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#remember when dani wrote amiras name on a paper and said that he will respect every boundary she sets bc all he wants is to be with her
iidiota · 4 years
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Of course it's totally normal for Dani to want to kiss his girlfriend. It's normal for a person to want to kiss the person they are dating. However, if the person you are dating has set some boundaries even before you started dating, and one of the most important ones for them is no physical contact, including kissing, for reasons that are important to them like their religion, and you know this very well and you agreed to this and you said you didn't mind as long as you're with them, then insisting on kissing them is not only incredibly annoying, but is also very disrespectful to that person. You're not respecting their wishes and you're not respecting their boundaries. Yes, Dani is "young" (isn't he 19? So he is an adult) and he's "still learning" etc but being ignorant about a religion is not an excuse about him pressuring Amira and whinning about wanting to kiss her when she has clearly stated since before they started seeing each other that she is not okay with this.
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