It sounds ironic, but the moment you stop filtering everything you say and do and stay true to yourself instead of trying to fit in and make people like you, you'll see such a shift in your social life. On the one hand you'll see who you clash with, and on the other hand you'll see that people are more likely to approach you because they see how genuine you are, which makes it easier for them to know if they want to be friends with you (or not). The scariest part of being who you are is finding out who won't like you for it, but the best part is finding genuine friendships with people who like you for you, and that's so worth it.

I always spread lots of positivity that you will succeed at what you’re trying to do, and that’s because it’s important to be positive and has proved to help performance.

However, I want to remind you that if you failed it’s ok. If you had a dream, a goal, an idea and it didn’t work out? That’s okay. I am so proud of you for trying. You are not a failure. You are not lesser for failing at something. You are going to be okay.

GET OUT OF THE VICTIM MINDSET IMMEDIATELY!

do you often think these things to yourself . . . ? :

“ wahh! manifesting is so hard ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡”

“ i suck at everything life is so hard”

“ nothing ever works for me manifesting doesn’t work”

“ i’m never gonna manifest that guy/girl this isn’t real !”

STOP! DOING THAT! IMMEDIATELY! you will not get anywhere filling your head with unnecessary thoughts and reaffirming the same old story about how hard your life is or how much that person is ignoring you or whatever is going on that you can EASILY CHANGE! (doesn’t apply to abuse or any issues you genuinely cannot control)

i want y’all who are genuinely in a victim mindset slump to get back on your feet and remember who the fuck you are! stop letting your subconscious bully the hell out of you and start telling it what you want and making it materialize in the 3D. you are the operant power and messaging system! you are the one with full control of what happens to you at this moment.

so are you gonna continue letting your bad thoughts dictate your life or are you gonna start setting intentions of what you really want and start bossing the fuck up and getting what you want!? PERSIST AND DONT GIVE UP NOTHING IS HARD W MANIFESTATION! STOP LOOKING FOR REASSURANCE AND START APPLYING!

It may be winter, but this is still the only comfortable way to sleep 😴

♡age in bio before following♡

“patience is one of the highest forms of love. there is nothing more beautiful than love that acknowledges your imperfections, while recognizing that you deserve all the time you need to blossom into the flower that you’re trying to be.”

— iambrillyant

not showing up for yourself or making goals and not achieving them will eventually negatively impact your self-efficacy and your self perception. Stop wasting time, do what you said you would do, and show up for yourself.

don’t apologise for being yourself.

don’t apologise for when you are sad, when you’re angry or otherwise upset. don’t apologise for crying no matter if it’s sad or happy tears. don’t apologise for getting confused and needing more clarification. don’t apologise for not liking or very much liking what majority likes. don’t apologise for wanting to go down a different career path than what’s expected of you. don’t apologise for not wanting kids. don’t apologise for not liking dogs or cats or bunnies. don’t apologise for planning everything out or just going with the flow. don’t apologise for not wanting to get married or just be in a relationship in general. don’t apologise if your dream is to have the biggest, fanciest wedding of all time.

don’t apologise for laughing out loud, for snoring up a storm, for “smelling bad” after a workout, for not knowing how to cook pasta, for not liking chocolate, for daydreaming a lot, for wearing high pigtails in your 40s, for getting lip filler or breast implants, for not shaving, for not drinking alcohol or not liking parties… don’t apologise for fighting anxiety or depression. don’t apologise for dealing with hallucinations or intrusive thoughts. don’t apologise for your sexuality or gender identity, for who and how you love. don’t apologise for the colour of your skin or the culture you have. don’t apologise for your belief system, be it religious or spiritual, or non-existent. don’t apologise for being fat or skinny or mega muscular. don’t apologise for needing a wheel chair. don’t apologise for having dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia, or dysgraphia.

don’t apologise for being who you are. cause it’s okay being you. it’s okay to live as you. of course, do your best to apologise when you hurt someone or if you’ve cause trouble somewhere like at home, at work. or in a friend group. educate yourself on different matters. keep growing as a person. but don’t apologise for being that very person, who’s still learning, realising and growing. ‘cause we all are.. nobody has reached the end station of know-it-all.

it’s okay to be you!

⛧A Self-Esteem Spell

1𝔰𝔱 ♐︎

☽ 𝔳/𝔠 12:08 𝔞𝔪 ⛧ ☽ → ♑︎ 6:31 𝔞𝔪

Color of the Day : Yellow

Incense of the Day : Eucalyptus

♃

Jupiter has been slowly moving through Aquarius all year and will soon be making its exit.

This is the time to plow through issues surrounding your self esteem and any other personal traits that might make you feel ill equipped to handle life. Cast this spell to break free from that self esteem barrier.

For this ritual you'll need the Wheel of Fortune, the Star, and the Empress cards from a tarot deck, as well as a candle in your favorite color.

To begin lay the cards out, ground yourself, then light your candle.

Once you're ready touch the Wheel of fortune and say :

By Jupiter and fate, I claim my right!

Then move on to the Star card and say :

By Aquarius and hope, I claim my faith!

Lastly, move to the Empress card and say :

By the Goddess, I claim this life!

By all three, so mote it be!

Leave the cards on your altar for thirteen days, and allow the candle to safely burn out on its own.

♃

how your general assumptions can affect your manifestation:

this is just gonna be a quick post but i mentioned this on my insta somewhere but,

i get real sick and tired of seeing my friends stories on LOA ig post things like “men suck” or “men are garbage and don’t deserve happiness” or whatever bullshit and then complain in the next story that their SP is treating them like shit and never takes them seriously and isn’t conforming to their affs and “new mindset”

babe. your SP is acting like this because of YOU. id you are trying to work on a new self concept and manifest your SP and still hood the assumption that men are shitty and treat you like shit or whatever your SP is going to reflect whatever that is. and this goes for every single one of your manifestations!

another example would be like let’s say you think you’re ugly, you keep telling yourself that “oh i’m so ugly no one wants me” etc etc. people are going to reflect this! you think you’re ugly and no one treats you well? well that’s going to reflect onto your reality lmao. it’s that simple. stop whining and please please keep your thoughts in check!

"𝙄'𝙡𝙡 𝙨𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙙 𝙢𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙛𝙡𝙮. 𝙄'𝙡𝙡 𝙙𝙤 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙩𝙤𝙪𝙘𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙠𝙮. "

Let me tell you something:

You abuser needs you more than you need them.

They are desperate to keep you around.

You do not need them to be happy, healthy, or worthy.

“some people can only recognize you at the level they last remember you loving yourself at, and i hope you never feel guilty for showing more loyalty to who you are now. it’s not your duty to decorate anyones comfort zone.”

— iambrillyant