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you kids better be staying hydrated and going to bed early tonight😚😚

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Thanks for all the mom and bid sis advice

#oFc!!!💗💗💗💗 #rafni being a mom friend #ask

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I finally got the nerve to buy my first sex toy and the post office lost it in delivery :( im so sad

#NO WAYYYYYYY #IM SO SORRY BABYYY THATS TERRIBLE SKSKSK #im crying with you😭😭😭💗💗💗✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻 #bUt pls say that youll get another bC youre missing out without at least one sex toy!!!🥺🥺✊🏻✊🏻 #naughty asks #rafni being a mom friend #ask

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speaking of clits, we had to write in class what our future family is like and i was in a class full of judgy popular girls and she was reading it aloud so i had tl write i wanna marry a man even though im a raging lesbian and dont want to get married 😭😭

#keep fooling them hets babe #and know that one day #we’ll take them by total surprise and it will be Glorious #rafni being a mom friend #ask

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Hi, do you still do the masturbation advice thing? Cause I'm confused about things and could use some advice.

Hello, sweets!🌸 Yes, absolutely! Do you have any specific questions in mind?

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"im always ready to talk abt female masturbation" oh i'm well aware

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Mother Raf How do I know if I think some girls are hot because theyre just beautiful and hot or because I might be gay/bi?? Like, is it hetero to think both genders are attractive?

Hello, sweets!💗 As a bi girl, I think the difference is whether you just acknowledge girls as attractive/hot or if you want to do something when you see attractive/hot girls. For me, I know I look at girls I think are pretty and something happens inside of me, like a want to kiss them, to hold them or see them closer. And the most powerful feeling for me is that I want to know that girl. That’s attraction to me at least🌸🌸

But, I think doing it for real, like kissing girls and getting close to them that way will definitely give you a better idea of whether you just think they are attractive or if you are attracted to them. Experiment away, just be honest about it with the other person!💗💗

#i hope that was helpful!!💗💗 #you can always come ask me more if you want babe #best of luck to you!!🌸🌸 #rafni being a mom friend #rafni being queer #ask

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Ok, this is going to sound a little weird. Do you ever see other bloggers that have lots of friends and inside jokes and are apart of so much together and get sad? Like, not in a bad way because it's so fun looking at your blog and all your friends, but I look at your blog and wish I could get closer to you and other people in the community. I'm not sure maybe I'm overthinking but I just get this lonely/jealous feeling. 😔

Hello, darling!🌸

I know what you’re referring to, and tbh I went through that as well🥺✊🏻 when I started my blog, I was also a bit jealous and sad watching others interact with inside jokes and all that stuff. However, what I did was just talk to ppl!! Some friendships didn’t turn out very intimate as I had hoped, but then I got amazing friendships elsewhere and from unexpected places. It all takes a bit of time and a willingness and courage to explore🌸

I think I speak for a lot of other blogs in the starker(plus whatever other ships) realm that our inboxes are open!! You’d be surprised how lonely we feel just sitting waiting for smth to pop up in our inboxes and messages sksk so don’t be shy!!☺️☺️💗💗

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Do you know anything about mental hospitals? I’m thinking of admitting myself but the things Ive heard about them scare me.

Hi, sweetheart!🌸 I’ve never been to one myself, but I have been going to therapy for over 6 years now, so I’m very pro treatment to anyone who feel like they need it. The scary stuff you’ve heard are probably exaggerated and situations that happen rarely. The staff at the mental hospitals are all there to take care of you, and I’m quite sure you won’t be admitted right away. You’ll have the chance to ask the staff about the place and what will happen during a hospitalisation. There’s no harm in asking, love🌸 Also, it might be helpful to Google some packing lists for what you might need during a stay. I wish you the best of luck darling and I hope things work out for you💓💓

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On the topic of smex- always ALWAYS pee after penetration my friends with vaginas. Peeing prevents UTIs

yEsss another increadibly important thing to keep in mind!! stay safe out there lovelies☺️☺️

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i saw that a few people are struggling with orgasms so I just wanted to recommend using a shower head!! it’s so warm and it feels amazinggggg and u can kinda replicate the feeling of getting eaten out 👀 i struggle to orgasm too but the shower head never fails!

Ooo yess I’ve heard of this tip too!! Thank you for reminding me by sharing love💗💗

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Hey so the pacific northwest is on fire. Towns have been wiped out and my town is covered in smoke, and ash. Rafni I'm fucking scared.

Hello, darling!💓 I know about the fires and I’m so terribly sorry you’re stuck in it. Is there a family member or a friend or someone you can stay with? It’s best not to be alone during this. Try to stay safe and updated in case you need to evacuate and follow the authorities’ advice on what to do. I wish you the best, love!🥺🥺

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Rafni it's 1 am for me and I can't sleep because anxiety :(:(:(

Hello, darling!🌸 I’ve often been in a similar situation, so I have some tips for you to calm down if you want them💗

Write down your anxities/fears. Just into one short and focused question. I write like ’what if...’ and then you answer yourself with all the reasons why that won’t happen. Be one sided and focus just on why your fear won’t become a reality. Because as you write it, you’ll start to belive it💗 Then, to top it off, try a breathing exercise. I recommend Headspace on Youtube🌸🌸

#rafni being a mom friend #i hope that will help you darling!! #it does help me🥺🥺💗💗 #best of luck and i hope you settle soon and get the rest you need💗💗 #ask

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Mom friend Raf! Looking back I think I might have always had a thing for girls. Like Im trying to figure things out and sorta realize now that that classmate of mine I always wanted to be close to or the posters I put up of the most beautiful women and like also Brie Larson?? Like wow this can't be het! Idk I've been thinking a lot about what you said abt attraction and I think it's something I really want but don't pursue because of how my fam/friends would react! Does that make me a coward?

Hello, darling!🌸 It’s great to have you back☺️ and I totally get what you’re explaining. This is a dilemma that many queer people have. It’s like the conflict between wanting to be your true self and fearing the reactions of your family/friends/community. And for many queer people, it’s just a waiting game till they get out of that environment and into an accepting space, or they take the leap and come out to their family. That ‘hiding’ is what it means to be in the closet, and for many it’s about survival honestly, and no one should judge you for that.

So, I say stay in the closet as long as you feel like it. When and how you decide to come out is your choice, and no one should pressure you into it. I think being in the closet has nothing to do with being a coward. Sometimes it’s about surviving long enough to get to a better space💗💗🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

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Hello! I think it’s really cool/nice of you to be so open to talking about sex issues on here. I was one of the anons who submitted a sex ed question (I’m a little shy ☺️) so I just wanted to say thank you for taking the time to answer 🥰 It’s so comforting to know I’m not alone in my experiences 💕

Ofc darling!!💗 I’m so glad I could offer some help, and half the credit goes to all the other anons who also shared. I think we’ve had a few lovely and very informative days here on my blog ahah☺️☺️

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WHILE WE ARE ON THE TOPIC- DO. NOT. USE. VAGINAL. WASHES. YOUR VAGINA IS A SELF CLEANING MECHANISM

I actually recently found a spray deoderent for like down there,,, I was so disgusted!!😭😭 Don’t use that!! Even if you just spray it on the outside yUck!!

A tiny bit of soap and water is all you need. Unscented lotions or other moisturing gels meant for the pelvic area can be a nice addition to prevent dryness and chaffing🌸🌸

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