#plurality positivity

[auroragehenna]

#Did #osdd #osdd1a #osdd1b #plurality #not whump #dissociative system #actually dissociative #other specified dissociative disorder #dissociative identity disorder #otherwise specified dissociative disorder #dissociative alters #dissociative identities #osdd positivity #osdd1a positivity #osdd1b positivity #did positivity #plurality positivity #dissociative disorders positivity #alter positivity #alters positivity

[collectivewarmth]

one of the most important things about dissociative identity disorder and generally being a system that i wish people would understand is that it truly isn’t as cut and dry as it may seem for member count.

you’ll see people who say they have “six alters” and then immediately assume it’s six fully fleshed out equal individuals with no confusion or fuzziness regarding identity. that’s simply not true in a majority of cases, as i have seen.

most systems still VERY much deal with confusion regarding potential splits, go through dissociative episodes where they’re unsure of who they are, sometimes feel no attachment towards any identities, feel like they might have split and then suddenly that person is gone, unsure if alters they haven’t heard from often have gone dormant, not sure how to react when alters do come out of dormancy, etc.

it’s not a fun feeling and it’s genuinely unfair in certain situations to force systems to list every single alter to you with full certainty, as if it will never change. because it will. for so many different reasons, systems will grow, they will shrink, they will fuse, they will develop. you can’t expect the person with the dissociative disorder and lack of core identity to be able to keep up a perfected list of forever, it’s simply impossible. you may have alters who stick with you, but that doesn’t mean changes won’t happen.

and systems who may be reading this — please don’t feel bad. you are not a hassle, you are not a headache, and you are not an inconvenience for simply coping with something like this. it’s out of your control and the only thing you can do is continue to cope to find ways to help yourself retrain from these reactions. please don’t allow yourself to be harmed by others who don’t understand what you are going through. there are people who will accept and love you for who you are, all of you.

past, present, and future.

#did osdd #did system #plural system #sysblr #actually plural #system stuff #traumagenic #traumagenic system #system positivity #osdd #system community #dissociative system #osddid #actually did #actually dissociative #dissociative identity disorder

[thestarpletsystem]

Technically, if you’re plural, every project is a group project. Give your headmates credit

#actually did #endo safe #plural community #plural stuff #did osdd #plural system #traumagenic system #did system #pluralgang #actually plural #plural #plural culture is #plural positivity #plural pride #plurality #multiplicity #dissociative system #dissociative alters #actually dissociative #dissociative identities #dissociative identity disorder #osddid #didblr #sysblr #pro endo #endo friendly #anti endos dni

[moonpool-system]

Cringe culture is unfortunately not dead but we can kill it in major spaces if we all keep being ourselves authentically and unapologetically. What they call "cringe" is actually pretty punk. It's defiance. Keep being yourselves, you're ALLOWED to exist as you are.

#neurodivergent #queer #pluralgang #mogai #neuropunk #pluralpunk #anti cringe culture #positivity #solidarity #plural community #inclusive #prism #cringepunk

[tommyssupercoolblog]

a plural edit of the trans comic by @ vsemily

(flags used are the DID flag, the OSDD flag, and the general plural flag - edit: I have received multiple comments and am now aware of the history behind this version of the DID flag and won't use it anymore moving forward, however I don't plan to delete the post entirely.)

#plural positivity #plural pride #plural #plural system #multiplicity #multiple #endo safe #endo friendly #plural community #osdd system #osdd #did #did system #system #system stuff #my edits

[loveloveplural]

plurality is not defined by switching.

plurality is not defined by headcount.

plurality is not defined by an inner world.

plurality is not defined by distinct headmates.

plurality is not defined by communication.

plurality is not defined by getting along internally.

plurality is not defined by an origin.

plurality is defined by multiple consciousnesses/identities in one body. if you say you’re plural, we and many, many others will always believe you. no two plurals are the same, and no one can tell you what you are or aren’t 💞

#✨ — Cillian #🍰 — Vince #endo safe #sysmeds dni #pro endo #plural positivity #system positivity #pluralgang

[orange-orchard-system]

Someday the average experience for a system discovering their plurality is going to be joy and understanding. Someday it is going to be commonplace for systems to introduce themselves as systems. Someday it will be rare for a person to not know a single system in their community. Someday we are going to have so many role models that young plurals will be able to pick and choose their favorites for every field or hobby they express even a hint of interest in. Someday we are going to have grandparents reminiscing to their grandchildren about what it was like to be a system back in their day. Someday this community will look back and be astonished that we ever lived like we did now. Someday plurality will be so well-known it will be common knowledge and a casual topic. Someday systems will be able to talk about their plurality casually and without fear. Someday support will be given without hesitation, accomodations without hoops, and acceptance without question. Someday we are going to get that damn pride parade, those abstract murals on the walls, those colorful posters in the classrooms, that tacky jewelry with our symbols, those flags hung outside homes, and so many other shows of victory and progress, and plural pride week will be looked forward to by so, so many as a time of celebration and community.

The history we are creating today will be valued tomorrow. Thank you all for being part of this wonderful community; your presence alone makes a difference and is valued beyond what words can express. The future is plural!!!

#plurality #pluralgang #actuallyplural #plural system #bvie.txt #positivity #positivelyplural

[snowyapricity]

treat yourself with the kindness that you deserve!

#system #plural system #plurality #sysblr #plural #actually plural #system positivity #plural positivity #system memes #plural memes #plural community #endo friendly #endo safe #this idea has been bouncing around my head for so long i had to make it

[nyctocollective]

symptom holders don't have to be constantly, miserably affected by their symptoms (same goes for trauma holders and memories)

protectors don't have to be constantly on edge and hostile

caretakers don't have to constantly be gentle and patient

persecutors don't have to constantly hate & hurt

socializers can be bad at or avoid socializing

we are complex, we are not always the way our roles are viewed, we are also not JUST our roles in a system, we are allowed to be contradictory.

#system #actually did #cdid #did #did system #plural system #sysblr #did osdd #osdd #system positivity #system posting

[kaleidoscope-crew]

Issac 💚

You're welcome internet

#did system #systemhood #system humor #system jokes #system joy #did jokes #traumagenic system #trauma #plural system #system #did #plural stuff #plurality #alters #system stuff #dissociative identity disorder #plural things #plural memes #plural #plural community #actually plural #plural joy #plural positivity #kaleidoscope crew issac

[collectivewarmth]

please do not let online system spaces convince you that you need to label and have every single thing in your system figured out. that’s an extremely unrealistic goal and you’re not any sort of faker for not knowing every single thing.

just be.

#actually plural #did osdd #did system #plural system #sysblr #system stuff #osdd #system positivity #traumagenic #traumagenic system #plural stuff #plural community #system community

[lefluoritesys]

No, you're not.

(Made by me)

-host

#did #osdd system #osdd #did system #system #dissociative identity disorder #other specified dissociative disorder #system stuff #system things #did osdd #osdd 1a #osdd 1b #complex dissociative identity disorder #did positivity #osdd positivity #system positivity #plural positivity #system appreciation

[moonpool-system]

* Hate will be removed. This is for all plurals 👥

#plurality #plural #plural system #plural community #pluralgang #system positivity #plural pride #actually plural #didosdd #traumagenic #endogenic #prism subsystem #alterhuman

[thestarpletsystem]

Everybody gangster and anti-fakeclaiming until it’s them fakeclaiming themselves. Yeah. That’s what I thought. Be nicer to yourselves.

#actually did #plural community #plural stuff #plural system #pluralgang #traumagenic system #did osdd #endo safe #did system #multiplicity #dissociative system #dissociative alters #actually traumagenic #actually dissociative #actually plural #dissociative identities #dissociative identity disorder #plural positivity #plural pride #plurality #didblr #sysblr #system #pro endo #endo friendly #anti endos dni #traumagenic did #traumagenic #positivity

[schrodingerscollective]

#osdd system #did osdd #osdd positivity #osdd community #osdd #osdd 1b #system positivity #did memes #did positivity #osdd memes #did community #did system #osdd things #osddid #system memes #system community #system things #plural system #plural community #plural meme

[encodedkismet]

hey shout out to plurals with "frustrating" or "socially bad" traits.

plurals who seem indecisive, "hot and cold", disloyal, dishonest, etc. to others due to subtle switches, passive influence, being median, amnesia barriers, etc. between headmates with very different opinions, wants, and moods

plurals who have headmates with "scary" attributes/symptoms, like hallucinations, delusions, anger issues, hypersexuality, low/no empathy, selfishness, need for attention, etc. especially those afraid they're perpetuating the "evil alter" stereotype

plurals who never know who's fronting. especially those with memory barriers, those who struggle with feeling any sense(s) of personhood, and/or those who struggle to keep close bonds with people due to this

plurals who struggle with meltdowns, tantrums, outbursts, pathological demand avoidance, poor sense of social norms, and other tendencies/issues that make being social or just existing in public difficult

plurals with fluctuating sexualities and/or triggers that make it difficult to remain with a partner/partners (or to date in the first place)

plurals who infight in-system and have trouble making decisions without intense internal backlash

plurals who have trouble keeping self care (and may go out of the house dirty/disheveled) due to other mental illness or due to frequent fronters being unmotivated, forgetful, or having sensory issues or triggers that interfere with self care tasks

plurals whose "self defense" relies on people pleasing, avoiding stressors, getting overly defensive, or getting angrier than "reasonable"

i write a lot of this cause i need to hear it, and i figure others do too. you are loved, you are appreciated, you deserve to be a part of society, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be understood and given patience... you deserve to be able to create, love, heal, be respected, be treated like your own age, to lead, to have a voice, to feel safe.

#and even if none of that applies to you... you still deserve all that. i promise. #plural #plurality #endo safe #plural positivity #system #traumagenic