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limonsuggestions · a day ago
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choose to start healing now. yes it takes a long time, but today is a good day to start.
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your time isn’t wasted when you use it for your rest nor your recovery time
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thepoetryofascension · 2 days ago
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you deserve a season of kindness, so be patient with yourself and forgiving. make room for joys both big and small. remind yourself that you are worthy. move less from fear and more from love.
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slfcare · a month ago
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reasons people might be looking at you in public (that aren’t negative)
they like what you're wearing.
you look like someone they know.
they recognize a piece of clothing or accessory you’re wearing.
they think you’re beautiful or attractive.
they’re zoned out or bored and people-watching.
they recognize you from somewhere.
they’re hesitating to ask you something or give you a compliment.
they’ve seen you in that same place before.
you caught their eye.
you look like how they imagined a fictional character to look.
you remind them of something.
they’re admiring one of your visual qualities (smile, stance, hairstyle).
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mentalhealth---awareness · 9 months ago
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Remember that even good changes can make us feel depressed, because, as creatures of habit, we're resistant to change. That doesn't mean that it wasn't the right choice.
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mylittlepositivecorner · 7 months ago
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may you find people who happily listen while you gush about your obscure interests. may you find people you feel comfortable and safe enough around to be your authentic self
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styrke · a month ago
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you will come across people who won’t like you. who won’t find you funny, attractive or interesting. who won’t reciprocate your feelings or who’ll eventually lose feelings for you and end things. you’ll come across people who won’t agree with you. who aren’t interested in catching up. who have enough in the life they’re living.. without you. 
you’ll come across people who are simply not for you and that’s okay. what’s important is if they’re being respectful and decent towards you while being any of the aforementioned. are they honest? are they open and willing to communicate? are they speaking to you respectfully? do they honour your right to make your own decisions?
if yes, don’t villainise them. don’t shit talk them. don’t trash talk them. ‘cause they’re just different from you and/or not meant for you, and that’s okay. not everyone you come across are meant to stay.
if no, then honestly just turn around real quick and yeet the fuck outta there, dude!!! you got better things coming for you!!
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sailermoon · 2 months ago
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maybe no one has told you this today, and even if i’m just a stranger on the internet, it deserves saying: i am so, so proud of you. perhaps you’ve just gotten out of an incredibly tough situation, or maybe you’re still figuring out ways to navigate life even with all this heaviness inside you. but your life doesn’t end here. there is more to feel than pain. there is more to your existence than the hurt you’ve been through. i love you.
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honeyymistt · 7 months ago
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be proud of all of your small victories. you only snoozed your alarm twice today instead seven times. you changed out of pyjamas and into actual clothes. you found a new song that makes you want to dance. you smiled at a stranger and they smiled back. life doesn’t have to be all about getting first place every time or always being the best. a win is still a win, no matter how small.
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flutterbyfairy · 5 months ago
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i think sometimes it's so so so important to remember that you deserve love and you can give that love to yourself. that you don't need anyone else to give you permission to do something kind for yourself.
when you feel like everyone hates you and it all hurts, you can get yourself a snack and watch a show you love or draw or dance or read or sleep or listen to music or whatever it is that helps you feel relaxed and happy and you can enjoy it all by yourself. you can be gentle and let yourself feel whatever you feel.
treating yourself with kindness and doing something that makes you happy can be so revolutionary when you feel alone and distressed. we all need someone to look after us but sometimes that person can be ourself.
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1sweet · a month ago
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i’m trying to become a better person . . . .
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happy thanksgiving most especially to the people finding it hard to be thankful. to the people without family who see photos of happy families, to the people who feel lonely even if they’re not alone, to the people who have loved ones to miss. to everyone who needs a little extra love to get through today. hugs to you.
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thepoetryofascension · 3 months ago
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when you least expect it, the universe will deliver opportunities that exceed your expectations.
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slfcare · 12 days ago
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How something feels isn’t always how something is. Sometimes what feels like the end of the world is just the end of an era, and what feels impossible is just difficult, and what feels like betrayal is just miscommunication. One of the most important things you’ll learn in life is to not limit the world to your perception of it.
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mentalhealth---awareness · 10 months ago
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Yes, your boundaries are still necessary even with people who do nice things for you or are really nice to you. I know sometimes when someone is really kind to you or you feel like you don't deserve the kindness you get from someone, it makes you want to violate your own boundaries out of gratitude for them or because you're afraid it will make them treat you differently. But in the long-term, this is only more harmful. Your boundaries are not an act of unkindness and are always relevant. And people treating you with respect and kindness is the bare minimum you deserve from others. Don't let someone's kindness or favours or respectful treatment make you abandon your self-worth and your needs to please them.
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mylittlepositivecorner · 7 months ago
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it’s okay to be tired if even you didn’t do anything to “earn” it. when you’re tired, you’re tired. you don’t need to justify to other people what you “did” to feel run down
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styrke · 3 months ago
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instead of waiting around for that “some time in the future” to come around, maybe take advantage of the present you’re living in and do it. do the thing! whether it’s fixing your body clock or starting yoga or getting back into drawing or starting your own business. whatever your thing is, i’m here to tell you that there is no better time than the present to be present for your life.
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positivelyadhd · 7 months ago
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their mental health is not your responsibility. you are not their therapist, and it's not fair for them they treat you as such. it's lovely that you care and want to help but remember that it's okay to take a step back and put your own mental health first, that doesn't make you selfish. the only person who's mental health you are responsible for is your own and you are allowed to prioritize that.
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