IM SORRY???? OUT OF ALL THE SHIPS TO SHIP IN THE RDR2 FANDOM, YOU WOULD SHIP FUCKING MICAH BELL/CHARLES SMITH???? EXCUSE ME???
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hope your surgery went well !!
it went and im quoting “perfectly” and I got crackers and to this moment I can’t feel my left foot (good thing) and upon getting home i only almost fell over once (1ce)
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The weird thing about people who hate the word "transandrophobia" is that so many of them seem to think power is just like.. someone something HAS and is enacted on another. Like a dodgeball or something. That's not how power works, it's a system.
In the middle of the woods, a black trans man and a white cishet man have the same amount of social power. They're just 2 dudes.
But in SOCIETY, the white cis het man is part of a number of in-groups, and that membership gives him power. He has the power with other white people to exclude black people from spaces. He has the power to say "this black man attacked me" and to be believed. He has the power to decide with other cis people that a trans man shouldn't have access to medical care. The power to band with other cis men and argue that the black trans man isn't a real man. If he attacks and sexually assaults the black trans man, to teach him a lesson about where he belongs, other white people, other cis people, other cis men will all band together and say "of course you did the right thing. We got eachother into this places of power (police, jury, judge) and we can see, since you are a member of our group, that you did the right thing, and are not at fault."
Trans people don't have that in-group power of gender. A trans man does not, CAN NOT, engage in the systemic oppression of trans women on the basis of gender. Trans mascs are NOT part of the in-group. They are not prioritized for certain jobs, are not valued more, are not seen as being more truthful. Trans men can't get together and decide to deny a trans women the right to medical care, or to safety from discrimination. While there can be lateral aggression, eg. a trans man being transmisogynistic, he can't DO anything with power he does not have.
When people talk about transandrophobia, they are talking about how they are treated as a group of specifically trans and masculine and trans-masculine people. No one is saying that trans fems are behind systemic transandrophobia.
Arguing that trans men should just shut up about their oppression, and saying that they oppress trans fems, is WRONG. It is inaccurate, and harmful because it is silencing an oppressed group who are trying to raise awareness and to discuss the oppression they face. This whole idea that people (of all genders!) have that trans mascs are using the word transandrophobia as a weapon to harm trans fems is harmful and not based on facts. If you believe in that, you are not helping trans fems, you are just harming trans mascs.
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its totally bullshit that old wounds can just start hurting again. youre like a year old and completely scarred over shut the fuck up
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Do you ever read a post and just really really wish Tumblr had a dislike button
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oh my god i just learned Pit is taller than me what the fuck
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this brought forth so much rage in me you can’t begin to understand. i literally got some clothes out of the dryer, laid them on a chair, and then accidentally dropped my phone on the floor. the phone drop was loud but that was the only noise i fucking made and everyone else in this house makes SO MUCH noise and i also know that they only got in bed maybe 20 minutes ago. genuinely this just ruined my mood, absolutely demolished it. i’m so anxious and mad now like. i am the quietest person here are u fucking joking ive been sitting in bed reading fanfic and then i got up ONCE and dropped something on accident and ur gonna text me like i’m up here fucking about IM SO ANNOYED and anxious :/ it’s from my dad which makes me anxious asf fuck this fuck them
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why does tumblr always fuck up my music like babe i don’t care about your dumb ads and tumblr live i just wanna listen to my lil tunes while i type out my lil posts
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