#questioning asexual

[strawberryscarecr0w]

Happy day to all my dear asexuals!! (me included kinda-)

I’ve been questioning if I’m under the asexual umbrella for a while so here’s me coming out about it! (I also posted this on my insta where irl friends can see it so lord help me)

#asexual #asexual day #aromantism #aromantic #lgbtq #international asexuality day #questioning asexual #yippie

[aspeccharactersoftheday]

Lili from Imogen, Obviously is questioning asexual!

#lili #imogen obviously #canon aspec #asexual #questioning asexual

[riseconfessions]

"Here’s an unpopular headcanon that I came up with: Questioning Aroace April. I don't imagine April really being interested in romance at all in the slightest, even when older. She still questions her orientation, but alternately figures out that she's not into romance of any kind. Adventure is her true love lol"

#aroace #questioning #questioning pride #questioning aro #questioning ace #questioning asexual #rottmnt #tmnt #rise april #april o'neil #rise of the tmnt #rise of tmnt #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #bring back rise of the tmnt #bring back rottmnt #bring back rise #unpause rise of the tmnt #unpause rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #unpause rottmnt #rottmnt season 3 #rise confessions #rise confession 437

[aro-acethetic]

Questioning aromantic asexual + overcast skies + rain in meadows for the anon!

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#aromantic #asexual #questioning aroace #questioning aromantic #questioning asexual #questioning #aroace #moodboard #mod lily #I know these aren't explicitly the questioning flags #but the requester messaged me with these flags #so they're the ones I used! hope that's okay

[lonelylittledot]

more like sexual disorientation

#shitpost #puns #humor #sexuality is very confusing #questioning queer #questioning asexual #questioning biromantic #queer #ace #bisexual #asexual #biromantic #too many labels tbh

[questioning-culture-is]

um, hi.

so, i’ve always been back and forth with my sexuality, and eventually i settled on omniromantic asexual, but now im not sure.? i’ve never really felt sexually attracted to anyone, but today, i was in a dressing room with another girl and i just got this weird feeling? like, i see this kinda stuff online all the time, but when she changed in front of me, i was just kinda?? not processing?? but i dont think i have an emotional bond with her, i mean, we are friends, but we’re not like ghreat friends. i’ve thought about kissing her once, but i always thought that i only liked the idea of it, not actually doing it, but now??

so am i still asexyal? was that sexual attraction, or aesthetic attraction?

am i demisexual? what’s an emotional bond?

i dont know, and i really need help. thanks, and sorry for bothering y’all.

i don't think i can tell you what kind of attraction you experienced from that description, especially since everyone experiences attraction differently. Wanting to kiss someone could be sensual, sexual, or romantic attraction.

being casual friends with someone could absolutely count as an emotional bond. They don't have to be the most important person to you to qualify for that, so it's quite likely that you are demisexual.

#you are never bothering me #questioning #not questioning culture #advice #mod t #questioning sexuality #sexuality #questioning attraction #attraction #questioning asexual #asexual #questioning demisexual #demisexual

[scarlct-vvitch]

in honor of ace week id like to shoutout every asexual who first thought they were bi/pan because they looked at all the genders and felt no difference and zero is equal to zero so they said "huh. must be bisexual" and then shoved their sexuality back under the rug for 3-5 years

#shoutout to not knowing what asexuality was for the entirety of high school #or bonus points if u DID know but everyone around u wanted sex so u didnt want to admit it #anyone who says they knew they were ace from day one is a liar #well not really #but i do question u #asexuality #ace week #ace #aroace #aromanticism #aromantic #asexual #asexuality week #oh shush

[cookthepenguin]

is this fr? do people really use pickup lines?

#acespec #asexual #questions #pickup lines #aroace #arospec #aromantic #lgbt pride #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtqplus #lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia

[raineofthedragons]

#lgballt #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqa #nonbinary #trans #lgbtqplus #transgender #ace #asexual #acespec #lgbtq community #bisexual #gender questioning #gender queer #aromantic #queerplatonic #intersex #pansexual #queer pride #lgbt pride #lgbt comic #lgbtqiia+ #guess who had an original thought for once :)

[demisexualnathanvuornos]

Canon Aces 30/?: Olivia Howell (Skye Noel) The Olivia Experiment (2014) trailer 2/ 2

#the olivia experiment #skye noel #olivia howell #Sonja Schenk #female directors #nocticola art #canon aspec list #questioning asexual

[snazum]

i think i figured out a little bit of my sexuality/romance shit

like i feel like i just subconciously force myself to feel romantic or sexual about a “crush” when in reality i just, its just a familiar feeling??? idk how to describe it. like i would just like to get to know you, live together be close and shit “in another lifetime i would of just liked doing laundry with you” sort of vibe. just knowing someone intimently in and out like that, no kissing and shit. (I’d be okay with sex, like i still have a sex drive, but HOLY SHIT! I hate kissing. I just :/)

Kiss on the forehead is fine, or other shit like that, I understand it would be that persons way of showing affection, like i just get it but it doesn’t do anything for me??

idk. i never really, thoughth about this stuff. i guess i forced myself not too. just burried it each time it surfaced since i was in a relationship.

but now thinking about anything, any “romance” i’d feel, any i’d feel towards anything romantic was a feeling of longing for simplier times. times i shared with family, hanging out with my dad when i was 9, all those family get togethers. staying up late with my cousin playing video games.

I think this is how I feel, towards anyone I have a “crush on”. I just sort of conformed to societies view and labled it like that.

I miss those nights. I want to share a space with someone and know them so intimetly, shared secrets, inside jokes, sneaking glances. This is always coded as romantic. To me, its, being human. Having a strong and close connection. It’s what I miss having with my cousin, with my dad. With friend, the innocence of childhood, the blissful ignorance. Having a carefree time together just gaming and taking it all in. Now its debts, school, exaughsting work, just that ever looming darkness lurking even when you’re trying to have fun. That tiny voice in your head saying “well that was fun, should go to bed soon though, you have work in the morning. remember whats gonna happen.” basically all the responsibility.

I don’t know where I’m going with this. I need sleep.

#questioning asexual #questioning aromantic #snazum talks #long post

[ask-an-asexual-anything]

I’m a panromantic Graysexual girl, and lately I am wondering if I’m not demi panromantic. Like my squishes/crushes were only on close friends, so it seems very demi like but at the same time I think that I do feel romantic attraction toward some celebrities, like I think that I’ll love to cuddle or do cute things with them. But I’m not sure that if I’d them in front of me wether I would or not feel the same way... sooo yeah I’m kinda lost I guess

Sorry for taking so long to answer.

I think celebrities are kinda different from regular people? They're basically people who have been idolized and idealized to the point where their image isn't actually who they are. So I think of it as any feeling you have toward them wouldn't translate irl, since your idea of them is different from the actual person.

#ace spectrum #asexual #ask #aspec #aspectrum #questioning #questioning asexual #educational #lgbt #lgbtqi #lgbtq #lgbtqiap #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #lgbt+ #lgbtq+ #lgbtqi+ #lgbtqia+ #lgbtqiap+ #queer #ace #acespec #asexuality #queer community #ace community #pan #panromantic #demi #demisexual #panromantic demisexual

[aspeccharactersoftheday]

Jack from Friends Without Benefits is questioning asexual!

#jack #friends without benefits #canon aspec #asexual #questioning asexual

[nexus-nebulae]

petition to call wondering if you're aspec "a-speculation"

#aspec #arospec #acespec #anattractional #asexual #aromantic #aplatonic #aplspec #questioning aspec #questioning aro #questioning ace #afamilial #atertiary #greatest hits

[incognitopolls]

We ask your questions so you don’t have to! Submit your questions to have them posted anonymously as polls.

#polls #incognito polls #anonymous #tumblr polls #tumblr users #questions #polls about interests #submitted nov 25 #polls about lgbtq stuff #asexual #ace #headcanon

[touratoura]

I would like to make a probably invisible poll for the LGBTQ people of Tumblr. Sorry you can’t do multiple, just try and choose the one most important to you! Gray-anything fits here too.

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lesbian #gay #bisexual #pansexual #trans #transgender #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #agender #queer #questioning #omnisexual #Omni #tumblr polls