#self ship positivity

[rose-greenhouse]

imagine your f/o(s) being interested with whatever your special interest is. it makes them smile to see you so happy and passionate about the thing you love the most. they would sit down with you and listen to you as you ramble on and on for hours on end, with the occasional question or quick cuddle break- you could continue talking in their arms and they wouldn't care i would think.

maybe your f/o(s) would want to see what your special interest is all about. whether it's a video game, a book, even something so obscure; they wouldn't care less and would want to experience it with you. your happiness is their happiness, and they wouldn't trade that for the world.

[proshippers please go]

#self ship #self ship community #self shipping community #self ship positivity #selfship community #selfshipping community #f/o imagines #imagine your f/o #f/o community #i thought of this because i know laurel would let me scream about ygo #mari's tea time

[seaside-shipping]

shout out to the self-shippers whose f/o is the most unpopular character in their source.

shout out to the self-shippers whose f/o is a tumblr sexyman/tumblr sexyman archetype.

shout out to the self-shippers whose f/o is seen as only a “meme” or “cringe.”

shout out to the self-shippers who give their f/o a textbook’s worth of lore because canon failed them.

shout out to the self-shippers who wish the fandom took their f/o more seriously.

shout out to the self-shippers with f/os so obscure, they don’t even have a fandom.

y’all are the self-shipping community’s strongest soldiers. keep loving! 💗

#seaside makes waves #self ship #self shipping #self ship community #self ship positivity #f/o community #imagine your f/o #f/o imagines

[sunflawyer]

has anyone done this yet

#self ship #f/o imagine #f/o community #fictional other #self insert blog #self insert x fictional other #self shipping #self ship blog #self shipper #self ship game #self ship community #self ship positivity #self shipping community #ok to rb #canon x self insert #fictional other community #imagine your f/o #f/o #self insert #self insert community #self insert x canon #yumeship #self insert imagine

[recovery-is-brutal]

Shoutout to all my fellow selfshippers who were never chosen.

Shoutout to the people who were never explicitly invited, but who were told "of course you can come too". To the people whose presence was tolerated, but nobody ever seemed excited to see them. To the people who got talked over. Even when nobody noticed you leaving, you're worthy of love.

Shoutout to the "can I have your hot friend's number?" people, who only were present to make their good looking friend look even more appealing. Shoutout to the third wheels and wingmans. To the people who got the "kiss them! - ewww" treatment at Truth or Dare. To the people who got asked out as a joke.

Shoutout to the selfshippers who help with relationship issues despite craving a relationship themselves. Shoutout to the forever singles who have "resorted" to selfshipping because you convinced yourself that nobody would want you in real life. Shoutout to the insecure, jealous people with abandonment issues because you can't imagine anyone choosing you.

Your F/O chooses you. And they will continue to choose you.

They don't need a reason why. They love you. They love you for who you are, and they always will.

#f/o comfort #f/o community #f/o imagines #self ship imagines #self shipping imagines #self ship positivity #self ship community #self shipping community #self ship #i'm not sure if this needs a warning #please let me know #self ship comfort #self shipping comfort

[raenyships]

self shipping is amazing because i can have a terrible day, come home, get in bed and think about my f/o for a bit and my stress is suddenly lifted and i feel so much better. my imagination is healing my brain and that's beautiful.

if you're a self shipper you're awesome, and your f/o loves you

#.txt #self ship #self shipping #self shipper #selfship #positivity posting by rae #self ship positivity #f/o positivity #.rae #positivity.rae

[dalvs-wife]

HEY SELFSHIPPERS WHO HAVE AN UNFORTUNATELY POPULAR CANON X CANON SHIP THAT IS A DISCOMFORT!!!!

the next time you get shown the ship or just have it in your head, imagine your f/o looking at the ship from over your shoulder and scrunching up their nose. being grossed out by it. being made uncomfortable by it, grimacing awkwardly at the sight of it. being confused by it!!!

they dislike that ship just as much as you do, believe me! no matter how many times someone draws them looking happy and in love with whoever, that ain't happening.

you two are each other's favorites, so the next time you see that sorta thing, just remember your f/o's silly little scrunched up weirded-out face at the mere sight :]

edit: PROSHIPPERS DNI THIS POST IS NOT FOR YOU.

#selfship #self ship #selfship community #self shipping community #self ship positivity #selfship imagines #ray rambles #bc i realized i can do this with dalv. he would get rly weirded out by those ships believe me #imagining him scrunching up his nose and being all confused made me rly giggly #self ship imagines #self ship community

[knightoflove]

Sensitive Self Shippers, this one is for you <3

💫 They’ll always be around to comfort you, no matter what upset you. They’re ready to listen.

🌙 They’d never tease you if you were uncomfortable with it. Your f/o(s) would never push your boundaries.

☀️ You’re their sun & moon, if anyone made you upset they’d be there to help pick you up (and maybe beat up the person who upset you idk)

🪐 And they would never ever think you being sensitive is annoying. They love you so much and they hate to see you cry.

Pr/oship dni please

Dividers made by @.cafekitsune

#trist.txt #self ship #self shipping #self ship community #safe ship #self ship positivity #like with all posts like this #this is mainly something I wanted to hear but I thought there might be other ppl who would like this #I’m such a big cry baby and I constantly worry my f/os would hate me

[gogolsbf]

you are your f/o's first choice.

whenever you feel left, alone, or not seen they do feel and see you.

it doesn't matter what your looks, personality, or even your flaws are like because they'll love you for that and just for who you are as a whole person.

how could they never choose someone first in place who loves them so dearly? (they love you just as much back.)

you are special, and you deserve to be someone's first choice.

#💭imagine #selfship imagines #selfshipping imagines #f/o imagines #imagine your f/o #imagine your fictional other #selfshipping #selfship community #selfshipping community #self ship positivity #f/o community #fictional other

[bullfinch-lover]

Shoutout to selfshippers with crooked teeth, yellow teeth, missing teeth, teeth with braces and dentures! Your f/o loves you even if your teeth aren't perfectly white and straight! Your f/o loves how your teeth look when you smile!

🦷🦷🦷

#self ship #self shipping #self ship positivity #self ship community #self shipping community

[stoneshipper]

when I first started self-shipping: maybe this character would like me back. we’re sorta dating. oh, and maybe I’d be friends with this character? they might find me annoying…

me now: this character would always have my back. we’re friends until the end of the line. multiple characters have unrequited crushes on me. my f/o has dedication to me like no one’s seen before. we’re madly in love. we’re best friends. we’re soulmates. it’s even deeper than that.

#it’s wild to see the growth in how I’ve selfshipped now #because reading some old s/i and lore docs I wrote out is so strange now #I use such hesitant language when it comes to how my f/os feel toward me - romantic and platonic #and now I’m more comfortable making my s/i adored by friends and romantic connections alike #self ship #self shipping #self ship positivity #self ship community #self shipping community

[optimisticweather]

my favorite part of selfshipping is dreamily sighing while a thought bubble containing a picture of my f/o surrounded by hearts appears over my head

#{{f/o things #f/o community #self shipping #selfship community #f/o positivity #self ship community #self ship #self ship positivity #self shipping community #self ship imagine #self ship content #selfshipping #selfshipper #fictional other #imagine your fictional other #f/o imagine #f/o stuff

[tidekissed]

hey there women who selfship. I love you.

women of color who selfship—I love you.

trans women who selfship—I love you.

disabled women who selfship—I love you.

fat women who selfship—I love you.

women with mental illnesses who selfship—I love you.

wlw who selfship—I love you.

ace women who selfship—I love you.

aro women who selfship— I love you.

even if I didn’t shout you out specifically, women of selfship I love you so much. you’re all beautiful and wonderful and I hope you have a great day.

DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU LABEL YOURSELF AS "PROSHIP." I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR CONTENT IN MY NOTIFS.

ALSO, THIS IS ABOUT WOMEN...DO NOT DERAIL.

#selfship positivity #self ship positivity #selfship #self ship #selfship community #self ship community #we need more love for our ladies dammit

[sunflawyer]

once again, biiig big big shout-out to selfshippers whose f/os have a canon partner / popular ship with a canon character and are uncomfortable with contents of them or anything related to them. no, you're not a 'stealer'. your f/o ONLY WANTS you. you're their canon partner. no one can change it. you're destined to be with them, and no one else.

we're here for you. you're not alone, and we all know that your f/o loves YOU and YOU only.

hugs you. 💗

pr.o.ship.dni

#self ship #🐤mayo's diary #self insert #self ship positivity #fictional other #fictional other community #romantic fictional other #self insert x fictional other #self insert blog #self insert community #self ship stuff #self ship community #self ship blog #canon x self insert #needed to get this off my chest

[the-selfship-corner]

Selfship Vocabulary Guide!

Selfship: To ship yourself or a self-insert with a character, whether it be platonic, romantic, or familial.

Yume/Yumeship: A different word for selfship. Short for yumejoshi (feminine), yumedanshi (masculine), or yumejin (gender-neutral).

F/O or Fictional Other: A character that you ship yourself with.

S/i or Self-Insert: A character you created that represents yourself in the world of a series, movie, book, video game, etc. They usually (but not always) have similar personality and features to their creator.

Romantic F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel a strong romantic attraction to. You may imagine yourself being in a relationship with them.

Familial F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel are like your family. This could be characters you consider your parents, siblings, kids, etc.

Platonic F/Os: Fictional characters that you consider to be your friends or feel a platonic love towards.

OC x Canon: Shipping an original character such as a self insert with a canon character in their world.

Canon x Canon: Shipping two canon characters with each other. This may be canon in the story or not. Many selfshippers feel uncomfortable seeing their F/O in these ships.

Y/N or Your Name: Mostly used in fan fictions, it’s meant for you to insert your name into the story like a self-insert.

Comfort Character: A character that can bring somebody comfort without self inserting.

Doubles or shared: F/Os that you and another person may have that are the same character

Sharing NG: “Sharing Not Good” this person is uncomfortable with sharing their F/Os or interacting with people that have the same ones

Let me know if there’s any I missed/should add!

#self ship #fictional other #self ship positivity #self shipper #self shipping #self shipping community #selfship community #self insert #selfship promo #Kasumi speaks ☀️

[yoomtahsgf]

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

SELFSHIPPERS WHO HAVE MEMORY ISSUES!!! selfshippers who forget what theyre doing in the middle of doing it, who forget things they were just told or even told multiple times before, who forget things they were supposed to do and end up getting done late or never getting done, who forget the same things multiple times, who forget things even about those they love most- ok you get what im saying!!! but consider!!!

~ your f/o(s) will reassure you that poor memory is NOTHING to feel guilty about!!!

~ if you need they'll remind you about special days like anniversaries, birthdays, etc. instead of expecting you to remember automatically and getting mad if you dont!!!

~ if you have plans together they'll remind you ON THAT DAY of what time and what you're doing if you need it!!!

~ if you have other specific things that you'd like them to remind you about, even daily, they'll be happy to oblige!!!

~ they'll absolutely defend you from people who say things like you dont remember because you dont care, or who think you're just lazy, or any other hurtful things about your memory!!!

~ when you're having a moment like you know you forgot something but just don't know what, they'll help you figure out if you did and what it is!!!

~ they'll tell you the same thing no matter how many times it takes you to remember it without getting mad, even if you never remember it on your own they'll remind you whenever you need!!!

~ if there are things you DON'T need reminders for and/or can remember on your own, they'll trust in your word instead of assuming you can't ever think for yourself!!!

YOU ARE WORTH YOUR F/O(S)' PATIENCE!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR UNDERSTANDING!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR LOVE!!! no matter how bad your memory can get, even not remembering people you know or places you've been or things you like or whatever, even if it's more severe than anything i can think of!!! you are so much more than poor memory and your memory issues have nothing to do with how much you care about things, and your f/o(s) absolutely understand that!!! you are more than worth it to them and they'll always be happy to reassure you of such!!! thank you for coming to my tedtalk!!!

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

#self ship #selfship #selfship positivity #self ship positivity #autistic selfship #selfshipping #self shipping #selfship community #f/o community #f/o gush #selfship gush #self ship gush #self insert #self ship blog #selfship blog #selfshipper #self shipper #self insert community #f/o x s/i #f/o x self insert #romantic f/o #platonic f/o #f/o #fictional other #familial f/o #parental f/o #꒰ა posi #um hiiiiiiiii ^_^ #i tried my best to make this as general as possible so it can apply to as many people as possible #but i did start it as like a personal thing so [crying emoji]

[espresso-ships]

To all self-shippers that struggle with mental health

I see you - and same <3

Here's some comfort content :')

🦋💕🦋💕🦋💕

Imagine...

Your f/o, being there by your side,

They call to check up on you, and when you tell them "I'm fine" they see right through your lie.

Your f/o, who almost rushes over to you - wanting to provide comfort. "You didn't have to-" "But I did." "But you have work and...-" "Do you seriously think I'll choose work over you?" Your f/o, that makes sure you eat and drink throughout the day,

Fixing food for you and bringing you water.

Your f/o, that runs you a warm bath or helps you wash your hair.

That wraps you in a fresh towel afterwards.

Your f/o, that puts on your favorite show,

Whilst holding you close to them.

Your f/o, that offers you a shoulder to cry on

That listens to your problems and lets you vent.

Your f/o, that holds you close, not leaving your side.

That does everything just to see your smile.

Your f/o, that loves you unconditionally.

Only you.

🦋💕🦋💕🦋💕

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