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Say no to that coffee invite, don’t respond to that old church friend who is reaching out “concerned” because of your new beliefs, set a boundary with how much of your story you share with those who won’t value it. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for your journey.
Cupiofray: being cupio- in a fray- way (or being fray- in a cupio- way), or experiencing a mix of the two, or being in the midway between both fray and cupio.
For example, desiring certain forms of relationship while not feeling attraction, then they feel attraction but loose it after an emotional or deep connection with a person; desiring a specific form of relationship even when they are not attracted anymore in the attraction associated with the type of relationship.
It includes mesi/grey areas, depending on the perspectives it could be allospec, aspec, pomospec, quoispec, etc. or simply cupiospec.
Went to a valentines day party. Within 20 minutes, I was sitting on the floor explaining the philosophy of critiquing anthropocentrism to someone while about 8 people stood in a circle around us listening.
About an hour later, after that conversation ended and other socialization had happened, exactly the same thing happened with the same person, but this time I was explaining Baudrillard and Danger Days: National Anthem, as well as the dd plot overall.