one thing i cannot stand ab working in childcare is how ppl talk ab neurodivergent kids. one of my little buddies and also My Best Friend In The Entire World is aging out and moving to preschool and this is his last week and it is very very sad. but i also cannot stop thinking about how much easier things would be for him if people didnt treat cognitive differences like A Bad Thing. He’s 3 and he does not talk. he absolutely CAN talk. its just not a way of communicating that comes naturally to him, and he much prefers to tell you stuff other ways. i honestly think thats one of the coolest things about him, but so, SO many people treat this like a bad thing that needs to be corrected, a thing that he will grow out of and then he’ll get back on track and continue developing “normally”. and im not even MAD about it im just worried. and sad. that when you hang on to this hope of normalcy instead of just loving kids how they are, you are always always setting them up for failure. its fucking gut wrenching that i have to let this kid go into a system and world that will never meet him where he’s at. because at the end of the day that’s what it is. children who do not conform to the standard WILL be abused by the public school system. it is inevitable. there is no empathy and understanding bc we live in a world where people genuinely believe “bad kids” exist. i am so fucking enormously sad about him moving on but only 10% of that sadness is the fact that i am going to miss my friend. i hope life is kind to you little man.
I see you looking at my old posts.
I’ll kill you one day.
How do people physically prevent themselves from writing a million tags on thingws I don’t understand because I cannot do taht for myself.
no I will say it on main nar.um/ayo shippers are weird as hell why do you see this pair of characters who have stated how they feel like family multiple times met when maya was 17 and phoenix was 24 and then the added kick of this is the sister of Phoenix’s mentor and go I want them to be in a romantic relationship like what is wrong with you do you not see the insane amount of power imbalances and just weird vibes to this? like what are you missing what’s wrong with you
why can’t ppl just be nice 2 each other genuinely upset over this -__-
i’m still behind on the later seasons so maybe i’m missing something but why is so much of the fandom “claire and jack are siblings and alex literally does not exist”?
I wanna write fics for ppl again
im just so restless rn idk
okok i will be on discord sometimes but like um no i can feel a spiral coming on like i just have that vibe and i hope im wrong but ??? i don’t know how much i will be able to write & be active if i convince myself i do not exist again um. its totally fine if u want to unfollow while im not posting !! but because i do a lot of stuff from mobile unless u softblock to break the mutual i will assume our interactions are still ok to respond to & i can interact with you if i’m around.
there is a difference between being uncomfortable with being called queer/using the word queer and trying to tell everyone else in the community that we can’t even say the word that our ancestors used and found comfort in and formed this family around just bc you personally have had bad experiences with it
ok so i saw these comments on mu’s wiki page last month and at the time it pissed me the hell off because they had the fucking GALL to call mu emotionally manipulative by ???? telling her story as she remembers it ???? while acknowledging at the same time that she’s literally a bullied 16-year-old + call yuno emotionally manipulative and a criminal even though she Literally Did Not Commit A Crime and was most likely. yeah. but i just now realised that the last bit applies much fucking better to mahiru than it does to yuno
Sure! Can you be more specific though? Is this about the dbh discourse? I can tag that with ‘dbh discourse’ or something, if that helps?
(heavy shit in tags)
my title is serious. why are they different colours?? no one is giving me cool answers
I am now 100% vegetarian and ~80% vegan — which is truly something I did not think I’d be able to do a year ago.
probably unpopular opinion: moonpies are fucking DISGUSTING
So I realized today that my memory has gotten worse… we may have an issue
*screams in “i hate that cursed blue birb app”*