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jaygubz · 1 year

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Sameeeeeee

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ashertheemo · 2 months

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hello! welcome to my bathroom!!

(i like johnnie guilbert)

names:

- Asher is my preferred name, but nickname is Ash

pronouns:

- he/him (im trans!!)

age:

- what’s my age again?

sexuality:

- pansexual!! (PLEASE MAKE YELLOW A COLOUR ON HERE)

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bands i love:

- MCR, blink-182, MSI, Linkin Park, Green Day, Pierce the Veil, Sleeping with Sirens, Taking Back Sunday, Parmore, Bring Me The Horizon, L.S. Dunes, Sum 41, etc

tv shows i love:

- scott pilgrim: takes off, the umbrella academy, DHMIS

songs i love (atm, i swear these change every week):

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facts:

-i’ve seen blink-182 live! 16-02-24

- i named one of my cats after Mikey Way

- if you try to talk to me i will yap about Gee Way

- i’ve seen LOTMS (life on the murder scene) and TBPID! (the black parade is dead!) atleast 100 times each

- i only found out a week ago that Billie Joe Armstrong was 51 (the fuck??)

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things i like in one image:

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things i post:

- i mainly reblog! i occasionally post my own things, but i’m gonna start posting about my new, weird, horribly-drawn mini series that was inspired by @mychemicalwindex!it’s called the chronicles of mark, tom and travis (form blink-182) :3

edit: btw i use #asher yapping on all of my posts!!

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winterthebeau · 4 months

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hi everyone :3 so as you may now notice i changed my url, its because ive started questioning my gender and i believe i may be some flavor of transfem :3 nothing definite yet tho. i would definitely appreciate fem/andro terms being used for me tho <3

#username update #for my followers #new username #gender #questioning gender #trying a new name #trans

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leftabit-leftabit · 29 days

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Every single time!

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chronicallycouchbound · 9 months

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When you call cis people an egg for practicing gender non-conformity, you are risking the safety of actual closeted trans people.

Enforcing the gender binary harms us all.

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lostandfem · 2 years

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there’s something i want people to understand as i blog about my detrans experience and thoughts on feminism: i wasnt someone who was wrong about being trans and now i have the wrong idea of the trans community. you have to understand that i was trans. i am trans. i still have dysphoria. i had every making of a trans person. i lived in that community for 5 years. i lived with that ”trans experience” my whole life, and detransitioning now doesnt mean all of that never happened

but transitioning wasnt the answer. maybe transitioning is the answer for some people, but i think its the answer for a lot fewer people than we think.

i was a young girl with an ED. i was a young autistic girl who was inadvertantly emotionally neglected because no one understood what i needed, nor did i know how to connect to other girls. i was gnc. all i knew was ”i am not enough, i want to have a community. but i dont want to be like those girls. im nothing like them”.

i was under the impression that the way women presented were all ways women wanted to present. i thought it was like a natural instinct to them. all the makeup, the dresses, the jewelry. i thought i was the only one who hated it.

i didnt get crushes like the other girls. i didnt want the attention of the boys. i developed breasts and got my period younger than most. i hated every minute of it, i hated having breasts, but i thought other girls were excited about it as a mark of ”womanhood”

what i needed as a young girl was feminism. i needed to know that there was nothing wrong with me. that these are ways to be a woman; that everything i thought womanhood was was artificial and forced on us. i needed a community of women that wasnt built around those artificial constructs. maybe then i wouldntve come to the conclusion, in the lowest point in my life, that maybe i just wasnt a woman. and coming to that conclusion felt freeing. it felt like id found a space to be myself without all the bullshit i thought i ”had” to be. i didnt have to be a woman anymore. but dysphoria eats you. its never satisfied. it wants change after change after change. more surgery, more hormones, lose some weight, gain some muscle. i got tired and burnt out.

with all the trans people i connected to over the years and shared similar stories, i feel like some are in this same boat as me. this is a trans experience. so i think it deserves weight in discussions about trans people

#and now i await the hate #but i had to say it #detrans #detrans discussion #detransition #questioning #questioning gender #genderqueer #radfem safe #radfems please interact #radfems do interact #radblr #terfblr #trans

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gobworm · 8 months

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our wooden pronoun pins have just been restocked with new designs!

get them here!

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the-rainbow-suit-dude · 9 months

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Reblog and tell me what your pronouns are if you use xenopronouns neopronouns, or a mix of pronouns (like he/she, ze/they, etc) (if you want to) :)

#pronouns #poll #xenopronouns #neopronouns #gender-fluid #trans #demigender #cisgender #lgbtq+#lbtgq #lgbtqia #questioning gender

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betweenbooksandmoths · 6 months

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I think i might be genderqueer or maybe genderfluid

Idk I'm kinda confused

#my stuff #gender identity #gender queer #genderqueer #genderfluid #questioning gender #trans

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questioning-culture-is · 9 months

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Questioning culture is wondering why you feel uncomfortable being called woman, but girl feels nice. You really don't believe in gender and find it pointless, but you like you're fem identity. I'm wondering is it because I don't feel matured enough so woman feels like something a title/label I'll grow into at a certain age?

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#questioning #questioning culture #questioning gender #gender #i don't know your age so i can't tell you whether you will just grow to feel like a woman within the next few years #i don't think people really associate man or woman with themselves until like their mid twenties but that's just my guess as an enby #and i think that girl has become basically equivalent to guy as well as boy so it describes more stages of development #and could also be viewed as a more general term including all ages of that gender #on top of that i think guy feels less restrictively gendered so someone might identify as “just some guy”#because it's more vaguely masculine than boy or man #and that might be the case for you as well #maybe girl just feels like a little bigger of a box

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sunflower-riptides · 6 months

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Blog Idea

Would anyone be interested in a blog for those who are trying to find a specific queer label they identify with where you can send in an ask describing your identity and I offer some different labels?

Like a blog for those that specifically want to find a label that accurately describes them. I could find and suggest different, possibly lesser-known, identities. Kind of like a reverse dictionary of sorts?

#lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #mogai #questioning gender #questioning sexuality #lgbtq help #lgbtq identities

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reverse-queer-dictionary · 3 months

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Queer Dictionary Update 18/01/24

I completely finished the gender section of the carrd, for now!

Specific things I added:

Neurogender section

Brief xenogender section

Miscellaneous genders + terminology

I also moved some stuff around so most gender/sexuality subcategories have the main definition on the main page—for example, the a-spec subcategory has the asexual & aromantic definitions on the same page as the further subcategories.

Here is the link to the carrd!

And here is a link to a post that explains what the carrd is in a little more depth!

Feel free to send in any asks about the carrd! Questions, comments, suggestions, and just general feedback (as long as it’s not just trash-talking/unhelpful criticism) are always welcome! :D

#queer dictionary #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #lgbt #questioning gender #mogai #lgbtq community #imoga #queer resources #trans resources #lgbtq resources #lgbtq+#gender identity

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ndstrawberry · 4 months

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Guess who's questioning their gender again yippie/sarc

I thought I left that behind me in 2020...

#gender #genderfluid #questioning #questioning gender #pangender #maybe???#trans #transmasc #transneutral

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v-tired-queer · 7 months

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I've come to the realization that trying out different labels is a lot like trying on different clothes.

It can be really hard to find something that fits. There's so many to try, it can be overwhelming, and then when you think you find something that you want to try but it turns out better suited for others, but not really for you, it can be disheartening as the search continues. Sometimes you know right away that what you've tried isn't a good fit, and other times you have to really try it out and get a feel for it to know if something that you want to stick with you. Other times you have to circle back around to that one specific thing, trying it on and off, over and over again, because maybe it fits, but maybe you just really like it so you want it to fit. Maybe it feels like nothing will fit at all, or too many things fit all at once and you feel pressured to decide.

I'm trying to be as patient with myself about finding a label that works for me as I with clothes shopping. Sometimes you find the perfect fit right away, and other times you have to search for it. Right now, I'm searching, looking around, trying things on, and reminding myself that I can love who I am without fully knowing myself yet. One day I'll find the perfect fit, even if it's simply "queer".

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nyxofthenight11 · 3 months

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Do you ever feel like you aren’t actually your sexuality or gender orientation? Sometimes I feel like my mind is just telling me that I’m bisexual and gender apathetic because my friends are. I first started feeling like this when someone said “you’re just gay because it’s trending.” I tried not to think about it much but I guess it still sticks with me. Makes me think I’m not actually bisexual or gender apathetic.

#LGBTQ #lgbtqia #bisexual #gay #genderqueer #gender apathetic #sexuality #questioning sexuality #questioning gender

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purplethespian · 4 months

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Is there like a guide somewhere for “how to explore gender”? Or something? Bc I’d like to spend some time doing that while I’m on break but idk where to even start with that.

#actually looking for input here so if you have any #would appreciate #life updates with zoe #zoe experiences gender #zoe posts #gender #questioning gender

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