Always remember it’s not about being head over heels in love, that’s how you get hurt and walked on.
It’s about how he treats you and does he make you feel safe asking for things.
Is he a provider that fits your life goals?
That’s your man.
I’m not saying date an ugly man, I am saying date a man you don’t mind growing old with because he makes you feel safe and pays the bills
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Learn to recognize when you can do better.
If he makes you feel guilty for wanting to be taken care of, you deserve better. Since the 1700’s women have only survived because they chose men who were capable of providing and protecting
Don’t let these new age dusties gaslight you into accepting the poverty love they offer
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