accessing your Descendant in astrology through shadow work
your Descendant is the cusp of your 7H, the exact opposite from your Ascendant/rising. while our Ascendant is how we exist in the world and what’s seen by others, your Descendant is what is hidden from others. it’s the traits we put in the closet so no one finds them. it’s one of the deepest parts of you, because not only is it out of sight from others, but usually out of sight from the individual themselves. you deny deny deny these qualities and find them impossible to be around, yet subconsciously look for them in others because deep down you know it’s part of who you are. some of these traits aren’t even considered negatively, but you will inherently view them as so. in order to come to balance with ourselves, we much accept the dark along with the light. practicing shadow work is a great way to peer into the closet and shed light on these characteristics in order to cope with them healthily.
Aries Descendant: you deny the individuality in yourself. with a Libra Ascendant, your whole demeanor is dependent on your personal relationships. you hate the idea of figuring out who you are all on your own and rely on others to do it for you. you love to play the amiable card; you are friendly with everyone even if you shouldn’t be, you refuse to take sides, and you refuse to stand up for yourself. people who are too opinionated, loud, or aggressive get on your nerves, so you bury your anger, whether that means you express it only while alone or don’t express it at all. everyone knows the infamous expression: if you bottle it up, the bottle will pop eventually. getting a little fizz in their eyes is better than the bottle cap smacking them in the face. Aries wants you to get off the floor and be your own person, even if that means making a few people upset.
Taurus Descendant: you deny the simpleness in yourself. with a Scorpio Ascendant, your whole demeanor is a result of the life experiences that have shaped you completely. the rollercoaster is all you’ve ever known, and all you think you can have. you shrug off everything that is thrown your way as if it’s normal for life to come with so many trials, and that you would be illusioned to think or want otherwise. you think people who crave a simple life are boring or unattached to the world, when in reality deep down you crave the same thing. you might even feel that a life of simplicity is a sign of immaturity in terms of life experiences, and so you are almost proud of the tribulations you have undergone to become the person you are. Taurus wants you to make a life for yourself that warrants stability.
Gemini Descendant: you deny the logic in yourself. with a Sagittarius Ascendant, your whole demeanor is configured from your views of the world. you rely on real world experiences to bring you motivation and emotion. you love the pure idea of possibility and never take things at face value. you wish other people shared your same level of thoughtfulness when taking into account the world around us. you strive to reach beyond what you already know and take it a step further. you don’t like when people are too reasonable to look past the facts and develop a more insightful opinion, and so you start to completely ignore facts as a whole. your view of the big picture limits you from seeing key facts inside the picture. Gemini wants you to zoom in and see all the undeniable details.
Cancer Descendant: you deny the care in yourself. with a Capricorn Ascendant, your whole demeanor is based on the notion that emotions are optional, and an obstacle. you want to get through life by doing the things you know: working hard and being responsible. you don’t do anything that would damage your reputation as a reserved and professional individual. you are extremely self motivated and love to be in control of your own life, so much to the point you view emotions as something that controls you, and so you hide them from the world and from yourself. letting yourself feel even a small ounce of any mood: happiness, sadness, anger, fear, etc. makes you feel as if they control you and your actions. you look down on people who live in their feelings and embrace them. Cancer wants you to dig into these emotions and just feel them, and understand that they aren’t controlling you, but that they’re a part of you.
Leo Descendant: you deny the ego in yourself. with an Aquarius Ascendant, your whole demeanor is dependent on the idea that in the grand scheme of things, you alone don’t really matter. the world is much much larger than you and you know it with every ounce of your being. you don’t care how people view you because unless you’re a big part of their lives, you think that they’ll just forget you in a matter of time. you are wholeheartedly yourself, because you’re too busy thinking of others to try to pretend to be someone else. you become not only annoyed with people who are too interested in themselves, but also with the society that is interested in them. you strongly feel that no one matters more than another, and that everyone should realize and embrace this. Leo wants you to be interested in yourself and realize that you matter more than you know.
Virgo Descendant: you deny the conflict in yourself. with a Pisces Ascendant, your whole demeanor thrives on your intuitiveness with the world around you. you are a reflection your environment; others will almost always see you how they want to see you. although this can be conflicting because not a lot of people will see you for you truly are, you feel that reality has no boundaries. you thrive on the fantasy of the world and almost enjoy that you can be so permeable. you are annoyed by people who throw harsh realities in your face, and wish that they could see the world as the magical place you do. because of this, you can become too averse to reality and stay up in the clouds forever. you ignore yours and the world’s problems. Virgo wants you to come down to the ground every once in a while and take responsibility.
Libra Descendant: you deny the sociability in yourself. with an Aries Ascendant, your whole demeanor is based off your relationship with yourself. you feel as though you know yourself well, at least enough to be unapologetically you. you prioritize yourself emotionally, even if it means hurting others. you say what you think and feel and have no remorse for it because you are proud of who you are and your beliefs. people who are too wishy washy or act like a doormat annoy you, and so you make sure you are always on a side, especially your own. you hate the idea of other people having a say or influence on who you are as a person, so you push them away. Libra wants you to open up and accept others while granting them the same patience and grace you grant yourself.
Scorpio Descendant: you deny the complication in yourself. with a Taurus Ascendant, your whole demeanor screams stableness and comfort. you appear to be easy going and even-tempered, and want to keep it that way. people who come off too tempestuous are overdramatic and annoying to you, so you hide all of your turbulent, passionate feelings and trade them in for a nonchalant vibe. you feel that if these feelings were on display and someone saw them, they would judge you or think of you differently/negatively for it. in turn, you become passive and start denying your emotions out of habit even when alone or in “safe” environments. Scorpio wants you to look at the deep passion you feel and embrace it.
Sagittarius Descendant: you deny the optimism in yourself. with a Gemini Ascendant, your whole demeanor is limited to what you know to be true. you go through life with an undeniable colorful curiousness that pushes you to look through the facts and stick to them. once you’ve learned something, you feel there’s no need to keep digging to find more answers. you take the world at face value and appreciate it as is. people who keep looking deeper and ask all the unrealistic “what if” questions annoy you, so you stick to your facts and evidence. it’s extremely hard for you to stop focusing on the details and get out of your head even for a minute. Sagittarius wants you to zoom out and look at the bigger picture and all of it’s possibilities.
Capricorn Descendant: you deny the cold in yourself. with a Cancer Ascendant, your whole demeanor comes from your emotions. you feel everything so intensely, and the emotions are very come-and-go but seem everlasting. you wear your heart on your sleeve, and feel that it allows you to connect and care for people more deeply. giving is at the forefront of your nature, especially to the people closest in your life. you open up to these people to show your love and affection. people who come across detached can really upset you, and so while you might be shy, you don’t hide your moods away. you sit and embrace your feelings so much to the point that they control you and your relationships, rather than you handling them. Capricorn wants you to detach yourself from your mood sometimes and develop some discipline.
Aquarius Descendant: you deny the unpredictable in yourself. with a Leo Ascendant, your whole demeanor is focused on you rather than the world around you. you feel that you truly have a place in the world and are determined to find it. you know that no matter how large the world may seem, you alone do matter even if others try to make you think differently. because of this realization, your ego can take over and make you hyper aware of how others view you. feeling like you have the magnifying glass on you at all times can cause you to lose sight of the needs of the world. you become annoyed with people who do not focus on themselves the way that you do, because you feel it is the true path to peace. Aquarius wants you to pay attention to the world around you and learn to love it like you’ve learned to love yourself.
Pisces Descendant: you deny the imagination in yourself. with a Virgo Ascendant, your whole demeanor is based on reality. you see the world for how it truly is, and don’t want to pretend it’s anything else. you like to look at the world as unchanging and unforgiving, because you feel like focusing on dreams only distracts you from cold realities that always find a way to sneak up on you. you can’t help but see everything that is wrong with the world, and wish people were as concerned as you about fixing it. people who aren’t concerned with their problems annoy you, because you feel like you are the only one who is trying. Pisces wants you to relax and find the beauty in the unknown.
shadow work prompts - these are kind of basic/universal but still help!
what are traits that i don't like about myself? can i/should i fix them?
what are traits that i find annoying in others?
what are traits in others that i wish i had?
what is the worst way someone could describe you?
if you could give up one trait of yourself and replace it with something else what would it be and why?
describe your idea of the highest version of yourself.
does any aspect of your current self align with this vision? if no, what can you change to make it a yes?
what are your core morals or values?
are you afraid of what others think? why? how can you remove this fear?
have you ever offered your authentic self to another and been rejected? how did this make you feel?
what is your biggest struggle with loving yourself?
30 days of shadow work challenge
hey everyone! i’ve found myself in a bit of a journalling/shadow work rut and thought i would give myself a little challenge to do for the next 30 days. i know that this is pretty common for a lot of people, so i thought i would share my challenge with you so we can keep each other accountable and do some reflective work 🤍 obviously you don’t have to do all 30 days, and this can purely be a prompt list if you need it! you can join in whenever you like 🤍
what is something you wish you could be doing right now? what’s stopping you?
if you could receive the truthful answer any question of your choice, what would you ask? why? what response would you hope for?
if you could change anything about your childhood, what would it be?
name 3 of your least favourite things about yourself. then challenge them - why do you think that way? what could you do to change?
what relationships in your life bring you joy and which ones don’t?
how could you show yourself love in your love language?
when was the last time you felt at peace?
write a letter to someone who hurt you - no matter how long ago. write everything you wish you could say to them, every emotion that comes up. burn, tear apart or flush away the letter
how would you treat yourself if you were a young child? how could you make them feel loved? see where you could incorporate that into your life
what triggers your temper most? why does it make you angry/frustrated/sad?
if you had everything you ever wanted, what would your life look like?
what emotions or feelings do you avoid? why?
what are your core values? do they align with the life you’re living right now?
what do you hate about yourself and why do you hate it? did someone tell you you should?
what negative patterns keep repeating in your life?
when you lash out, what part of you wants to be protected?
what is something you fear others knowing about you? why do you fear it?
in what ways do you consciously or unconsciously punish myself?
what is a grudge/instance that you are holding onto that no longer serves you? why are you holding on to it? how can you let it go?
what are your pet peeves? where do you think they come from?
when was the last time you felt wronged by someone?
when are you the hardest on yourself? why? can you find a way to be kinder to yourself?
how do you respond to situations that make you angry?
what are you the most proud of in your life?
in what ways are you hypocritical?
when am i my truest, most authentic self?
what advice would you give to yourself 5 years ago?
what boundaries do i need to set and reinforce in my life?
what things make you feel the most alive and present?
list 10 things you like about yourself. get specific! list more if you can 🤍
You're the writer of your own life trajectory. Stop people pleasing. Stand in your power. You're the only one who deserves the honor to hold this pen and paper.
If there is any witches with DID/OSDD or just in general have trauma so they dissociate. How do you cope during witch practices? Recently my dissociating has gotten worse since we realized we have DID, especially since drama with my abuser is starting up again.
As you know, you can't really control dissociation well. So I just wanna know how to do important rituals without my consciousness going "welp, ima head out" and I don't mean in a switching kinda way, none of my alters are witches so they just leave the front be when I'm practicing my craft.
Talk like your higher self. Walk like your higher self. Remember she is you and you are her. She has been calling you, will you answer the call.
You've done too much inner work on yourself to let anyone lower your vibe. Stay true to your energy.
100 shadow work/journal prompt ideas
I enjoy journaling. It’s almost like therapy, but you’re figuring it out by yourself. You’re trying to figure out your own issues by putting it on paper, sometimes it’s for self reflecting or for figuring yourself out. This is very similar to shadow work.
What is shadow work?
Shadow work is addressing your shadow self, the side of you that you bury deep down and avoid. It’s your unconscious mind, and it is important to uncover this side of you in order to achieve your highest self. There are multiple ways to do this, but the most known (and most effective in my opinion), is journaling. I thought I should share 100 prompts that really make you think.
1. What was one time you remember feeling wronged as a child? How did you react? Has this affected you into adulthood? How?
2. Think about one time where you’ve felt betrayed. What would you say to the person who broke your trust?
3. Write about a time you felt let down by someone you’d previously looked up to.
4. What’s one trait you see in other people that you wish you had. Why do you not possess this characteristic yourself?
5. Do you often find yourself over-thinking what you’ve said or how you’ve acted? What usually triggers this?
6. What were your parents’/guardians’ core values while you were growing up? Do you hold these today or do they differ? How so?
7. What are your core values as a human being? What’s the most important to you? What are you morally passionate about?
8. What tends to trigger envy for you? Why do you think this is?
9. What are the first signs that your mental health is dipping?
10. When are you hardest on yourself? Why? Where do you think this stems for? Why do you put yourself under so much pressure? Why are you so reluctant to be kind to yourself?
11. How do you react when you’re angry? Is this similar to other people who have been in your life since childhood? Why do you think this is?
12. What triggers you? Can you identify where this came from?
13. How do you perceive failure? What is your definition of failure? How does it make you feel? Are you afraid of it? Why might this be? How did your parents/guardians react to failure?
14. What situations make you feel less than or not good enough? Why do you think this is?
15. What is your relationship with your parents and/or siblings like? How was it as a child compared to now? Why do you think this is?
16. What parts of your parents/guardians growing up do you see in yourself now? When did these begin to become apparent?
17. What toxic traits have you recognised in your parents? How did it make you feel when you realized that your parents weren’t perfect? Do you also possess these traits yourself?
18. What are your toxic traits? How do these present themselves? How do you project these onto others?
19. What aspects of yourself would you like to improve? Why? Has anyone in your past ever made comments suggesting that you should? If so, how did this make you feel?
20. How do you feel about who you are as a human? Why?
21. How often do you forgive yourself? What kind of things do you feel you need to be forgiven for? Why is this?
22. Write about a time where you messed up and needed forgiveness. Did you ask to be forgiven? Did you apologize? How did it play out?
23. Do you form obsessive or unhealthy attachments easily? Why do you think this might be; do you have a fear of change/abandonment/rejection? Or, on the other hand, do you find it difficult to form emotional attachments; do you struggle with commitment or get restless staying in one place for a certain amount of time? Where do you think this stems from?
24. How do you fill your time when bored? What gives you enjoyment? What self-care do you regularly practise?
25. What negative emotions do you tend to avoid? Why might this be?
26. What negative emotions do you actually feel quite comfortable sitting with? Why might this be?
27. Write about one person you’ve never forgiven. What happened and why did you not forgive them? Was it warranted? How has this event affected you going forward? Do you think you could forgive them now? How did you move on from this?
28. How do you carry the weight of your past trauma? How has it affected you?
29. How did you process emotions as a child, teenager, and young adult? How do you process negative emotions now? Has this changed over time?
30. How do you enforce boundaries? How do you feel when people overstep them? How do you react?
31. What is the biggest lie you consistently tell yourself? Why?
32. What misconceptions have you noticed about your harbor? Can you think about where these started?
33. What are your preconceptions about femininity? Why do you think this is? Where did they come from?
34. What are your preconceptions towards masculinity? Where did these come from?
35. What does the term ‘Shadow Work’ mean to you?
36. What are three main goals you want to achieve with your shadow work?
37. Did you have any heroes growing up? Who did you look up to and why?
38. How were you taught to deal with emotions as a child?
39. How do you deal with negative emotions now?
40. What’s the most hurtful thing you’ve ever done to someone else?
41. What’s the most hurtful thing you’ve done to yourself?
42. How have you moved forward from hurting someone else?
43. How do you plan to move forward after hurting yourself?
44. What’s the biggest promise to you that someone else has broken? How did it make you feel? Why?
45. What’s the biggest promise you’ve broken to yourself? Why? How do you feel about that?
46. Have you ever broken a promise to someone else? Why?
47. When you really think about it, is there any area of your life you’re in denial about?
48. What do you constantly lie to yourself about?
49. What do you lie to other people about? Why?
50. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told and why?
51. Have you ever had your heart broken? Write about this time in your life.
52. Have you ever broken someone else’s heart? Was it unintentional or intentional? Write about this.
53. Do you ever find yourself manipulating people in an attempt to protect yourself?
54. What’s a question you had as a child that you never got a real answer to? Do you have that answer now?
55. What is something that you’ve always wanted to confront someone about? Why haven’t you? Do you plan to? Why?
56. What is the meaning of life to you?
57. What was the last argument you had about? Was it resolved?
58. How do you feel about confrontation? Why do you think this is?
59. Do you ever have physical reactions to emotional feelings? Write about these. Why do you think this happens?
60. What’s your favorite way to self-soothe? Describe your perfect self-care day.
61. What family patterns am I repeating?
62. When was the last time I truly felt at peace? Where was I? Who was surrounding me?
63. In what situations do I feel less than others, equal to others, or better than others? Why do I feel that way?
64. How do I define failure?
65. What has been my biggest personal failure and why?
66. When was the last time I felt jealous of someone else? What do they have that I want?
67. What is your ultimate dream? Are you currently living your dream? What steps can you take to make it happen?
68. What is your favorite book of all time and why? Movie?
69. Are you doing what you love for a living? What is your dream job?
70. Make a list of 10 things that make you smile.
71. What do you wish you could do everyday?
72. Write down your own bucket list.
73. Write about someone who inspires you.
74. What's an embarrassing moment you can look back on and laugh now?
75. List 10 of your favorite things, can be anything.
76. Write down your top 10 travel destinations.
77. How do you spend your time alone?
78. What are you the most grateful for in your life?
79. Do you care what other people think of you? why?
80. What excites you about the future?
81. What are some new hobbies you would like to try?
82. How do you want to be remembered?
83. What do you want to accomplish today and tomorrow?
84. What is your favorite song and why?
85. What motivates you?
86. What are your top priorities in life?
87. What are 5 physical features that you love about yourself?
88. What gift do you think you were born with?
89. What holiday or event do you look forward to every year?
90. How would you describe yourself to a stranger?
91. What life lessons have books taught you?
92. Which fictional character would you most like to be, why?
93. What is your favorite place?
94. Is there anything that has changed your outlook on life?
95. Can you keep a secret?
96. How would you change the world?
97. Are you good at organizing your time?
98. What would you do if you could travel into the past?
99. Where in your life do you need to be more fearless?
100.What would you change about your high school experience?
Small happiness spell 🍊
What you’ll need
Sugar (brown or white)
Red wine or cider
Peel the orange and separate its wedges
Place the wedges in a circle on a plate and charge them with your intent, in this case, happiness
Sprinkle sugar over the circle for sweetness, then cinnamon for spiritual power
Let honey drip at the center of the circle while saying: ‘For days doused in sunlight, I drip honeyed delight’
Add a few drops of lemon juice at the center of the circle and say: ‘For luck to come my way, I keep hexes at bay’
Now drip the alcohol at the center while saying: ‘For blessings along the road, I invoke powers of old’
Eat the orange one wedge at a time, starting from the top and working clockwise. Dip each of them in the mix at the center before eating.
Artist: Refael Idan Suissa
it’s just your ego telling you that you can’t manifest successfully. it’s your ego putting the “what if’s” & the “that’s not possible” in your head. rise above your ego & correct it. keep thinking in YOUR favor no matter what your ego tries to throw at you to protect you. your ego only encourages you to think of the “what if’s” and “is it really possible?” because it’s trying to protect you from getting hurt. your only job is to rise above those thoughts and keep thinking as if it’s already done. set your ego straight.— itslitrllymine
✧.*PAC: Which shadow work do your FS and you need to do before meeting? ⍣ ೋ
“Don’t be afraid of the shadows, it only means there’s a light nearby.”
Pile 1-2-3 will be referred to what shadow work your future spouse needs to do before meeting you.
Pile A-B-C will be referred to the shadow work you need to do before meeting your future spouse.
Idea inspired by @poeticgoddessofpeace 💞
(The Hermit- Queen of Pentacles – 4C-2C- The Magician – The Lovers – 7W)
“A thinker sees his own actions as experiments and questions-as attempts to find out something. Success and failure are for him answers above all.” (Friedrich Nietzsche).
Your FS is an actual introvert! He does not like to show a lot of himself, nor he likes to use his energy on people he does not vibe with. I think it’s pointless for him to try to keep a relationship that makes him uncomfortable. Your FS enjoys solitude a bit too much. Your spouse is someone that’s focused on creating wealth and into being self-sufficient. They want to be someone who does not need to relay on others. I think that is their main shadow work, they need to stop being comfortable just in their own. The older they get, the more complicated it will be for them to start meeting others.
This trait is one that they are proud of, they would rather be alone than not in complicated relationships, trying to change themselves for something they have been able to live without for a long time. They see how the romantic opportunities pass before their eyes without doing anything to reach and catch them. They could pursue people and they could flirt with them, but what point does it make if they do not like them instantly? I think they are devoted to you since birth, even when they do not know who you are yet. They won’t marry if it is not with someone they adore to the bone.
Soon or later, they will have to come to terms with the fact that they want a relationship and on what that implies, having to share their life with others. Their safe place needs to change from their solitude to their companion, their partner. But! When they realise they want a relationship it’s going to be so easier for them… The Magician+The Lovers combo is here. They will have such a facility to create opportunities to meet people and to manifest the meeting with you, once they want it, they get it! They have all it takes, but it’s going to be a bit more complicate to conquest you… hehehe. I think you will be someone with a lot of stress or things to do at that moment of meeting them, so! Your FS will have to fight for your attention, and they could even had to fight with other romantic offers. But! He’s honestly the best one.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: The fact that your fs is so happy in the relationship while be hard for him/her to accept. After living a life of “rigour” and” strictness”, while living in Hermit mode, they will be shocked!! It will be a full transformation or at least a hardcore change on their core values. Also, the fact that they like to control things but now they have to speak about it with you will be hard to change.
Channelled stuff: “Sheldon Cooper from The Big Bang Theory”, “trust issues”, “an office”, “dark hair”, “work”, “the number 7 and 19”, “the sun, a really happy relationship”, “ I saw the sun a few times”, “warmness”, “Capricorn and Aquarius”, “daddy and CEO vibes”, “fulfilment”, “The World Card”.
(3W Reversed – 5C – King of Swords – 7W - 10P – The World – The Lovers (back of the deck)
“...talent means nothing, while experience, acquired in humility and with hard work, means everything.”(Patrick Süskind)
Your FS has had problems with their projects, your spouse has always wanted to pursue what they liked but for some reasons the projects have never flowered in the way they should. This has made of them someone worried, pessimist and not as happy as they should be. They keep always thinking if what they do is enough and if everything they do is useless. Before meeting you, they need to prove to themselves that they are worthy; that they are good, productive and clever.
They have been hit by life from too soon, since they were young, from the beginning their dreams have not had an opportunity to flourish and fly, that has made turn their back on another positive and possible opportunities and outcomes. They need to get “their shit together”, (too rough?). Some pessimism is self-imposed. But I do also think that it’s possible that in these down tunes, there could have been some bad-intentioned people, people closer to them that betrayed them or did not offer them all the support that they needed.
I do feel that they must become someone clever and powerful but soft and nurturing enough to not be feared or misunderstood. I think their success is promised because I think they are hardworking, the fulmination and the end of this cycle will just bring them abundance, happiness and mostly, satisfaction. They need to feel satisfied with themselves, they need to see something that they have created and that is working. Once they have fulfilled these fantasies, dreams and aspirations of them, love is just next door.
Once they feel good enough with themselves, with enough self-esteem, with enough bravery and with their eyes put in other things, love is just next door!! It’s at the corner, pum! They are going to turn the corner and they will find you there with blushed cheeks and with eyes full of surprise and they are going to fall in love with you.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: I think they wants to touch you so much all the time and to hold you between their arms that sometimes it’s complicated for them to leave you or to stop thinking about you. He's always reaching for you but, honestly, you are the one with the power to decide if you want him/her to touch you or not. Emotional dependence at it’s max. Also some external interference in the relationship.
Channelled stuff: “Children Park”, “slides”, “Aries”, “Taurus”, “Gemini” and “Virgo”. The planet Mars is important. “Short blonde hair”, “blue t-shirts”, “a cafeteria”, “a butterfly tattoo”, “cut-throating words” , 'to prove you I am the greatest!".
(The High Priestess – 9C – 2C – The Hanged Man – Page of Pentacles – 7C)
“Your visions will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.” (C.G. Jung).
A renovation. I think this pile is possibly the most spiritual one, the shadow work your future spouse needs to do before meeting you is directed to his/her emotions and into his/her intuition, introspection work. A shadow work to evolve. Your future spouse is not aware of all the potential and all the talent that she/he has.
They need to use their intuition more, they have to learn that there’s a side of life where you need to use your feelings and hunches, logic won’t just do it. Your future spouse needs to listen to their heart and clarify what they really want. They do also need to discover what’s pure and untouched from their souls. Their bases, their real safe.
To be more in touch with their sexuality and into what brings them happiness, just to discover what they like. Probably, while talking to people different from them. I do wonder if they have never had a healthy family to teach them all of it. To help them discover how safeness and love should feel because they also need to learn how that works.
In summary: they have a lot of untrained potential; they are stuck and still. They have not discovered their talent, nor they have started working on it! They do have to start working right now, they need to move and do things. And mostly they have to narrow their goals, focus on one and work on it little by little.
+EXTRA! His shadow work on the relationship: Mostly, I think they need to be brave and come to you, face to face. Your fs needs to use his words to be direct. He kind of will be a pleaser to you, always using the “correct” words. I think the fire signs in here will have problems with this “calmness”, I think a few of you need more activity. And will like to tease him just to make him mad.
Another message: +18! your future spouse would love to kiss your neck from behind and grabbing you… just putting a cut of the photos. I cannot put the full picture 🤣.
Channelled stuff: “To be loved by Aurora”, “freckles”, “dimples”, “magic/working as a magician”, “Pisces”, “Gemini”, “333”, “college dropout”, “Shakespeare”, “London”, “A movie about wolves”, “Greek mythology”, “art student”, “little Red Riding Hood”.
(3C – Page of Pentacles – Knight of Cups – The Fool – The Magician)
“No, no! The adventures first, explanations take such a dreadful time.”(Lewis Carroll).
This energy was a bit closed at the beginning; I think you all may not like facing your shadow self that much. (no, because, same).
Your main topic to develop are relationships and experiences, as I have been able to sense, some of you are closed. It would be nice for you to create new unions, friendships, and possible romantic connections to just experience what you like, to get a bit of experience and to see how the world works. Obviously!! No need to force anything, but it would be nice to accept your friend’s invitation from time to time and to speak about how people live different things. Their perspectives and opinions, that way you could create yours.
Maybe, also, to work a bit in the professional world, to lay the foundations of your career and to discover what you want, focusing in one thing at the time
One way of live more would also be to offer your help to the ones that need it, express your feelings and be able to discuss and to fight against the “normal”, the “social rules”. At a deeper sense I think you need to be yourself in a really wild way. You need to celebrate your uniqueness and to recognize that you are worthy of all you want. Be unapologetically yourself.
You need to move, to discover, to create, to walk…that way you would be able to create the opportunities you want, because you have the talent (The Fool + The Magician). You got the first two cards of the deck, that’s amazing! You need to recognize your talent and to use it for yourself. It’s a lot of work but it will be worthy.
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: okay, intense!! YOU NEED TO WAKE THE FUCK UP, you are amazing!! I think it would be complicated for you to feel like the Empress that you are!! You will be fighting against your insecurities, and I think you will like to be sexy but these dumb insecurities will stop you. Also, for some of you, it’s possible that you got cheated in a past relationship? You will have doubts about your spouse's loyalty, it’s something you will also need to work on 😭.
Channelled stuff: “travel and trips”, do not be afraid to see the world, if you have the money and the opportunities please travel around! “LGBT+”, “the sea”, “Poseidon”, “Turkey”, “ladybugs”.
(The Sun - 10S - King of Cups - Queen of Swords - The High Priestess - The Emperor)
"I like the night. Without the dark, we'd never see the stars."
This pile is going to be intense, be aware. Okay, some of you have been living in a bad losing streak for a long time. It looks as if you had lost your real smile even for years, I would say that some of you have depression or “heavy” mental illness that affect your daily life. This shadow self has been clinging to you.
We got the Sun card, this card is amazing when doing a normal reading but if we are doing a shadow reading, and we get such a light card…it’s complicated. You do not like to even look at your shadow self, it looks as if you were hiding under fake positivism; and before meeting your future spouse, you will have to deal with all of it; you wanting it or not, all of your spirit guides will push you to it. You will have to deal with it, I see some of you going to therapy or facing the people that cause the problems.
To the people facing this person, it’s a male, someone that betrayed you and hurt you. I’m not going to lie, it will hurt to have to deal with years of “short film”, years of not taking care of your self. But, it will be worthy, it will be an end to non-structured sadness and panic attacks. You will end with the constant gibberish in your head.
We also got the most logical queen with the most intuitive woman, the high priestess. So, you will need to balance yourself , and you need to do it with power.
Some of you will be more logical and you need to push your intuitive side. Some of you are intuitive and you need to be logical and look at the global picture.
You will need to grab the bull by the horns. Be strong and be clear on your limits and abilities. And mostly, please take care of yourself.
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: for this pile, some of you will have trouble with expressing how big your love is and to express your creativity with your future spouse. I do also think that you do not like to be pitied by your future spouse and you do not let him/her take care of you as much as they would like. Well, darling you will have to take their love!! Also, a repeated scene is you both on the bed while he tries to caress you lovingly but your eyes are focused on another place, let the man love you!!
Channelled stuff: “sunrise”, “sunset”; “bed”, “clean blankets”, “a bank”, “Financial bank”, “grass”; “flowers”, “living next to a mountain”, “fertility could be a problem?”, “snacks at night”, "444", "moving around", btw! The gif that you choose? Let's hope for your future spouse to grab you like that and show you his love. I would die of happiness if he (Ben Barnes hehehe) grabbed me like that 🌝.
(5C – Strength reversed – 8W – The Moon – Temperance – 3W)
"A witty woman is a treasure; a witty beauty is a power."(George Meredith)
So! You are usually a bit pessimistic? You usually retract in yourself when you feel pessimistic, let’s say you ghost all your friends when you start feeling sad. It’s better to expend those times alone?No, before meeting your fs you may try to change that a bit. Express yourselves a bit more, let’s communicate your feelings and allow yourselves to be vulnerable with others, there’s no need to be always strong and self-sufficient.
Also, you need to start appreciating your efforts and your results, you can not expect to build Rome in one day! Little by little, all things can be done. Before meeting your fs you need to understand the value you have, and understand that you are worthy of all type of nice things!
What worries me the most, once more, is that you could possibly hide in your subconscious a lot of fears, and you need to work on them, but, step by step. Also, the temperance card indicates that you could have little patience (Same!), but as we say in Spain “things of castles go slow”, something close to: "Good things come to those who wait”. You will have try to build your self-esteem and your bravery in a beautiful and strong way. We need to go slow, to not expect a lot at once. Patience is key.
I do also see that you have some projects (mostly related to work/your career) that you may need to develop before meeting your future spouse, this fear could be related to your job? It’s okay, with patience you can do everything!
+EXTRA! Your shadow work on the relationship: I got a lot of queens…mmm. I think your shadow work to do in this relationship is to accept your place as a powerful woman. You could have your future spouse in his/her knees if you wanted to. Allow yourself to express your desires and your wishes. Do not fall on routines and “sleepiness”.
Channelled stuff: “Ships”, “fire”, “the jungle”, “undressing under the light night ”, “red tshirt with flowers”, “summer tshirt”, “motocycle”, “creativity”, “foreign language”.
The Pearl Tarotist, 🦪&🌜.
Create a fantasy in your mind. Flirt with the emotional connection to this desire. Focus. Take action on it daily. Embrace the goal. Always keep the end in mind. Take it day by day. One step at a time. Fast forward some weeks, months, even years. Watch this dream manifest in front of your eyes. Careful about the goals you choose. They might just fade into your reality.