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batri-jopa · 1 year

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I love my life highly satisfied just being myself

(Female version here)

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vaxieth · 4 months

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#vex #vax #keyleth #scanlan shorthalt #caleb widogast #mollymauk tealeaf #fearne calloway #chetney pock o'pea #critical role #my posts #this has been in my drafts since i saw a ‘gayest critical role character’ poll forever ago #(this is only canon characters obviously)#(and i’m using bisexual as a blanket term for being attracted to multiple genders)#(obviously you could argue/headcanon some of these characters are pan/omni/fluid/queer)#i have a feeling this will come down to liam o’brien on liam o’brien crime but i still want to see #and before anyone says ‘CHETNEY?’#he propositioned the entire gender spectrum offering his ‘sexual healing’ after the bells hells reunion #yes chetney

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silver-ink-iron-words · 11 months

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“Please,” the protagonist said. “If you actually love me like you say, please don’t do this.”

The royal lifted the protagonist into the carriage, and onto their lap.

“What was that, my dear?” they said with a smirk.

The protagonist scrambled off their lap and onto the opposite seats.

The royal laughed. “You should have seen this coming, darling. I did say, after all, that I would choose the most beautiful of my noblemen’s children.”

The protagonist glared at them. “I’m not going to marry you.”

The royal raised an amused brow. “You overestimate your own choice in the matter.”

“You will need me to say ‘I do’ in the chapel.” It was a struggle to keep their voice even. “I refuse to utter the words.”

“Do you have a lover? Is that it?” The royal’s tone remained jovial, but something dangerous lurked behind their eyes.

“No,” the protagonist said, and the royal’s expression brightened. But it was not the good news the royal thought it was.

“I don’t fall in love,” the protagonist went on. “And I never will. Not with you, not with anyone. I will never wed.”

The protagonist had braced for anger, maybe even threats or violence. The royal’s smug look was somehow worse.

“I know you have a prickly heart, darling,” they said. “I’ve witnessed it plenty of times in my own court. But once you’ve been shown proper love, you’ll change your mind.”

“That is a bold assumption.”

“Which is why it will be so satisfying when I am proven right. Now come here.” The royal patted their lap with a smile.

The protagonist stiffened, but the royal’s gaze left no room for compromise. Limbs heavy, they rose and climbed onto the royal’s lap.

The protagonist stared out the window, as the carriage continued on. The royal played with their clothes, and their hair, blathering on about some nonsense while the protagonist watched their home drift away into the distance.

Eventually, the protagonist turned to the royal. They held their chin high with the confidence of a decision made. “You know what? Alright.”

The royal grinned. “Oh?”

“If you insist. Then fine, I’ll marry you. In sickness and in health.” A plan was beginning to form. They donned the convincing imitation of a warm smile. “Until death do us part.”

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@feline17ff , @piept , @doublericenobeans , @vioqueenofmushrooms , @pigeonwhumps , @thelazywitchphotographer , @taramacgay

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bagelbucket · 4 months

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bold take we aren’t ready for is that people think they’re trans just because they don’t align with society’s “ideal” gender roles when in fact it’s just their personality. or because of internalized biphobia.

#but we AINT ready for that conversation #you’ll say you don’t wanna wear dresses or paint ur nails once and oh damn you must be a transman #and not because of having a literal actual trans experience #<- not aligned with your !!biological!! gender #people will misread this but like. you can be a biological woman and call urself a girlie and use he/him pronouns I genuinely don’t care #literally I do not care what u do #but there is a thing in noticing!!! where kids or adults realize they don’t align with how the world views their gender #and people say they must be trans #or because they’re straight or gay but . Because they might be butch or flamboyant. they think they HAVE to be trans bc #god forbid they’re just a feminine man or androgynous woman or masculine woman or nb man or person or !!!#anyways.#gender is a spectrum along which anyone can reside #while also feeling in touch with biological gender #(biological gender = sex)#anyways. Hey #bagel talk time #queer discourse #ANOTHER BOLD TAKE: transgender doesn’t exist because GENDER is a spectrum of experience DIFFERENT from sex #you can’t be transGENDER because gender is already a fluid human experince #we’ve just…..put ‘man’ and ‘woman’ into boxes based on gender roles and expectations #you can be transexual tho because that’s literallyyyyy the entire thing. that’s what it is.#<- all said by a person who thought they were transexual because they were experiencing (and still do) behaviors and traits different from #what society expected and HUNDREDS of people told them they were trans #almost went on hormones and changed my body because I was convinced #and that wasn’t the case for me #I use he him they them pronouns because I’m comfortable with them and because I feel masculine and androgynous sometimes #is it apart of the ‘trans’ experience? sure yeah!! 100%#and not everyone feels that way of course. but like. I’m not actually trans.#I just experience fluxes in gender #I’ve had a trans experience through finding myself but I’m not gonna call myself trans because I haven’t changed my body

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toastsnaffler · 5 months

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in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

#i thought when she was talking abt how her parents thought i was gonna come out as trans and kept checking my name/pronouns-#that the joke was that im ALREADY trans but in ways they dont know abt.... but nope she genuinely didnt know 🤭#to be fair. i dont rly let anyone in on my gender business unless we're close enough to be dating or its an anonymous online space #like im legally cis and thats fine. idc abt ppl using my name + she/her bc thats not my gender identity its just AN identity that i use-#to navigate the world without ppl being fucking nosy bc i pass as + am sociopolitically treated as a woman (if butch lol)#to ppl who are friends ill joke that my gender is dyke (true) and to friends whose gender falls on a similar spectrum-#or who are transmasc ill talk a little more honestly abt it bc theyre usually able to understand better than anyone else #other butch dykes w a weird gender going on are the only motherfuckers who actually Get It but theyre hard to come by tbh #to be frank i dont fucking know whats going on w my gender. and i dont rly care enough to do the introspection to figure it out rn #i have so many other problems in my life and im lucky that most of my beef w gender can be solved by presenting butch + binding #and using any pronouns around other queer ppl. its actually incredibly funny to me when ppl she/her me bc its like tch. this chump hasnt #unlocked my level of gender yet. pronouns and names in general are so far disconnected from the way i exist in the world...#its just smth thats fun for me to play around with + makes me feel weird sometimes but in ways i havent distilled yet yknow #and this has been my approach to gender for like?? 4-5 years now??? and likely will continue to be for a long while..#anyway. its not actually that surprising my flatmate doesnt know bc shes cis so ive never felt compelled to have a deeper conversation #abt gender with her. but also i could sweeaaar its been mentioned bc almost all our other friends are trans lol #and also ive been introducing myself at queer sports socials w any pronouns and i swear i talked abt that w her..... whatever #and my pronouns are on discord and shes def seen my tumblr before but maybe i didnt have them in my bio at the time... i digress #i kind of prefer cis ppl she/hering me tbh. theyre not able to they them or he him or whatever else me in a way that matters.....#altho i do find it fascinating when she or other ppl elect to use neutral or masculine terms for me. raising an eyebrow and taking notes #like when she got a job and joked abt me being her househusband.. pulling up the fem/masc tally chart and chalking a line up #a la nona the ninth.... ive been trying to figure out whos inhabiting this body my entire fucking life with no luck girl #ANYWAY just smth to think abt. im so tired i think my brain is gonna start seeping out my eyeballs #im gonna watch some more pluto and read and then -> 🛌#another 6:30 start tomorrow woohoo #.diaries #zzzzz

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omni-scient-pan-da · 9 months

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Dating app concept for demiromantic people in which the entire app is meant for finding other queer friends with the subtext of IF you hit it off enough you MIGHT be interested in pursuing a romantic relationship

You create a little profile with pictures of yourself and your interests and whatever else people usually have on a dating app profile and you swipe through other people's profiles and if you match you get to talk to each other

Presumably you go out on a few hang outs, get to know you activities, whatever, and then you become friends

If one of you catches romantic feelings for the person AFTER you've become friends, there's a little button on matched profiles to signify romantic interest

The other person does not get notified when you toggle the romantic interest button UNLESS they have also toggled the romantic interest button

You have the option to toggle the romantic interest button on matched profiles on and off at any given point in time and you'll never know how many times the romantic interest button has been switched on or off, or even that the switch was toggled at all, unless BOTH people currently have the romantic interest switch toggled on at the same time

Therefore demi people who are freaked out at the idea of going into a dating app looking for someone to date have the opportunity to just make friends, and there's no pressure or fear of ruining a friendship made through the app, because you can "confess" without actually confessing, because your confession never goes through unless it's mutual

#panda posts #queer #aromantic #aro #aro spectrum #arospec #demiromantic #demi #gay #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbt #lgbtqia+#dating apps #app ideas #dating app #if anyone on the tech side of tumblr knows how to make something like this you can feel free to take my idea as long as you tag me when the #finished product comes out cuz i wanna see

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sillyunknownkitkat · 5 months

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Help, is anyone else on here also reciprosexual/romantic? I feel weird for it and I never see/hear of people being the same :(

Basically if you don't know it means that I don't get attracted to someone unless they tell me that they're attracted. So like I have to be dating to love but when it happens I fall hard and fast.

It might vary from people to people but for me that's it

I saw post about people supporting it but none being actively it (does that make sense?)

So anyone else like this?

#lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #reciprosexual #recipromantic #new writing blog #anyone?#wlw #mlm #queer community #queer #aromantic #aromantic spectrum #asexual #asexual spectrum #lesbian #gay #everyone loves everyone

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faithfulcat111 · 6 months

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Eagerly awaiting Nancy's sexuality crisis over her genderqueer boy. Super here for it.

She completely errors out because her brain literally goes, "I can't be straight, I'm dating Jonathan." And then has to figure that out. Discovers a lot of things about herself along the way too.

It will be much more fluff than I seem to trend towards cause my brain demanded happiness and joy for these two this time :D

#I'm so excited to push my gender queer jonathan agenda though in this fic #also general queer #and probably ace-spectrum #we shall see #but yes it is my firm belief that anyone who has ever had a crush on jonathan is not straight #because you cannot possibly look at that boy and tell me he is cis #or straight #jonathan byers #what is gender fic

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zhalar · 9 months

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is this real. Are you people feeling this way. At This Age. Am i in the wrong to think this feels so weird to feel. "This isnt normal" WHERE AM I,

#särmäs sermons #NOTHING post this is a nothing post the tweets just been on my mind the entire day.#ARE WE AS PEOPLE BORN IN 2000-2002 SUPPOSED TO HAVE BEEN IN 'SERIOUS (ROMANTIC) RELATIONSHIPS' BY THIS POINT FOR REAL FR. GENUINE QUESTION.#sometimes i wonder if im really on the ace/aro spectrum at all and then i see ppl feeling this way. im so baffled.#im not trying to shame or preach op or anyone this age who Wants to be in a relationship or has problems abt this issue this is literally #just me airing out my own emotional laundry. it feels so bizarre to think an early 20s person should feel this way.... babygirl youre Good.#im not the best person to take this advice from but. Hey. It's So Alright. Dont Sweat It.#and ofc the element of being queer also throws a curve into this. but like even for straight people....#everyone under 20 is so . So Young. how are you supposed to form ''serious relationships'' AT THAT STAGE OF YOUR LIFE #im lost in my own analysis and language escapes me. pls take this with good faith im saying words recreationally again

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aroworlds · 2 years

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[image description: three text banners of the word “queer” in a pixellated text, coloured in three horizontal four-stripe pride flags. Identities: alterous (yellow/grey/pink/red), aplatonic (purple/blue/lime/cream) and asexual (black/grey/white/violet). Banners are shown in two versions: one on a black background with a white frame, the other with a transparent background.]

Pride Month Queer Pixel Text Banners

Flags: Alterous, Aplatonic, Asexual.

All banners/stickers are available for free personal or non-commercial use with credit to one of my accounts. They are not available for commercial use.

For flag creator posts, please see @aroflagarchive.

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jonathanrook · 7 months

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okay but the problem is. and the reason i don't actually id as ace. is that i have. ya'know. been sexually attracted to people before. two. to be specific.

#okay so in hs i thought i was demi which ik is on the ace spectrum #but there were some flaws in that logic. those namely being. i had never actually been attracted to someone before.#in hs okay. you need to hear me out on this. in hs i was doing like. compulsive bisexuality??#i figured out i was queer but didn't know how really so i was randomly picking all sorts of crushes. not just guys like anyone.#which is why fun fact to this day i still don't know how many people i've actually ever had a crush on lmao bc i'd even lie in my diaries #but i know some of them were real but it was just like. a little romantic attraction.#and everyone i had a crush on (real or fake for the most part) i was friends w so demi whatever.#BUT THEN. 2019. the unthinkable happens. dan howell comes out and i realize i'm a dyke.#it didn't actually happen exactly in that order but it's funnier to explain it that way.#anyway. like a week later i met the second hottest person i've ever seen in my life ever.#side note i'd already met the hottest but i have Sieve Brain and i genuinely don't remember how that went at all in the slightest #so the second hottest will have to do as my point of reference forgive me #anyway before i even knew her name. Salivating. insane.#and to this day i've still only been attracted to those two people. not even celebrities.#i don't know what “celebrity crush” means and at this point i'm too afraid to ask.#but i feel like i'm fairly old to have only wanted to. like. fuck two people. that seems like a low number. i don't know how this works.#and it's not demi if i didn't get to know them first right?#ace people explain y'all are smarter than me real #but it literally is still like i don't understand you people and your. sex. why are you like that.#rachel rants

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pixel-sylveon · 1 year

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So for my one and only new year's resolution im starting a pain journal.

Also as a side note I passed probation at my work so I have a secure desk job now isnt that poggers

After figuring out I have joint hypermobility syndrome/hypermobility spectrum disorder a lot of things have made sense. Especially the fucking horrifying migraine I had yesterday.

Like, I've never been nauseous with a migraine before but the pain and pressure was so bad I was sobbing and screaming. Like, pain so bad I may have self harmed a little bit in a feeble attempt to focus the pain somewhere else. It didnt work lmfao. "self harmed" i scratched my arm enough to draw blood. whatever

it royally sucked ass though i wouldnt wish that amount of pain on anyone.

But yeah! now im gonna keep track of my joint pain and headaches and everything else of my body that doesnt work to see if theres anything that triggers anything specific. And my mental health i guess. which is normally fine until the fatigue or exhaustion or whatever catches up to me and i get no sleep and nearly fall asleep at my desk at work oops

Thank god for the holidays for allowing me to catch up on sleep because boy i cannot function on a 40 hour work week

#sol rambles #having chronic pain/chronic illness??? shoved at you from seemingly out of nowhere is a wild fucking ride #i say seemingly out of nowhere but some of this shit ive been dealing with for years and figured it was Normal.#also a lot of it has just. gotten worse #is it my own fault for never exercising or taking shit care of my body as a teenager because i assumed i was gonna kms? prolly #but im assuming its genetic partially. somehow. but i doubt anyone would try and get a genome sample from me lmfao #as a side note apparently hsd/jhs are more common in people who are neurodivergent and or queer and i think thats very interesting #by neurodivergent they say on the autism spectrum or with adhd but as someone who can relate to a lot of adhd stuff #shrug #my brain is so spicy and strechy its incredible

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