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bamababygirl7 · 1 year

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#polyjamorous 😂🤣☠️#poly memes #memes are my coping mechanism #memes #funny #lol #polyamourous #polyam life #poly life #polyamorous #polyamory #bamababygirl7🥰💞

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angelasscribbles · 1 year

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Polyamory be like...

#polyam life #polyamory #polyam #poly relationship #polycule #polyamory for the win

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figs-and-cigs · 2 years

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#ethical non monogamy #polyam life #poly relationship #polyamorous #polyam dating #polyamory

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ladyhaven · 1 year

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#polyam life #polyam #poly memes #pansexual #polypan #relationships

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thefrogginbullfish · 2 years

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"Polyamorous"

💙❤️🖤

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mitch-the-simp · 2 years

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Kenickie x Fem!Reader x Danny SFW Hcs (Polycule)

So- I'm obsessed with Grease- Will still post Jojo content, just been so brain rot I had to post this- fjdfkljhdfjkfsd-

Anyway, hope u guys enjoy this :D

Before meeting you, they definitely had something going on. Maybe a bit of a closeted relationship in which only they knew about it and not even the rest of the T-Birds knew they were together. Their eye contact is too intense and the sexual tension is- off the charts all the time.

Pre-Dating

When both of them first saw you they would do random little comments about your figure and personality to each other. Of course, they both were drooling over you.

At first, they definitely fought over you. Not physically, but they definitely competed for your affection. Of course, it wasn't too serious at the beginning.

Danny would try to spoil you rotten, while Kenickie was more of a seducer.

Kenickie invites you over for some drinks with fake IDs and then drove you two to a perfect make-out spot. He's kind of broke because of the car he just bought, so he's definitely stingy about taking you out to eat, and he doesn't feel shame in asking you for money either.

Danny drives you around the city and watches the sunset with you. He's very romantic and extremely sweet with you. Will take you to the malt shop and dance with you until you two get tired. He's very playful with you and will be happy enough to just have some innocent fun with you.

Eventually, you come to love both of them for their assets and flaws. You love Danny for his childish playful nature and Kenickie for his tough front and his shy soft interior. What can you say, their charm is perfect.

There came a time when they both argued about which one of them you truly loved and they went to you to have it all cleared up. And well... truth be told, you didn't wanna choose one of them.

So when the boys went, "So do you like, him or me?" you simply responded with, "I like both of you. No, I love both of you. I wish I could be... both of you's girl."

At first, they're shocked and even a bit undignified by your response, until Kenickie goes, "Wait Zuke, we could... uhh... y'know... share her... We could... y'know... let her in the uh... our thing...." Of course, referring to their little secret relationship (which you'd likely picked up on already. Of course, they never told you about it because they didn't wanna out themselves like that).

Danny looks at him, he was about to say something but then he started to actually think about his request. "Well... if you wanna we could but, y'know... there's a risk you know..." He mumbled back.

Before Kenickie even had time to respond, you instantly agreed. Telling them that you'd join their relationship.

They looked a bit confused at first about you quickly accepting, which is when you told them you knew about them. You told them you didn't mind, that you'd known for some time now and that you'd gladly be their girl.

of course, they were overjoyed, this was new for the three of you, but it was definitely going to be an experience!

While dating

At first, it's a tiny bit awkward for them. They're not really used to "sharing a chick", as they call it, but it comes with its advantages.

You spoil them rotten with affection. To the point where Danny is red in the face and Kenickie is embarrassed.

They both definitely hold your hand between theirs.

They drive you around together in Greased Lightning and take you out to the malt shop to dance and enjoy some food.

The boys definitely know they're sharing you and are even shocked at the fact that it's happening, but they respect it either way.

The other T-birds see you as the girl of the gang. Kenickie and Danny are the leaders of the gang and you're like their mom friend. You treat them with love as if they were your own best friends.

Danny (beautifully) sings for both you and Kenickie, and you three dance together at the Malt shop's dance nights.

You bring them lunch and even made little accessories like ties and handkerchiefs for formal occasions.

You three definitely have little matching necklaces.

#polyam life #polyamorous #poly relationship #kenickie murdoch #grease 1978 #danny zuko x reader #danny x kenickie #kenickie x danny #danny zuko #kenickie x reader x danny #grease imagine #grease

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gaywifestyle · 1 year

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sometimes I forget how odd my polyamorous life is until I'm standing in the greeting card aisle trying to buy anniversary cards

"I still choose you and only you-" nope

"you're the only one I'd ever-" nope

"my life started when I met-" nope

"just the two of us-" nope

And then I just end up buying blanks because Hallmark doesn't make "I love you so much thank you for being in my life and loving me and the people who love me I hope you always feel free and safe ps your husband and I think you're gorgeous"

#polyam life #polyamory #polyam

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geekysteven · 1 year

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polycule goals

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dtwc · 4 months

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My partners and I like to wear blue, pink, green and red each as a prevailing colour in our outfits.

I feel like I need one more partner to who's colour is different to those and then we'll get giant mechs and fight baddies

#oh wait we're all just very gay #colour coded for your convenience #polyam life #polyamory #power rangers #super sentai

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bamababygirl7 · 1 year

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#queued #memes are my coping mechanism #memes #poly memes #polyam dating #polyam life #polyamorous #polyamory #bamababygirl7🥰💞

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angelasscribbles · 1 year

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Studies show that polyamorous relationships are healthy. I mean, Polyam people knew that all along.

#polyamorous #polyamory #polyam #polyam life #poly relationship

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figs-and-cigs · 8 months

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Saw a post recently that said if you're not a good communicator you shouldn't be in a poly relationship. My first thought was, "right communication is an absolute MUST!" But thinking about it some more, I think there needs to be more nuance to the idea. What makes good communication? And who's to say who should and shouldn't do polyamory?

I'm an easily overwhelmed, agoraphobic, introvert - and at times communication IS hard. I often seek alone time with very little interaction with the outside world.

I had a girlfriend who HATED texting and wanted lots of in person face to face time. That relationship slowly unravelled and disappeared - without communication. I'm a texter and couldn't fit my schedule or find the spoons to spend more time with her - and she never texted.

I had to explain to a new person I'm dating that I'm not good at asking a lot of questions - which can look like a lack of interest and a failure in gathering information for a good match. The reality is I figure others will tell me what they want me to know over time as they get comfortable, and if it's important it'll come up. Meanwhile, I'm an open book. I communicate with lengthy paragraphs and stories to paint a picture of my world. Which often gets others to share similarly - through text, and more importantly get to know me on a deep level. In person I'm spastic mess, I get emotional about everything and excitement or frustration can jumble words into an incoherent rant.

When I'm upset, I cry... And trying to help someone see my point of view doesn't work well between frustrated sobs I can't control. With my husband we make an effort to take a pause with intense discussions and let me write/text it out. And while he can be a stoic type during emotional discussions - giving him time to process is important. But my anxious attachment will precieve it as if I'm doing all the communication and he's got nothing!

I also unintentionally go into circles and rants as I process which can be overwhelming to the other party. I've been in relationships where we'd talk and talk and talk and talk until we'd exhaust each other and that talking might turn into yelling or unhealthy silent treatments. Neither of us could understand each other or find common ground.

To prevent this with my husband we set timers. 5/5/10. We each get 5 minutes to share our thoughts, and then we'll have 10 minutes to collaborate on a solution - or to bond or support each other.

I have a FWB who I rarely hear from. Maybe every few months when he's in town and able to set a date to meet. He's not the talkative type unless we're alone in a room together - and I realized I'm ok with this. I don't need constant contact to enjoy my time with him.

I think a huge part of healthy relationships is meeting people where they're at and accepting each other exactly as we are. The good, the bad, the messy, and perfectly whole. And it's beautiful and wonderful! But it's also complicated and hard. Not every relationship is going to last. But the experiences together are valuable nonetheless.

When our communication styles and skills are different, what do we do!? Ironically, we communicate about it, and even a "bad communicator" can find work arounds. I think it comes down to boundaries and trying to understand each other. And if it doesn't work out between both of you - it doesn't mean we can't find someone else who it can't work with.

And while we can find total acceptance of each other one would hope each of us is working on personal progress and improvements in areas that we struggle.

Just like there's no one right perfect way to be poly, I don't think there's only one right perfect way to communicate. We each need to find what works best for us and our individual relationships. And it's going to vary and be different almost every single time.

The end.

#polyamory #ethical non monogamy #polyamorous #poly relationship #polyamorous relationships #polyam dating #polyam #polyam life #polyamourous #nonmonogamy #communication #healthy relationships #polyamorous advice

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gornwen · 1 year

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For me, polyamory means picking up three cupcakes at the shop, instead of just one or two, so I can surprise each of my partners with treat.

#poly life #polyam life #everyday polyamory #polyamory #polyam adulthood #causual polyamory #gornwen's own

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dolly-macabre · 1 year

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No true marriage equality until I'm allowed to marry both of my partners tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️

#talking.dolly #marriage equality #polyam life #polyamourus pride