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whatsanameanyway · 5 months

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MAJOR SPOILERS

TIMMMY BEAT THE CURSE LETS GO

#traffic smp spoilers #secret life spoilers #I KNEW HE COULD DO IT #I WAS ROOTING FOR HIM FROM DAY ONE #HES GONNA WIN THIS SERIES SO HARD I AM TELLING YOU #NJEFLVDHNJVBCKDV #BHHBIHFODUSJVDOIVJ #THE CANARY MADE IT OUT OF THE COAL MINE #I WAS A TIM WINNER TRUTHER THE WHOLE TIME I CALLED IT #CHERRI CALLED ME DELUSIONAL #LOOK WHOS RIGHT NOW #WOOOOOOOOO #MY MAN BEAT THE ALLEGATIONS I AM SO PROUD #THANK YOU XXXXXX FOR DYING I LOVE YOU

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bittersweetresilience · 4 months

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for the ship ask game...

feligami 🦚🐉

HI SELKIE 💘💓💗 let’s go into my room and sit on my bed. i have snacks 🥰

What made you ship it?

i didn’t ship feligami until very recently, since i have strong feelings about arocoded félix, but while i was making amvs i saw how many times they held hands and my heart was swayed.

What are your favorite things about the ship?

i don’t ship it enough to have an answer for this question 🤣 get nina in here. nina has essays on essays about queerness and abuse recovery. i suppose my answer is the hand holding.

Is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship?

i have strong feelings about this one too. they would not have kids ‼️ they would not get married ‼️ down with the nuclear family ‼️

(ship ask game)

#miraculous ladybug #🦭#🌃#maybe i will ramble about why i think félix is arocoded eventually #although i think part of it is the level to which i associate myself with him i mean i get physical pain whenever i think about aus where #he’s replaced in adrien’s life because i feel his emotions so viscerally they’re entangled with mine #BUT i think the idea has narrative merit on its own i mean #just another way in which you’re called a monster not human not feeling things like everyone else #seemingly doomed to be alone because you don’t relate to other people in the right way #your cousin chooses love over you and you just can’t understand you know?#and possibly even félix’s inability to love being a command from his father #the bunny incident i mean #paralleling trauma based aromanticism and the complicated feelings of not knowing whether you were always this way or it was done to you #and how to proceed and whether you’re valid and whether there’s even such a thing as being fixed #but i also believe in aroace amélie which means we can draw another parallel between them and he can be comfortable and proud because of he #*her #and you could make an argument for aro adrien too but i’m getting way off track #whoops i rambled so much LOVE YOU SELKIE

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alchemiclee · 6 months

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I hate that whenever there's a gay ship, people immediately het-ify it. people are so obsessed with making one the "man" and one the "woman" when that's completely unnecessary, because they are both the man or the woman. It's extremely annoying. these people will completely mischaracterize a character to fit into their stupid little het roles they force on them.

for example, you don't need to make one man the "wife" and feminized him to the extreme and fit him in a traditional "woman" role so the other man can be the big strong masculine manly man. they can both be masculine or both be feminine or both be both at the same time! they do NOT need to be gendered opposites to fit het roles. crazy, I know! it's like no one considers it a possibility! or sees how good it can be to have them be equals without gendered nonsense.

when there's a gay relationship, you have the perfect opportunity for the couple to stand on equal ground. they get to be equals who are just as strong and just as soft as each other. there's no faulty power dynamics where one is above the other (because let's face it, society unfortunately deems masculinity > femininity). one doesn't need to protect the other. they can protect themsleves, fight aide by side as equals. one doesn't do all the housework. they share that duty equally. one isn't weak and pretty, while they other strong and manly. they both are strong and pretty, or masculine and weak at the same time.

equal relationships are amazing and need to be explored more and appreciated. there can be more understanding and working together. i'm bad at explaining what I mean, but I prefer these equal relationships over forcing them into opposite roles to mirror het relationships, which are usually extremely unbalanced and unequal. especially because these not het relationships! so why must they look like one? they can and should look different! so why does literally every shipper and writer out there make them so het coded?

I don't understand why people do this. do they actually believe all romantic relationships must mimic het ones to exist and thrive and purposely force that on them? or have they genuinely just not fathamed that they can be different and dont need to follow the expected het standards?

I wonder, it feels like no one actually knows how non-het relationships are meant to be and how they could work, since het ones are always forced down our throats since birth. it becomes The Standard that everyone thinks they must follow. maybe it's all people know since they don't see any other possibilities. their preferred dynamics for their ships are what we are taught and nothing different, because they don't know it can be different. i also think people might be obsessed with that whole "opposites attract" trope. but that opposite doesn't have to be the traditional het-fueld feminine vs masculine or wife vs husband characteristics. it can be other personality things like one is loud and one is quiet, one is dumb and one is overly smart, one is rich and one poor, etc. it doesn't have to be masculine vs feminine!

BREAK OUT OF THE HET NORMS!!!!! TEAR DOWN HETERONORMATIVITY!!!!!!!!! FREE THE GAYS

(disclaimer, not saying masculine vs feminine ships are all bad/shouldn't be done ever. but it doesn't need to be 100% of the time either 😅 can't think of one ship people dont do this with lol)

#cant even say its only het shippers because lgbt shippers do it too #i enjoy the ships i see more as equals. like cynonari and xingyue for example #first ones that came to mine lol #everyone feminizes the shit out of nari calling him cynos wide constantly but they're both strong leader types with a soft side #wife*#THEYRE SO EQUAL???? AND THAT MAKES THEIR RELATIONSHIP SO STRONG????#then xingyue is funny because ive seen people frame BOTH yingxing and dan feng as the “wife” at different times. proof theyre equals!#maybe not proof lmao but you cant say the arrogant craftsman and proud dragon arent equals who get along super well #they arent het opposites at all imo. not even close #i just really enjoy balanced equals over unbalanced opposites. because the feminine is always seen as lesser and weaker than the masculine #and that always bothers me a lot lmao #im probably the minority here. im giving benefit of the doubt that people just never thought about it and do what theyre taught #but if everyone actually orefers this and its on purpose.......please reconsider 🤣#prefers*#words #lee rambles #gay #lgbtq #gay ships #one relationship i felt was presented as equals (from best of my memory) was korrasami #they balance each other out and i see them as equals. one doesn't lead over the other. they're both leaders in their own ways. and carers #one reason i dont date is because most people are ovsessed with this unbalance opposite gender roles thing and i cant stand it lmao #obsessed* am tired of tag typos i miss until after i hit enter hfhfhdhdjdjsjs #this was long and rambly but i suddenly had many feelings and needed to say them #*

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def-not-kaz-brekker · 7 months

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*Me when I was young and naive, being a gryffindor and holding a Harry Potter book and waving my wand that lit up when I shook it*: omg I love jk Rowling so much I wanna be like her when ur grow up—

*Me now, gay and trans, opening ao3 to read another wolfstar fanfic on my phone after reading “the sun and the star” and another kanej fic, being a slytherin even tho on the test it said ravenclaw, smirking deviously*: oh she-who-must-not-be-named would hate me so much

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8rujaa · 12 days

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my therapist really saved me….

#tw abuse // tw sa #i can’t sleep bc i keep thinking about this.#like i probably would’ve not been here if it weren’t for her #i started seeing her january of 2023… my life has changed entirely since then and she was definitely the one who got the ball rolling #literally so much has changed since then and it’s all because of her #i was so dissociated during our first few sessions #thanks to her i was able to get diagnosed and medicated for adhd. i was able to realize i was in an abusive situation and plan a way out #i was able to focus on myself and my healing and she’s helped me reframe so much of my negative thinking #i was able to process a lot of emotions and become a better version of myself with each session #she’s truly incredible.#i remember the first comment she made about the relationship had been ‘’so it’s like there’s an imbalance of control in the relationship’’#i had put my partners on such a high pedestal that i had no idea they could be doing anything wrong #and i asked her what she meant and she said ‘from what you’ve been describing it’s sounds like a strict parents and child type of dynamic’#she told me they didn’t need to understand why i wanted to leave and they didn’t need to make that decision. if that’s what was going to be #best for me the only thing i could do is let them know my reasoning and simply leave. i didn’t need their permission.’’#i remember being so confused at that realization bc like… i had been putting their emotions over mine the whole time i had forgotten simply #doing what’s best for me was an option… l #ever since then i’ve been putting myself first and it’s been a steady uphill from rock bottom… i’ve made an incredible amount of progress #when i first started with her getting out of bed and walking to the kitchen was incredibly difficult and took all my strength.#yesterday i conquered a mountain!!!!!!! i hiked all the way to the top!!!!! :D #me a year ago thought it was going to take me years and years to recover. as soon as i left i made leaps of progress #im incredibly proud of myself and grateful for her. and my reiki lady she’s also been a great great help.#the silver lining is i realized who really matters. and the relationships i cared about deepened.#my sweet virgo friend was the one who was always like ‘THATS A GROWN ASS MAN WHO CANT UNDERSTAND BASIC CONSENT???’#LMFAO i would be like ‘but he has trauma and bla bla bla’ she looked me dead in the eyes and said #’jess you said with your last boyfriend that you would never make excuses for a man who was hurting you again. stop defending him.’#she’s really a gem and i treasure her with my life. i hope she knows i love her. she’s family at this point #she’s also literally saved my life before (like deadass called 911 for help)#im glad i had the support system i had. that was a rough situation with so many layers and im glad i got through it #my 22nd year of life was by far the worst of my life and i don’t ever want to put myself in that situation again. im glad i learned.

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odysseys-blood · 5 months

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the zionist idea of absolutely needing to have a "home country" to "return" to has always baffled me as a black person.

#cliffnotes/.txt #cause idk where my ancestors r from #likely never will #but im not stealing someone elses home to make it mine when i was never there in the first place #this is also why i never call myself african american #that term just doesnt fit me #bc i dont have any connection to africa. im just black #african american to me has always meant that you have closer ties to africa- immigrating yourself or being like 2nd-3rd even 4th gen #you know where you're from basically #a lot of us dont have that but we're not gonna kill somebody else over it #we've just kinda accepted we're stuck here and have to tough it out w/ each other yknow #also how can they be proud of israel #the world is only helping you so that they can remove jewish ppl from their own populations #you're proud of being outcast?

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lolly-dolli · 7 months

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On the one hand I genuinely wish more ND representation were human and think the conversation about how a majority of neurodivergent-coded characters are non-human is one worth having... on the other no fictional character will ever be more Autism Creature than this motherfucker

#i love you ax thank you for making my weird ass feel cool and seen as a kid #animorphs #animorphs memes #actually autistic #YOU FUCKING LOOK THIS BOY IN THE EYES (4) AND THEN IN MINE (2) AND TELL ME HE WOULDN'T FUCKING LOVE CHEWY STIMS #stay tuned for my mid-2000s fanfic called “The Diagnosis” in which Marco shows Ax a youtube poop #it's okay. now if anyone stares Rachel will yell “HE'S STIMMING ASSHOLE” and they'll apologize #Ax is probably fascinated that he's being assessed for a rare human developmental condition #his brother would be so proud...not just a war hero but the first Andalite ever to be diagnosed with autism as well #no but in all seriousness you can pry this one from my cold dead hands

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the-mushroom-faerie · 3 months

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what do writing fic and playing scrabble have in common?

both make you question whether or not you actually Know Words

#just mentally rolodexing through synonyms because the only word you can think of is Obviously Not Right #im so tired but im not sleepy so i cant take a nap #and also tumblr is using me to pick on my friend so thats fun #i cant scroll up on mine and sticks dms and theres this one post of hers that refuses to show up Anywhere #she tries to send it directly it doesnt go through #i check her blog its Not There #its not on my dash i got a blank notification for it #makes zero sense and im gonna cry about it #on a more positive note though i got a REALLY GOOD title for my mute john fic #it is now officially called Louder Than Words and im so so so proud of that title

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likeafairytale · 7 months

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#starts with pride, ends with lust (i ain't making the rule they do)

#calypso le fey #calypso x aeron #calron #mine #ic #this totally happened #cally is definitively too pride #and aeron is all kind of sins lmao #i never remember how she calls him #my lord or your grace #cally looks so offended like 'how dare you tellingg me i'm proud when i am indeed proud???'#and he looks like he'll gladly corrupt her #i really love them a lot #also rhe two girls next to cally look out for drama #and i can't blame them lmao

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worstloki · 2 years

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Thor, known hero: You're on speaker so behave.

Loki, known villain: or what, you'll spank me?

Steve: >.>

Tony: >.>

Natasha: >.>

Bruce: >.>

Clint: >.>

#Loki and Thor being familiar can be something so beloved #''Loki. Loki. Loki. Loki.'' ''WHAT'' ''Amora did a thing and now all my limbs tingle weird'' ''Ugh. ok. did you try lavender?'' ''thank u''#Tony: hey Thor let me see your phone for a second--#Thor: [clutching it to his chest] you will not use it for information. Loki has likely warded his phone. maybe mine too i don't know #Tony: oh come on #Loki and Thor meeting up and doing stuff when not facing each other in battle is so <3 #Thor and Loki joke flirting and all the Avengers losing it #Loki showing up at Thor's place like hello brother do u have any coloured pins laying around #Thor and Loki video calling each other the day after a battle when they're both still healing from injuries they gave each other #clint gritting his teeth like r u for real texting loki right now. and thor not paying attention is like ya did u want to ask him something #Natasha: you realize he could be using you for information? he could be trying to figure out the layout of the building or the team dynamic #Thor: what? Loki isn't like that.#Natasha: he's an enemy #Thor: he really doesn't need me to find out those sorts of things #Bruce like i can't believe you broke your brothers arm and he kept fighting and Thor is like haha yeah i am proud of him <3 #Steve: you need to stop referring to the tower as our lair #Thor: but--#Steve: it's not a lair that makes it sound like we're the bad guys here #Thor: :/#Steve: Loki put you up to this didn't he #Thor: no but he did suggest I start calling you my master and I am now considering it #Loki absolutely knows the Avengers find it weird when Thor and he are casual so he starts teasing more often #sometimes the Avengers are too embarrassed to look him in the eyes when the next fight comes #Thor and Loki being on opposite sides but also setting time aside to hang out and try and mend their relationship is so >>>

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magentagalaxies · 4 days

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i haven't rewatched other girls in a while bc it was made during a rough time for my mental health which makes it difficult to revisit without having that be an unignorable part of it for me but i'm currently editing the video essay i'm doing for my final in one of my college courses and i'm using a montage of clips from other girls in it and rn i'm just sitting here like damn i really did that!!! like yeah i was going through the most major manic-depressive episode of my life and not coping with it well at all, but also like damn between the ages of 16 and 20 i wrote and composed a two hour musical comedy with a dozen original songs (despite never having written music before), directed a production of it at the beginning of my sophomore year of college and put it out into the world as something people can watch. that's a huge accomplishment, and the fact that i was able to do that while getting through my own mental health struggle is actually super impressive

i really hope i get to a point where i can revisit other girls as its own piece of art without dwelling on my own mental health struggles behind the scenes (especially bc i'm in such a better place rn and i probably wouldn't have grown as much as i have without those struggles) but i'm so proud of my past self for being able to put it all together. and even if it didn't reach hundreds of thousands of views, it was able to reach some people who really connected with it

btw here's the video of it if any of my followers are interested and haven't seen it:

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(i really hope i can get subtitles for the whole thing eventually bc the audio isn't always clear, but i do still have the script if people want to follow along with that)

#also there are many things i would change with the plot and structure and production if i were to do it again #i don't have any plans to stage the musical again BUT i may revisit the story in another medium #also the aubrey in other girls is NOT the same aubrey from my character monologues even tho they share a name/pronouns/aesthetic #(irl my aubrey sketch character evolved from the musical character bc i wanted to do an aubrey project after other girls was done #but then i realized i didn't want to have to share the same continuity and the two characters became very different)#in-universe tho i've actually found a way to retcon this which i find very funny #basically the ''real'' aubrey (the sketch character i play) is actually cousins with the ''aubrey'' from other girls #who is 5 years younger than the real aubrey and transfemme #and basically after aubrey's cousin came out and decided to choose a new name she named herself aubrey aubergine #and the real aubrey is just like ''ok i'm proud of you but also literally pick any other name that one's mine''#so aubrey's cousin (and the ''aubrey'' from other girls) eventually changed her name to zendra #so if i end up revisiting the story of other girls again the character is gonna be called zendra i just can't change the youtube production #i do have an aubrey monologue all about aubrey's cousin who stole zir name lmao i find this retcon very funny #Youtube

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chronicowboy · 1 year

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what if it doesn't end well by chloe moriondo is such a buck coded buddie song

#sami rambles #CRAZY #another year being your best friend feels like you always knew me #and im so proud to call you mine feels like i know you from another life #but what if it doesnt end well would you still stay #what if i fuck it up like i always do and my shit gets in the way #what if it doesn end well would we still be fine?#hen the world is over and we go under #Would you still be mine?

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sunderedazem · 3 months

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Corrain (Gealai) de Fortemps, Warrior of Light, Age 16

(aka - my WoL's outfit when he first joins the Scions! Ignore the background, I was just taking screencaps in Ishgard - he doesn't get here until the month of his 18th nameday.)

#wolposting #ffxiv wol #ffxiv #ffxiv oc #ffxiv screenshots #when your WoL's a teenager-in-hiding - surely the innocent look is just because he's a conjurer.#no ignore the giant ninja knives in his pockets. that's a healer and therefore a babyfaced angel surely this guy is an adult #wait what do you mean he's an adult *by technicality* who allowed this- oh twelve we let him fight like SEVEN PRIMALS and an entire war-#Haurchefant's inner narrative going from “what a noble and selfless young man i would be proud to call him brother”#to “...we let a teenager fight the dragon godfather. who is supervising this little shit? No one? Good he's mine now. Hello little brother”#corrain gealai #corrain

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thelonelymuffin · 9 months

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IVE HAD AN EPIPHANY!!!!!!