#real str8 men

[straight8men]

WOW, FULL BEARDED, HAIRY CUTE STUDMAN. 😍

#construction man #straight studs #hats #straight bald #straight smoker #dirty jeans #straight working men #str8 hairy #str8 men #straight men #straight hotties #real men #handsome str8 #masculine #dirty straight men #straight masculine #real str8 men #str8 stud #str8 hot #cutie-men #handsome man #straight daddy #str8 masculine #real sraight amateur #redneck country men #straight #str8

[dvlinside]

#construction worker #sweaty #hot redneck #smelly jockstrap #manscent #real str8 men

[comradecowplant]

I would like to thank The Morning Show for feeding the millennial sapphics who always thought Elle Woods should have been with the intimidating brunette woman, I feel seen & heard 😌🙏

#ms witherspoon needs to improve her ability to perfom chemistry with same sex romantic partners but ive seen worse #julianna margulies is giving so much hot mommy dyke energy for reese to work with and yet she usually meets her with the gal pal vibes SIGH #she's no katherine heigl in jennys wedding at least. and this season (before uh the events of the last ep) they had better chemistry imo #i knew they wouldn't be end game 😔 but i didnt expect them to last this long so i will b gr8ful for what we had when we had it. rip ladley #i truly dont care about straight (or closeted assumed str8) actors playing queer roles as long as they can actually play them #to me that so-called discourse boils down to the ole annoying english teacher thing: 'can i play gay?' 'idk CAN you?' #reese at least doesnt seem to have a phobia of same sex saliva getting in her mouth like many other straggot actors ive seen in the past #am i making excuses for her bc i am one of the aforementioned sapphics who imprinted on her as a preteen? maybe so maybe so but I!D!C!!! #dani talks about tv #i'll lose it if cordley happens though. cory isnt a monster like other men on the show but the bar is low & theyve never been a good ship #im sure there are dedicated bradley x cory blogs here on tumblr dot com but i refuse to believe those people are real

[lamardeuse]

just a reminder that for straight women the bar is in hell and it’s covered in shit, happy pride everyone

#sometimes I think none of these can be real #and then I remember how some str8 men are

[katewalker]

to celebrate the start of pride month im gonna try getting higher quality footage of the two first syb games

btw happy pride month to the two old gay dudes playing chess in a hot tub in aralbad, to anna voralberg (lesbian), to sarah steiner (lesbian), to junta steinhoff (bi), to katyusha spiridonova (lesbian), to my son oscar (aroace) and to my wife kate (bi)

#these are not headcanons if i say it's the truth #and for real all the syb characters are lgbt for me #except of course a carefully tailored list of men that the str8 can keep including dan/marson/borodine/the priests/igor bourgoff/mangoling #pau.txt

[nyxi-pixie]

SORRY I NEED TO YELL ABT SMTHN REAL QUICK IGNORE IF U DONT LIKE REFERENCES TO DUDES BEING VIOLENT

thinking abt the time i was waiting outside my science lesson and some kid in my class straight up choked me against a wall (not in the good way. we were 13. and i dont like men) idk why he did it either i think i was being annoying or smthn but like. what the fuck. LMAOOODHASJFHUIA i fully forget abt this so often and then it just like returns to the forefront of my mind and refuses to leave for 8-10 business days.

#this and the dude that wanted me to call him mommy. idk why he said that bc im into women and didnt actually know who he was #anyway choking guy was str8 up obsessed w me like girl why do u hate me That much literally all i did was tell u maybe to stop saying slurs #i was like tiny so he straight up like picked me off the ground by the throat it was actually quite disturbing #and i fully forgot it happened for like 4 years #LMFAOOOO #it comes back to me occassionally and im just hit with like a wave of omg wtaf is wrong with men #tw violence #? #personal #sorry needed to yell abt this somewhere bc i feel like im going insane every time i remember this happened like #wdym some guy i used to talk abt lotr with as an 8 year old fucking throttled me when we were 13 #talked w an irl abt this a couple months ago cos i wasnt sure if it was real or not and they were like omg i remember that wtf #lowkey passing this as a joke as if it doesnt make me incredibly uncomfortable LMFAOOJDHFUI its not like super deep or anything but its jus #weird

[senju-tobinyama]

ok but why don’t people make more things lesbian

#for real nrt but lsbn #it would sell like pan caliente #lesbians would watch it #bi pan queer wlw would watch it #str8 men would watch it #str8 women would watch it #non str8 men mlm would probably watch it #EVERYONE WOULD WATCH THAT SHIT #GODDDDDDDDDDDD GIVE ME LESBIAN NRT CONTENT FOR FUCKS SAKE #rat brain ranting #im going to write an essay on this shit ....no jk

[johannestevans]

you know, one thing that i found extremely refreshing about the Barbie movie is how much it doesn't hate men or masculinity, and instead positions compulsory masculinity as similarly limiting and imprisoning as femininity when it's societally enforced

and i've been really surprised by how many people who have been going "this movie is anti-men, and that's GREAT" when like. it's not anti-men. it's opposed to patriarchy and toxic masculinity, but it extends a great deal of compassion to individual men

not just to magic ken and sugar daddy ken and allan and the other rejected kens, but even to stereotypical ken, who like. causes a lot of the problems in barbieland and leads it. it extends a great deal of empathy for his sense of powerlessness and loneliness

and it would have been very easy for the film to basically just call him an incel and punish him for what he's done by disenfranchising him even further, but it doesn't do that? it says, hey. you need more to your identity than your gender, and there's more to you than being str8

and that's exactly the same weight of the message communicated to barbie, that there's more to her identity than her gender, that there's more to her than her perfect appearance and performance

neither of them have to just be dolls

idk, i enjoyed it as a well-crafted film without finding it like, hugely artistically impactful on me, but that aspect of its gender commentary was incredibly refreshing, and far more nuanced than i'm used to expecting of cisgender creators

and i think it's a real shame for people to interpret that very carefully crafted arc for ken and the other kens and allan as "haha, this movie HATES men and thinks they're STINKY" when like. a lot of work was done to go beyond that sort of very easy reflexive hatred

#musings #barbie

[fuck-you-showerthoughts]

if you are a woman, you are not a gay guy. your just str8 and like to fetishize gay men. fuck off.

Normally I would just ignore this because it's just so incredibly unoriginal but I just need to make sure..... you guys know there's a difference between someone saying "I'm attracted to men in a queer way while also having a nuanced and feminine gender identity" and 2013 era yelling "ZOMG MY YAOIS" at real gay men right. Like they're pretty distinct

#even just finding m/m hot as a straight woman is a pretty far cry from that tbh #asks #ppl who hate yaoi are corny as fuck btw lmao cuz it always circles back to this kind of argument #lame and boring

[campgender]

excerpts from Amber Dawn’s “Touch ≠ Touch Screen” that i thought particularly resonated with the most recent iteration of conversations on transmisogynistic + whorephobic censorship on tumblr & other social media

image description: three screenshots of a poem from the collection My Art Is Killing Me (2020) with stylized spacing.

excerpt 1:

Just survivors, I’m talking only to you now (literally you).

Did your abuse fever teach you to solder belonging and harm?

Were you seen and were you shamed in the same

original place? Did you inherit

a coercive dichotomy?

Anxious arousal hand

me downs?

Does your public network see you and hate you in looping rounds?

Does logging on harm you? Does all this somehow feel familiar?

excerpt 2:

Let’s talk about 2018 when

FOSTA-SESTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act and Stop

Enabling Sex Traffickers Act) was passed as law by US Congress

on April 11, marking the first ever exception to Section 230.

So after twenty-two years, yes, twenty-two years, social media platforms

where made responsible for user generated content if that content may be

intended for sex work yes

all sex work, yes, consensual sex work and, yes

anything like a butthole or a female-presenting-assumed nipple, and yes

responsible for or in authority of images, words and phrases

that mend desire together

with age, race, size, orientation, disability, labour

economics and any bodies subject to other-ness.

And with other-ness, I’m talking about

fat babes in neon green lingerie, about two brown men

kissing, about trans women being radiant and using

their real fucking names. I’m talking about

masculine-presenting-assumed folk with baby bumps. I’m talking sexual

assault survivors showing off the scars on our inner thighs. I’m talking about

women posting screenshots of the violent Tinder messages we receive

every damn day. I’m talking about

speaking up. I’m talking language

reclamation. I’m talking decolonizing

sexualities. I’m talking gagged faggots

about dyke march photos

torn down. I’m talking

about locked accounts.

excerpt 3:

viii.

I’m talking about this—

power holding backlash.    How dare we get those likes

those shares, take up virtual space

speak truths, share strategy, love our ash and phoenix

bodies, rise up or dig deep, whichever way or all

directions at once.

We can be nimble AF

but how dare we?

Make the internet

white relentlessly white again

str8 cis thin and norm again

Redesign the sightline

of hating women.         I’m talking about this

power holding backlash.

I think about this a lot—

what it means to spend upwards

of two hours per day

on platforms that believe

we should not legally exist

un      see      able

end image description.

#poetry #amber dawn #whorephobia #transmisogyny #fosta sesta #social media #invisibilization #isolation #censorship #image described #mac’s bookshelf #she refers to tumblr as an e–mpire built on smut in the same poem

[uncanny-tranny]

About that thing re "trans men dont know what its like to be seen as predatory", I feel like everyone in the lgbt community generally agrees lesbians are treated as predatory by str8 women, gay men are treated as predatory by str8 men, I (as a trans man) used to think I was a lesbian and went throught life as one. Accordingly I was treated like I am predatory. I am now a gay men, and accordingly I am treated as predatory. On top of that, cis gay men treat me as predatory (scawy transes trying to get them to have sex w a vageenay boohoo) and women treat me as predatory every time I open my mouth about sharing some of their experiences (because me needing iuds at the obgyn inherently means I, as a man, inavde their man-free space). Literally all queer people are constantly treated as predatory by cishet society at large, everyone knows it and keeps saying it and is talking about it because its no secret and everyone is aware of it.

But the second the convo turns to how terfs hurt trans men? Suddenly, we have no idea what its like to be treated as predatory and suddenly the world sees trans men specifcially as helpless little girly victims.

And honestly? Even if it were the case that trans men and transmasculine* people were solely infantilized... it's still harmful. I was initially bringing up that because it's like... I guess the only narrative people want to hear about our suffering, I guess, because it's easier to digest. It's easier to look at it and write it off as, "well you're just infantilized, show me a real problem," and that's the issue - it's twofold. It is simultaneously the need to relegate the experiences of a diverse community into one box and then say, "well, it's just infantilization, who cares when [x] issue is more dangerous" afterward.

It is frustrating, at best, to not be heard. And I've found that so many people aren't just infantilized... I think a lot of queer people are, I don't think it's unique to us. However, people are almost surprised when trans men and transmasculine* people open up more, in my experience.

It's definitely more complex to include more trans experiences with transphobia and the intersections of things like rascism, homophobia, antisemitism, islamophobia, misogyny, ableism... but it is still important. In fact, it often informs in addition to how trans people are treated. Transphobia doesn't exist in a vacuum, and it often doesn't exist alone. That is why we need to have these complex discussions.

#ask #anon #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #it's really tilting to see people almost deny that trans men and otherwise trans people can be seen as predatory #because (at least in my experience) that has all i have ever been seen as *because* i am trans. and for different reasons as well #this is the same experience i've had mental illness 'advocacy' groups #the ones who subconsciously think 'well i' depressed. my gran's depressed. my boss is depressed. we all work FINE' #'so because we all work fine then why are *you* such a train wreck. why don't you brush your hair. clean your room and it'll all be fine!' #the words aren't the same. but the denial of different experiences - of different realities are the same. #which is why you can not advocate for trans liberation while simultaneously rejecting the different experiences of trans people #if you can not compute that two trans people of the same identity can have different experiences of transphobia AND... #...that BOTH experiences are important to address without denying the other or ignoring it... trans liberation will be flimsy at best #because then it only takes one different experience and what recourse does that trans person have? #this rant goes for ALL trans people by the way. if you can not accept that trans people can have different valid needs... #...then i personally think that those ideas of trans liberation you may have are flimsy #again impersonal you is used

[xodarling]

wow ur so real for that pookie, like what do u mean ei is straight, what do u mean yae likes men😅😅😣😣☹️☹️😞😞😞🤔🤔🤔 can't u see, they both fuck qith eaxh othwr!!

like for realsies 🙄 they’re literally fucking each other rn as we speak !! str8 ppl are just diseases atp like open ur eyes do u not see the homosexuality radiating off ur ‘best girl’