#seriosuly people dont choose who they had a crush on

[just-a-potato-in-a-potato-world]

okay to all my fellow aces out there (and I guess aros can answer this too, really just anyone who hasn’t/doesn’t feel sexual/romantic attraction)

what’s something you thought was normal but then an allo or someone explained what it actually means too you. Basically just a time you were just ace oblivious or didn’t understand allo stuff.

Here is an example of when I didn’t understand allo culture: 

When I was younger all my friends would talk about who they have a crush on and shit but I never knew how people got crushes or how it felt. So for the longest time I would just choose a random guy (based on how many other people had a crush on them, or on if they like me or not) and I would say that that was the guy i had a crush on. Because i genuinely thought, that people just got to choose who they had a crush on and it wasnt until i learned what asexuality was that i realized i was wrong. And to this day, it is so hard to imagine that you just look at a person and think you wanna fuck them or shit. 

#asexual #Aspec #asexuality #ace positivity #arospec #aromantic #Aromantism #aroace #ace #acespec #seriosuly people dont choose who they had a crush on #like what in the fuckery is this #and allos think we are the weird one