#selfshipper positivity

[singeryuri]

Ykw quick shout-out to selfshippers who for any reason dislike the popular ships in whatever fandom their f/o is from. Shout-out to everyone who has to block a bunch of ship tags or who can't go into their f/o's tag without seeing some kind of ship art they dislike or feel uncomfortable with.

Your discomfort is fully valid and you know your f/os best! They adore you, no matter what the fandom says, even if there's a lot of people who say otherwise or ship them with other characters, I promise.

pro.shippers this doesn't apply to you, get out

#[🪼] talking #selfship #selfship positivity #selfshipping #selfshipper positivity #selfshipping community #selfship community #selfshipper #self shipper #self shipping #self ship #fictional other #selfshipping positivity #this totally wasn't brought into my mind by me remembering that mi.noha.ru and ru.ika.sa are some of the most popular ships in pj.sk what #do you mean. what. ehe. #but this also applies to soo much other stuff and fandoms and stuff. man. #but as i said uu obviously know best about your f/os alr? no matter what the fandom says. no matter what :]

[optimisticweather]

my favorite part of selfshipping is dreamily sighing while a thought bubble containing a picture of my f/o surrounded by hearts appears over my head

#{{f/o things #f/o community #self shipping #selfship community #f/o positivity #self ship community #self ship #self ship positivity #self shipping community #self ship imagine #self ship content #selfshipping #selfshipper #fictional other #imagine your fictional other #f/o imagine #f/o stuff

[yoomtahsgf]

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

SELFSHIPPERS WHO HAVE MEMORY ISSUES!!! selfshippers who forget what theyre doing in the middle of doing it, who forget things they were just told or even told multiple times before, who forget things they were supposed to do and end up getting done late or never getting done, who forget the same things multiple times, who forget things even about those they love most- ok you get what im saying!!! but consider!!!

~ your f/o(s) will reassure you that poor memory is NOTHING to feel guilty about!!!

~ if you need they'll remind you about special days like anniversaries, birthdays, etc. instead of expecting you to remember automatically and getting mad if you dont!!!

~ if you have plans together they'll remind you ON THAT DAY of what time and what you're doing if you need it!!!

~ if you have other specific things that you'd like them to remind you about, even daily, they'll be happy to oblige!!!

~ they'll absolutely defend you from people who say things like you dont remember because you dont care, or who think you're just lazy, or any other hurtful things about your memory!!!

~ when you're having a moment like you know you forgot something but just don't know what, they'll help you figure out if you did and what it is!!!

~ they'll tell you the same thing no matter how many times it takes you to remember it without getting mad, even if you never remember it on your own they'll remind you whenever you need!!!

~ if there are things you DON'T need reminders for and/or can remember on your own, they'll trust in your word instead of assuming you can't ever think for yourself!!!

YOU ARE WORTH YOUR F/O(S)' PATIENCE!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR UNDERSTANDING!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR LOVE!!! no matter how bad your memory can get, even not remembering people you know or places you've been or things you like or whatever, even if it's more severe than anything i can think of!!! you are so much more than poor memory and your memory issues have nothing to do with how much you care about things, and your f/o(s) absolutely understand that!!! you are more than worth it to them and they'll always be happy to reassure you of such!!! thank you for coming to my tedtalk!!!

!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!

#self ship #selfship #selfship positivity #self ship positivity #autistic selfship #selfshipping #self shipping #selfship community #f/o community #f/o gush #selfship gush #self ship gush #self insert #self ship blog #selfship blog #selfshipper #self shipper #self insert community #f/o x s/i #f/o x self insert #romantic f/o #platonic f/o #f/o #fictional other #familial f/o #parental f/o #꒰ა posi #um hiiiiiiiii ^_^ #i tried my best to make this as general as possible so it can apply to as many people as possible #but i did start it as like a personal thing so [crying emoji]

[cinderellahoneymoon]

i guess we gotta have this talk AGAIN

the selfship community is using and appropriating aave to an astounding amount and as a black selfshipper, it makes the community feel unsafe for us to be around. here is a list of the words/phrases you should not be using and let your mutuals know they should also not be using because they are aave

simp

pookie

rizz

down bad

slay

finna

also yall barely interact w black selfshippers in general, get on that.

[NONBLACK PEOPLE DO NOT SPEAK AT ALL ON THIS POST. YALL ALWAYS GOT SOMETHING TO SAY KEEP IT TO YOURSELF IT ISNT YOUR TURN TO TALK.]

#fleuwriting #f/o community #self shipping #self ship #self ship community #f/o #romantic f/o #familial f/o #platonic f/o #f/o x s/i #f/o positivity #f/o comfort #imagine your f/o #f/o imagines #selfshipping #selfship #selfship community #selfship positivity #fictional other #comfort character #f/o prompts #imagine your fictional other #comfort character imagines #poc selfship #poc selfshipper

[rosesloveletters]

Free-to-use selfship template!

Just don’t remove my watermark 😊

Example filled-in template here.

#selfship #selfshipping #self-ship #self ship #self-shipping #self shipping #f/o #f/os #f/o post #f/o tag #selfship community #selfshipping community #f/o positivity #f/o template #selfship template #selfshipper #self shipper #fictional other #self insert community

[moving-to-dreamwinged]

selfshippers with body issues.... selfshippers who are unable to convince themselves that their f/o(s) would be physically attracted to them where are U... i have no advice to offer bc i Am u but i hear u i see u and i understand U. your partner(s) would love u very much and think u r so hot/cute/beautifl/pretty/handsome/etc.

#.mei chats #f/o #self ship #f/o comfort #f/o community #f/o positivity #.f/o positivity #self shipper #selfshipper #self shipping #self ship community

[paranormaltaro]

Shoutout to all Selfshippers.

Shoutout to the women who selfship, to the men who selfship, to the intersex people, to the nonbinary people and other trans people who selfship. Shoutout to the Xenogender Selfshippers and those who prefer to stay unlabeled.

Shoutout to the black Selfshippers, to the white Selfshippers, to asian Selfshippers and to all the other people of color in the community. Shoutout to those of you who speak english, those who don't, those who only speak one language and those who speak multiple.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who don't use she/her pronouns, to the ones who use she/her pronouns! Shoutout to the he/him, they/them, it/its, neopronouns and no pronouns using Selfshippers.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who date men and those who date women. And Shoutout to Selfshippers who date both men and women, or even anyone that isn't either. Shoutout to the Selfshippers whose F/Os have no canon gender or are canonically genderless.

Shoutout to neurodivergent Selfshippers, to those of you who have personality disorders and dissociative disorders. Shoutout to those of you who struggle with social interactions, who need a constant reassurance, to those who feel safest in their relationship with their F/Os.

Shoutout to disabeled Selfshippers, to those who don't always need their aid and to those who do always need them! To Selfshippers who have learned to live with their disability and embrace it the best they can, and those who struggle daily with their disability.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who are Aromantic or Asexual, to Selfshippers who are Fictosexual and Fictoromantic. Shoutout to the staight, gay, lesbian, bi, pan, omni and poly Selfshippers. Shoutout to the Selfshippers whos Orientation can't be tied down with those words and to Selfshippers who refuse to label themselves.

Shoutout to monogamous Selfshippers, to polyamorous Selfshippers, those who are ambiamorous and those who don't label themselves in this regard.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who are also Plural or Otherkin, to the Therians and Fictionkins. A Shoutout to the Selfshippers who are IRLs of Characters and those who heavily identify with certain characters for any reason whatsoever.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who ship with their F/Os for fun, and to those who take their relationship with their F/Os serious. Shoutout to those whose F/Os have saved them and to those who save their F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers to ship with popular characters, to those who ship with unpopular characters. Shoutout to those who ship with main characters, those who ship with side characters, to those who ship with villains, and those who ship with background characters. Shoutout to those who took their F/Os and made them an OC to save them from their source.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who accept all of their F/Os canon, to those who only accept certain aspects as canon and those who refuse all of their canon.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who have interacted with, watched and read all of their F/Os sourcematerial. Shoutout to those who haven't watched everything, regardless of if you plan to or not. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who have not once interacted with their F/Os source.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who draw Art of their F/Os, who draw Art with them and their F/Os, to those who write about their F/Os and to those who don't do any of this. Shoutout to those who daydream about their F/Os and those who dream about their F/Os at night.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who only have one F/O, to those who have multiple. Shoutout to those who have only romantic F/Os and to those who have not one romantic F/O. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who ship platonically, queerplatonically, romantically, familial or any other way.

Shoutout to the young Selfshippers in the Community, to the teens and the adults. Shoutout to those who only started selfshipping now and those who have selfshipped for years on end.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who feel as though selfshipping saved their life. Shoutout to those who use it as a coping mechanism, to those who beat loneliness and to those who use it as a means of getting through their daily life.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who date someone next to their F/Os, to those who love both their Significant Other and their Fictional Other. Shoutout to those who don't want to date someone in real life because they feel content with their F/Os and to those who can't date someone in real life due to being so committed to their F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers with F/Os from popular media, to those with F/Os from their childhood media and to those with really unknown or obscure media.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who go to school, who work or who are at home. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who struggle with life and those who are secure and happy.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who would give everything to have their F/Os be real and to those who are fine with them being fictional. Shoutout to Selfshippers who struggle to understand that their F/Os are fictional.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who have found their family in their F/Os, to those with two families now, to Selfshippers who have a friendgroup of F/Os.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who are comfortable sharing their F/Os, to those who feel uncomfortable with sharing them. Shoutout to Selfshippers whos boundaries around their F/Os change, to the Selfshippers who feel guilty for their boundaries. Shoutout to the Selfshippers who feel embarassed about their F/Os or feel embarassed about gushing about them.

Shoutout to the Selfshippers who see themselves as pretty and those who don't. Shoutout to those of you that are insecure, that feel embarassed about certain aspects of their looks and those who love themselves fully.

Shoutout to skinny Selfshippers, to chubby and fat Selfshippers. Shoutout to those of you who love their body and those who don't. Shoutout to those of you who have stretch marks, those who have body hair and shave and those who don't shave.

Shoutout to Selfshippers with dyed hair and those who keep their hair natural. Shoutout to those with tattoos and those with piercings.

Shoutout to Selfshippers who own a bunch of merch of their F/Os and shoutout to those of you who don't have any merch at all. Shoutout to those of you who have F/Os that have no merch and to those of you who don't have the money to buy merch. Shoutout to those of you who make their own merch of their F/Os, those who commission others and those who buy their merch online.

Shoutout to all and any Selfshipper. Know that your F/Os love you - because you're the definition of perfect to them.

#some of the parts are short because I lack the words and knowledge to write them properly #so feel free to add your own shoutouts as well #i feel as not everyone was mentioned here but this is a long post already #i just want to spread some love to all selfshippers because positivity and all #[selfship] #f/o community #fictional other #self ship #self shipping #selfship #selfshipping #f/o #proship dni #comship dni

[starstruckloves]

okay but, maybe you’re f/o isn’t really what people would describe as the “perfect partner” at first. maybe they don’t know how to comfort you or has some disagreements from you that makes things a little strained sometimes.

but the fact that you guys can sit down and talk about it is the good thing. it’s never an issue to sit down and really get into what’s bothering you before it blows out of proportion. they get better. you get better. and things change for the better.

sure they aren’t the perfect partner by society’s standards but you love each other and are working on yourselfs for the better of your relationship ♡

note: i am not talking about really awful/pr.oship situations !!!! i mean little things that may come up in a relationship. pr.oship this is not for you please respect that

#milo’s imagines ☆ #self ship #f/o #self ship community #fictoromantic #self shipper #self shipping #f/o stuff #self shipping community #f/o comfort #fictosexual #f/o imagines #self ship positivity #selfshipper #selfshipping #self indulgent #f/o community

[the-selfship-corner]

in every universe, we’re together <3

*aggressively proceeds to make 30 different selfship AUs with my F/O*

#self ship #fictional other #self shipping #selfship community #self ship positivity #self shipper #self shipping community #self insert #self ship au #selfshipper #self ship community #self insert community #fictional other community

[aceselfship-imagines]

imagine going to an appointment with your f/o(s)!

they're there for you the entire time, if you get nervous or have to do something you really would rather not do, they're there to help you through it in any way they possibly can; holding your hand, sitting next to you, rubbing your back/arm/hand, idly messing with your hair, just in some way touching you in a very helpful grounding way.

(this is very self indulgent bc i have an appointment im terrified to go to)

edit bc i forgot: pro/com shippers, dni, fuck off

#✎ imagines #f/o #self ship #self ship imagine #self shipping #selfship #selfship imagines #f/o imagines #romantic f/o #f/o community #selfshipper #self ship positivity #selfshipping community #selfship comfort #selfshipping #selfship community

[optimisticweather]

they call me the selfshipper because i- *sees picture of f/o*

#{{f/o things #f/o community #self shipping #selfship community #f/o positivity #self ship community #self ship #self ship positivity #self shipping community #f/o stuff #f/o tag #selfshipper #selfship

[sunflawyer]

kinda want to see some positivity on the timeline so 🌸

selfshippers! rb this post with your favorite art of your selfship(s) please!!

whether it was commissioned, gift, your own art, picrew, doodles, OR FAV PART FROM YOUR FIC! anything! i want to see some!! 🧡 show the love!

mine under cut :3 ↓

here's mine :3

by @literally-just-there !! 🧡 its so colorful 🥹

#self ship #self insert #oc x canon #other's art #f/o community #self insert community #self ship community #self ship stuff #selfshippers #self ship blog #self ship art #self ship positivity #selfship art #selfship #fictional other community #self insert art #self shipping #yumeship #yume blog #yume community #yumeship art

[the-crime-of-silliness]

sending love to all trans selfshippers, nb selfshippers, GNC selfshippers, unlabelled selfshippers, selfshippers with confusing/nonconventional genders, ect! we love you guys!!

#this is your daily reminder that the selfshipping community doesn't start and end with cishet women #sincerely a genderqueer dude #proshippers pls dni #self shipper #self ship #selfship positivity #selfship community #trans selfshipper