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heleneplays · 3 years

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BLOG ASKS

I forgot to answer, but thank you to @ravenclaw-craftsgirl, @annabelle-tanaka-official for the tag!

Keeping it short HERE with the handy read more bc my answers will be long <3

1. why did you choose your url?

Honestly, heleneplays-- it's pretty self explanatory that this was gonna be a gaming blog, dedicated to whatever I was playing... which was HPHM at the time.

HOWEVER as u can see, the focus shifted to my comfort milfs characters and my own player characters,,, who are extensions of me, if not a direct self-insert

so here's to my clownery for games and the characters and/or plot that hook me to them

2. any side blogs? if you have them, name them and why you have them.

yes but no thank <3

well

u may percieve, just this once.

THIS is a sideblog. my main is @h-doodles

3. how long have you been on tumblr?

I'm celebrating my 9th year of being in this hellsite on September 21st.

4. do you have a queue tag?

yes but i forget to use them usually,,,

it's tagged #queue or a variation of, but i'm small and lazy bc I scroll on my phone and tumblr labs' quick queue function is on </3

5. why did you start your blog in the first place?

this blog was for the good ole HPHM, but also to actually to simp for Patricia Rakepick on the side, as it was only Y3 back then and I am but a small, hapless lesbian for she

also I was. ig tired of having everything under my main, untagged, unfiltered; so here I am with a very handy sideblog

6. why did you choose your icon?

Right now it's Helene Spillane in with a boquet of sunflowers, and I picked bc this is my OC!!! and I want her to be displayed!!!

7. why did you choose your header?

It was time for a change

(dionysus!helene i love u sweetie but i'm in love with maría just stealing me rudely for a dance)

8. what’s your post with the most notes?

lemme check......

oh wow. i expected it was my shitpost on tall vampire mommy but apparently it's the most regrettable ship i ever considered making.

9. how many mutuals do you have?

I counted 51 in here, and 55 in my main, so in the range of 50-60 since some share between them.

10. how many followers do you have?

Here? around 340, already excluding the pornbots our lord and savior can't seem to flag properly.

11. how many people do you follow?

250

I used to follow over 500 something but most were inactive and I went through them with a paper shredder, but after like. I went through like 3 hellsite unfollow glitches by then.

12. have you ever made a shitpost?

13. how often do you use tumblr each day?

enough.

14. did you have a fight/argument with a blog once?

It doesn't shame me to admit that yeah, I have. Back on my old tumblr tho. Here? Well. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

15. how do you feel about “you need to reblog this post”?

I kin with the message, but honestly sometimes i'm conflicted bc I already go thru so much so. yea. personal prefs if and when i'll reblog such posts

16. do you like tag games?

Sure!

But in long posts? Good luck having me continue!

17. do you like ask games?

sometimes, they're good to personalize the traits and characteristics of my OC, but also gives like. a template if I run art ask requests.

I get fatigued easily tho, so that's why some asks are just lounging on the edge of my askbox

18. which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous?

uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh they're really, really, very good artists so im gonna assume @helgship, @lgvalenzuela, @rymushu, @astrejlau are! also @haniiebeedraws and @jayrart and @kyril-but-magical and @slytherincursebreaker as well, based on engagement <3

writers as well, esp one (1) James Shaw who I am too shy and baby to tag

@annabelle-tanaka-official, @dat-silvers-girl, @weasley-adoptee, @carewyncromwell definitely, if based on the amount of traffic I see on their asks and tags.

19. do you have a tumblr crush on a mutual?

no, but i do admire some of my mutual's themes on PC

also god, what even is a tumblr crush if not a crush?

No tags for future because i'm p sure most my tag game mutuals already answered this, but go ahead and steal if you want!

#*clown noises*#personal.txt #mod lee speaks stuff #tag game #tag meme #about the mod

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dandelionpath · 4 years

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I feel bad about not contacting my spirit guides or families in a while but I’ve also been quite low on energy recently. Would you be able to help me figure out what I could do with them? I don’t want to fall out of touch with them and I worry ;-;

howdy! so i recorded a podcast episode to answer ur question but im a fool and forgot that i cant upload them very well, so I'm going to write out an answer for u in the meantime!

Number 1 thing to remember here: This shit is difficult!! It's difficult to keep up with physical humans for many people - now add on that these entities are noncorporeal and also oftentimes not human??? That's so many more layers of difficulty!

So don't beat yourself up if this has happened to you. It happens to many of us, even the most advanced and experienced practicioners 💙

That being said, I do want to emphasize that completely dropping out of contact with your entity friends for long periods of time without explanation or warning is not exactly acceptable in many situations. It's unacceptable in my family, and it's the same with many other people's. (But if this is fine in your situation and family, then don't let me stop you! As long as you're doing what works for both you and your spirit friends, then by all means keep that up!) This isn't to shame you or wag a finger at you, anon, this is just so that no one is going to walk away from this post thinking it's okay to abandon their spirit family 😅

Now, what /can/ you do to make sure you keep up with the fam? Well, what I've done in my personal situation is set aside one day a week where it's MANDATORY to talk to them and at least acknowledge their existence. We had a "family meeting" (these can also be quite helpful!) where we all set aside one day of the week - Thursday, in my case - where I am required to talk to them and do something with them. Otherwise, I do fall into the trap of thinking, "Oh I'll do something big for them tomorrow," "I'll set aside a half hour later," etc etc. This isn't to say that I don't want to talk to my companions and spend time with them; this is just how my brain works. It happens with my blood family, my best friend, and things I really look forward to.

Anyways, what I'd suggest is to start out with one day a week that works for your entire (or as close to the whole fam as u can get) entity group, and then have that day as your metaphysical day. You can still talk to them throughout the week, but it's MANDATORY that you at least acknowledge their existence and maybe say hello on that one day. If that goes well, try upping it to two days. Right now, I'm only able to handle one day, and even sometimes I mess that up.

Spirit work is often about give and take and finding compromises and what is going to realistically work for both you and the entities. It takes time, it takes frustration, it takes trial and error, and most of all it takes WORK. After all, we do call it spirit /work/, lol!

As for ideas for what activities to do with them, literally anything! Ask them for ideas if you want!

Here's a little list if you're really at a loss:

-Clean your room together

-Do art together

-Share and swap stories

-Have them teach you a song

-Go thru old photos on your device and delete ones you don't need anymore. My companions often help me decide which ones I actually should keep and which ones to get rid of!

-Cuddle!

-Dance around your room like maniacs

-Sing along to your favourite songs

-Make a playlist for them

-Make a moodboard or a Pinterest board or even a sideblog for them (or just a tag on your tumblr for their stuff!)

-Share a cup of tea or a snack

-Scroll through social media together

-Watch some tv or YouTube together

-Meditate together

-Light some incense or a candle for them or put on their favourite essential oil

-Go for a walk around the neighborhood

-Play hide and seek

-Do one of those tumblr ask games either on tumblr or just between yall

Hopefully that helps! Let me know how things go! My ask box and DMs are always open 😊💙

#comet answers #comets spirit work #spirit work #spirit guide #spirit guides #spirit companion #spirit companionship

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