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circusclownfever · 5 months
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rape victims shouldnt "forgive and forget"
rape victims shouldnt "let go"
abuse victims shouldnt "forgive and forget"
abuse victims shouldnt "let go"
youbare an actual fucking child if you think that forgiving someone for the shit they did is going to make you a happier person . youre fucking lying to yourself .
you have either A. never been abused . or B. a really sad peice of shit person
forgiving and forgetting doesnt release the anger . it doesnt fix anything . it doesnt help anything .
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mosslistic · 1 year
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Qotd:
Am i asexual or just scared
If anyone could help that’d be greatly appreciated
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spookietrex · 1 year
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I don't mean to brag but my trauma has made me really good at not shaking the bed when I cry.
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clouds-regression · 2 years
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TW: Rape, Pro-Life/Pro-Choice Debate Mention, Abortion Mention
For the pro-life/pro-choice people under this tag arguing, please make a tag specifically for that so us victims can stay clear of you using us as an argument point by blocking that tag? I come here for stuff I can relate to, not to find out your opinion on abortion. Pro-choice people, using us as a point in your argument is insensitive. Pro-life people, if you're pro life, we shouldn't be an exception, either youre pro life or youre not.
Just leave our spaces alone.
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no-more-hide · 30 days
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Sarah had to pee during class time. When she was in the hallway, she met Heiko, who was arround for an errand. She just smiled at him and quickly rushed into the girls' toilet. When she went into the toilet cabin, she heard the door go behind her and a second person came. Sarah didn't think anything about it, but when she wanted to close the cabin door, someone pressed the door open.
Heiko pushed himself into the cabin and closed the door. He forced her to have oral sex. Sarah refused, but the boy was bigger and stronger.
"What are you doing?" called a male hard voice and knocked on the door. Heiko didn't pay attention for a moment. Sarah was able to pull her head back and call out for help. She heard a keychain jinging and saw the door open. The janitor stood in the door. He got a deplorable picture. Sarah crouched on the ground, tears ran down her face. In front of her stood Heiko with his pants down and a naked penis.
The rest of the story is told quickly. Sarah and Heiko had to tell their story in front of the prinzipal and other hastily brought in teachers. What happened then was not satisfactory. The school didn't want anything to be made public. And since Sarah was with Heiko, they didn't see themselves able to decide who was telling the truth. Heiko was advised to leave school, and Sarah was seriously advised not to file a complaint where, she knew, someone could find out that she was not a girl.
The next few weeks were terrible for Sarah. She became the biggest bitch in the school, but most looked at her with admiration. And no one has since doubted that Sarah was really a girl
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kenjinini · 5 months
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I have to pay someone in order for them to care about how in feeling.
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thepro-lifemovement · 2 years
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Do you think that abortion should be allowed if the women is r*ped and can’t support a child?
By the way, I’m pro-choice and interested to see your stance on this.
Hello, friend! So rape only accounts for 1% of abortions. I think rape is a horrendous crime and the rapist deserves to rot in jail for the rest of his life. I think we should always punish the rapist, not the child. I would hope the rape victim gets all of the love, support, counseling and care she rightfully deserves as she works through that trauma. In the event she does become pregnant, she needs support and not additional violence. Abortions can cause major depression and PTSD in some women — not something that would be good for a woman already dealing with the trauma of rape. I would never recommend abortion to a rape victim because of the possible negative effects it can have on her as opposed to childbirth: "Fetal loss seems to expose women to a higher risk for mental disorders than childbirth; some studies show that abortion can be considered a more relevant risk factor than miscarriage." Abortion also triples your maternal mortality rate: "Births have a positive effect on longevity while pregnancy losses have a negative effect, with negative effect of TOP (Termination of Pregnancy) being greater than that of natural losses."
So if the rape victim finds herself pregnant and can't support her child, she should receive the utmost medical care during her pregnancy, and, if she so chooses, she can give her child away for adoption. There's no reason her child should receive the death penalty when they are a victim, too. They are still her child. The rape victim's life has value, her child's life has value. No matter how you were conceived, you should always have that chance at life.
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(Also, Planned Parenthood has a history of failing to report rape).
Let me know if you have additional questions. I am always open for discussion.
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teamattorneylex · 1 year
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State of Jharkhand V. Shailendra Kumar Rai (2022 Scc Online Sc 1494)
This Case Summary is written by Harsha Singh, a final year law student at Amity Law School, Noida INTRODUCTION  In this procedure, two fingers are inserted into the rape victim’s vagina by a medical professional in an effort to “test the flexibility of the vagina” and see if the hymen is ruptured. The test is frequently used to label rape victims as being “habituated to sex.” The medical proof…
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इंदौर में सौतेले भाई ने बहन से किया दुष्कर्म, गर्भवती होने पर बनाया अबॉर्शन का दबाव , बेटी को दिया जन्म
इंदौर में सौतेले भाई ने बहन से किया दुष्कर्म, गर्भवती होने पर बनाया अबॉर्शन का दबाव , बेटी को दिया जन्म https://www.biharjharkhandnewslive.com/
जब गर्भवती होने का पता चला तो मैं डर गई। मैंने ये बात सौतेले भाई को बताई तब उसने मुझ पर बच्चा गिराने का दबाव बनाया। मुझे डॉक्टर के पास ले गया लेकिन डॉक्टरों ने अबॉर्शन करने से मना कर दिया। मध्य प्रदेश की राजधानी भोपाल और आर्थिक राजधानी इंदौर में कमिश्नर प्रणाली लागू है। लेकिन इसके बाद भी दोनों ही जिलों में बदमाशों में पुलिस का कोई डर नहीं दिखता हैं। साथ ही किसी भी जुर्म को अंजाम देने से पहले यह…
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spookietrex · 7 days
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Depersonalization and Derealization
My personal experiences and what they look like (from a licensed child/teen trauma therapist/C-PTSD person). TW: SA/incest, miscarriage
Symptoms of depersonalization include:
Feelings that you're seeing your thoughts, feelings, or body or parts of your body from the outside. For example, you may feel like you're floating in the air above yourself.
For me, this looked like when I was reading or in a scary situation, I would sort of float out of my body until I wasn't there anymore. Sometimes, it happened when I was at my grandma's house when I would get a particular feeling of unease or a flashback (but I didn't know it then). Sometimes, it happened when I was 6 and getting spanked. I would see myself from outside of me. Or in church, I could repeat my thoughts and sort of see them in the air.
Feeling like a robot or that you're not in control of what you say or how you move.
For me, this looks like whenever I'm in too much pain, exhausted, tired, whatever, my legs go into robot mode, and I just sort of walk without feeling it? Idk how to explain it. Like I'm walking, and I can feel my legs moving, but I'm not in control. Or when I'm in meltdown mode, and I HAVE to slam my head into a wall or something because I can't stop myself. Other times when I'm studying, I just have to go to Task Mode. Kind of like Sim tasks.
The sense that your body, legs or arms appear twisted or like they're not the right shape. Or they may seem larger or smaller than usual. You also could feel that your head is wrapped in cotton.
This one used to be super bad for me when I was younger. If I'm having a really bad trigger day, I'll look at my hands, and they'll look like 3 times bigger than what they should. Or my fingers will look like Salad Fingers. My head feels confused and heavy and full of stuff. I'm not able to understand as well on these days, and I get frustrated very easily. Unfortunately, because I have hypermobile EDS, sometimes my body really isn't in the right shape (especially if I sublux something), so sometimes I have that symptom.
Emotional or physical numbness of your senses or responses to the world around you.
Oof. Okay, this started when I was about 14-15? It's kind of blurry. I just stopped....caring? Like there was a switch in my brain that went off, and I was super apathetic. I still cared about some things, but like my reactions were so much more limited. Especially about Christmas. Like the year I turned 15 (a lot of trauma happened), I remember feeling really weird about Christmas. Like it just felt like another day. It was weird.
A sense that your memories lack emotion, and they may or may not be your own memories.
Okay! This is something my therapist and I had to really take time to figure out. I had repressed a lot of my memories until I was 27ish because I didn't feel that they were safe to feel. I had these weird memories of my brother pinning me down and using my butt as a drumset (weird), but it was devoid of emotion. Like I was numb. I was angry that it happened, but there was more to it. When I did finally uncover the rest, I was so shocked that I couldn't feel anything. I don't have a lot of emotions tied to a lot of my bullying. I don't remember a lot of the Super Important Moments of my trauma, but what I do remember has been constantly diminished and gaslit. I had to remind myself over and over again recently that I really did get pregnant and miscarry at 16/17 because my entire family denied it.
Derealization symptoms
Symptoms of derealization include:
Feeling that people and your surroundings are not real, like you're living in a movie or a dream.
Duuuuuuuude. I'm not gonna lie. I walked around like this for a solid 18-24 years. I wrote my life down in stories. I still talk to my childhood best friend and have to ask her like "Did that shit in my childhood really happen?" I get flashbacks to my childhood home regularly, which makes looking around my actual home with my wife hard because I often don't know what I'm seeing. I often feel weird like nothing is real, and I'm just in a dream state. Like nothing I do is going to really affect things. I often feel like I'm watching my life through a movie. My favorite joke is that my life could have been a true crime documentary.
Feeling emotionally disconnected from people you care about, as if you were separated by a glass wall.
This was me growing up. I still have a hard time getting to know people. Being autistic, I often feel like I have to mask because people won't like the real me. (I have evidence of this. When I show my mental health/chronic illness symptoms, people often get frustrated and leave.) So I've stopped letting people in. My therapist of 4 years knows more about me than most people do. My wife is almost on that same level. Those are the only two. I don't really have anyone else in my life outside of them. My psychiatrist sucks ass. She literally didn't think I had PTSD and tried to diagnose me as just GAD and MDD. I often feel like a burden to others.
Surroundings that appear out of their usual shape, or are blurry or colorless. Or they may seem like they only have two dimensions, so they're flat with no depth. Or you could be more aware of your surroundings, and they may appear clearer than usual.
This one is bad when I'm depressed, I've noticed. So like when I look outside, I notice a difference in the leaves and things (leaves and fall are one of my special interests) and it looks...depressing, bleh, like color was drained out of it. Sometimes, if I'm in a great mood, the leaves will pop, and the sky will be beautifully blue, and things just feel crystal clear. The blurry, colorless thing is something I've fought with optometrists and neurologists about.
Thoughts about time that are not real, such as recent events feeling like the distant past.
Heh heh. I often think about my brother dying, which has been 12 years ago this year, or my brother terrorizing me as a child or my mother condoning it all. They feel very recent even though they were years ago. My relationship with my wife started almost two years ago, but it feels like forever. I don't remember some parts of it.
Unrealistic thoughts about distance and the size and shape of objects.
I had a BIG problem with depth perception when I was younger. It's actually why my mom didn't want me to drive. Well, that and control. I digress. Anyway, I couldn't tell how far away things were. I literally smack into objects all the time because I think they're further away than they are or think I can walk someone that I can't because it's too far away.
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claudia1829things · 2 years
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Iowa teen ordered to pay $150K
An Iowa teen named Pieper Lewis has been ordered to pay $150,000 restitution to the family of the man who had repeatedly raped her and whom she had killed - ARTICLE.
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