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rants-of-rae · 2 years
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my asexual self growing up in purity culture and not understanding why my friends were struggling not to have premarital sex:
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salted-twee · 1 year
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Iko AU!
Once again, I'll do my best to seperate these :)
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^ Various drawings of everyone in Kel/Iko's DreamWorld!!! ^ I made Kel/Iko, Salted created . the rest. Equality!
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^ These are a collection of concepts for everyones designs! ^ Because this is Kel's little brainthought world, we slightly switched up outfits to be more of an outdoor theme! :3 Hero went through every flavour before we settled on babygirl malewife barbeque.
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^ This is a small concept for Iko's White Space! ^ Mewo has been turned into the puppo!!!! The light is designed to look like a hook, instead of Omori's ................ rope.
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^ Sillyposting. ^ Imagine shipping suntan el em ay oh, couldn't be me.
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^ Full image! ^ More context! We elaborated a bit on our last post;
The Iko AU is an AU where Kel pushes Hero into the lake! Sunny is..... There. Iko is Kel, if you havn't noticed! Sunny takes Basils place. There's a lot of swapping of positions! :)
Iko likes his vowels.
We're slightly maybe potentially just a little bit considering making an Iko AU masterpost to describe more of what we have in mind for the AU, so I mean. if youre interested... you can ....... stick around ............
Post made by Twee~
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inkskinned · 10 months
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the thing is that they're so fascinated by sex, they love sex, they can't imagine a world without sex - they need sex to sell things, they need sex to be part of their personality, they need sex to prove their power - but they hate sex. they are disgusted by it.
sex is the only thing that holds their attention, and it is also the thing that can never be discussed directly.
you can't tell a child the normal names for parts of their body, that's sexual in nature, because the body isn't a body, it's a vessel of sex. it doesn't matter that it's been proven in studies (over and over) that kids need to know the names of their genitals; that they internalize sexual shame at a very young age and know it's 'dirty' to have a body; that it overwhelmingly protects children for them to have the correct words to communicate with. what matters is that they're sexual organs. what matters is that it freaks them out to think about kids having body parts - which only exist in the context of sex.
it's gross to talk about a period or how to check for cancer in a testicle or breast. that is nasty, illicit. there will be no pain meds for harsh medical procedures, just because they feature a cervix.
but they will put out an ad of you scantily-clad. you will sell their cars for them, because you have abs, a body. you will drip sex. you will ooze it, like a goo. like you were put on this planet to secrete wealth into their open palms.
they will hit you with that same palm. it will be disgusting that you like leather or leashes, but they will put their movie characters in leather and latex. it will be wrong of you to want sexual freedom, but they will mark their success in the number of people they bed.
they will crow that it's inappropriate for children so there will be no lessons on how to properly apply a condom, even to teens. it's teaching them the wrong things. no lessons on the diversity of sexual organ growth, none on how to obtain consent properly, none on how to recognize when you feel unsafe in your body. if you are a teenager, you have probably already been sexualized at some point in your life. you will have seen someone also-your-age who is splashed across a tv screen or a magazine or married to someone three times your age. you will watch people pull their hair into pigtails so they look like you. so that they can be sexy because of youth. one of the most common pornography searches involves newly-18 young women. girls. the words "barely legal," a hiss of glass sand over your skin.
barely legal. there are bills in place that will not allow people to feel safe in their own bodies. there are people working so hard to punish any person for having sex in a way that isn't god-fearing and submissive. heteronormative. the sex has to be at their feet, on your knees, your eyes wet. when was the first time you saw another person crying in pornography and thought - okay but for real. she looks super unhappy. later, when you are unhappy, you will close your eyes and ignore the feeling and act the role you have been taught to keep playing. they will punish the sex workers, remove the places they can practice their trade safely. they will then make casual jokes about how they sexually harass their nanny.
and they love sex but they hate that you're having sex. you need to have their ornamental, perfunctory, dispassionate sex. so you can't kiss your girlfriend in the bible belt because it is gross to have sex with someone of the same gender. so you can't get your tubes tied in new england because you might change your mind. so you can't admit you were sexually assaulted because real men don't get hurt, you should be grateful. you cannot handle your own body, you cannot handle the risks involved, let other people decide that for you. you aren't ready yet.
but they need you to have sex because you need to have kids. at 15, you are old enough to parent. you are not old enough to hear the word fuck too many times on television.
they are horrified by sex and they never stop talking about it, thinking about it, making everything unnecessarily preverted. the saying - a thief thinks everyone steals. they stand up at their podiums and they look out at the crowd and they sign a bill into place that makes sexwork even more unsafe and they stand up and smile and sign a bill that makes gender-affirming care illegal and they get up and they shrug their shoulders and write don't say gay and they get up, and they make the world about sex, but this horrible, plastic vision of it that they have. this wretched, emotionless thing that holds so much weight it's staggering. they put their whole spine behind it and they push and they say it's normal!
this horrible world they live in. disgusted and also obsessed.
#this shifts gender so much bc it actually affects everyone#yes it's a gendered phenomenon. i have written a LOT about how different genders experience it. that's for a different post.#writeblr#ps my comments about seeing someone cry -- this is not to shame any person#and on this blog we support workers.#at the same time it's a really hard experience to see someone that looks like you. clearly in agony. and have them forced to keep going.#when you're young it doesn't necessarily look like acting. it looks scary. and that's what this is about - the fact that teens#have likely already been exposed to that definition of things. because the internet exists#and without the context of healthy education. THAT is the image burned into their minds about what it looks like.#it's also just one of those personal nuanced biases -#at 19 i thought it was normal to be in pain. to cry. to not-like-it. that it should be perfunctory.#it was what i had seen.#and it didn't help that my religious upbringing was like . 'yeah that's what you get for premarital. but also for the reference#we do think you should never actually enjoy it lol'#so like the point im making is that ppl get exposed to that stuff without the context of something more tender#and assume .... 'oh. so it's fine i am not enjoying myself'. and i know they do because I DID.#he was my first boyfriend. how was i supposed to know any different#i didn't even have the mental wherewithal to realize im a lesbian . like THAT used to suffering.
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talkingforwellness · 6 months
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In many ways, premarital counseling and couples counseling are quite similar. Couples therapists tend to use the same process of identifying issues in your communication, missing one another’s needs, and other problems that create would distress in the relationship.
Do we need premarital counseling?
Are you and your partner considering marriage, recently engaged, or about to start your life together? Do either of you struggle with feelings of stress or worry about commitment? Have you had the chance to have difficult conversations, such as where to live, whether or not to have kids, or how to navigate family issues?
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Expectations regarding sex and intimacy
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althafrana · 10 months
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आज तलाक की संख्या बढ़ती जा रही है। इसका प्रमुख कारण दंपतियों के बीच उनकी रुचियों , आदतों और उनके चरित्रों के बारे में संवाद और समझ की कमी है . एक सफल वैवाहिक संबंध के लिए, एक पारदर्शी संचार महत्वपूर्ण है।विवाह पूर्व परामर्श में भाग लेने वाले जोड़ों ने तलाक की दर में कमी देखी है। विवाह पूर्व परामर्श एक प्रकार की चिकित्सा है जो जोड़ों को शादी जैसे दीर्घकालिक संबंधों के लिए तैयार करने में मदद करती है। यह उनके भविष्य को एक-दूसरे के साथ बेहतर बनाने में मदद करेगा। समय से पहले परामर्श मूल रूप से भागीदारों को भविष्य के लिए कई महत्वपूर्ण मामलों के बारे में चर्चा करने में मदद करता है। यह वित्त प्रबंधन, आपके साथी के सामने आने वाली चुनौतियों और समग्र भविष्य की योजना के बारे में हो सकता है।यह भागीदारों को एक दूसरे के साथ भविष्य के संघर्षों को रोकने और सामना करने के तरीके का विचार प्राप्त करने में मदद करेगा। इसके अलावा, साथी की पसंद और नापसंद, आदतें आदि। विवाह पूर्व परामर्श एक बातचीत पर आधारित है, जिसमें भागीदारों के बीच बात करना और स्वास्थ्य देखभाल प्रदाता द्वारा प्रदान किया गया परामर्श शामिल है।साथी की यौन रुचियां एक मुख्य कारक है जिस पर विवाह पूर्व परामर्श के दौरान चर्चा की जानी चाहिए। एक स्वास्थ्य देखभाल प्रदाता आपके साथी के साथ बातचीत को और अधिक आसान बनाने के लिए वहां होगा। आमतौर पर, पांच से सात सत्र होंगे। यह जोड़ों के अनुसार भिन्न हो सकता है। विवाह पूर्व परामर्श में भाग लेने वाले जोड़ों के पास एक खुशहाल और सफल वैवाहिक संबंध के लिए एक उच्च मौका है। राणा का मेडिकल हॉल जोड़ों को अपने साथी के साथ अपने सपनों के वैवाहिक जीवन को प्राप्त करने के लिए सबसे उपयोगी विवाह पूर्व परामर्श प्रदान करता है। विवाह पूर्व परामर्श के बारे में अधिक जानकारी के लिए डॉ राणा के मेडिकल हॉल से संपर्क करें।
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kawzpgehihx · 1 year
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betterlyf · 1 year
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Online Therapy And Premarital Counseling Are Now More Accessible
After a lifetime of togetherness, relationships often have to face the inevitable: separation. Premarital counseling is couples therapy that helps you and your partner mentally prepare for the next step. We help you identify issues you may struggle with in your relationship, and provide practical advice on how to deal with them effectively. Learn how this online treatment can help you by scheduling a time with a professional counselor today.
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ectoplasmer · 7 months
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need to kiss him until we’re both silly and delirious and giggling, until we’re both grabbing at each other’s shoulders and sides and arms, until we’re both half hazardously stumbling our way backwards onto the couch in a heap of laughter just so we can be as close as possible and we’re clumsily bumping foreheads and noses. need to kiss him until he can’t stop smiling and until we’re both stupidly lovestruck and just clinging to each other
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kdpinterior · 2 years
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murdrdocs · 1 month
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religious themes; allusions to sex; def incorrect religious interpertations MDNI 18+ inspo from @swiftiekisses's post w/ LUKE CASTELLAN
the pastors voice booms throughout the small church even without the microphone as assistance. his words, preachings about the dangers of premarital sex, run down luke's spine. they stick themselves there, forced to remain relevant and exist permanently within his body even if his mind dared to forget it.
because he knows his feeble, easily persuaded mind will forget it. when he's inevitably balls deep in you later this afternoon, when your parents have retired to the kitchen for his moms cooking, he would have already forgotten the elated cheers of agreement from the churchgoers. he knows that when you're running your hands through his hair, your pristinely manicured nails scratching his scalp, he would have forgotten what this mornings sermon was even about.
but you, you won't forget. you sit beside him now, staring straight ahead, supposedly unaffected by the way luke's knee touches yours. he can delude himself into believing you were pretending to not care about luke's presence next to his, but your attitude might be soaked in truth. you're in charge here, and luke knows it.
you're human personification of temptation, the rotten apple disguised as fresh and ripe and ready for the picking. you've dragged him under, deep into a pit of bittersweet arousal and warm insides that he never ever wants to leave.
the sweetness of your perfume wafts towards luke's nose as you clap to what the pastor has said. his words must have been important, they must have been grandiose, because his mother is standing next to him and shouting "amen!". but luke can only focus on the way you turn your head and smile at him, a sweet grin that is the image of innocence to outsiders.
but luke knows your smile to be anything but. you knows you to be anything but. and he can tell himself lies all he wants to, but at the end of the day, when judgement comes, he knows that his actions have damned him. the ones he chose to participate in. he has chosen to continuously sheathe himself into your pretty pussy. he has chosen to lay before the altar of your thighs and give offerings. he has chosen to take what his false god has given him, lessons and signs that cloud his mind instead of clear it.
the worst part is, he wouldn't have it any other way.
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thebrandondowning · 2 years
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NIGHT OF AGONY (2022), 6" x 9 ½"
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