#patterns of behavior

[mafaldaknows]

Frequently hungover (allegedly) yet was still able to do his work diligently and professionally without any negative remarks from his costars, not one, compared to other sober actors who their costars and press people hated.

Hello, Anon:

Not a harsh word, not a whisper of a rumor, not one scintilla of scandal spoken about Armie Hammer by his peers, associates, employers, and many others who’ve had the pleasure to be in his company for any significant length of time.

Those who have made public salacious allegations against Armie all seem to have come out of nowhere, all at once, and all with a singular goal of fomenting a timely scandal that was specifically most advantageous to his ex-wife, as he and she were embroiled in the middle of nasty divorce and custody proceedings. These accusers seem to be the only ones who’ve ever accused Armie Hammer of misconduct of any sort, with dubious claims that have yet to be proven with any substantive evidence to support them.

Timing is everything. So is motivation. Connect the dots on that.

Thanks for your insight. 💙🫶✨💪✨🫶💙

#hello anon #deux moi #deux moi double take #timing is everything #armie hammer #a good guy #by all accounts #good character #stellar reputation #consistency over time #patterns of behavior #support armie hammer #mafalda remains hopeful #tales from the charmiesphere

[serenityquest]

#sad ghost club #repeating patterns #patterns of behavior

[vizthedatum]

I put too much of the blame for my misfortune on myself.

I know it must seem that I'm complaining ALL THE FUCKING TIME.

Do you know what goes through my head though?

All the ways I've personally fucked up whatever situation.

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There needs to be a balance: I need to own up to what I've done AND also point out that I also tried my best given the circumstances AND that the circumstances may have been stacked against me, to begin with.

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At work: why can't I finish this task? I'm so dumb and lazy and unproductive.

In relationships: am I doing enough to warrant their love?

With myself: why aren't you working harder? why aren't you organizing more? why aren't you trying to be the best you possibly can be?

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Where, in reality...

At work: my job is poorly managed by the department, and there is no way I can actually thrive with the amount of pressure and tasks that are put on me. I am trying my best. I have to admit that my best is not good enough for their expectations... and that doesn't make me a bad worker or incompetent.

In relationships: Love doesn't work that way. If I feel like I have to prove myself, then all parties involved need to work on repairing or closing out the relationship. Real connection shouldn't have to rely on people proving their worth OR constantly second-guessing the other person's intentions/love/care.

With myself: I need to let myself just take a break. Life is way too fucking hard already - if I'm not working harder or organizing... then there is a reason and even if it's sheer laziness, THAT IS NOT A MORAL FAILURE. I am still a worthwhile human being, and I love myself. I can work on being kinder to myself.

#healing #reflecting #patterns of behavior #codependent no more #trauma #love #neurodivergence #queer #harm #self love #prose #relationships #work #relationship with myself #negative self talk

[jbfly46]

Still alive.

Killed Jesus and blamed the Jews.

Prominent in the southern United States and parts of Russia.

#cultmapping #cults #Roman cults #patterns of behavior #computational psychology #artificial intelligence

[heart-songs]

Too much introspection can be defeating. All the wondering why, the asking questions no one can answer. It feels as if I've done enough of that of late, and that it might now be doing more harm than good.

Simon Block, A Woman's Courage (pg. 323)

#beautiful words #introspection #self awareness #patterns of behavior #overthinking #change #struggle #coping with trauma #simon block #A Woman's Courage #book quotes

[ninjakittycomics]

this channel has been amazingly helpful with understanding toxic behaviors.

Dr Ramani specializes in narcissistic patterns, however as many of us have run aground either directly on narcissists or on people trained by them, these topics are incredibly useful.

Vids are about 8 to 16 mins long, so easy to take in one or two a day.

Definitely recommend.

#Dr Ramani #Toxic #Behavior #Know #the more you know #share #patterns of behavior #Patterns

[whiskeymomma2019]

“How Do You Measure Up…”

How do you compare yourself to others and how does this affect your sense of self worth? In my late 20’s I measured my worth based on my job importance, such as “am I making a difference,” “do people respect me,” and (the big one) “am I doing what I’m supposed to be doing?” In my late 30’s the measuring stick changed to “am I making a difference,” “am I happy/fulfilled,” and “do I respect…

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#acceptance #boyfriend #communication #coping #divorce #harm #jobs #life #pain #patterns of behavior #progress #relationships #responsiblity #self esteem #self worth

[blurakun]

🥚John Dory and the lonely egg 💔

Headcanon that the brother's dad left before they even knew Branch existed and he was just left in a basket with a note for JD to find 🥲 we love giving our boys trauma ✨️

This is shortly after losing their mother 💕😭 BABY FLOYD IS SO CUTE HERE HELPPP give John a hug PLEASEEEE Branch is basically the equivalent to a premature baby because of this 😌🫶 so smol

"Casually recites this extremely traumatic event with a shrug"

#johndorysmemior #trolls au #trolls headcanons #trolls with tails #dreamworks trolls #trolls branch #trolls john dory #trolls band together #trolls brozone #trolls bruce #trolls clay #trolls floyd #trolls grandma rosiepuff #angst #JOHN JUST LEARNED FROM PATTERN OF BEHAVIOR OKAY

[chitinleg]

got him off-balance!

#my art #ds9 #star trek deep space nine #julian bashir #elim garak #garashir #watercolor #image desc in alt text #i normally post on mondays but. today im breaking my pattern! getting a little silly. getting a little wild. garashir jumpscare #“tumblr user chitinleg garak would neot easily let himself be swooped off his feet into a hug like that” yes i know BUT! #look at his expression. look at how his arms r pinned. he didnt let this happen LMAO julian just surprised him. grabby huggy human behavior #if you look really closely you can see the tiniest frown in the world on Garak's face. because he's like “EEP !” #cant see bashirs face at all in this only his body but i think we can all imagine that whatevers going thru his head. he needs this hug bad #ALSO. for anyone wondering what the fucked up shadow is that starts at the juncture of the teal sleeve-cap where its set into the armhole #the jumpsuits have a bit of a fold of extra fabric (called an Action Pleat) there which allows for a little more maneuverability of the bod #AND creates a really sleek and flat back panel #because you can see the fabric twists along the side arent grabbing the flat back fabric theyre grabbing the fabric folded beneath it #often times i think about drawing out a dissection of kiras first uniform and this voy era one for other artists to use. bc god knows #i struggled at first to find full body references #they like to shoot ds9 very close to peoples heads. and the camera is so blurry. they smeared butter on that thing. god bless

[theseasonofnow]

The Many Parts We Play in Life

The Many Parts We Play in Life

“All the world’s a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts……”  William Shakespeare wrote these words, which are relevant to how I am feeling today. When you look at our behavior in life, it becomes clear that not only do we play many roles in life, but when things become difficult or uncomfortable, we…

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#creating the best version of yourself #creating your best life #fear of something different #finding your best self #following scripts of behavior #loops of behavior #our life roles #patterns of behavior #roles we play in life #security in what you know #The Many Parts We Play in Life #The Stage

[mafaldaknows]

The trailer for the new House of Hammer doc series is out. Sickening.

Hello, Anon:

I watched it just now from the link in the bio on The Hollywood Reporter’s IG and there’s nothing in it that surprises me except for the fact that in the documentary, Julia “Jelly” Morrison is referred to as Armie Hammer’s “ex”. I thought that term was used for someone who has been, not someone who never was.

Oh, I feel a song coming on …

CELEBRITY SKIN by DOJA CAT

Oh, make me over

I'm all I wanna be

A walking fire

You can't get rid of me

Hey, so glad you could make it

Yeah, now you really made it

Hey, so glad you could make it now

Oh, look at my face

My name is "Might-Have-Been"

My name is "Never Was"

My name's forgotten

Hey, so glad you could make it

Yeah, now you really made it

Hey, there's only us left now

When I wake up in my makeup

It's too early for that dress

Wilted and faded somewhere in Hollywood

I'm glad I came here with your pound of flesh

No second billing 'cause you're a star now

Cinderella, they aren't trash like you

Beautiful garbage, beautiful dresses

Can you stand up or will you just fall down?

You better watch out

What you wish for

Better be worth it

So much to die for

Hey, so glad you could make it

Yeah, now you really made it

Hey, there's only us left now

When I wake up in my makeup

Have you ever felt so used up as this?

It's all so sugarless, useless waitress

Model, actress, oh, just go nameless

Honeysuckle, she's full of poison

She obliterated everything she kissed

And now she's fading somewhere in Hollywood

Glad I came here with your pound of flesh

You want a part of me?

Well, I'm not selling cheap

No, I'm not selling cheap

Source: Musixmatch

Songwriters: William Corgan / Love / Erlandson / Corgan

Celebrity Skin lyrics © Mother May I Music

Thanks for your comment. ✨❤️🧿✨

#hello anon #true crime story #emphasis on story #documentary #prove it #aunt casey is not a credible source #has been #never was #latest face #pound of flesh #opportunistic vultures #nft #jelly #fake DMs on her phone #really now #patterns of behavior #over time #facts and evidence #examine the evidence #rumors are not facts #everyone has a price #fifteen minutes #fame #mafalda always looks for songs #tales from the charmiesphere

[tbgkaru-woh]

Don't fuck with the new leader of Qinghe Nie

#nie huaisang #and his collection of fierce corpses #each with different behavioral patterns #there's headcanons to be had but i won't spam the tags #the untamed #mdzs #my art #song lan #nie mingjue #wen ning #jin zixuan

[vizthedatum]

You won’t be able to understand why I’m the way I am, and my processing isn’t for you - it’s for me and a record of what people with different developmental abuse/trauma can do to each other.

We were a match, there is no denying that.

And I loved you every single moment.

I projected myself onto you, and like sand sifting out of your hands and back into the earth, you mirrored my very being and then tore it to shreds, watching it disappear while feeling the love you had for me diminish. Over and over again.

I used to ask my friends: when did they stop trusting me?

But the thing is: you never trusted me, because you projected yourself onto me too.

#unsent letters of reflection to my abusers #narcissism awareness #this is not promoting abuse of narcissists #this is promoting clarity on the patterns of behavior #patterns of behavior #healing #trauma #love #neurodivergence #harm #queer #abuse #heartbreak #projection #trust #narcissistic behavior #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic projection #their condition blinds them of the understanding of who we are #my ex/spouse got mad at me for being in love with people and we were poly #my ex/spouse got mad at me for calling myself an empath #my ex/spouse told me I wasn’t allowed to have boundaries #my ex/spouse used affection as a means to control me… and I craved every single crumb until I realized I was starving #domestic violence #emotional abuse #psychological control #narcissistic supply #when they cannot confront how empty they are then they will not understand how people like us exist #and they will hurt you #leave

[kaleiyo]

The way you treat yourself

Show others how to treat you.

And the way you treat others

Show how you treat yourself, at least on an interal level.

In every action there's a reflection of the underlying desire or need that fuels it. And depending on what the fuel is made of, it will reflect the kind of relationship one has with themselves and the emotions they carry with them in that particular life area.

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#as within so without #human interaction #human behaviour #relationships #human psychology #everything is a reflection #mirroring #psychological patterns #patterns of behavior

[serenityquest]

#behavior patterns #recovery #choices #change

[zegalba]

Berenice Abbott: Behavior of Waves (1960)

#berenice abbott #Behavior of Waves #wave pattern #photography #black and white #1960