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fluffomatic · 8 months

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I honestly don't even know how to start this, or even if I should. I know that this community has had its issues, controversies, etc. At this point? It's getting ridiculous. I'm disgusted by the actions of the fucking ADULTS in this community. This is supposed to be a safe space. For everyone regardless of age, race, sexuality, gender expression, religion, etc. The fact that you've used that to hurt people is revolting. I've gotten more information about what's going on by a friend, and honestly, everyone who is associated with the current thing going on except the minor or minors who were harmed. should be ashamed. If there is anything to take out of what has happened, it is this. Don't put any creator up on a pedestal. We're all human. We make mistakes, sometimes really bad ones. Myself included. Just be aware of the people you support and follow. If they exhibit bad behavior, call it out. I hope that all of you will hold me accountable for any harm I might have or may cause. I think the best thing about being human is that we all have the ability to learn and change. I wish everyone was involved the best, and I hope this situation teaches you a lesson. And to the people harmed, it doesn't matter if these creators do change and learn and grow, if they apologize up and down, if they do everything in their power to make it right, you don't owe them your forgiveness, you have every right to be mad. You're valid no matter what you choose.

I may take some time away from tumblr. Probably not for very long, but the air here is definitely toxic at the moment. My messages will still be open for my friends, of course. Just give everyone time to heal from what happened. To the adults in the community, we have an obligation to make this place safe. Not just for each other, for everyone. We all need to do better.

#serious #it pains me to have to make this #i felt obligated to at least say something.#I may lose followers but I dont care #i have so many followers here that are minors so i feel especially responsible for their safety #to the young ones out there #please be mindful of who you message #i would recommend not sending dms to adults #if youd like to message them i recommend just sending asks #either anonymously or not. if any blog messages you check their bio or their posts for their age #be mindful #unfortunately some of the responsibility does lie on you #i care about all of you but keep in mind #you dont know me. and you dont know any creator on here. youll never know someones intentions.#im begging you all #be safe

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800db-cloud · 1 year

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Hello hihi!! Lately I've gotten into Pizza Tower and every time I search up Pizza Tower fanart for some inspo, your art always seems to pop up! Just wanted to say your PT art is a big inspo for me and I love your art It's very cool and nice to look at!!:D Soory for rambling sdksjkkjs

that is so so sweet and aauuhg… tysm that really does mean a lot to me 🥹

#era.txt #dingo-asks #i have a really really REALLY hard time responding to things…. it’s a thing im sorry #but i get so many nice things and its soooo overwhelming ?????/POS.?? like i dont deserve you #ppl are so nice to me and nice about my stuff and im trying to learn to be better abt accepting it <\3 #i get a lot of ppl sending messages and whatnot that are so nice and sweet….. im so very sorry if i dont respond #but please know that ive most likely seen it and i appreciated it 🥹 responding is just very difficult for me #ok sorry for the ramble in the tags MSJDJDJ but ya. tysm

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slutdge · 9 months

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bro floridas a fascist hellhole, you dont want to be here i promise

Usually I just ignore asks like this because they're willfully ignorant but I'm tired of recieving them so I'm just gonna clear this up: as a biracial queer person, obviously I don't mean that I miss the politics of the south, and you interpreting it that way is intentionally ignorant but I'm gonna restrain myself from ripping you to shreds like I really want to, and instead explain what I mean when I say I miss Florida, Tennessee and South Carolina: I mean I grew up in a dangerous, very abusive household with my parents, so when I got shipped off to live with my extended family in those states, it was a blessing because I didnt have to deal with being deprived of food or being beaten. I got fed. I got told that I was loved. Just in general, its not wise to comment on someone's life when you know nothing about them. I'm allowed to miss the only place I ever felt loved. Please stop sending me asks like this every time I express that I miss Florida/Tennessee/South Carolina.

#im so tired of getting this exact same ask every single week yall please lmao #im allowed to miss the only places i was ever cared for. you see 0.0001% of my life from what i post on tumblr #you dont know shit about me or what ive lived through to be sending me messages like this #i hate that i even have to disclose my trauma to yall to justify why i miss these places #asks #homesick

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courfee · 3 months

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Shut up jily blueprint why are you drawing jegulus

this is an extremely funny ask to leave in my inbox considering the last marauders fanart i posted was literally jily

obviously you already know that people can ship whatever they like and its extremely rude to leave these kinds of messages in peoples asksboxes considering youve been terrorising my friends with these exact kinda messages for the last couple days, so i dont think i need to tell you this again

#hp #asks #also with the lack of commas in this ask i am honestly not even 100% sure if youre for or against jily #like are you saying to shut up about the jilyy blueprint #or are you telling me to shut up because jily is the blueprint #maybe send me a rude messages a little more clearly cause i am incredibly bad at reading tone and intent #yk just some friendly advise #either way i will draw as much jily and jegulus fanart as i want cause against popular (your) belief i actually just do it cause i enjoy it #not to please some random people on the internet #so i really dont care <33

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anotherpapercut · 7 months

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If Stephanie myers were out every day trying her hardest to take even more land away from native people and championing for the Indian child wellfare act to be repealed people would not be making joke posts about twilight. The comparison of terrible author’s bigoted mindset being clear in the work is the same but people were mad about jkr’s transphobia don antisemitism and casual racism for a long long time, the boycot only started when it became clear she’s trying to exert societal and legislative change using her author clout. I care more about dismantling like fucking, still existent Indian boarding schools and their millions of dollars in holdings from stolen land than some defunct author who’s book people only like ironically/indulgently/as a version that only exists in their mind, and I care more about boycotting jkr’s intellectual properties than I care about boycotting myer’s

I love that you felt the need to send me this whole long ass message about how you care more about transphobia than racism

go be racist somewhere else please

edit: this made me cry I laughed so fucking hard

#lmfao. i literally did not ask thanks ❤️#people have been mad about smeyers racism and misogyny for a long long time too. die lmfao #also like just LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO #at thinking people havent been calling for boycotts against twilight since it CAME OUT #get a ife oh my god PLEASE get a life #always hilarious to me when people feel confident enough to send messages this fucking stupid #but not quite confident enough to do it off anon bc they dont want to be outed as like. this fuckin obtuse lmao

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hauntedbestie · 8 months

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i don't have any one piece mutuals and thats a goddamn crime i need to scream yell cry and have nobody to listen

#*infomercial voice* for five all caps messages a day you could help a woman in need #even if you dont watch it just the greenlight to scream about live action zoro and sanji and where i'm currently at in the anime would rock #I CANT BE NORMAL ABOUT IT #if you follow me and are into one piece PLEASE SEND THE SIGN TO OPEN UP MY EYES

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izzyizumi · 7 months

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P.S.A RE: JOU KIDO'S TRI~KIZUNA~THE BEGINNING SEIYUU {JUNYA IKEDA}

If you have time, PLEASE go write a message of support on Junya Ikeda’s tweet. {tri. Jou’s V.A.} Please be kind and respectful if you do. IMPORTANT: In your messages, DO NOT compare Junya's work as Tri~The Beginning!Jou to other works or roles!! Focus on describing what you like about Junya's performance! DO NOT describe what you dislike about the series, focus on what you like!

Easy Complimenting for J.P.N Artists (Can use some of these to compliment Junya's work)

Junya mentions that Junya would love handwritten letters {in any language} If you struggle with space you can format envelop this way Romaji for address J.P.N text for address

This is a developing situation. As of right now, it seems no one active on Toei U.S. side is commenting on it / addressed it (please inform me if they do!) TW: Talk of suicidal ideation {Junya discusses chronic depression} Please take caution if you choose to read Junyas letter, but please also show Junya support right now if you can!!

Aside from Jou, here are more of Ikeda's roles.

EDIT: JUNYA IS OK!!! {More info}! Junya was grateful to already receive so many letters, but this is still a developing situation, and obviously Junya would clearly still love to hear from everyone!! Junya's DMs {direct messages} have also been opened again! If you struggle with the word limit, DMs would be the way to send something if you can't send via mail!!

(I am not a professional translator, this was auto translated) ^ Regardless, it's clear Junya would still love messages, so let's please continue to SUPPORT Junya during this time!!

JUNYA LEAVING DMs OPEN IS A PRIVILEGE TO FANS. DO NOT abuse this by sending rude comments, bashing / blatant putting down of other series or Tri, comparing of other roles, comparing of Junya to others in the industry, etc.! Please remember to be KIND & RESPECTFUL!

#kido jou #izzyizumi posts #izzyizumi no rb #izzyizumi no rb posts #tri jou #kizuna jou #the beginning jou #cv: junya ikeda #(I might make this rb-able soon if I see no other post discussing it here or linking the info on where to send letters)#(But I'm kind of scared to myself)#(I don't want rude comments + from {+intracommunity} ableist stans on this post when it's such a severe situation right now)#(Honestly I'm PISSED THE F*CK OFF TOEI U.S. SIDE HASNT SAID A DAMN WORD YET nor RTd his tweet in support)#(It's making me REALLY angry and you know what else is great about all this)#(JUNYAS BDAY IS OCT 27)#(THATS RIGHT THE SAME OCT 27 AS WHEN 'THE BEGINNING' DROPS AND *THIS IS HAPPENING*)#(I'm worried af because Junya doesnt seem to be replying or Liking the responses Junyas got already and its been 24~ hours)#(if you can PLEASE SEND A LETTER OR SOME MESSAGE IN SUPPORT THANKYOU)#(ALSO FROM NOW ON EXCESSIVE CRITICISM + BLATANT HATRED OF TRI!JOUS ROLE + VOICE WORK IS BANNED ON THIS BLOG)#(I'LL HARDBLOCK YOU EVERYWHERE IF YOU KEEP TRYING AND THIS IS YOUR ONE {1} WARNING)#(DONT DO IT)#(THERES A DAMN TIME AND A PLACE FOR GENUINE MEDIA CRITICISM AND NOW IS NOT IT!!!!!!!!!)

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fonkeloog · 1 year

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#at this point im not sure if anything i do will ever be good enough #me turning off my anons doesnt mean you can start harassing my friends. what the fuck is wrong with you #either message me or send me an ask off anon and explain me what ive done because im so confused and this hurts #to any of my mutuals who've been getting dragged into this; i am SO sorry #i never intended for any of you to get dragged into this #if you have any questions please please please message me im willing to answer any questions and doubts this might have given you #i love you all so much and i dont want anyone to stop liking me because of someone spreading lies about me #britt is rambling #but this time its in the tags

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beesinspades · 10 months

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the fact bigolas dickolas is mxtxandchill is still so wild to me. like she was out there being a racist and a tone deaf asshole and now she's back with 50k followers and the whole trigun fandom is kissing her feet and no one cares and it makes me feel so 😬

like this is the person who said "children of color don't understand critical race theory, their understanding of it begins and ends with fandom discourse. they bully white people and they'll turn on their own next" which is. I don't even have words.

the person who said "uwu call me out when i say something harmful so that i can do better" but then when a trans person very politely told her "hey this tweet you made about all men being 'inherently ugly and trying to compensate for that 24/7' could be hurtful to marginalized cis men but if you don't care about them maybe consider trans men?" with "I'm not your therapist go work on your internal biases and talk to someone else about your issues" which is cruel regardless of whether you think the person was overreacting or not

the person who spoke over sea voices calling out an official artist for colorism and sexualizing nazism only to go in the same breath like "I'll still support them though because I enjoy their art <3" are you supporting calling them out on colorism and sexualizing fucking nazism or not??? regardless of anyone's stance on that discourse the hypocrisy is yikes. just say you wanted to make yourself look good and go

nowhere near as bad but as an ace person it was very irritating: the person who would joke more than once about not knowing what a character's sexuality was and that character being [other character]-sexual and when people said "hey that's demisexual!" she would ignore those specific comments and continue acting like "wow i wonder what sexuality this is lololol"

and afaik that wasn't even all (i didn't follow her and had her muted) like???

yeah the thread revealing they're the same person was weird and fucked up and the person mentioned things that were really not actual issues and i do NOT condone how they went about it, but at the end of the day here we are. bigolas is mxtxandchill who is a racist who never sincerely apologized or did anything about some of her supporters being horribly racist or showed any kind of growth. they just got suspended and remade and now they're more fandom-famous than they've ever been. fantastic

#bee rants #ugh #sorry it's just frustrating #i dislike BNFs in the first place but when they're shitty people everyone blindly worships it's even worse #i have her muted but she showed up on my fyp on priv and i snapped haha #like the time war thing was awesome UNTIL she started doing interviews and signing copies like it's her own book. wtf.#and then boom we learn she's That Person #big yikes #dont send me anon messages about this please

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mortimer · 3 months

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when i changed my bio from being song lyrics to literally just saying "18+" i was not expecting to keep getting followed by people w/ minor in bio like..

#Its for my comfort as much as your safety!! Please respect my boundaries!!!!!#And u dont have to send me messages about it either just unfollow or softblock 😭

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hella1975 · 1 year

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putting the game in dnd 😮‍💨

#WHAT IS GOING ON SIR 🔥#please don’t be flirting please don’t be flirting please don’t be flirting #he has been sending messages like this since LAST NIGHT #LIKE AS A CONSISTENT CONVERSATION #which is rlly lovely and makes me feel so much better about myself….. UNLESS he’s flirting #like he very much might not be but by god i am cursed to have every fun experience/friendship ruined by a man pushing the boundary #PLEASE DONT BE FLIRTING YOU WERE SO NICE #PLEASE LET THESE BE ACTUAL GENUINE COMPLIMENTS #hella goes to uni

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bahoreal · 7 months

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i keep "based on your likes" on out of like, morbid curiosity about tumblrs shitass algorithm (i think it goes, i [tumblr user J] like a post by tumblr user A. tumblr user A likes posts by tumblr user B, tumblr user C, tumblr user D. tumblr user J gets shown all of tumblr user As likes. i must have liked a post by someone who only likes posts about religion because i am getting a steady stream of almost harrowingly (derogatory) christian posts.

#lots of. i love being at church i love learning about god stuff. get away from me im not christian i never want to be christian #i don't like that im prejudiced against anyone but I'm definitely produced #prejudiced against christians. yes even you the christian reading this. id love to apologise but christians are like 90% more likely to be a #massive asshole to me about who i am as a person. even the 'good ones' have told me like 'i believe that sinners will get a second chance #when they die to then finally take up the christian faith and get into heaven and if they truly dont want to then they can willingly go to #Hell. dont worry you will get another chance even though you are a sinner :)' like? get AWAY from me you have decided that i am evil and #condemned me for loving women and not being cis. anyway. i know logically that christians are on tumblr and that's like fine. your space too #but i do not want to see any christian propaganda messages in my fun online time please and thank you #(not to mention the huge amount of religious trauma my own father has. difficult not to hate a religion when theyve done That to a #family member lool) anyway if anyone sends me any pro christian asks im deleting them

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waterberry-strawmelon · 1 year

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dungeons and daddies season 2 rant!

this is mostly a vent post bc i’m just not a huge fan of the way the stakes in this story have been handled in the 2nd season so far! obviously i love the podcast so this is no hate on it, but i just wanted to get this out there and see if anyone else feels similarly, or if perhaps season 2 gets a little less messy and forcibly dramatic later on!

*Note: As of right now, I just finished Episode 13—aka the huge lore dump episode lmao! So maybe things get better after this and i just dont know it yet!

This is a lot of word vomit cuz I wrote down all my thoughts in my notes app on my phone stream-of-consciousness style, so if something doesn’t make sense, that’s why!

My problem with season 2 is that the rules of the world and of the story keep changing. The rules of the GAME aren’t changing, but the verisimilitude of the story itself is—they’re playing Calvin Ball with our suspension of disbelief, and it’s not working for me.

It’s like the Steven Universe Future thing of suddenly going against the previously-established rules of cartoon logic; suddenly we’re NOT supposed to laugh at cartoon slapstick and instead supposed to now see it as REAL INJURY that just…healed. But that breaks the audience contract!!

In Dungeons and Daddies, we’re supposed to believe that a lot of these jokes in season 1 don’t really matter. So when they DO in season 2, that’s not what had been implicitly agreed upon by the audience and the creators/writers about the story.

So with this in mind, that we are now supposed to believe that these characters’ actions have real consequences. Willy Stampler is an abuser. If we’re trying to do a redemption arc, we need to fucking SEE that.

For this season to represent growing up and realizing that adults are fucked up and make fucked up choices and can grow and change and get better or get worse or maybe weren’t ever as great as you thought it was. Those are cool ideas! But for us to take them seriously, they’ve got to be handled with care; we can’t just be told these adults made fucked up choices and when it was posited as a joke, only for it to actually be SERIOUS (i.e., if for example, henry and darryl kissed in season 1 and it was played as a joke that may or may not have actually happened, it’s never addressed again, so it’s really not heavily staked in canon—then you cannot in season 2 say that actually, darryl and henry had a lot of tension after they got back to earth and it was awkward for the rest of their lives, but we didn’t see it it just happened off-screen, trust me. BECAUSE THAT’S NOT HOW IT WAS TREATED IN SEASON 1!!! YOU CAN’T REWRITE WHAT’S ALREADY HAPPENED—IT DESTROYS OUR BELIEF IN ANYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN THE STORY. SHOULD I TAKE THINGS AS JOKES, OR LITERALLY? If I took all the stupid shit in this podcast as real and genuine and serious, then this would not be a story i wanted to watch, because literally every character is an asshole. But that’s not how the story is sold to us!

It’s kind of like how ultimately, all the dads in S1 were kinda shitty, because they were played by actors playing Dungeons and Dragons as a comedy podcast. If the podcast had treated that stuff seriously, it would’ve been an ENTIRELY different tone, and no longer comedic. But now suddenly we’re supposed to take all that shittiness as if it WERE serious fact! But that wasn’t the implicit contract we’d agreed upon by engaging in this “comedy podcast” story!!!!!!!

I think it’s cool how the new dads/S1 sons are essentially acting just like the dads in S1 did, only we’re seeing from the kids’ perspective how it actually affected them.

But at the same time…idk. It’s like you’re mixing metaphors. It doesn’t resonate with me, because i can’t be invested in any of it. Are the jokes real? I can’t get a feel for what kind of emotional weight i should be granting any and all of what the characters say and do.

The best thing about S1 is that it didn’t have to be believable; but in S2, they’re trying to make us believe in this stuff that’s not believable. So you’re losing my trust and interest in this narrative, y’know?

AND FURTHERMORE!!!!! I hate that Willy’s character has now been reduced to “narcissist = bad (which on its own is…not a great narrative to deliver about ppl with personality disorders), but he was in prison for a long time and realized he was mean so now he’s a nice guy! forgiveness <3.”

As if he didn’t abuse his son. ajskfmxghgjk. idk what kinda shit anthony’s trying to tell with this. it doesn’t have to have a moral or soapbox moment or whatever, but it almost erases the POWER of Ron’s arc in Season 1. by getting forgiveness from the narrative, without getting forgiveness from his actual victim.

This feels like a Rian Johnson movie just trying to be quirky and “subvert expectations ooooooooOOOoOoOoo” without that subversion actually feeling REWARDING or EARNED or JUSTIFIED.

In my personal opinion, I think it’s just not as strong a choice to try and get into character work this early in the story, as compared to the pacing of Season 1. Sure, we did get some good Ron growth for an episode at like… episode 14? But the dads didn’t get actual ARCS until after the halfway mark!!!!!!!! Sometimes they really didn’t even resolve themselves until episode 66—three episodes before the final episode.

and it feels like a lot of these story beats are trying to do the work of character arcs without setting up a sturdy enough character foundation to begin with.

i saw a lot of fans online praising the choice to have such important plot stuff happen so early, and while i agree the previous monster-of-the-week formula was getting a little dull, i also don’t think the characters have really felt fleshed out enough yet to get thrown into this sort of thing. like, i personally dont really care about scary’s complicated feelings because i havent had 30 episodes to get to know her yet (and more importantly—neither has BETH. the actors themselves are still figuring out their characters!) the characters’ emotional beats it feel much more rushed and much more forced, imo. which makes the foundations of this story feel unsteady, bc i dont have any handholds to come back to and connect with. i havent been able to connect with the characters OR the story yet, so having all this thrown at me as if it’s really meaningful just falls flat.

Overall, timeskips need to be handled with care. If we jump forward in time and suddenly everything’s different—just for the sake of uncomfortability and subverting expectations—you’ve really got to justify those character changes within the narrative. And so far, nothing’s feeling particularly justified. At least—you have to do this if you want your story to be meaningful and/or SAY something about TRUTHS in OUR WORLD outside of this fictional narrative.

I can tolerate all this nonsense if it’s not actually trying to reflect anything in real life, but if I’m supposed to take this story seriously as a funhouse mirror representation of real world themes, then you’ve got justify your narrative choices. Otherwise, you’re just confusing your actual motive.

Basically, to try and be comedic AND have real world dramatic tensions and significance and themes to connect with an audience, the drama and comedy cannot come from the same place.

Here’s an example: In Jojo Rabbit, the comedy comes from pointing out and emphasizing the ridiculousness of the Nazis’ ideology. The film does not derive its comedy from the most dramatic, real-world-reflective moments: the human connection between Elsa and Jojo, or Jojo and his mom; the danger Elsa found herself in under Nazi oppression; parental death; etc.

And vice versa, the comedic moments are not the emotional crux of the story. Even Jojo’s violent accident is played more lightheartedly; if they were to make THIS event (the grenade exploding and almost killing Jojo—a ten year old child) the driving tension of the film, then for us to feel actually INVESTED, it could not have been played as comedic as it was (i.e., the scene where they’re rushing him into the hospital on the gurney and his bloody thumb’s up pops into frame).

Dungeons and Daddies Season 2, on the other hand, takes these emotional beats that have already been established for COMEDY, and tries to turn THAT into the dramatic, emotional crux of the show. And i as a viewer am just not as likely to be invested in that conflict or dramatic tension or to find the messaging about real life to be saying anything particularly resonant or meaningful.

TLDR: Dungeons and Daddies Season Two suffers from GENRE CONFUSION!!!!!!!

If ultimately Anthony and the rest of the gang are trying to say, “This is what life is like sometimes!” (which is, imo, what EVERY dramatic story is trying to say), then they’re not actually doing that, because they’re manufacturing these situations to fit what they want to say, rather than presenting the narrative first AND THEN ALLOWING THE MEANING TO DEVELOP NATURALLY FROM THE RESULTING EMOTIONS!!!!!!! Fuck!!!!!!

So basically, it’s still easy for me to enjoy the show—but the narrative does not provide me with enough material for ANY EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT, and that is really disappointing :(

#this goes all over the place so again sorry if it makes no sense!#also its fine if you disagree but please dont reply to this post or send messages to my inbox trying to change my mind #if you think these problems maybe smooth themselves out as season 2 continues then thats cool and id love to hear about it!#i'd also love to hear if anyone else has noticed anything similar; and even if u havent im happy to clarify any of this if ur curious about #my perspective (or if any of my examples didnt make sense. like i said—i wrote this in my notes app impulsively to just process my own #thoughts cuz i was feeling overwhelmed. so my primary audience is me here lmfao!)#dungeons and daddies #dungeons and daddies season two #dndads #dungeons and dads #dungeons and daddies s2 #dungeons and daddies season 2 #mine #just some thoughts #vent //#media analysis #kinda!

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