#relinquish control

[funsimplethings]

#joan didion #the white album #narrative #MS #multiple sclerosis #chronic illness #coping #norm #why me #it could happen to me #it could happen to you #stranger with the knife #loss of control #loss of power over your body #relinquish control

[dwuerch-blog]

Letting Go to Grow

This blog today is meant to help those of us who don’t like letting go. I mean the letting go of treasured times, treasured people, treasured routines, and traditions. Letting go isn’t easy, but it is the life God designed for us. Throughout the Bible we read about letting go. King Saul’s son, Jonathan, and David were best friends, but they had to go their separate ways. Moses’ mom had to put…

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#blog #christian #friendships #God is in control #human being not human doing #inspiration #let it go #letting go #more than conquerors #relationships #relinquish control #Romans 8:37 #seasons

[canisalbus]

I love how Vasco looks like he is always living his best life while Machete looks like he never had a moment of rest, ever, in his life. Like a mirror reflecting two opposites

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#well you know #I think it's a temperament and emotional regulation thing #Vasco has faith things are never as bad as they seem #and has learned to keep up an optimistic demeanor even when he's having doubts and worries #at least to a certain point #in Machete's head in order to survive you have to always predict the worst outcome and do everything in your power to prevent it #so he feels like he's always two steps away from some unforeseeable disaster and if things go wrong it's always his fault #it's very hard for him to relax relinquish control and trust that everything will work out #answered #anonymous

[rozugold]

If your still doing request, I was thinking about your possessed Tommy doodles and was hoping you can do a doodle about someone trying to get dream out without hurting Tommy or try and talk to him while dream is still possessing him. I really like this idea and can't stop thinking about it ever since you posted about it.

A hug always fixes everything!

#rozu asks #grim ghosty #rozoodles #art reqs #distorted illusions #<- sorta #I imagine dream relinquishes his control here on purpose #like ‘oh I don’t have to do anything! Tommy knows what to do :)’

[jewishregulus]

Regulus wearing sexy lingerie for james 🎀

see this is what i’m taaaalking about …. i can see reg in like modern soft lacey pieces too but in my head regulus’ version of sexy lingerie is like … full body chemise’s in a light silk with nothing under …. when he gets out of the shower and puts them on cling to his skin in translucent patches …… he’s gently lifting the edge up to his hip and exposing his leg and james is gulping …… but i also think when he wears lingerie he never buys it for himself . its always from james . some part of the jegulus sex dynamic is regulus being james’ little dress up doll who does whateverrrr he wants . love them.

#i think reg has been forced to be in a lot of positions of power in his life he never wanted #like becoming the heir n stuff #so in sex he rlly likes just relinquishing all control and just feeling good … #srry i’m not a regulus topping james EVER truther #he can power bottom sometimes as a treat #this is so embarrassing how do some of u do this unprompted #i’m gonna go hide in a corner #regulus black #marauders era #marauders #jegulus #snake in the lions den #james potter #ivy answers

[currentlyonstandbi]

george lucas should have left this scene in the final cut because it slaps HARD

#context: delegation of 2000 senators go to confront palpatine and request he relinquish his emergency powers #and palpatine in a bde move asks anakin to be in attendance #the implications of this scene are sooooooo 🥰 #the idea that even before he becomes his apprentice anakin is already under the thumb of palpatine #the way he's already there ready and willing to show up at this man's beck and call #the way he is already submitting himself to his control !!!! #ANAKIN 'I'LL NEVER BE A SLAVE AGAIN' SKYWALKER ONCE MORE SURRENDERING HIMSELF TO THE AUTHORITY OF A MASTER #EXCEPT THIS TIME IT'S WORSE #BECAUSE THIS TIME HE'S CONVINCED HIMSELF THAT IT'S HIS CHOICE. THAT HE WANTS THIS !! #HELLO ????? *TAPS MIC* IS THIS THING ON. CAN ANYONE HEAR ME #anyway im so normal about this #star wars #sw #sw rots #star wars revenge of the sith #rots novelization #anakin skywalker #sheev palpatine #darth sidious #matthew stover #posts brought to you by me listening to sleep token's rain in repeat #and solitaris's soulswap

[varibean]

“Cannibalism as a metaphor for obsession” “cannibalism as a means to convey all consuming love and obsession”

Yeah well what if cannibalism was a metaphor for Eating People? What if it was a means to covey Consuming All Of A Person. For Dinner. Literally.

What then hm?

#zk.txt #cannibalism cw #i prommy i have critical thinking skills but I just think it’s Neat #this is why trmily is a thing I think Varian should just eat ppl no meta or meaning #<-lying bc the cannibalism is a metaphor for his hubris and insanity and relinquishing control and power dynamics and- #BUT ALSO

[scramratz]

I have read hundreds of theories on what Revolutionary Girl Utena is about, and given the nature of the show, all of them are correct.

#it’s about… #adolescence #gender #lesbianism #comphet #SA #the fear of mortality #abusive dynamics #power dynamics #what it means to be an adult #the loss of innocence and how that relates to becoming an adult #breaking cycles of abuse and relinquishing control #what it means to be a good person #what it means to be a woman #womens role within the patriarchy #what it means to be special #that’s just off the top of my head

[seaquestions]

MY HOME ALL ALONG. (id under cut)

[ID: an illustration with a busy composition depicting, in parts, a person and a robot. the piece is coloured in a palette of peach, turquoise and brown.

the upper left corner is divided into five panels by cables that join together at the top. panel 1 contains several computer windows opened to security camera footage and many folders. panel 2 is a close up on a person's eye. the person is wearing glasses. panel 3 is a close up on the camera-like head of a robot with a silhouetted reflection of the person. panel 4 shows the person closing their eye tightly. panel 5 shows the robot looking away.

at the upper right corner is a balcony overlooking an empty field, with curtains to the side.

at the centre is a pair of robotic hands putting on a latex glove. at the centre right is a translucent profile of a brain. under the brain is a camera lens with cables connecting to veins that go down to the bottom of the image, over a door with cables on it.

at the bottom left, there is the person's neck in profile, showing a band-aid on the nape. next to them is the robot, in shadow, facing away from the viewer, a ribbon tied at the back of its neck. at the bottom right, the person's nose and mouth can been seen, with two gloved fingers opening their mouth.

at the top right corner, there is also text that reads:

"__ is not a person.

__ is not an extension of my self, is not a part of my self, is not my self or not not my self, is -

(a mind-reader, a caretaker, a helper, a lover, a tormentor, a therapist, a friend, a watcher, a house, a cold dark void in the corner of every room -

anything i want, anything i need, anything i think of -

within the limits of what this tired brain can think of)

not you, not me, not it, not he or she or they or -

in my loneliness and desperation and apathy and decay, lying wide-eyed on a grassy field, warm sun smiling at me, debris and shrapnel and explosions and fire behind me, i realise, finally -

__ was -"

end ID]

#illustration #robot #artists on tumblr #personal art #niksartstuffs #u remember that one robot i drew w/ the apron. this is the story concept... condensed into one illustration.. more or less. #dont feel like summarizing it like the plots nothin complex rly so its smth that a summary wld make completely uninteresting imo. #but! for artistic context here's keywords/phrases: self-isolation (!!). avoidance. desire to relinquish all control over yourself. #desire to tightly control yourself. sense of self. knowing/wanting/needing/getting. and lastly The Haunted House (but sci-fi ofc). #also the robot isn't sentient btw. (unless...? 🤨) #anyway these tags r SO LONG now. my throat is still scratchy and my hearing is quite muffled but its all getting better. ok bye for now!

[alcego]

i actually can’t stop thinking about how annoyed Andrew would be if Neil was a terrible driver. like yes he trusts Neil with his life Kevin and he gave him the keys to his car but holy shit. holy shit does he not trust Neil with his car. “Neil can drive,” Andrew says, closing his eyes as he realizes he has a New Fear now, entirely unrelated to heights, and that is whatever fucking horrors Neil will submit them to during the two hour drive to Columbia

#aftg #tfc #andreil #neil josten #andrew minyard #i'm SORRY this is the funniest possibility #like it also kinda. tracks. bc while swapping driving duties makes sense i cannot see mary willingly relinquishing even that much control #neil 'yeah i was basically a professional road tripper' josten except he was the co-pilot at all times forever #maybe mary knew this short little fucker couldn't see the end of the hood #maybe she was protecting us all from the atrocities neil commits behind the wheel #who's to say #certainly not mary

[ghostintransit]

#clara oswald #doctor who #twelveclara #whouffaldi #she was insane for this btw #like the way choice hangs over her head throughout s8 even though time and time again we See the question answered #but her inability to relinquish this firm grasp for control just leaves us to watch the inevitable consequences as this fundamental truth #this indisputable answer is Finally spoken aloud and it's Acerbic and Biting it's clara hammering the final nail in danny's coffin #like something something the way it's bookended by clara trying to be honest with danny and it kills him and finally actually being honest #and it kills what was left of him #there's something So wrong with her haha she's my baby

[strawberrystepmom]

mind has rotated to kakashi today and all i can think about is how resistant he is to you doing things for him until he figures out you’re doing them bc you care for him and want to alleviate his stress rather than trying to yank control of his life from him

#I have always hc’d kakashi has having anxiety rooted control issues (just like me fr!!!!) and as exhilarating as falling in love would be #for him there’s also the terror of: how do I share myself with someone else how do I relinquish my fine tooth comb #bc I know he’s nothing if not structured and disciplined and self sufficient so giving that up feels like too much at first #but you make him dinner with a smile you fold his clothes and hang them out to dry #you fold the edges of his comforter just how he likes bc you know it’s comfortable to him not bc you have to

[danishsweetheartmp3]

something about tai, one of the most vocally skeptical of the group when it comes to the supernatural, going to lottie’s morning circle because of her love for van and that possibly being the thing that made her sleepwalking finally stop and which leads her and shauna back to the cabin

#trisha talks #yellowjackets #i feel like i need to think about this a little more #but the scene where akilah talks about her pregame ritual and tai agrees that even if she doesn't strictly believe in it she'll still go #tai's skepticism is also interesting to me too like it definitely seems to come from her fear of losing control #kind of in a season 1 jon archivist way where he denies the supernatural because he's afraid of it + his childhood experience #so its possible that her relinquishing her skepticism by joining in on the rituals does actually help her?? #since the sleepwalking acts as the most extreme version of tai losing control by being taken over by some other entity

[that-foul-legacy-lover]

The concept of Childe having the constant urge to fight someone or something even when FL is just curious/doesn't mind the other party ..

Imagine he's sorta peeved and wants to fight you for whatever reason and FL doesn't want to do that :,D

maybe you're Childe's sparring partner and something made him irritable so he wants to get his anger out via fighting!! but Foul Legacy can feel his annoyance, even if it's not directed specifically at you, and gets worried because Childe might hurt you on accident- the Harbinger's been known to fight more erratically when he's irritated, and Foul Legacy desperately wants to keep you safe, so he does the only thing he can think of: hijacking Childe's body until he calms down!! it's only for a little bit, he promises!!

needless to say, you were quite surprised when you were greeted by a fluffy Abyssal monster instead of your usual sparring opponent. and unlike Childe, Foul Legacy wants nothing to do with battle

he's quick to take you in his arms, lifting and spinning you around with a happy trill before cradling you to his chest. he sits on the floor of the Golden House, cape-like wings fluttering in delight when you tentatively smile back at him, and without a word he pushes his head into your hands for pets. your fingers sink into his soft ginger hair, resounding purrs filling the room whenever you scritch or scratch, and Foul Legacy happily settles around you for a nice nap, looking at you with nothing less than adoration. Childe can wait until he's calmed down a bit- Foul Legacy wants your attention and he wants it NOW!! and he nestles into your lap with a contented rumble, the vibrations shaking your body from how strong they are as he carefully kneads his claws on your legs <33

#genshin impact #childe #tartaglia #foul legacy #foul legacy childe #genshin tartagalia #genshin childe #genshin tartaglia #chit chat #anon #if you scritch in certain places Foul Legacy just MELTS #turns into an Abyssal puddle of mush #Childe didn't know that Foul Legacy could have such control over his body #because usually he easily relinquishes it but not this time!! #also if Foul Legacy hasn't seen you in a while he might crush your legs in his eagerness to lay on your lap #i made this really wholesome but i have more than are more hurty...... #short scenario #other's stuff

[marc--chilton]

(mgv) what if like. cuddy susses out that when house is on his cycle he's both more erratic AND more controllable?? he's more of a pest (small scale tyranny in the clinic) but if she pulls her voice on him he tones down against his will -- which opens her up for more retaliation pranks later because house HATES the fact he's susceptible to biology like that. BUT if she sends wilson to tame him, house isn't nearly as frustrating afterwards. she gets less complaints about him for a few days, too. cuddy jokes that wilson is her secret weapon against house antics but soon realizes that she can only pull it as a last resort because once it happens, it stirs wilson's hormones and since they're both alphas, they have to have some distance or he'll start growling. everything's back to normal when the cycles pass at least and by that point cuddy is too relieved to question anything (like why their heat/rut absence notices were on her desk the same day)

#house md #hilson #they both have power over him but he only relinquishes the control himself over to wilson #a fact house doesn't like to admit because that means vulnerability and yeah #cuddy doesnt even ponder if they're bonded or mates or whatever #no matter what universe theyre in hilson is a mutated relationship all its own #omegaverse is haunting me now someone help me