HAVING UNSHAKEABLE CONFIDENCE INCLUDES
Not caring what others think.
Voicing your opinion whether others agree with them or not.
Staying true to yourself.
Walking into any room and feeling powerful (not insecure).
Realizing you don’t have competition and not comparing yourself to others.
Feeling best about what you have to offer and who you are.
Putting yourself first.
Dreaming big and taking action to make your dreams happen.
Being a master manifestor.
Not needing anyone or their approval to be great.
Laughing at haters.
Presenting your best self to the world.
Having a stable emotional state (remaining hopeful and not allowing doubt to effect you).
Having your own standards and staying true to them.
Having a secure self image and not allowing others to define you.
Never lowering your standards.
Speaking your truth.
Allowing yourself to shine (talents, gifts) without judgement.
Supporting others and being joyous when they win.
Focusing on self.
Speaking highly of yourself.
Creating and doing what you love (not just what's popular).
Remaining dedicated to your goals even when you fail.
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LOVE YOURSELF
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Warnings: Self harm, infliction of pain, hurt comfort
Syno: Hazbin characters finding out you SH.
Req by: @valentin0000
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Lucifer:
how they find out — Lucifer suspected you were going through something because he knows how it’s like to be depressed and he senses those signs from you, he catches you in the act one day while you are harming yourself.
What they do- he doesn’t really know what to do at the beginning, when he first catches you, he gets a little angry at himself that he couldn’t help you before you got to the point of inflicting pain onto yourself, he kinda just would cradle you and tell you all the reasons he likes you for you. Later that evening he’d go deep diving into mental health, he learns a lot a he learns some things that help him with his mental health as well. He tries things that he’s learned online to help you and tests multiple distractions to maybe see if any of them work for you. He’s uneducated on the topic but he will go out of his way to learn more and keep you safe.
Angel dust:
how they find out — He didnt suspect you’d be doing those types of things because you were always so calm and relaxed around him, not an ounce of stress or anxiety on your features at all. Until one day Husk was talking to him about how everybody acts when they’re drunk and when husk got to you his demeanor changed and he said that the way you acted when you were drunk was tad concerning. Later that day he questions you and you fess up.
What they do- He nods when you fess up but doesn’t bug you on the topic anymore instead he just quietly walks away in understanding and goes to cry in his room, he felt really messed up about it and couldn’t drop it after that because he knows how it feels to feel so helpless that you turn to negative things to keep you “happy”, the next day he decides to help you with the way he helps himself when he gets like this, so he goes into your room and offers to get your mind off some things and go shopping with him instead. That becomes a routine for you two, whenever you get the temptation to take the pain out onto yourself or when you have anxiety or breakdowns, you can always go to him and he’ll distract you with another hangout session, most of the time he’s getting you out of the hotel for some fresh air whether that be for more shopping, watching a movie, or eating some food he’ll do it just to make sure you don’t hurt yourself anymore..and you best believe the check is always on him!!
Vox:
how they find out — He wasn’t trying to intrude or be creepy, he really wasn’t but, he watches everybody in the Vee tower with cameras, and when his camera happened to stop on you and show what you were doing in what you thought was a private area, he kinda glitched out for a second.
What they do- He immediately zaps around the tower to go find you, once he sees you in the living room of the Vee tower, he confronts you head on about the subject, it almost throws you off and if you were a tv head like him you’d be glitching too. You question how he figured it out but he says to nevermind that. He gets a little angry not at you but mostly at himself, he really does appreciate you he just doesn’t know how to show it, so instead he strictly tells you to never hurt yourself again, or he’ll have to hypnotize you not to. He knows that just firmly telling you won’t help, so instead he has more cameras set up around the tower for extra measures..and whenever he sense you’re feeling slightly off, he keeps an extra eye on you.
Valentino:
how they find out — you kinda told him yourself, he didn’t really think that you were feeling sad or depressed in any way, until he asked to shower with you and you kept denying, which was odd of you since you guys have bathed and showered together many times, Valentino is about to throw a pissy fit and ask you why in his usual whines until you come out and just say it.
What they do- he’s stunned, he instantly feels like and asshole for bugging you and, he pulls you into him to cuddle, that’s how you both stay that night, cuddled up and crying into eachother with kisses and everything. Val doesn’t really know how to make you feel better per say, so he does what he’s good at, which is gift giving, he puts his money to good use on you, hoping it will make you feel better, he may even buy you a hellhound or another hellish support animal to keep you happy while he’s gone at shoots, he’ll also ask Vox to install cameras on you as well behind your back. And he’ll treat and spoil you like royalty!!!
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Hope you guys like, also I hope I did you justice @valentin0000 !!!! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
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If you are someone who struggles with dental hygiene due to mental health issues or neurodiversity and you just can't seem to change your routine or motivate yourself, I highly recommend investing in the right tools for you. Often advice starts with "Just form a habit! Just set a reminder!" but these things are not always enough to help when there are external stressors that cause avoidance.
An electric toothbrush and small portable waterpik have been amazing for me. I hate flossing, I find it tedious, and painful, and I avoid it. A waterpik on the other hand is fast, easy, and extremely effective. I also didn't realize how tedious I found brushing until I got an affordable electric brush. It helps do the majority of the work for me, feels nice, and has a timer to help me brush for the right amount of time. I hated mouthwash because it always burns my tongue, so I switched to alcohol-free mouthwash that doesn't.
These small changes have vastly changed my relationship to dental hygiene. If you can't get yourself to the bathroom, keep your brush by the bed. If you hate mint toothpaste use kids toothpaste with a more gentle flavor. If you need to have a brush on the go carry Colgate Wisps. Stop trying to force yourself to fit into an uncomfortable system, instead try to build one that fits your needs.
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" i can do anything if I put my mind to it " — song jia
this was the most highly requested post ! i have created affirmations based on 4 topics which will cover mostly everything ! mental , emotional , confidence , self esteem & some more things are included ! this is the only post you will ever need to get into the Jia Mindset 🩷
note : as always , i will keep updating the affirmations when I think of more <3
MENTAL & EMOTIONAL
I am a person that never gets hurt over stupid matters
I am emotionally strong
i cut off toxic people from my life
i cut off negetivity from my life
my mind is devoid of any toxicity
my body and mind are at peace
negetive energy does not come near me
i never overshare information
i keep to myself and never tell strangers everything about me
i know what's good for me and what's not
i always stay positive
i always look at the bright side of things
i don’t let any negativity get to me, i’m so unbothered, unfazed and nonchalant towards hate because i’m better than it
i am always cheerful and happy
i have control over my emotions
i go not get swayed by my emotions
i always think logically in important situations
my emotions do not control me , i control them
i know my emotions very well
i have strong willpower and determination
i have strong motivation and discipline
CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM
everyone is drawn to my strong and magnetic aura
my aura drips with confidence and radiance
i am never looked down upon
i am never scared to do any tasks
i am not scared to talk in public settings
my self esteem is always high
I can conquer the world
i love myself so much
my love for me is endless
my main priority is me
i only focus on my goals and tasks
no one can make me feel small and weak , their words can never affect me
everything i do , i do it well. There is no room for error and the outcomes are always in my favour
i am absolutely gorgeous inside and out
my aura is pure and clean
i am the most amazing girl ever
no one compares to me ! I'm just that good in every way
i am an it girl
everyone looks at me and wishes they were me
i don't care for others opinions
i don't care when someone talks bad about me
i only care about my own opinions of myself
THE SONG JIA EFFECT
i am the most beautiful girl
i am the apple of everyone's eye
i am gorgeous
i am fabulous
i am magnetic
i am flawless head to toe
i am confident
i am show stopping
i have no imperfections
i am beautiful inside and out
i am mentally and emotionally strong
i am an it girl
my beauty is timeless
my face is so gorgeous that I can do photoshoots barefaced
my beauty has no comparison, it's one of a kind and the absolute best
my features are just perfect head to toe
i’m effortlessly beautiful. i wake up beautiful , go to bed beautiful i live beautiful. beauty is all around me in every aspect
i never have to work hard for my beauty and charms , they were gifted to me
people are always drawn to me wherever I go
everyone wishes they could talk to me
people's heads always turn when they see me pass by
i’m so mesmerizing and enchanting i attract people on another level like a spell
all situations are always in my favour and everything works out for me like a charm
MANIFESTING ( bonus )
the universe gives me everything I want, there is no difference between my 3D and my 4D
i can manifest anything i want within microseconds
as soon as I think of it , it's done
i dont even have to say anything , as soon as I think of my desires , it gets manifested
the universe loves me , i am the universe's most loved being
the universe always gives me everything I want no matter what
my manifesting powers are immaculate and no one compares to me
i am the luckiest person in this whole universe, luck is always on my side in every situation
I AM A MASTER MANIFESTOR
© 3 affs taken from this post
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