I’m frank with people when I’m upset with them, but I’ve learned to do it respectfully and with kindness. Ann Lamott had a great saying: "you don't always have to chop with the sword of truth, you can point with it too”.
I'll never be a famous actress or model, or CEO of a company. Just give me enough rice, some love and laughter in my life, and healthy happy kids - that's heaven on earth.