Your idea of makes someone a woman or a man does not exist outside of your own head.
Your idea of masculinity and feminity doesn't exist outside of your head.
Your idea of Womanhood and Manhood doesn't exist outside of your head.
Your idea of what makes someone part of the rainbow crew or not, it doesn't exist outside of your head.
Your idea of pronouns does not exist outside of your head.
Your idea of what choices someone can or cannot make about their body and right to use it doesn't exist outside of your head.
Your idea of romance, love, and sexuality doesn't exist outside of your head.
Your idea of social constructs are that. An idea. They exist is a spectrum of possibilities based on people, places, cultures, households. However the idea you have cannot capture it all and it never will, it will always just be based on your beliefs of life.
You can't define others through your sole experience and beliefs. Your thoughts are only in your head and don't have anything to do with another person, because they are not actions or physical things, only the part of you that feels of thinks.
Your thoughts, ideas, and beliefs are not my body or my choices, nor anyone's else's. They exist only within you.
Your ideas shape your reality, let people choose how to shape theirs. Learn to work on you, define who you are, and better yourself.
You can't fit others in the boxes that fit you, shape you, and make you, you.
You can define someone in your own head but you can not define all of them truly as they are and you never will.
If no one is harming anyone or anything with their decisions or labels then it's a decision that can and should be made because they get to choose how to shape their own reality as a human being. Do not discredit their sentience and ability to make choices because you find it to different from your perspective.
It's all important sure! But it's all different. When you use your beliefs to go around describing and interacting with people, your ideas are only coming from you, and your experience. Outside of that it means something different to the person your giving it too. Your truth is not my truth or any other person's truth. There will always be differences because it's based on individuals.
People may respect your labels and your choices, but that fails when you are cold to doing so to others. Every day in the west we divide further creating a casem and the ground we loose will swallow us all. Your rights our our rights. If you can't accept them and allow them you only give fuel to others to eventually push you in with us. There's always someone out there that will hate you, and if you become a blind mob someone will try to off you in the chaos of it all. It happens in minor scales on the internet, it happened through history again and again and again. So your either on the side of human rights and not caring about how others life their life, your no better then those that hate you.
Your negativity and hate breeds more and sends it back at you. Life will be easier if you stop caring unless it hurts or is harming someone else. Let loose and make the world a livable place, starting wars over others freedom of choice will open you up to have yours ripped away too.
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i love he/him lesbians don't get me wrong like lets keep saying they have every right to exist and be themselves but could we start talking about she/her gays as well please
EDIT : and I know a lot of people are kinda okay with this but i feel like a lot of people think its like a joke bc its a joke to treat gay men like women, and idk it makes me uncomfortable, i dont want to be "tolerated" because of a joke
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Most fucked up chocolate i have ever seen
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Yeah, Shadowheart worshipping Tav after a spiritual crisis is sweet but
Shadowheart being worshipped?
The only right way to love her.
[NSFW after cut]
///okay so obviously coloring iand writing spice not my strongest suit but it’s my first time making an NSFW webcomic please don’t attack me or I will withdraw back into m underground burrow deep in the marshlands.
For the uninitiated, Tav is a Selûnite Monk with the intelligence of potato given free will.
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