Yang selalu mereka katakan hanyalah, "kalau kau bisa, kau akan begini dan begitu, kau akan sukses dan berhasil".
Dengan maksud lain apabila kau tak bisa maka, "kau tak akan mungkin begini dan begitu, kau tak akan sukses dan berhasil".
Hingga akhirnya yang ada hanyalah perbandingan nasib, "lihat dia, dia, dan si dia, mengapa kau tak bisa seperti dia? mengapa kau tak bisa berhasil seperti dia?"
Hingga akhirnya semua kalimat-kalimat itu hanya membuat semakin merasa sesak, tak berdaya dan semakin merasa rendah.
Membuat kita mencari segala pembelaan dan semakin menyalahkan keadaan, bukan memilih untuk menerima segala rasa dan memberikan pemahaman.
"She has the mindset of a queen and the heart of a warrior. She is everything all at once and too much for anyone who doesn’t deserve her. She is you."
Hindi ka sensitive. Hindi ka OA. If it hurts you, it hurts you. Wala kang kailangan iexplain sa kanila. Kapag nasaktan ka, nasaktan ka. Your feelings are valid. Y'all stop calling someone sensitive and OA for not tolerating disrespect, for being hurt after being ignored, for being shouted at, for criying because you let them overthink. We have different levels of sensitivity. Never invalidate someone's feelings.
#QuickTip - You've got to believe in something? Why not believe in YOU?
Believing in yourself can bring numerous benefits, such as:
1. Confidence: Self-belief boosts your confidence and helps you tackle challenges with a positive mindset.
2. Motivation: When you believe in yourself, you are more likely to set ambitious goals and stay motivated to achieve them.
3. Resilience: Belief in yourself strengthens your resilience, enabling you to bounce back from setbacks and persevere in the face of obstacles.
4. Initiative: Self-belief empowers you to take initiative and pursue opportunities, leading to personal growth and new experiences.
5. Decision-making: Trusting in your abilities enhances your decision-making skills as you rely on your own judgment and intuition.
6. Risk-taking: Belief in yourself reduces the fear of failure, allowing you to take calculated risks and explore new possibilities.
7. Personal fulfillment: Having faith in yourself promotes a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction, as you realize your potential and accomplish your goals.
Remember, believing in yourself is a mindset that can positively impact various aspects of your life and contribute to your overall well-being.