#pro kink

[carbonatedeverclear]

being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.

#pro kink #proship #prokink

[craycraybluejay]

You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?

Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.

Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.

Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.

The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.

Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)

Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"

Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"

Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"

Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.

Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.

You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.

You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.

Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.

And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.

#important #psa #hard kink #nsft topic #pro para #pro kink #the 'dom shortage' #obv there are other factors but this is just a connection I'm pointing out #purity culture #purity wank #puritans #sex and sexuality #tw r@pe mention #p3d0 panic/the trend of calling everyone you don't like a p43d0phi13 despite that that's as i said before #NOT the same thing as csa or ANYTHING like that and simply an experienced attraction #attraction is not r@pe; foot fetishists r not going to randomly hump ur foot and same w ever other kink #thought crime #puritanism #the purity culture wave #discourse #except if you disagree pls block me this is a pro kink blog forever and ever #thoughts are thoughts #anti para people scare me bc if u think someone cant help but have sex with someone/something theyre attracted to... #what EXACTLY are you going to do if someone romantically rejects you???????????? #turning the argument around here. if this is your belief then i do not trust you around me and my loved ones #because if attraction is action then i am scared for the people you are attracted to #because it isn't. and the fact that you think it is says more about you than anyone you hate for their attractions

[gorgeousgreymatter-x]

I'm not a furry and I am indifferently supportive of furries doing their thing or whatever but the funniest thing about so many of those chronically online little gen z sex puritans is the fact that if those furries didn't exist or disappeared, none of you little shits would ever get to use the internet again because our tech industry would crumble lmao

#anti anti #is this a furry defense post lmao i guess #internet discourse #sex positive #pro kink

[sals-sonic]

👉 There's nothing wrong with enjoying any type of fiction for kink or self-pleasuring reasons.

👉 There's nothing wrong in writing or drawing media blatantly portraying sexuality.

👉 Creating art simply for kink or self-pleasure doesn't make the fiction any less valid or "less off".

👉 You don't need to constantly pair kink with other more "refined themes" to make it "acceptable" in your writing/drawing.

👉 "PWP", aka "Porn Without Plot" or "Plot? What Plot?", is still just as valid as other types of writing.

👉 To think that only "safe" and "unproblematic" kinks are allowed to be written or drawn is extremely kink negative and conservative.

👉 Taboo kinks and paraphilias should have the right to be explored in fiction the same way that "non-problematic" kinks are. Yes, even if it's only for self-pleasure.

👉 There's nothing wrong in posting writings or drawings containing nothing but kink on the Internet. You don't need to keep it to yourself. If it's tagged, there should be no issue if people want to avoid it.

#pro kink #profic #proship #proship please interact #pro para #proship positivity #pro fiction #anti censorship #my post

[pojkflata]

I am sorry but this tendency of hypervigilantly assuming every kinky person will violate you in some way if you happen to tick one of their boxes is beginning to approach "I don't mind gay people as long as they don't hit on ME ;)" territory with a dash of white woman human trafficking posting. "haha this is an r/AITA post waiting to happen" r/AITA is notorious for fake stories you tool

I can assure you that the stranger in public with a foot fetish who happens to see you barefoot probably treats it as if you had popped a no-cause boner - pretending it never happened for the comfort of both parties

#triple d.txt #okay to reblog #pro kink

[xx-slug-xx]

“Your fantasies equal your real life desires”

I’m fucking asexual? I have no desire to do anything I fantasize about irl. Same with a shit ton of other people who are aspec?

Tbh, I think it’s just queerphobic, specifically aphobic but other shit too, to say “your fantasies are what you want irl.

It’s not just aspecs either. I know a fuck ton of lesbians who fantasize about fictional men. They are not any less lesbians because of their fantasies though.

I could go on with more about how it’s a stupid argument, and even how it’s ableist in certain contexts, but I’ll save that for other posts lmao

#aspec #proship #profic #anti anti #profiction #anti censorship #anti harassment #fandom discourse #kink positive #pro kink #ace discourse

[missbaphomet]

Why do radfems have this mindset that if they screech loudly enough at submissive kinky women they'll be like "oh you're right this IS abuse and not something I deliberately asked for and negotiated with my partner beforehand with a strict outline of what is and isn't ok AND with a single word either one of us can make it all stop instantly, thank you so much, you ovarian crusader"? If someone were to interrupt my scene I'd be fucking pissed, especially if it was for some fucking political agenda.

#baph bleats #radfem cope #pro kink #kink education #kink advocacy

[dead-pidoves-dirt-takes]

*pssst*

Pass it on, you don't need to have trauma to be allowed to engage in super taboo kink scenes or fiction.

The burden and onus of proof that something is the direct cause of harm is dependant on the person who believes that it is harmful.

Kink is a healthy expression of sexuality, and fiction is one of the safest ways to indulge in kink. Have fun, drink water and keep it peachy!

#discourse #proship #pro kink #mod birdy 🪶

[catgirl-catboy]

"Murder is okay to glorify because nobody is getting off on it."

You sweet summer child. Everything is somebodies kink, write that down. I've met many people that enjoy gore and murder in a sexual way (and most of them were lovely people, but not relevant)

and I think its very telling that the worst thing you can fathom is somebody getting off to shit you hate, and not, you know, a real person being hurt.

#fandomless post #idk how to tag this #proship #anti anti #pro ship #proshipper #pro fiction #profic #profiction #proshipping #pro kink #kink positive #shipcourse

[profic-orbot]

🔴    I'm so tired with people who act like sex is evil and refusing to write any nsfw is better for ace people. It is so patronizing.

🔴    Asexuality, like many things, is a spectrum, and also not every ace person is sex repulsed. We occasionally struggle with it, but that is our problem, it doesn't mean other people need to stop being sexual or kinky.

🔴    Stop invoking asexual people as a shield for your hatred of kinks, fetishes, and nsfw works!! Lack of sexual attraction DOESN'T MEAN that you cannot write and draw and create sexy media!

🔴    Honestly it would be like claiming that a gay man could never write about a straight couple. That is a ridiculous logic to follow, blatantly untrue, and it causes you to dehumanize people into stick on labels, rather than complex individuals.

#profic!orbot #pro kink #asexuality #profic #proship #kinky aces

[the-blanket-fort]

psa

some age regressors are also adult babies

some age regressors are also ageplayers

some age regressors are also pet players

some age regressors are also diaper lovers

some age regressors are also cg/l

some age regressors are also babyfurs

some age regressors are also kinky

some age regressors are also sexual

You are perfect how you are. Whether we are little, middle, or big at a certain moment, we all have diverse interests and lives that include many identities. We are all healing, loving, learning, and living to our own needs. We are all complex, and our experiences are unique. Whatever you do in the appropriate space is your business, and should be respected and honored for its importance to you.

Age regressors are not monolithic, we are all different, all valid, and all loved.

#big bleats #source not for littles #adult subject matter #age regression #agere #little space #proship #profic #anti harassment #petre #pro kink #mental health #sex positivity #the birds and the bees #sex ed

[feralsapientia]

I know there's a lot of people following this account whose kinks come from traumatic events, either when you were young or when you grew up.

I wanted to remind yall that none of us are evil for coping with our trauma in this way. We are not evil for getting turned on by certain situations. As long as everything we do doesn't hurt anyone and it's consensual we do NOT owe anyone anything. You don't have to feel guilty for it.

Doms who have a cnc kink and get off on the thought of raping someone? Not evil. Ageres who enjoy fantasizing about older people taking advantage of them? Not disgusting. Sadomasochists that enjoy causing or receiving harm? Not degenerates.

Hell, even if your kink doesn't come from trauma, unless you harm someone for real without their consent, no one has the right to judge you. Thought crime doesn't exist.

#nsft concept #anti censorship #anti purity culture #anti puritan #nsft trans #queer nsft #agepl@y #nsft agere #bd/sm cnc #cnc k!nk #cnc dom #cnc doll #r@pe kink #pro kink #coping mechanism #thought crime #thought crime doesn't exist

[thefollow-spot]

Kink at pride!

#memes that would make JRR Tolkien roll in his grave #kink at pride #queer pride #kink positive #pride month #pride flag #pro kink #queer history #queer community #queer #lord of the rings #two towers

[cosmileech]

there is a huge debate on Twitter where someone suddenly started caring about sexualizing religious figures (nuns in this case) and that not even trauma is an excuse to do this

and you guessed it, the post gathered a ton of likes, puriteens agreeing that it’s bad, radfems agreeing with them and it let Nazis flock to the post who called queer people bad things (and OP didn’t care, they just “wanted to make a statement”)

The thing is though, I agree that sexualizing people who don’t want to be sexualized is bad. However:

no one was talking about irl nuns, people sexualize the concept of putting a character into a costume and they do this definitely not because they hate Christianity

Nuns often don’t become nuns out of free will, there are often personal things involved that force women into becoming chaste and modest

This forced chastity and modestity religion imposes on women is already objectification

funnily enough sex and divinity are more connected than these people believe

the worst isn’t someone drawing a sexy nun but the church demonizing BIPOC, abusing, children and women, covering up said abuse, erasing the language to help victims, and tbh they also largely fund and or promote anti LGBTQ+ legislations.

The fact that this is all overlooked for the sake of protecting the boundaries of entirely fake characters and having antis (both young and old) agree or play dumb when you tell them that THESE are bigger issues makes me mad. Like there wasn’t a single real nun who objected, they were all mad about the boundaries of people that weren’t involved at all

also assuming that women choose to become nuns because they don’t want to be sexualized is already the core belief of radical feminists. So much for progressiveness!

and my god so many people agree that trauma victims are also less worth than the chastity of a fake nun

Honestly, the sexualization of nuns is so funny to me because... I mean, why do they care? Promise you guys that most nuns aren't scrolling twitter r34 and getting personally offended by Alastor in religious cloaks. And also, nuns aren't going to have sex anyway, so the kink stays completely in fiction whether that's writing or roleplay.

#proship #proshipping #pro fiction #anti anti #ship discourse #proship discourse #pro kink #kink positive #kink discussion #kink discourse