I think we need to get more comfortable with the idea that sometimes shitty, racist, homophobic, bigoted people are still incredibly talented.
I feel like every time I see a post addressing someone’s shitty behavior the post also takes the time to mention that they’re not even good at [x] anyway. And that’s just not always true? Equating being good at a skill as being morally good is just not necessary. Someone can be a fantastic writer, can have a beautiful singing voice, can create breathtaking artwork, and still be a horrible person.
I know part of this is probably just the instinct to dislike everything about a person when you dislike them, but I also think this mindset leads to people defending creatives way past where they should, because if bad people create bad art, then if this person creates art that I like and resonates with me, then they can’t be a bad person!
And you know. That’s just not true. Those two things are simply completely unconnected and I think it’d be healthier if we all started disconnecting them in our heads.
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i’ve heard a lot of people say “don’t reach out to your friends first and see how many people will remain in your life. those are your true friends” and i get it. it sucks and it’s tiring constantly being the one to message first, to initiate hang outs but don’t take this so literally. some friendships require initiation. i have lost touch with so many people who genuinely cared about me and wanted me in their life because i stopped reaching out. it’s a hard pill to swallow but honestly some people just suck at it and it doesn’t mean they don’t love and value you. i’ve reconnected with some people over the past few months and it’s crazy how genuinely happy they are to see me and how engaged they are in the conversation. i just think sometimes we’re too harsh on each other & too quick to emphasize other peoples flaws and remove them from our lives but then we’ll all be alone and what’s the point of life then!!!!
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Look I just think that if you’ve ever loved Star Trek, Like really loved it (not just had a passing interest or casually consumed it) then it’s gonna be a part of you forever. It injects a little whimsy in you. A little thoughtfulness and curiosity and wonder. I’ll watch Star Trek and every time I do I feel like a little kid staring up at the stars holding onto the grass. I’ll watch Star Trek and every time I’m sitting out sharing a sweater with my friend as we talk about Spock and the sun starts to set. I’ll watch Star Trek and it’s the same feeling of calm awe that I get when I sit in the aquarium.
Aliens aside it’s about humanity. It’s always about humanity and trying to understand despite it all (which I think is a core tenet of humanity). And if that compels you then it’s going to stay with you. No matter if the packaging is a bit silly. Maybe even because the packaging is silly.
Also once you love Spock I don’t think you can stop
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Message from an Overly Sarcastic Productions video that I feel Tumblr and fandoms at large should fucking internalize
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izzy hands is a pageant mom who’s stopped seeing her eldest daughter (ed) as a person
in this essay, i will
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there is something extremely funny about all of us ol' lego movie fans shitting on chris pratt for his voice acting
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Massholes this massholes that. Y'all know who's really been shitty on the roads recently? Vermont. They act all innocent and then they are riding your ass on the highway.
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Genuine question. Have you people ever actually seen hazbin or helluva or do you just fucking bitch about it because it's the trend to do. Like. Helluva has kinda shit first few episodes that are way over the top with sex jokes, but it gets better when it gets to the actual story and they cool it. I bet no on complaining has seen it
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scott and wallace are absolutely fucking insane to me. one is a deeply solipsistic and manipulative person who doesn't even realise it because he's cosplaying so hard as a normal dude. the other is his closest friend, cannot stand him half the time, but still keeps him around anyway because he's sort of a selfish manipulative asshole himself. one lives with the other rent free. they sleep in the same bed. neither of them want to have sex with each other but one of them is actively hooking up with someone who shares a name with the other, sometimes in the bed they share and sometimes he sleeps over afterwards. one is gay and polyamorous and the other is straight and couldn't hold down a relationship with one girl to save his life. i say all of this as a compliment to wallace and an absolute insult to scott. nobody is doing it like them.
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