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astro-irlinya · 11 months
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JUNO ASPECTS IN SYNASTRY
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Juno - Sun: You see someone who understands you and has the same goals as you. It gives a trusting and loving relationship.
Juno - Moon: You understand this person on a psychic level. The relationship progresses smoothly and disagreements are quickly overcome. There is harmony and balance.
Juno - Mercury: Not a strong connection. But it can show that your partner is someone who listens to your ideas.
Juno - Venus: It represents finding the person you are looking for, reaching your ideals. It can make you feel like you are in a fairy tale and say 'I found exactly what I was looking for'.
Juno - Mars: Each party motivates the other to achieve their dreams. It is a passionate relationship.
Juno - Jupiter: It can give the feeling of soul mates or feeling as if they are one person. They will have similar philosophies and beliefs.
Juno - Saturn: It can keep people connected even if they are separated. It can be a serious, boring, restrictive union.
Juno - Neptune: Forgiving the partner or trying to come to terms with what they have done may be in question. Mistakes are not seen; it is like living in a dream world.
Juno - Uranus: There is a fast and magnetic attraction between you. The relationship can start and end fast. Juno may offer him something he has never needed before.
Juno - Pluto: It can be a dark and energy draining relationship. He empowers her, she learns to act on her own.
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long-distance-love · 7 months
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Any cute date recommendations? Either distance or in person?
You ask and we shall deliver! Cute date ideas incoming 💕
In-person date ideas
Find a theme you're both interested in and go to a museum/exhibition (i.e. if you're both into Star Wars, find a SW exhibition; or if you're both into dinosaurs, find a museum that displays dinosaur bones)
Do the cliche dates (because they really work!) - coffee date, dinner date, bubble tea date, movie night, etc.
Find a park/forest/green area you've never been to and go for a walk together
Try a class or workshop together
Stay in. A date can be as simple as that. The act of choosing to spend intimate (not necessarily sexy wink-wink), one on one time together can be a date too.
Find the weirdest museum/exhibition and go together. Wash it down with a coffee afterwards to discuss what you've witnessed
See a play or a concert together
Get involved in each other's hobbies
Google 'date ideas checklist', find one you both like and do all those dates
Celebrate birthdays, holidays, achievements together privately
Set up a date for sexual intimacy (or just physical intimacy if you're ace)
Long distance date ideas
Have dinner together on a video call
Same as above, but order food for each other
Play video games together while on a call (even better if you're playing together online)
Same as above, except set up a date together in-game (i.e. exploring a region together, completing missions together)
Movie night: watch Netflix, Disney+ or YouTube together
Get involved in each other's hobbies: a bit more difficult with distance, but not impossible (get creative, take pictures and videos to share with each other later, call each other even if you're silent because i.e. you're trying to get into meditation or yoga)
Try Dovey Dates (read our review here)
Go for a walk separately while calling each other
Attend an online event together (i.e. a class, a seminar, etc) and then call each other afterwards to talk about it
Take a virtual museum tour together
Celebrate birthdays, holidays, achievements together privately on video call
Plan a meeting, or if you've already got one coming up, plan a date for that time you'll spend together
Design each other postcards on TouchNote while video calling (and send it to each other!)
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deadvee · 5 months
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My sister is cheating on her husband!!!!!!
first of all, i'm sorry for using so many irrelevant #'s. i really needed the reach i don't have on tumblr
a few days ago my cousin sister told me how she has been seeing this guy for 6 months even tho she is married…. she confessed she also once planned to elope with him and that she's actually serious about him. He is also from a different religion. I can't confront her cause I don't know what to say. also I can't talk to her husband cause I kinda wanna save her marriage (I know it's wrong) I also can't talk to any other adult because we have a very strict family and it's going to be a real mess. So please tell me what can I do to end it all but without creating a scene???
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sheirukitriesfandom · 11 months
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More OTP Questions
Robbed if sleep, tormented by OTP thoughts and mosquito bites, I decided to create another otp questionnaire.
This one is somewhat similar to my popular Unusual OTP Asks but it's written to be answered in character. As always, you are free to adapt it to your liking.
I used"LI" to refer to a character's love interest rather than partner or significant other because I didn't want to include a fixed relationship status, though the questions were written with a relationship in mind.
Please send an ask to the person you reblogged this from. It brightens their day and keeps this ask meme alive.
What is your most precious memory of your LI? What makes that memory special?
What is something your LI does that makes your knees grow weak? In what kind of situation does your LI do the thing?
Have you ever dreamt of your LI? What happened in that dream?
If your LI had to go on a long journey and you couldn't come along, what would you say to them before they leave? Sagely advice? A profound confession of all your feelings?
What's that one thing that always makes your LI smile? Is it easy to achieve?
How far would you go to make your LI happy? Would you travel to the end of the world? Would you commit a crime for them?
How do you imagine your and your LI in your twilight years? Is it a future together or are there factors preventing that?
What made you fall in love with your LI? Has your attitude towards that thing changed over time?
If your LI irreversibly couldn't remember you, would you still love them? Would you try making them fall in love with you again?
Have you confessed your feelings to your LI? What was it like? If not, how do you plan to do it? Do you even want to tell them?
Do you think you and your LI are "meant to be"? What indicates you are fated to be together?
What was the most awkward situation between you and your LI? How did it arise? Did everything work out in the end?
If you and your LI had to plan the perfect day, what would it look like? Would you go out on a date? Would you spend the entire day in bed?
How well would you say you know your LI? If someone asked you a random question about your LI right now, could you answer it?
What's the biggest difference between you and your LI? Is it a physical or abstract difference? Does it lead to tension or awkward situations?
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honeyssweetened · 19 days
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I am curious to hear about any Black woman's experience on here about interracial dating. I ask as someone who has always been open to interracial dating but my previous experiences have largely only involved Black men
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sassyscribe · 10 months
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Which are you?
1. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2. Out of sight out of mind.
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imsosocold · 1 year
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Why are love triangles a thing when polyamory exists?
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paisholotus · 1 year
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I have a question. Why is it that a person can be smart/brilliant at pretty much EVERYTHING that he/she puts their mind to. But have it revealed to them that a woman or man that they so clearly have feelings for returns the sentiment, and all of a sudden, they become the dumbest person on earth.
Lmao, why is that?
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grabowskibeepboop · 5 months
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relationshipsafe · 5 months
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7 Ways To Improve Your Relationship
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Good relationships don’t just happen. I’ve heard many of my clients state that, “If I have to work at it, then it’s not the right relationship.” This is not a true statement, any more than it’s true that you don’t have to work at good physical health through exercise, eating well, and stress reduction.
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I’ve discovered, in the 35 years that I’ve been counseling couples, 7 choices you can make that will not only improve your relationship, but can turn a failing relationship into a successful one.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
This is the most important choice you can make to improve your relationship. This means that you learn how to take responsibility for your own feelings and needs. This means that instead of trying to get your partner to make you feel happy and secure, you learn how to do this for yourself through your own thoughts and actions. This means learning to treat yourself with kindness, caring, compassion, and acceptance instead of self-judgment. Self-judgment will always make you feel unhappy and insecure, no matter how wonderfully your partner is treating you.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
For example, instead of getting angry at your partner for your feelings of abandonment when he or she is late, preoccupied and not listening to you, not turned on sexually, and so on, you would explore your own feelings of abandonment and discover how you might be abandoning yourself.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
When you learn how to take full, 100% responsibility for yourself, then you stop blaming your partner for your upsets. Since blaming one’s partner for one’s own unhappiness is the number one cause of relationship problems, learning how to take loving care of yourself is vital to a good relationship.
KINDNESS, COMPASSION, ACCEPTANCE
Treat others the way you want to be treated. This is the essence of a truly spiritual life. We all yearn to be treated lovingly – with kindness, compassion, understanding, and acceptance. We need to treat ourselves this way, and we need to treat our partner and others this way. Relationships flourish when both people treat each other with kindness. While there are no guarantees, often treating another with kindness brings kindness in return. If your partner is consistently angry, judgmental, uncaring and unkind, then you need to focus on
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
what would be loving to yourself rather than reverting to anger, blame, judgment, withdrawal, resistance, or compliance. Kindness to others does not mean sacrificing yourself. Always remember that taking responsibility for yourself rather than blaming others is the most important thing you can do. If you are consistently kind to yourself and your partner, and your partner is consistently angry, blaming, withdrawn and unavailable, then you either have to accept a distant relationship, or you need to leave the relationship. You cannot make your partner change – you can only change yourself.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
LEARNING INSTEAD OF CONTROLLING
When conflict occurs, you always have two choices regarding how to handle the conflict: you can open to learning about yourself and your partner and discover the deeper issues of the conflict, or you can try to win, or at least not lose, through some form of controlling behavior. We’ve all learning many overt and subtle ways of trying to control others into behaving the way we want: anger, blame, judgment, niceness, compliance, caretaking, resistance, withdrawal of love, explaining, teaching, defending, lying, denying, and so on. All the ways we try to control create even more conflict. Remembering to learn instead of control is a vital part of improving your relationship.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
For example, most people have two major fears that become activated in relationships: the fear of abandonment – of losing the other - and the fear of engulfment – of losing oneself. When these fears get activated, most people immediately protect themselves against these fears with their controlling behavior. But if you chose to learn about your fears instead of attempt to control your partner, your fear would eventually heal. This is how we grow emotionally and spiritually – by learning instead of controlling.
CREATE DATE TIMES
When people first fall in love, they make time for each other. Then, especially after getting married, they get busy. Relationships need time to thrive. It is vitally important to set aside specific times to be together – to talk, play, make love. Intimacy cannot be maintained without time together.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
GRATITUDE INSTEAD OF COMPLAINTS
Positive energy flows between two people when there is an “attitude of gratitude.” Constant complaints creates a heavy, negative energy, which is not fun to be around. Practice being grateful for what you have rather than focusing on what you don’t have. Complaints create stress, while gratitude creates inner peace, so gratitude creates not only emotional and relationship health, but physical health as well.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
FUN AND PLAY
We all know that “work without play makes Jack a dull boy.” Work without play makes for dull relationships as well. Relationships flourish when people laugh together, play together, and when humor is a part of everyday life. Stop taking everything so seriously and learn to see the funny side of life. Intimacy flourishes when there is lightness of being, not when everything is heavy.
how to connect with your man even when he seems most distant
SERVICE
A wonderful way of creating intimacy is to do service projects together. Giving to others fills the heart and creates deep satisfaction in the soul. Doing service moves you out of yourself and your own problems and supports a broader, more spiritual view of life.
If you and your partner agree to these 7 choices, you will be amazed at the improvement in your relationship!
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long-distance-love · 1 year
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Let's all take a moment to appreciate our lovers. Reblog with something you love about your spouse/partner. 💕
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alexblakeisgay · 8 months
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Relationship Quiz
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samstwilightzone · 9 months
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💤💍🎤💚💕🌟
Wow my first ask- very excited to answer this one! Some interesting IchiAki facts- thank you a lot for thisssss ✨️✨️
💤 At first they would have started sleeping a distance away from eachother on Aki's bed, but would always end up cuddling over the course of the night as they'd scoot closer. Once comfortable enough they'd sleep in a spooning position, with Ichimatsu being the little spoon while Aki envelops him in her arms and buries her face in the back of his neck. Aki tends go to sleep later sometimes as her work might keep her up, so when she's kept away from sleeping in her work room Ichimatsu might have already fallen asleep while waiting for her to finish.
💍 Their dream wedding would be small but simple, with black and purple coloured flowers, napkins, etc., with subtle cat motifs on the wedding decor. They'd invite close friends and family only and hold a private ceremony on Aki's family estate. Reginald and ESP Kitty would be the ring bearers. Of course they wouldn't be able to get away scot-free without some things going wrong with Ichimatsu'sbrithers helping with the ceremony, but that's just what makes the event so perfect.
🎤 Ichimatsu has this calm, deep voice most of the time, it gives Aki shivers whenever he whispers in her ear. Sometimes he can get her weak in the knees very easily. But of course, Ichimatsu's voice can range and vary on how he feels, or if he's doing an impression of someone, with his voice being able to reach quite a high pitch when he's frustrated.
💚 They can both get jealous, but more so Ichimatsu, as his self worth is pretty low he can get jealous when he seems Aki having a laugh with his brothers, especially with Karamatsu. And he wants that too! He wants to make her laugh as well! It's just hard sometimes... Aki isn't impervious to getting jealous, but much like with her partner, her jealousy stems from her insecurity that maybe one day he will see someone else more deserving if his life that she can't measure up with (as dumb as it is). Before they started dating Aki was doubtful that Ichimatsu even liked her considering how dedicated him and his brothers were to worshiping Totoko.
💕 Ichimatsu is the clingy one for sure, he holds onto his tall girlfriend as if he's going to lose her if he let's go. Whenever Aki is enjoying some down time he has to butt in and cuddle with her. He's like a cat. He likes sitting on her lap, getting carried by her when he gets 'tired' and recieving affection from her whenever he wants some (which is almost all the time).
🌟 Aki, a 100% it's Aki. She's the sadistic one that likes teasing her masochistic partner. She gives him pet names like 'kitten' and 'sweetheart', nibble on his earlobe and squeeze his hips. She likes eliciting small sounds from him and making his blush, it grants her a form of satisfaction.
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Confessions are not always intended to be accepted, and feelings are not always required to be reciprocated.
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irisopranta · 1 year
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How much stock does your muse put in first impressions? What is the best way to make a good first impression with your muse? 
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Iris puts in a decent amount of stock in first impressions. She does think it's important to put your best foot forward. However, she also understands that people can change over time. To make a good impression with Iris, all you have to do is be polite in her company. Iris is pretty laid back.
Thanks for the ask @silentletterwords
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trendifymarket · 11 months
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His Secret Obsession
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How do you become His Secret Obsession? It is when you tap into a man’s most primal, inner desire... he literally becomes obsessed with you.
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