no I know what you mean like trauma dumping is def real but sometimes I feel so guilty telling people about any aspect of my life because it was sad and horrible because it's TrAuMa DuMpInG. and it's like lol sorry some of us had a bad time believe it or not I also would like for that not to have happened to me
its so silly too cos what are friends if not people who know your secrets and understand your fears and love you anyway!! same i try not to bother people with my problems mostly because the vibe WILL be awkward but i think its important for your friends to know whats happening about you yknow?? like okay its weird to overshare with an acquaintance but that's more of a social faux pas to me than forcing them to do emotional labour (empathise) idk emotional labour is like its own thing its own term around the way service workers are forced to go above and beyond, the way women are forced to carry the emotional burdens of men and the ways underprivileged people have to account for the feelings of their "superiors". its not about how you feel bad cos your friend told you about their dog died idk....
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No thoughts today. Yet. Just this image...
Maybe it doesn't really suit his personality, but sometimes I wish 2000s Y7Jo had long hair like RGGJo...
i cant express Enough this is the vibe this morning
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was re-reading through the scene where you can ask mizuki what date thinks of ryuki and. hmm. that scene has a Much different tone when you realize what actually happened the day before. the way he looks relieved when mizuki says that date thinks ryuki is a valuable member of abis. the fact that he was likely dreading something much, Much worse. hmm.
and then they follow that with the scene where Tama says she can’t read Ryuki’s mind, so he needs to open up to her, and he says he can’t because she’d hate him...
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The reason the Avengers were able to defeat Loki is because Loki sounds British and there are enough Americans on the Avengers. The spirit of the Revolution possessed the Americans. There was no tea to throw in the Boston Harbor, but there was a suspiciously British sounding alien with an army. Impossible odds? That was also the case in 1776, that didn't stop anyone.
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wanting to be a tumblr artist is so goofy because first of all i actually have to draw which ew. the audacity. i’m finally overcoming my art block but i can’t be like “MARCH SKETCH HAUL 🏄🏄” cuz it’s literally all oc stuff that i’ve drawn this month. the way it’s all better than my classic rock art too is so annoying dnrjfjrf like i wanna post!! but no one knows these clowns and i talk so little on here so this got me feeling like
LORDDDD ok it’ll be fine. we’re so cool, like a cucumber even. maybe i’ll post smth anyways idk what if we kissed at the izzy oc art post 😳😳
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