just some late night practice
I don’t ever want to see another post making fun of ‘GSA kids’
first, let’s start with the obvious. they’re kids. kids. yes, there will be some cringe moments and some drama. people don’t come out of the womb fully formed. especially when it comes to newly realized queer kids, it’s a sensitive moment and it can take some time for them to settle into their identities. be compassionate. recycled jokes and enthusiasm is not a crime. didn’t we all agree that cringe culture was dead? I know that sometimes I cringe at the aforementioned things, but it is only because I see my younger self in them. all this shows is that I have grown since then (as kids do).
second, a lot of those posts are ableist! since when is making fun of neurodivergent youth ever a good pass time?
third, the oppression olympics and constant slander of microlabels. yes, of course there are larger problems in the community than small community based discussion about terms (or for example, amatonormativity in fanfiction). this doesn’t mean people shouldn’t talk about it? one can acknowledge and discuss more pressing issues without neglecting their own community. so many of aromantic and asexual terms and discussions were memed and made fun of out of existence by edgy truscum in the mid 2010s.
discouraging people from talking about their experiences does nothing for the aro and ace communities and by the extension the larger queer community. (and personally, i’m pretty sick of the extent of aromantic representation being pride flag cats. not that theres anything wrong with that, but personally I would like the core of our community to go deeper than pretty pictures and positivity.) and for a lot of people, things that one person may see as a microlabel may be the only thing that fits. just because it is redundant for you does not make your experience universal
I wonder how much further along our community would be if the aphobic discourse never happened. I wonder how many young queer kids forced themselves back into the closet out of fear for ridicule, or worse, themselves adopted cruel habits and gatekept others in order to feel secure in their own identities.
In conclusion, bullying is bad *even* if you find the subjects annoying.
Just saw soemthing, wanted to try it out
I saw a post about how Margot Robbie wants them to introduce Poison Ivy in the movies, that she wants them in a relationship and I saw a mf in the comments say " Relationship doesn't always mean romantic ... Flirtation doesn't always mean attraction " and some other bullshit like can people just fucking stop!?! Stop trying to take away Sapphic relationships by claiming they're platonic or "just friends", LET WOMEN BE QUEER FOR FUCKS SAKE! Harley and Ivy are canonically Bisexual and together. In a relationship. Intimate. Dating. Romantically. Sexually. In love!
Stop trying to "Gal Pals" Harley and Ivy!
What if 👉👈 people wouldn’t invalide my queerness based on media i enjoy? 😳
i'm feeling overwhelmed and kind of emotional. i've been thinking a lot about microdosing T lately, but i don't really every feel any body/gender dysphoria in my body. i just... feel dysphoria in the way that others perceive me, if that makes sense.
and then i think... well, that means the problem is more with society than it is with my body, and the way i feel about my body, right? because if others could just understand nonbinary genders and respect them and not see me as a woman, i would honestly... feel very comfortable in myself.
but i wouldn't mind having a more masculine face or broader shoulders, either. i often wish my face was more masculine. but i think this desire is entangled with the disappointment and... shame?? (i can't place the exact emotion) that i feel when i am misgendered.
and then i worry that there will be other changes from microdosing that i don't want, that will cause even more dysphoria in me. i'm already pretty hairy and i don't want anymore hair, for example. i also don't think i could deal with clitoral growth, or my voice changing (i love my singing voice). so there's that i think of, too. that the actual changes most people want from T aren't necessarily what i want. i just want to be perceived the way i perceive myself, and i don't know how to accomplish that.
gender is so overwhelming. being nonbinary trans is so overwhelming sometimes. i can't deal with it today. lol.
and i think the thing that stung a little was talking to A about it today. i told him i was thinking about making a consultation at the clinic here that offers HRT, and he was like "okay, i mean, i'll still love you, but i don't know how that would change our relationship. i mean, i am a heterosexual male, and i don't know how this would affect attraction or sexual chemistry... but i guess that's not that important." and that kinda broke my heart. like... you would just continue to date me if you had no attraction to me at all, whatsoever? i wouldn't want that for either of us. lol. but i realize that... i need to put my needs (if microdosing T ends up being what i need) before A's needs...
but still. it was kind of heartbreaking to think about.
anyway. i've just been entirely overwhelmed today, and this has just made it worse, but i can't stop thinking about how much it hurts??? and makes me want to cry??? that my gender identity is not understood or respected by most of my family... most of my colleagues... most of the world??? idk. and i know, deep down, i think, that it has nothing to do with my body, and everything to do with society and the way gender is perceived by cishetero people... but it hurts. i know growth hurts. i know i am here to help the world stretch and grow. sigh.
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I deserve to have a cute girl let me suck her dick while she plays video games
Like I can suck you off while you play and you could maybe even fuck my face when you’re frustrated 🥺🖤
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The tiniest foxes 🙌🏻
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💥 frisk 💥 help me buy a better camera 💥
⚡no minors or terfs, cishet men ur on thin ice⚡
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More Pride Pomchis!
In preparation for Pride Month I decided to do the lesbian and trans pride flags.
Happy ‘soon to be pride month’ month!
Available on Redbubble: https://www.redbubble.com/people/lochnessyzmons/shop?artistUserName=LochNessyzMons&collections=2215524&iaCode=all-departments&sortOrder=relevant
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i need a butch to make a mess of me. play with me until im needy and whining, unable to think for myself. all i can think of is you. please!
“Heart Trouble” by Jae
Description: Dr. Hope Finlay loves her job as an emergency room physician, especially since it allows her only brief encounters with her patients. She learned early in life not to get attached to anyone because it never lasts.
Laleh Samadi, a waitress at her aunt’s restaurant, is the exact opposite. She easily connects with people and loves her big, boisterous Persian family, despite their tendency to meddle in her life.
When Laleh needs to be rushed to the ER with heart trouble, Hope saves her life. Afterwards, strange things begin to occur: Why does Laleh suddenly know even the most obscure diseases, while Hope is fluent in Farsi?
Soon, they can no longer deny that there’s a mysterious connection between them—one that becomes stronger with each passing day.
Are they losing their minds…or their hearts?
Genre: Romance, paranormal
TW(s): Homophobia, death of a loved one, cancer, sex
Diversity win! Ellen's show got canceled 🥰
Happy sun, coming to eat Ur kids :)
Pictures from our two-year wedding anniversary yesterday. We went to the most amazing plant nursery and were blessed by lovely weather
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Can someone come jiggle my belly?
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society will say “perform femininity” but then won’t make any pretty dresses that fit my fat dyke ass........ ok then. i will wear Garfield shirt 🙄😘
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i think bullying bigots is fun and should be encouraged actually
Laura’s hair has been looking fantastic recently and that is what I blame for the little affected gasp I did when her section started
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