#plus the idea of viriginty do not get me started

[girlmuppet]

Im still irritated by something that happened the other day so i just wanna say that telling someone even jokingly that they should "just have sex already" is really rude.

No one is obligated to have sex. No one has to disclose their reasons for not having sex. Whether that it just hasnt happened or is a choice. Whether its based in trauma or pure indifference. Whether theyre ace or not. Whether theyre waiting til marriage or not. Its not your business. And its rude. Even as a joke.

Sex isnt obligation in anyones life and acting like it is is a damaging mindset.

#yes this was said to me #personal #ace #asexuality #tw // sex ment #tw // trauma ment #celibacy #plus the idea of viriginty do not get me started