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xqueserasera · 4 years

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“Anybody can say they love you, yet spying isn’t love. It’s obsessive and controlling behaviour, reflecting insecurity on the part of the perpetrator,” she says. “Controlling, secretive, and spying behaviour is mental abuse and should not be tolerated.”

As a person, I am not perfect. I have done and said many things I regret. I have been insecure, too, and also obsessive. I have never spied on anybody because I believe people have a right to their privacy.

I know I should feel violated and disrespected by the person who did this... I won’t make excuses for them- or excuses for my own actions. However I do feel a deep sense of empathy for their mental state. I have also been that scared partner that couldn’t trust people. Being cheated on was devastating to me and caused this feeling in my stomach that seemed like a huge hole was ripped into it while the rest fell through to the floor. It’s that sinking feeling and also wanting to feel safe like you can trust another person... but you just can’t.

Monitoring somebody is unhealthy and infringes on the opportunity for healthy and positive communication. It exhibits the idea that a person is an object to possess. People are just people. They do shitty things. They also do great things. Humans are vastly complex. They make choices and later on find they regret them and they ask themselves “why... why would I do that to them? 😞” I know. I’ve done that, too. You try to control when you feel powerless.

In hindsight, there should be opportunity to reflect and take responsibility for statements and actions. Nothing is forgotten, but with honest change and understanding there can be growth. Not every relationship makes perfect sense to anybody.

I know I could turn them in for committing so many crimes and hurting me in that way... but I saw the good in them that others might not have seen. I did love them and I only have compassion toward them. With time, maturity will come through experience. I don’t expect them to ever apologize to me because I don’t think they’re capable of doing so, so I won’t hold on. Atleast with having this truth I can move on and close that door for good. I thought there was this deep union, as in some sort of “twin flame” energy. Maybe it is. But if these things don’t change- it’s definitely not and never was.

#forgiveness #compassion #grief #loss #experience #thatsnotlove #mentalhealthawareness #understanding #empathy #unconditionallove #peoplemakemistakes

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shopsmallglasgow · 3 years

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The Blankfaces Inspired or created by a homeless person. The UK’s first fashion brand working to end homelessness. www.theblankfaces.bigcartel.com @the_blankfaces . . . . . #theblankfaces #endhomelessness #clothingbrand #peoplemakeglasgow #fashion #peoplemakemistakes #shopsmallglasgow #supportsmallbusinesses #glasgow #shopsmall #shoplocal #handmade #scotland #sustainble #ethical #creative #independentbusiness #innovative #christmasshopping #useitorloseit #shoplocaluk #scotlandloveslocal #ScotlandIsNow https://www.instagram.com/p/CIJRCG2JkP9/?igshid=w39h3ivwzvt1

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boyzineyeliner · 4 years

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So True! <3 #peoplemakemistakes #theirnotbadpeople #learnfromyourmistakes #youronlyhuman #youronlyhumanafterall #doesntmeantheyhavepayfortherestoftheirlife (at Mount Laurel, New Jersey) https://www.instagram.com/p/B5pua7snBjB/?igshid=364jz3f6vk7j

#peoplemakemistakes #theirnotbadpeople #learnfromyourmistakes #youronlyhuman #youronlyhumanafterall #doesntmeantheyhavepayfortherestoftheirlife

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theusualpainter-blog · 5 years

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#marilyn monroe #emotional #KeepHoldOfFriends #peopleMakeMistakes

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emmie68 · 7 years

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@Regrann from @mulan_1000setia - "Did not mean to hurt you, really sorry!! ❤️❤️" song by @sitinordiana #sitinordiana #padasiapa #peoplemakemistake #sorry #forgiveness #feelsadforthem #donttakeintoheart #bestrongfriend - #regrann

#padasiapa #bestrongfriend #feelsadforthem #donttakeintoheart #forgiveness #peoplemakemistake #sitinordiana #sorry #regrann

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cre8capture · 7 years

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Watching the Grammys last night I was so confused by Adele’s halting of her performance, and they she began again, and I totally got it. What a beautiful lesson that people make mistakes, but if you’re going to do something with your whole heart, you have to do it right. Bravo Adele, Bravo!

#grammys #adele #trytryagain #peoplemakemistakes #bravo #lifelessons

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shopsmallglasgow · 3 years

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The Blankfaces Inspired or created by a homeless person. The UK’s first fashion brand working to end homelessness. www.theblankfaces.bigcartel.com @the_blankfaces . . . . . #theblankfaces #endhomelessness #clothingbrand #peoplemakeglasgow #fashion #peoplemakemistakes #shopsmallglasgow #supportsmallbusinesses #glasgow #shopsmall #shoplocal #handmade #scotland #sustainble #ethical #creative #independentbusiness #innovative #christmasshopping #useitorloseit #shoplocaluk #scotlandloveslocal #ScotlandIsNow https://www.instagram.com/p/CIJQ7yaJnkC/?igshid=4njckfizk5kr

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leoniedennis · 8 years

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How do you handle mistakes?

#MistakesHappen #PeopleMakeMistakes #HumansMakeMistakes #HandleMistakes #MistakesonCamera #MistakesCaughtonCamera #MistakeQuotes #WordsofWisdom #InstaQuotes

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