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This post is for me and only for me. I'm trying to have some structure in my blog ahahhaha
So, hi future Kotika. You forgot how you tagged all yor stuff again?? HA pathetic
#my art - obviously for your art, even rebloged from side blogs, like mikeandcavaiaskblog
#my messy sketches - it is what it is
#amazing art 🌺🌸🌺 bacically a reblog tag, because most of the things you reblog is god demn art
#important for some life, feeling advices or selfcare. Probably need a better tag...
#piglins #piglin for anything about your pig babies or any other piglin oc
#minecraft can be anything minecraft related, builds, block pallets, other people drawings
but for Phil and actual people who play use #mcyt
#my sona any real you photos or drawings of yourself, to drop to people when they ask how to draw you, or how do you look
#enderme your minecraft sona
#aspiration for is for your oc As and #mes is his ship with Mad???
Other characters are just their name, tho you tend to tag only Cavai, Mike and MPO guys
#Multiverse Post Office and #MPO (did I used that one???) for that project
#Colours of LOVE is for inctober comic and #inktober during the october
Usually you tag undertale related stuff as #undertale and sometimes tag characters names and universes, but not in reblogs. Praaaaaaabably should start to do that.
Okay let's add #undertale oc for everything that is not all known characters and for all known... makeupsomethinglater
#tutorial LET'S TAG EVERYTHING WITH TOTORIAL PLEASE PLEASE
tag ace stuff with #ace !!!!
#empires smp !!!
why do I keep adding #selfreblog ? I won't delete it later anyway....
#funny videos we will see how it sticks
#my cats for obvious reasons
#studio verse for Zu's studio stuff and
#adhd and #autism
#hermitcraft 💙
Hmmm, will add more in a future. I guess. Now it's time to actually bring that system to my blog.
How do you feel about selfreblogs for art? I always feel self-conscious about it, even if I schedule it for a later date.
It's fairly easy to scroll past if they want to. Don't do it more than once or twice because it starts to piss people off but you gotta get your art out there. Do it.
eris' blessings = mutuals, lovely ghosts = anons, 🕷playthings = charanons, ask eris = ask games or general questions, rambling = answering long asks, ▪︎rats▪︎ = haters or anons that talk shit, ▪︎hours of chaos = brainless interactions, 》french kissin《 = flirting with moots and being inappropriate
eris' brainsoup = personal word vomit , 💬listen up = important things for y'all, dying on main = fangirling or thirsting about things, ▪︎reviews = opinions on stuff/reviewing shit and fanfictions, ▪︎fandom faves = stuff from fandoms I like, [𝗶𝗻 𝗺𝘆 𝗳𝗲𝗲𝗹𝘀] = me being in a mood, ▪︎woe = wrath of eris/rage tag
𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐟𝐨𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐝𝐫𝐨𝐨𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠
✒fic rec = fics that made my heart melt, 🚩 = nsfw/18+ things, 🖇reblogs! = things I like and reblog, 》read later《 = things I want to read, love!love!love! = general things on tumblr I think are neat
𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬
my partner in crime = @virtue-and-beneviolence, my son/ sir killheim = @drakenlvr, daughter in law = @stroberrylite, the pretty witch = @the-travelling-witch, my moon = @rayfuyu, math wife = @l-tora-l , ♧enemy of the state♧ = @violettierre
your accusations are false, damaging, and dangerous to me. you can’t provide receipts because you have none. i have always identified as bisexual. you accused me of identifying as a lesbian while dating a transman, a transman who, after breaking up with me through a text message, making me cancel my flight to go see him, and refusing to speak to me at all, wrote a “call out” post an entire year after the last time we had spoken with baseless, false accusations that seriously damaged my reputation. you are the only person who still claims these accusations to be true despite having literally no evidence.
what occurred in 2016 was a breakup between two people who were both struggling with their identities. he even says in one of these screenshots that he is still attached to the gay/wlw label; not everything is black and white and it’s so dangerous to just believe someone’s lies with no evidence and make serious accusations years later, threatening my mental health and my fucking safety. the person i dated, after our breakup, harassed me to the point where i almost got a lawyer because i didn’t know what else to do. bringing this up is bringing up a real fucking trauma that i had to live with and all you care about is screaming into a void about how i’m transphobic but you have nothing to provide to back it up. you’re not allowed to do that, sydney! ever hear the term libel?
you accused me of identifying as a lesbian while dating a transman and invalidating his transness. i never once identified as a lesbian and invalidated my ex boyfriend’s transness. i do not have to apologize for being transphobic to him because i was not transphobic to him. i did everything in my heart and in my power to make him feel loved and accepted and i did everything i could to help his dysphoria, i wrote him letters every day and offered to buy him binders he couldn’t afford, i called him my favorite boy, my boyfriend, i expressed discomfort in having to misgender him around his parents, though i knew it was for his safety. you can’t make such serious accusations against a person with no evidence. i’ve had so many people come to me and apologize for believing his lies and his manipulations, because they ended up being lied to and manipulated by him as well. you can’t accuse me of being manipulative and abusive when you have nothing to back it up other than someone accusing me of it and refusing to provide receipts. i have screenshots of every single argument i had with my ex boyfriend. i’ll bring those out for you too, sydney, because arguments =/= abuse and manipulation.
here’s your evidence, sydney, since you’re dragging this out three years after the fact.
tell me more one more time that i was transphobic to him. tell me more one more time that i called myself a lesbian and invalidated his transness. really, sydney, tell me because again because i have every text message from our relationship saved and you have nothing because you weren’t there, you weren’t in it, you know nothing. you are not allowed to make serious accusations that can harm me, my life, and my career and then get angry when people who are friends with and have known me closely for years jump to my defense. where’s my apology from everyone who decided to believe such a serious accusation with literally no evidence presented to them whatsoever??? when all along i had everything to prove he was lying.
my ex also admitted to a very close friend of his that he wrote his callout post because he was tired of seeing my posts on his dash, tired of seeing my edits get notes, and his goal was to make me lose all of my friends, not to talk about his trauma to try and cope with it. he used to selfreblog his callout post about me when taylor swift was online and tag her in it, if that tells you anything else about the motives behind his accusations. i was being threatened and harassed and someone who isn’t even friends with my ex anymore is trying to dig all of this trauma up for me again.
accusing someone of being transphobic but refusing to look at the receipts that prove otherwise so you can retract your harmful accusations sounds manipulative to me. you were lied to by someone and now you’re lying about me, and this could seriously damage my reputation and my career. what you’re saying is libel.
i’ve had multiple people come forward and apologize for believing his lies because they too were manipulated by him. people have come forward even as recent as this past june to apologize for how they treated me, and how they were treated by my ex boyfriend. ask yourself who the abuser is before you accuse me of being transphobic, manipulative, and abusive with no proof.
my ex admits in 2017 that his post that is a list of reasons he hates me is to start drama and he didn’t post it because he didn’t have the “urge” to start drama just yet. he said this in january 2017 and then posted his callout post against me in october 2017.
It used to be private, but I changed it to semi-selective several months (a year?) ago. It was a fun time, but it caused more problems than it brought me joy. So, after giving it some thought, I’ll go back to the way things used to be.
I follow no more than 50 active rp blogs at the moment. If you are not part of these 50 (or someone who I decide to follow at a later point), I won’t rp with you. I’m definitely okay with writing with someone who I follow but who doesn’t follow me in return. I understand that some of my blog’s contents may not be for everyone. I honestly don’t care whether you follow me. But, I usually won’t start interactions in such case because I don’t want to bother you.
Even if I don’t follow you, I may still be down for interaction. However, you will (again) have to contact me first.
Messages like “Wanna rp?” will be ignored. I also won’t write with you if you don’t have an idea for an rp. I used to love plotting, but it is very tedious if my rp partner doesn’t provide any thoughts of their own. I will always be game for adding to a plot. In fact, I wish to do so in any case! But it’s easier when we have something to start with. It spares us awkward silences.
But, as always, I have a right to say no. Please don’t ask for a reason as it makes me uncomfortable. I’m scared of hurting people even when it is anything but my intention. I’m not good at social things.
Please note:
I am not selective for the sake of being selective. I don’t think I’m better than anyone, and I really, really don’t want to be called intimidating. It’s hurtful. I try to be approachable, but it turns out this is harder than I thought.
I decided to go private solely because I don’t want past experiences to repeat themselves. Thank you for understanding.
And something I would appreciate your thoughts on:
Would you like me to soft-block you should I decide to unfollow you? It feels somewhat rude, but I understand that it can be even more rude to leave people in the dark when they keep sending memes, etc.
So, yes, I’d be thankful if you could leave your opinion on this in my iM or as a reply to this post. :)
This post will be reblogged a few times. I apologize for the clutter. (I tag self reblogs as, well, ‘selfreblog’. Just in case you want to blacklist such posts.)