also worth noting that "abusive" doesn't actually mean "irredeemable" either.
there's a lot of people that have done things in the past that were bad, because they weren't taught any better, or they were in an overall toxic situation where EVERYONE was shitty (like a cult), or they were just at an especially low point and hurt others for it.
you don't have to forgive them. you don't have to ever speak to them again. you can be angry with them until you die if you want.
but society cannot function if we don't allow them to move on. to change their behavior and fuck off somewhere else and build meaningful relationships without bothering you again. we need a path for people to change, or nothing ever will.
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how do you become tumblr famous
I hear the Blogger's Guild is recruiting... Not a bad way to get tumblr famous... if you've got the stones for it
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losing my entire mind at this hot take in an aggresisvely R+ Facebook trainer's post. comment section is full of people asking for sources and the poster claiming the "prey drive myth" has been debunked same as alpha theory. I can't comment because I'm not in the group but oh my god.
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(unfinished)
not something id usually post but i just realized i could post things i wouldnt normally now that ive discovered the art of (forgetting about it and deleting in the morning) so yeah. this was supposed to be a companion piece to that draki drawing i did the other day but i started getting rlly anxious about not matching the brush size w the other one so here we are lol
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Courtney's video of Amanda and Angela "going live" really unlocked in my brain that Amanda and Angela are most likely consistently doing bits whenever they're around each other, and are just having too much of a blast + egging each other on to bother recording any of it, much less posting it.
Which, excellent for them, I fully approve, but deeply tragic for me, a person who would gladly watch hours of them just dicking around.
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skywarp (ft. starscream assaulting his waterline). if u guys like this i might finish and color it 😳
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