#rude and mean child

[an-exasperated-hades-kid]

So I've been seeing a lot of will solace hate, and I'm here to defend my son.

First of all, he's not a toxic person at all he's a human who can mess up at times and be unintentionally rude, like in that one scene boo where he says

‘Oh, please.’ Will sounded unusually angry. ‘Nobody at Camp Half-Blood ever pushed you away. You have friends – or at least people who would like to be your friend. You pushed yourself away. If you’d get your head out of that brooding cloud of yours for once –

^ that is rude but he didn't have bad intentions because according to him nico wasn't scary and the people that he hung out with - Lou Ellen and Cecil- didn't think that nico was scary either as they were both friendly towards him when they met him at the Roman camping area outside chb so while his delivery wasn't good he meant no harm and he also helped nico realize that not everyone hates him and then there are a few jokes that he made that people consider toxic or offensive but nico was never offended or sad about these jokes he only rolled his eyes and acted exasperated so he knew will meant no harm .

Will is canonically described as a laid-back and calm person, but he is also stubborn when it comes to certain things like medical related things which is understandable since he can feel everything physically wrong with a person by just touching them and is persistent that they don't die and Take care of themselves which is understandable since he saw majority of his siblings die and doesn't want more ppl to die .

Will is actually quite a complex character he's calm and laid back but he's stubborn and strict when he needs to be he's supportive and loving to nico but since he's a kid he struggles with being understanding sometimes hence why he asks persephone for advice on how to be there for nico properly showing that he's mature enough to ask for help . He's also someone represses his emotions because he thinks that as head counselor, he has to be a perfect example, and he told this apollo in the 1st toa book. He's also pretty insecure about his abilities, as shown in boo

Evidence:

You did,’ confirmed Nico. ‘But it was the way you did it. You made it clear that you wanted me around. You said you wanted me to come to the infirmary and help, because … because you could use a “friendly face”.’

‘It was true. And you did help.’

‘You brought me closer instead of rejecting me,’ Nico said, his voice cracking. ‘I’d never been called a friendly face. Ever. You made me rethink everything – my place in camp, my crush on Percy, my future. It took you scolding me like you were the camp director to make me realize that I was … wanted.

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But with Nico … It’s hard, Persephone. I want the best for him, and he seems to disappear into his darkness, like he’s hiding in a place where he doesn’t want my light.’

‘Then why not offer him your darkness

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Nico sighed in exasperation. He hated working with other people. They were always cramping his style, making him uncomfortable. And Will Solace … Nico revised his impression of the son of Apollo. He’d always thought of Will as easygoing and laid back. Apparently, he could also be stubborn and aggravating

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In conclusion will isn't toxic and he isn't perfect and if I'm wrong about something please point it out cause I haven't read the books in a while and if I missed something please point it out and I'm sorry for the typos I wrote this without wearing my glasses as 3 am after studying for a test

#will solace #defending will solace #hes not a bad person but hes also not perfect hes a mixture of both #we need to stop the hate for will like hes done like one or two bad thing in the series and even those times didnt mean to be rude #solangelo #percy jackson and the Olympians #heroes of olympus #the sun and the star #nico di angelo #leave my boy will alone like if he comes off as a dick its a writing mistake on ricks part except that boo i will not exuse him there #anti will solace #im countering yalls argument #its stupid and immature to hate someone because they did like 1 thing #like bro is 16 and he was 14/15 during that scene in boo ofc he's going to make mistake #he's a fucking child and he's learning

[yourdeepestfathoms]

Artemy, with literally every other child in the game

Artemy, with Clara

#it’s so wild to me that he has like seven foster kids but he is So Mean to this one child #and i’m not taking clara being weird and sassy and snarky as an excuse #he is SO rude to her #idc what anyone says he has no right to treat her that way #i’m her lawyer and she is INNOCENT #it’s still kinda funny though #but fr why is he always threatening to kill her #this is about p2 btw #dude was vile to this middle schooler #pathologic 2 #pathologic #pathologic memes #artemy burakh #artemy pathologic #the haruspex #clara pathologic #clara the changeling #clara saburova

[acewizardinspace]

I think the 'the jedi use child soldiers' thing is stupid for a lot of reasons, but among those is that this is a complete misunderstanding of how children's media works. Kids want to see themselves doing amazing things and giving that an in depth analysis that boils down to 'all these adults are evil' is poor, bad faith, media criticism.

That being said, if you compare Star Wars to just about any other YA work, the jedi are miles better as far as child care goes. Canonly every single one of these 'kids in danger' has a dedicated adult who is ideally supposed to be with them to teach and protect them. Very uncommon for the genre.

So if people are mad at the jedi for this, I can't fathom what their reaction to other YA literature is. And if they hate YA literature, idk, maybe they shouldn't be reading YA. Just a thought.

#in defense of the jedi #pro jedi #the other reasons the child solider thing is dumb is that most padawans are not children #like ahsoka was considered young. Dooku was what 16 when he became one? Obi-Wan was 25 and knighted earlier than planned #even if they were knighted early because of the war (which i think is stupid and there is no evidence for that) #that doesn't make them all kids... #and the character we see as child padawans are clearly there for children to watch and enjoy #I mean unpredictable things happen but child padawans are not supposed to be facing danger alone #but eased into it by a trusted adult which is not what happens in ever other YA book #Honestly if you hate the jedi for this but don't equally hate every other adult in every other YA book #maybe you are just LOOKING for reasons to hate the jedi. In which case idk maybe examine why that is #and if you do hate all adults in YA maybe it is time to move onto adult literature because you grew up #which is awesome! I love adult books but judging kids media by these standards and hating people for wanting simple stuff #in their book created to be simple is kind of rude you know? #i realize this post is probably hitting a wasp's nest but I mean if you want to take what I say out of context #(because in context I didn't do or say anything wrong) #well that says more about you than me doesn't it #my thoughts

[sukifoof]

i think im just gonna start blocking people that engage in flowey age discourse <3 im not in the fandom for petty drama about nothing im here for analysis and art and its really irritating to be looking for art and all there is is arguments. i love uty dearly but the sudden uptick in pointless arguments regarding floweys character is infuriating. why can't we talk about how well hes written and that hes an extremely good example of ptsd why must we argue. if u disagree with something block and move on dont act like children

#im just really annoyed #this is part of the reason im taking a break from twitter its really annoying to want to see my favorite character #and instead the only 'content' is people fighting #its a shame to see it being dragged here too. every day i get a little closer to leaving social media Forever #'umm reading comprehension' hey if u have a point to make. make it. without being ableist and rude. #this goes for both 'sides' of the argument. also yes its ableist if u say that because he acts like 'that' he must be a child #hey!!! maybe dont call symptoms of ptsd something only a child can experience!!!! its incredibly demeaning!!!! #ive said this plenty times before but i absolutely do not at all care what age u view him as #do whatever u want im not ur mom. i personally dont wanna see anything suggestive or mean so i think from now on ill be blocking freely #can we maybe communicate with understanding and kindness and agree to disagree #riel

[sofishticated3]

Omg the f1 side of instagram and particularly the m*x fans are not passing the vibe check. I mean, of course if he's your favorite driver, you can be happy and express that in the comments but is it necessary to always bring up Lewis or merc domination? Or harass someone as soon as they express their opinion about m*x that does not fit the "golden boy/great white hope" image? I swear some are just proving themselves to be racist and misogynist, which considering the man they stan, well

#one woman says that she finds max to be rude to his engineer #you bet there will be men telling her to go back to the kitchen or that she doesn't know what's she watching #someone saying max is a spoiled child? #of course some will ask “are you sure you don't mean george?” or “lemme guess you're brit and a lewis fan” #like #i think i'm getting too used to tumblr and the ability to curate my own experience where i can filter tags and words #and block people #i take that for granted and will do it no more #want to lose faith in humanity or get mad? head to f1 insta comment section especially on a post with m*x #some still think mercedes domination was worse. #and are particularly bitter about said domination as if lewis had ran over their dog #seems to me like it's another issue at play here 🤐 #anti max verstappen #anti verstappen #ofc this isn't an attack to all max fans #as i said if he's your fav you're happy and that's good for you #but some relate to him a bit too much if y'know what i mean #lewis hamilton

[anxiously-sidequesting]

hear me out. Ambrose (derogatory) could have been such a good character if he was *actually old* (no that party city beard ain't fooling me).

Like from the beginning it could have been "I'll show him- threatening a new student before orientation, no less- ACK, oof, my back!"

And YW would have been like "Nah don't worry about it old man, I'll fight that Mall staircase or whoever for you. But first let's get you to bed, you haven't taken your meds today."

Like it could've been such a great dynamic between a guy who's knowledgeable and truly wants to help but is way past his prime, and the young apprentice who has no idea what's going on at any given time but is "yeah this dude will 100% keel over from trying to take on the weight of the spiral if I leave him alone for two seconds so I'll knock some heads for him. I like knocking heads anyway >:D"

First off I absolutely love "Ambrose (derogatory)" I'm gonna get that tattooed on my body /j

AND SO LIKE IM KINDA LIKE 🤔 AT THIS SCENARIO (not you anon your idea is absolutely lovely, just thinkin hard about this) BECAUSE LIKE. OKAY HERE'S MY THOUGHT PROCESS

I guess it would be cool to have a YW who instead seems eager and willing to fulfill the role of the Savior instead of dreading it (and it would give a bit of a different face to their relationship mentor/mentee with Ambrose) buuuuuut like in the case that Ambrose is really too old to deal with things himself, instead of whatever reason he doesn't do things in canon, he could always just like find a capable and prepared adult to deal with the nationwide threat of Malistaire INSTEAD of the new kid who's eager to fight

AND THIS ISNT ME DISSING ON YOU ANON I LOVED YOUR IDEA. Like instead of seeing the YW unhappy and resentful and trudging along doing dangerous stuff it's interesting and cool to see where in an alternate universe the YW immediately takes to being a hero and loves the action and does it FOR Ambrose, not just because he told them to. I think that would be very cute if it like, removed the actual issue that Ambrose is still relying on an ill-prepared child to do his work. Whether in canon where the YW is urged to follow Ambrose after Malistaire, or if Ambrose falters and then the YW rushes in to beat his minions up instead, it's still on the Young Wizard to clean up this very adult mess. If this scenario continues on just like canon, the Wizard still ends up being Bartleby's Scion with a tainted Shadow Soul and heaps and heaps of trauma. It just started out a little differently

I HOPE IM NOT SCARING YOU ANON IM NOT SCOLDING YOU IM JUST ANALYZING THIS (please don't be sad I love you anon ty for sending this). Please feel free to send me more of this if you like because it's really interesting tbh. I really.hope I didn't scare you off with this HASKDNDRLSJSJ this was a great ask

#this is cute really!!!! i appreciate this #i still love “ambrose (derogatory)” though im super serious #i hopw im not rude in this reply HELSJSOSJD sorry if i am i dont mean it #not to be like “hmmm yeah BUT-” whenever someone wanta to share with me im serious. i love other ppls stuff #in this situation the dynamic changes a liiiitke bit where it seems like its more voluntary on the wizard's end #but there's still the underlying issue that its still the wizard's life being put in danger on ambrose's behalf i think #i like in your scenario anon where it seems like ambrose isnt doing this out of his own selfishness- #-but because he literally cant #like its implied that if he werent two coughs away from death he absolutely would stand in the wizards place #i like THAT ambrose. he's still Ambrose (letting a child kill people) but he has less choice in this matter #so like i wonder how he feels then. being too old. does he conaider stepping down so the wizard can be properly cared for? #or does he continue with his role in order to keep the wizard happy by bashing in heads for him? the conundrum #I STILL FEEL GUILTY ANON SORRY IF THIS IS MEAN I LOVE THIS I SWEAR #wizard101 #wiz101 #w101 #asks #anon #merle ambrose

[momotonescreaming]

thinking about a fic where Dustin pulls the typical fandom trope of barging into Steve's house without knocking, shouting and complaining like an asshole - only to come face to face with Steve's parents

#steve's mom pulls the most offended face #his dad looks angry #who is this rude child and why is he breaking into their house #steve tries to calm them down #this is dustin steve babysits him sometimes #to try and stop his dad from calling the cops on dustin #because he WILL call the cops on him #and dustin curls into himself as steve glares at him when his parents arent looking #when steve says dustin needs to learn some manners or he'll end up in deep shit? #this is what he FUCKING MEANT DUSTIN #s4 dustin is an asshole #i want him to face the consequences of his own actions #a slap to face so he shapes up #i know he's a teen and all teens are assholes #but he's mean and entitled about it #way more of a bully than steve ever was tbh #stranger things #steve harrington #dustin henderson #momo.txt

[avisisisis]

I could talk about how female characters are almost always watered down to the responsible friend or the voice reason or the badass character with no feelings, etc etc and how it's not only harmful but usually ooc for most of the characters it includes (Nya, Annabeth, literally every girl from PjO, Shoko and Nobara, etc) for hours but I have to sleep

#this is a bad thing #the whole “the boys r doing smth stupid while the girls stare in disappointment” thing is so annoying #like #in pjo #if we're talking abt canon personalities #annabeth was also deranged as fuck. she's smart ofc she is but she's a feral child that lives in a camp where slaying monsters is normal #she's badass ofc but she's not your “responsible character” #also. badass female characters #a character doesn't have to be mean rude or straight up heartless to be badass #annabeth CRIED bc the giant dog w three heads that guards the underworld didn't have anyone to play with #that girl cries over everything and i love her for it #if percabeth watched titanic it wouldn't be a “percy cries and annabeth comforts” situation #honestly they'd both be rating the way the ppl fell out of the boat #my girl doesn't deserve this mischaracterization #if you think a girl has to b mean to be badass then she is NOT badass #annabeth chase #percy jackson #pjo #ninjago #ninjago nya #ieiri shoko #kugisaki nobara #jjk

[4izawas]

are u ever gonna write again

to be completely honest w u i don’t really know <3 atm i am perfectly content kicking back n playing games n reading on ao3!! i finished my last comm from my last set and i wrote one gojo thing in jan but other than that i don’t really feel like writing!! i have SEVERAL drafts sitting in varying degrees of completion tho so if i do write u would get one of those dhfbhfcn

#a sub aventurine one is there! n also rutting alastor x doe reader! n lucifer x hellhound guard! #several shou-nya n normal sho ones! more subby male content! shenhe!! #will they be done? who knows! #all ik rn bestie is that i’m enjoying life and slowly drifting from writing #this blog has NEVER had a schedule of any kind and never will <33 so it will go wherever the wind takes it #also teensie word of advice: pls work a lil bit on your phrasing <3 this came off a lil bit rude ish even if u didn’t mean it that way <3 #i’m always always always down to chat tho! my inbox is always open!! y’all can use the anon button as much as u want!! its why she’s on <33 #other than this tho im just gonna be rbing away n playing games n sleeping in between work n taking care of my furry terror child #anyways! back to gensh <33 #cas has mail !! #caspian.anon #USER ID: guest ..!

[hannibalismos-jaaneman]

so i never said this to anyone and bottling this up is exhausting so i'm just gonna vomit it here. PLEASE SENSITIZE CHILDREN TO ART.

#raj shitposting #so on new year's eve my apartment complex decided to have like a little carnival and people were invited to set up stalls for their stuff #so my mother is a mix media artist and i FORCED her to set up a stall which i kinda sorta regret now because of this thing that happened #so we were setting up our stall and a little boy comes up and wants to purchase something from the jewelry section and when we #tell him the price of the piece he calls my MOTHER'S ART A SCAM. A SEVEN YEAR OLD BOY WHO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO SPELL PHOTOSYNTHESIS!!! #WHO DOESN'T KNOW WHAT A SCAM ACTUALLY IS. CALLS MY MOTHER'S ENTIRE ART A SCAM. #i wanted to smack him so hard across the face but my mother held me back and told me to calm down and asked him to get lost. #but the entire day our mood was rotten about this #PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF FUCKING GOD TELL YOUR CHILDREN THAT IT'S NOT OKAY TO INSULT SOMEONE'S WORK LIKE THAT!!!!!!! #YOU IMBECILE IT'S EXPENSIVE BECAUSE IT REQUIRES SKILL AND MATERIAL THAT IS DIFFICULT TO PROCURE AND KNOWLEDGE THAT IN ITSELF IS HELLA- #-EXPENSIVE TO GATHER!!!!! #ART IS INVALUABLE GUYS WHY DO YOU THINK OUR PARENTS PRESERVE THOSE STUPID ASS CRAYON LANDSCAPES FROM OUR CHILDHOOD????? #he might be a child and not know what any of this means but he could just back off... this is NOT curiosity it's mean spiritedness #and FUCKING RUDE #i was a child sometime in my life. i never talked shit like that to a 40 YEAR OLD AND TALKED BACK WHEN THEY ASKED ME TO BACK OFF #smh #anti intellectualism #art

[femmesandhoney]

idc how old a kid is, and a teenager most certainly is aware, of how rapey and digusting sexually violent "jokes" and threats are towards women. we all know, its not a secret why that sort of language is used to "shut up" women. i will not feel bad for a kid talking like that, they are very aware of what they're doing. maybe one day they're regret it sure, but today doesn't seem to be that day so.

#its very different than an actual child accidentally and unassumingly making jokes that are offensive or something #and then having to stop them and explain that theyre being mean or rude or something #a teen making rape threats is not the same level

[yourdeepestfathoms]

every single conversation in the Changeling route is like having a metal baseball bat swung directly at your teeth

like, Georgiy saying he would execute Clara on the spot if it were up to him? Aspity saying she’ll make her go missing? Andrey calling her several horrible names? her own mother calling her stupid and useless? Daniil threatening to shoot her for literally no reason?? TWICE????

#as my friend had said #nobody in this game knows how to talk to a child #they’re either extremely rude or they’re weirdly creepy with her #everyone is so MEAN goddamn #nobody was this mean to artemy and he was thought to be a serial killer!! #meanwhile clara is being called a bitch and a plague bringer and a wretch and a moron #among other things #there ANGST POTENTIAL #i have so many thoughts about her route #pathologic #pathologic classic hd #pathologic hd #clara the changeling #clara saburova #clara pathologic #georgiy kain #aspity #andrey stamatin #katerina saburova #daniil dankovsky #daniil pathologic #the bachelor pathologic

[transgressionagainstthegods]

Realizing you were heavily abused as a child when you convinced yourself "it's not that bad/ it could be worse" has fucking hands

#i see how good or decent parents treat their kids now #why the fuck were you so god damn mean to me #im glad you didn't do it with my younger sibling #but what the fuck is wrong with you? how could you turn a creative happy child into one who was too ashamed to even breath half the time? #too ashamed to make noise? too ashamed to show emotion? too ashamed to explain any problems i have? #congrats you shaped a child who tried to only speak when spoken to and hid every emotion possible like a disgusting little secret #but sure go ahead and scream at me and call me stupid and lazy and rude #bc there's no way you had TWO kids w autism and its not like i fucking begged to be told what i did wrong so i wouldn't do it again #no obviously it was my fault #fuck #tw abuse #abuse #child abuse #child neglect #myp0

[blujayonthewing]

wh. I just fucking realized that prior to our warlock regaining his lost memories melliwyk was the only member of her party who had ever had sex

#that can't be right?? what the fuck #aritian turns out to have had a wife and child Before but when the campaign started he was a total amnesiac so #zhartook is aro/ace and our bard visited a brothel several irl years into the campaign #and was like 'please don't tell my friends this is my first time' #I guess to be fair I don't know about Claire but she doesn't 1) seem like a casual fling girl and 2) seem like she's had a boyfriend #HOW WAS MELLIWYK. THE *ONLY* ONE WHO KNEW WHAT SEX IS. #I mean the answer is she's old fgkjhkfd #extremely young for a gnome but plenty of lifespan to have spent years with no social life AND have previously had a BIT of a social life #extremely funny to me #NOT TO BE RUDE! TO MELLIWYK IT'S JUST. IF I SHOWED YOU A LINEUP OF THE WHOLE PARTY YOU WOULD NOT EXPECT-- #[COUGH] anyway literally none of her friends are equipped to call her out for having bite marks on her neck. thank you good night #my OCs #melliwyk

[lovebvni]

https://www.tumblr.com/lovebvni/746876273478008833/the-shifting-community

I mean this in the most genuine way possible, but you do not understand the point of people saying shifting for minors as an adult is weird. I also don’t think you understand how ages work even across different realities.

(I would like to note that from here on out, when I say “you” I am not referring to you specifically. I am using the general form of the word. Just talking in the second person.)

Regardless of how old you are there your consciousness is still an adult with an adult mindset and experiences. Yes, you can script yourself to be younger but at the end of the day your adult mind is attracted to a minor. (IMO it’s different if it’s live action and the actor was an adult at the time of filming)

As for the ages thing, if you are 16 here and shift to somewhere where you are also 16, you’re still just 16. The ages don’t combine because you did not live out an extra so many years you just shifted to a reality where your 16 years you’ve already lived are different.

Obviously no one can stop you, and no ones gonna know you even did it unless you tell them. But I hope this helps you understand where people come from when they say it’s weird to shift for minors as an adult. /gen

girly omg i can’t i’m not even gonna argue with you. have ur own opinion, don’t try to change mine.

#im actually pissed the fuck off #stop asking me about this shit #i don’t care anymore #its getting to the point where i may just close my asks #because i know what im talking about #just because you’re limiting yourself doesn’t mean im going to do the same #and im not talking about in a predatory way jesus fucking christ #i’m talking about someone who wants to experience being a child again #please gtfo #i don’t care ir i’m being rude anymore

[locallibrarylover]

i think there is absolutely no situation that requires you to be mean to a child

#musings #''oh but theyre annoying/rude/misbehaving'' i dont care! do not be mean to children. #you can discipline a child without yelling at them or berating them. if you see a child being ''annoying'' in public? #you dont have to say anything. you can ignore them. #but there is no situation that requires being mean to a child.