tie worth as a concept to being a good person, so actively and provably being a good person immediately helps me with perceiving my worth as a human being)

3. Tumblr drafts 😭😭😭😭😭 I've noticed that journaling and venting in my notes doesn't help because nobody sees it and the lack of attention makes me get even worse, and venting to people drives them away from me and makes me uncomfortable so I've avoided venting and I bottle up my emotions a lot which usually actually drives me into a crash in the first place. So I started writing and formatting my vents as actual tumblr posts that I'm totally planning to post, and I tag them and everything, but then I save them as drafts. This way, for some reason, my brain sees this as "yes. You will now post about what's bothering you and many people will see this and like and reblog this!!! You'll be so noticed and cool and get so much attention!!!" Which makes me feel better in the moment, except as I get better I forget about the drafted post so I also simultaneously save my privacy while I'm at it looollll

I mean arguably, all of these are for some mild-er crashes and usually for some bigger ones I don't really have a coping mechanism so I just lie in my bed, shake and feel cold for weeks until I finally get the energy to get up, but honestly even if I can make it a little bit easier for me, I will

Anyway feel free to share your favorite coping methods too!

#guys i know all of this is common knowledge and probably not very helpful #but still i want to share a little bit of positivity especially with my feed recently mostly being about narcissistic abuse #so bear with me for a moment on this one #npd #actually npd #npd positivity #npd safe

[underwhelmingalchemist]

*mom voice* You can get these words back when you know what they mean

#i know narcissism is a personality disorder #and that gaslighting is a therapy term #but you get the idea #npd #mental health #mental illness #intrusive thoughts

[solitaryschizoid]

neurotypicals will be like "you can't self diagnose" and then diagnose everyone they dislike as a narcissist

#actually npd #narcissistic personality disorder #npd safe #actually narcissistic #narc abuse isn't real #npd abuse isnt real #npd