Some thoughts about my personal gender journey.

https://www.everythingisgoingtobeokcomic.com/lets-talk-about-gender/

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trying to have the same mindset as “just cut your hair, it’ll grow back” when making decisions. they’re not all make or break.

A friendly reminder..❤️

you’ll never “just get over it”. it’ll always be there a little bit, tucked away somewhere. you’ll continue to live your life and not notice it much. but maybe every so often it’ll hurt again and that’s alright. our traumas don’t magically go away when we heal. but they also stop taking up so much space.

be proud of all of your small victories. you only snoozed your alarm twice today instead seven times. you changed out of pyjamas and into actual clothes. you found a new song that makes you want to dance. you smiled at a stranger and they smiled back. life doesn’t have to be all about getting first place every time or always being the best. a win is still a win, no matter how small.

if u are reading this, i’m sending u lots and lots of love, stay safe

you don’t owe anything to the toxic people in your life. even if you love them. even if they’re family. but you owe it to yourself to stand up for your own well-being.

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I’m rooting for you✨❤️

you are not hard to love. some people will not see your value. they’re not right for you, and that isn’t your fault. rejection does not make you unworthy.

One day you will finally meet someone who wants to help you grow in life.

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