Exclus: “Bi Lesbian is a new made up term”
Actuality: “Bisexual Lesbians are a large and irremovable part of the Lesbian community, even if many Lesbians treat them with insults, ignorance, stereotyping, exclusion, rejection, invalidation, and worst of all, silence”
- Bi Women Quarterly, 1983
(Not that it matters if the term is “new” or not to begin with)
1K notes
·
View notes
can y'all stop equating "lesbians can like men so imma force you to marry one!" with "I'm an mspec lesbian who isn't implying that the majority of the lesbian community shares my lived experiences"
27 notes
·
View notes
Bi Lesbians Exist.
Pan Lesbians Exist.
Omni Lesbians Exist.
Ace Lesbians Exist.
Bi Lesbians are beautiful.
Pan Lesbians are phenomenal.
Omni Lesbians are outstanding.
Ace Lesbians are awesome.
There are many different kinds of lesbians, and that is wonderful.
Do not be ashamed of your identity.
Bi Lesbians, Pan Lesbians, Omni Lesbians, and Ace Lesbians belong in the LGBTQIA+ Community.
1 note
·
View note
Queer kids deserve to become queer adults. To grow up supported. To go through adolescence finding themselves, instead of going through their 20s grieving the years they weren’t safe and had to pretend to be someone else. To be safely queer before financial independence. Wanting queer youngsters to not have a lifetime of conditioning and trauma to unpack isn’t child abuse, it is literally the opposite. Queer kids deserve to be safe.
17K notes
·
View notes
I would like to make a probably invisible poll for the LGBTQ people of Tumblr. Sorry you can’t do multiple, just try and choose the one most important to you! Gray-anything fits here too.
1K notes
·
View notes
Friendly reminder that bi women used to be called lesbians too until terfs forcefully kicked them out bc they thought their connection to men made them impure so if you don't support mspec lesbians reclaiming the label "lesbian" you're playing into the terfs hands
5K notes
·
View notes
i love you mspec lesbians and bi lesbians and pan lesbians and omni lesbians and ply lesbians and abro lesbians and mspec gays and bi gays and pan gays and omni gays and ply gays and abro gays and mspec straights and bi straights and pan straights and omni straights and ply straights and abro straights and abros and gaybians and lesboys and trans man lesbians and turigirls and trans woman gays and enbyhets and aplatonics/aplspecs
536 notes
·
View notes
happy lesbian visibility week to all lesbians!! all lesbians are important and valued members of the lesbian community!! this includes trans lesbians, intersex lesbians, he/him lesbians, nonbinary lesbians, lesboys and male lesbians, transmasc lesbians, multigender lesbians, butch and femme lesbians, aspec lesbians, polyamorous lesbians, mspec/bi/pan/omni/abro/etc lesbians, gaybians and straightbians, any and all good faith lesbians!! you belong in the lesbian community!! fuck the exclusionists!!
188 notes
·
View notes
Queer researchers seeking participants!!
We're a queer research team based out of University of Maine and Fordham University, recruiting 15-18 year-olds in the US for our study of mental health, coping, and online experiences. This study should take ~25-35 minutes to complete and does not require parental permission. If you want to enter our raffle for a gift card at the end of participating, you'll be entered to win one of 20, $25 Amazon gift cards!
Click the link or scan the QR code to participate: https://fordham.co1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_ehWjq8RIi2c14Oy
Help us learn more about mental health for LGBTQ+ teens. Queer research for queer youth!
158 notes
·
View notes
i am tired of being nice with lesbophobes because maybe they don't know any better or are brainwashed or truly think they are doing the right thing or i don't know what else. i am tired of not saying anything to avoid dramas. if your god said homosexuality is bad well then fuck him and everyone who agrees with this shit. if you like dicks you're not a lesbian. if you have a dick you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a dick you're not a lesbian. "amab nb lesbians" aren't lesbians, they're just straight guys. bi and other mspec lesbians don't exist and are lesbophobic terms. either you are attracted exclusively to biological women while also being a biological woman or you're not and never will be a lesbian. if you decided to be a lesbian because of your political views then you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a crush on a guy you are not a lesbian. if you think lesbianism distances lesbians from womanhood and means we aren't normal women you're a piece of shit. if you think you can become a lesbian or stop being one you are a piece of shit. if you think lesbians just need to find the right man i hope your house will burn with you in it. call lesbians queer and you deserve to be punched. if you think lesbian sex is disgusting go fuck yourself. if you think lesbianism is problematic or sinful in anyway kill yourself. if you think lesbians just need to try dicks kill yourself. if you think lesbians can be attracted to men kill yourself. now you can cry and say i am oppressing you, i don't care. die mad about it
260 notes
·
View notes
Calling All Queers!
This is a blog for all your queer questions, advice, vents, and more! I know it isn’t the typical “our _ experience” blog, but @our-queer-experience and @our-transmasculine-experience and others like that have been super inspiring! I’m here to take your calls and help in any way I can!
Disclaimer: I am not a professional in anything, and any advice I can offer is based off personal experience or knowledge, take everything I say at your own discretion. Please do not come to me in place of professionals should you need serious help.
If it isn’t clear: hate and exclusion are not tolerated here. If you have anything bad to say about anyone's identity or life, don’t.
My name is Synn, and my pronouns are nie/nier and zy/zyr/zyrs
Edit: tagging system explained under the cut, as I realise it can be confusing
1-800-queer- Tagged on ask posts
queer advice hotliine- Tagged on everything
for i have synned- Original posts, personal information, unrelated things
advice calls- Asks where I give advice
question calls- For when I'm asked a question
vent calls- When I'm not giving advice, just for vents
gender calls, mspec calls, aspec calls, romantic orientation calls, sexuality calls, name calls, etc- Tells the specific nature of the advice I'm giving or question I'm answering
you've reached the operator- When a post contains links to outside resources
long distance calls- Long posts
voice mail- Reblogs
the phone number post- the one post with phone numbers to suicide/crisis hotline and other immediate resources. added under its own tag for ease of location, should you need it
189 notes
·
View notes
having lesboys and mspec lesbians along with radfems on your dni is so funny like girl whos ideology are you sipping. i know you think your better but youre taking a slice from their cake maybe you should reflect on that
171 notes
·
View notes