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ka3l · 6 days
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crimsoncosmic · 7 months
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I find it funny when someone self-diagnoses themselves with autism, allistics and neurotypicals are always the ones complaining about it. “You can’t diagnose yourself! You’re mocking people with actual autism! It isn’t valid! You’re taking away resources from actual autistic people!”
But, then diagnosed autistic people themselves will look at that same self-diagnosed person and be like: “Oh, yeah. You’re definitely one of us.”
Also, the question is this; What resources are we taking away from diagnosed Autistic people? What resources are there for us to take? And, how would we do that anyway?
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zebulontheplanet · 6 months
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Not going to tag a very icky post that I found but it’s not hard to find. So, here’s your reminder that;
Self suspecting and self diagnosed autistic people are NOT taking resources from diagnosed people. You can’t get autism services without a diagnosis, you can’t go to any therapies really without a diagnosis and so on.
Autism accessories have a abundance supply. So yeah, get those ear defenders, get those sunglasses, get those stim toys.
You aren’t taking anything from diagnosed people.
Stop saying self diagnosed people are taking away from diagnosed people, because they’re not. They have their space in the community. The community is big enough for them.
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bwbawa · 7 months
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truly what is r the main differences like ACTUAL differences not things in common with adhd and autism
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ellie-probably · 5 months
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"you're weird" thanks i try very hard to mask my undiagnosed autism / adhd, good to know i need to mask better :3
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Undiagnosed Autism
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Autism Parenting + Wellbeing
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monachopsis-11 · 1 year
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People always talk about how childhood autistic traits can be troubling and problematic for people (especially allistic parents) but how about ways childhood autistic traits can be helpful and convenient for parents? I’m putting some examples below from my childhood.
- my need for routines was helpful to my mom and made her life easier
- my ability to hyperfocus on interests and solitary activities allowed my parents to attend to my sister
- my preference for being with adults who were more predictable made me easier to handle
- I had a very strong internal sense of right and wrong that made me easy to reason with as long as I was given a reasonable explanation
- my difficulty expressing my emotions and internalizing them instead made me seem low maintenance
- compared to my sister who is very reactive my atypical responses weren’t noticeable
- because I was so independent I was easy to leave alone and overlook
- because my traits weren’t disruptive to my parents I was just seen as ‘mature,’ ‘smart,’ and ‘an old soul.’
- even though I was only social when people interacted on my terms I didn’t avoid people so I wasn’t seen as antisocial
- I talked so much that if I had a day I was struggling no one noticed because they were just used to me being chatty
- I had a decent early childhood before things got really challenging so my meltdowns weren’t bad or often at that age
- by the time I was at an age where those things would stand out I was more prone to disassociation and then having a meltdown when I was alone so they didn’t know
If anyone has any childhood autistic traits that were convenient to their parents and overlooked because of it please let me know in the comments! ⬇️
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thecommunalfoolboy · 1 year
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Neurotypicals take drugs to experience everyday shit for neurodivergent people like “Bro I was so high I had to turn my tv down to taste my pizza” yeah that’s a Tuesday night for me
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finnslay · 9 months
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POV:
That autistic getting told they're "book smart not street smart"
(This happened to me Monday)
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citricacidprince · 4 months
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Everyone’s always like “Me and the Bad Bitch I pulled by being autistic”
Where’s MY bad bitch I pulled by being autistic???? Where are you finding these bad bitches who like your silly whimsy and inability to answer the phone???? Please????
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avalovesindie · 2 years
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one of my least favorite neurotypical customs is how long it takes to leave somewhere. My mom will be like “alright it’s time to leave” but we stay like 10 more minutes because people can’t stop talking. We get two feet before stopping again. We stand in the doorway for 5 minutes. It’s annoying and stressful and puts my brain in constant waiting mood.
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sirenium · 5 months
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The 'this autism meme is relatable but I'm not autistic lol' to 'I am definitely autistic' pipeline
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zebulontheplanet · 1 month
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You’re speaking from a place of privilege if you believe self diagnosing autism isn’t valid.
YOU. ARE. PRIVILEGED.
“Oh but it makes us look bad” We already look bad.
“Oh but it invalidates me” Cry about it.
Know your privilege. I hate seeing this. I fucking hate it. POC autistics are being refused diagnoses, women and AFAB people and feminine presenting people are being refused diagnoses, disabled people are being refused diagnoses.
I think that people don’t understand that although yes, there is a lot of nuance, should late diagnosed and self diagnosed autistic people who are low support needs take a step back and let higher support needs and early diagnosed folk talk? Fucking absolutely. But that doesn’t mean that we should be invalidating those that are self diagnosed. Two things can exist at the same fucking time.
Self diagnosis with RESEARCH is completely valid. If you’re a POC then you have a chance not getting diagnosed, if you’re disabled then you have a chance not getting diagnosed, if you’re a woman or afab then you have a chance not being diagnosed. All for the color of your skin or the fact that you look different than the typical white boys who love trains and don’t speak.
Cry. About. It.
I’m tired of being nice, I’m tired of saying this over and over again. Just stop!!! Just fucking stop!! They aren’t harming anyone!!
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bwbawa · 6 months
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mascspomax · 5 months
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if someone could write a book on how to do everything ‘normally’ with specific step by step instructions that’d be very appreciated!
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