There are thousands of motivational books around, talk about how to improve your thoughts. Now a days many YouTubers have started sharing lectures about thought leadership. Even I heard that in India, many motivational speakers are conducting seminars just to talk about Time management, Startups etc. and citizens are investing good money to attend them. But, why?
Why Improving Thoughts is so important? What's wrong with your existing thoughts and believes? Are they not true?
Then how our parents and ancestors were surviving without hearing these lectures??
Don’t misunderstand my arguments, they are not mine. I know improvement is inevitable. These are the questions from my audiences.
First of all, your mind is the kitchen of all your Thoughts. You derive thoughts when you observe something from your surroundings. Later your constant observations on something in a particular way, creates you believe that approach. After this we all know. Your belief system controls your mind for subsequent action and your action returns your result. This is a known psychology.
What is not so common here is why do you think in a certain way without evaluating that positive and negative aspect of it? Or, even if you see all positive aspects in a negative thought, why do you see all positive only?
Your observation is sometimes diluted by distractors. We are distracted by our own lifestyles. Unknowingly, we convert our Wants into Needs and pay hefty Credit card bill every month. We are distracted by so many advertisements, channels, media, newspapers, social media, our business, our office, our families and so on. They are not bad but they provide so much of information that instead of focusing on our intelligence and discover new ideas or opportunities, you burn all your energies daily in processing the available information. You forget to pull the husk to draw the seeds. You forget to go depth in one topic and become master of that instead.
In order to grow in today’s world having “T” shaped mentality is important. Breadth and Depth. Only widening your knowledge about many things can confuse your decision-making power.
As a result, you will become short lived, low patience, lack of control on your thoughts because you don’t have time in the race of processing all information.
The real problem is – Lack of mindfulness. We are suffering from this disease and we realize it more often when we face some challenges and don’t get any answer from our mind to solve them.
Mind fogging is a problem and hence mind works abnormally. It wants everything at one go. In order to avoid mind fogging, motivational speakers spread this slogan – improve your thoughts! Like in some families in India, they believe that if someone calls you from behind while you are starting your journey for a good work– that day can turn into evil for you and you might fail to achieve your desired result from your work. This believe has become so widespread that no one questions the rationale behind it.
A negative thought can generate wrong believe and the result would be further negative. Some people make this further down. When they fail, they make this supersition as a rule in their families. They create more negative thoughts and frustrations. Finally, this process of thinking becomes a Fictitious Cycle.
In older days, our ancestors never used to get so much of information so easily due lack of globalization. They used to follow motivational guidance from the Holy books. Therefore, the urgency of improving mindfulness was met at that time through their spiritual masters.
At present, some people take Holy books as religious fanatism. Therefore, you need to work on your consciousness as a daily ritual. Consider this as mind exercise by following the motivational speakers and this is an investment in your career.
Using intelligence in the place of mind is a better option. If someone believes in spirituality, he will say – "Do not listen to your mind at all. Focus on your soul – which is your true sense of AWARENESS". That is pure and eternal. Your Inner-You is transcendental. If you start following your intelligence more, you can restore your positive energy, improve your thoughts as a result and you will get positive answers from within during all your obstacles in life.
Believe that mind has answers to all questions but those reside within your subconsciousness. If you learn to extract the right information at the right time, you can create better impact in your life.
Now, another important question is – Improving Thoughts towards where?? Upwards, downwards?
How do I know which direction is right for me?
You need to ask these questions to your awareness. Only your Inner-You is completely aware of what is right and wrong for you. Having less dependency on your mind and more on your consciousness and finding the true purpose of your life can help you to answer where your thoughts should be directed to.
What does it mean to rest in your divine femininity?
FEMININITY is not just a LOOK but an ENERGY we all possess. Allow your self to flow in your feminine energy. Society spreads the narrative that women especially Black & Brown are supposed to be tough and embrace hardship.
Ladies, when The Most High created us, He created us to be soft . Society has placed this notion that being soft equates to being weak. The word ‘Soft’ means that something is easy to mold , cut , and compress. This shows the ability to survive any type of condition without breaking. Most High God also Created women to be a helpmate. Now , we know in this generation the word ‘ help mate ‘ has a negative connotation. But think about it , when a woman is a helpmate she is accepting that she is able to aid and assist . If being a helpmate is negative or for the ‘weak’ there would be no use for help . To seek help in anything means you are seeking assistance from a source that is either WISER, STRONGER , or more CAPABLE to complete whatever task you set out to do. Think about it .. when we need help we do not seek it from a lesser than but rather from a greater than.
Let us enjoy our femininity and embrace it. Feminine energy is not weakand resting in it is the STRONGEST place you will ever be as a woman.
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